chrisxxx: Unfortunately when God wants to deal with you He uses a human being. No matter how much you shout God won't response because she was the one who commissioned the person to deal with you.
Because tell me why you would ask for a girl's number but not pay for her food in a restaurant?
This ugly, smelly cultist (yes he's a cultist, he was hailing his friend in lingo and flying colours) asked for my number yet didn't offer to pay for my food. Who does that?
Like do men not know things like this might make the girl look at him twice and maybe save his number in her phone for real.
Like it's so disgusting when Nigerian men don't offer to pay for women stuff🙄
I will NEVER consider you if you come toast me at the mall, a shop or restaurant and not pick up my bill.
Lol, You should be ashame that this is the kind of men you attract, pls keep real men our of your mouth, women like you should be treated like the plague you are.
The fact that Tinubu is line to win a second term should be a disgrace to PDP, in an ideal world Tinubu's incompetence should give him a landslide defeat, but what are his opponents doing? Nothing, their own corruption is keeping them preoccupied.
The only women who rightfully deserve financial support from you are your mother and wife. Spoiling other women financially can create unrealistic expectations and unfairly tarnish the reputation of hardworking, independent women who have earned their own success without relying on a man's support.
I'm not saying it's wrong to support your girlfriend if you choose to. However, avoid creating a sense of entitlement. Instead, encourage and support her independence, allowing her to work and earn her own financial freedom.
Funny enough some mothers and wives deserve nothing from you, apart from the entitlement aspect (which you won't see in a good woman) some woman deserve to be given more than that, and such women are the ones that can make a man complete.
The Diddy tapes scandal is beginning to take its toll. For those saying "Holy Ghost Fire" when they hear TDJ is a homosexual, here is TDJ saying LGBTQs can COEXIST in the Church. Am a Christian, that doesnt mean am in a cult that I wont believe what my eyes are seeing and my ears are hearing.
essentialone: How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship? What else will the guy gain from dating her? Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?
If she stops suddenly having sex and says no sex, then there is a problem, other than that you can choose to walk away and save yourselves the drama.
Derekmiles: 😂😂😂, This is funny, after sounding vague, you finally said a bit of history... Your exact comment was "You don't know what century your poor kinsmen were sold into slavery?", now if you truly understand English, you'd know that you just denoted that the 17th century was the period the Trans-Atlantic Slave trade and slavery in the U.S, from both the selling, kidnapping, and Subjugation occured from start to finish; this is per the context of some of the conversation in this forum... It was way longer than that, but i guess you should know already.
And that's why the first statement of my reply comment was "And i guess that's were the story ended right, in that century", because that's what you were denoting... Be less vague, or actually understand English more, or just crawl back into your hole, you should be next to it right now.
Either way, whether it was 500 years ago or 100 years ago, society heals on move on, but not the black man. You should remain a slave, like I said earlier, for you slavery has not ended, so make sure you remain oppressed. Am not the one In a hole, you are the one living in one. Enjoy your mental Victimhood Olympics because you lack the ballz to face adversity like every great men and women before you. Enjoy your life in a hole.
Derekmiles: And i guess that's were the story ended there right, in that century. Infact, what am i saying, you're just plain wrong, or maybe you're just trolling; in any case, you just sound stupid. 400 years ago would be 1624, the Mayflower would have just been about 4 years old by then, and you think that was when slavery occurred in the U.S, Wow... Like i said, i doubt you even know any history from the last 50 years, go watch something or Read (that will obviously be a first), and shut up.
After the Europeans started slavery, slaves were also sent to the Americas in the 1600s, and in English language, that is more than 400 years ago, or you don't know when your American White Supremacists started causing Black Americans trauma? Or did slavery start in the 1900s because for you there is no need to tell you slavery ended in the late 1800s, it never did, that's why Black people in the US are still oppressed. So let's look at when the trauma started, are you saying it never started in the 1600s or you are trolling?
Derekmiles: First of all, i'm a Nigerian, and the fact that one of your first statement is "What happened more than 400 years ago", yea, there's no need to even talk to you... That statement already loses all credibility of you knowing anything about history even in the last 50 years.
Oh am sorry, You don't know what century your poor kinsmen were sold into slavery?
Derekmiles: I don't bother with some of your categories because i can't be bothered with the ignorance. So i will go with the on
2). I didn't say $56k was super high, in fact, i specifically buttressed on that in my last comment... Your comment was they financially declining, and i literally just debunked it that since that 2017 in article was brought out, they've financially been becoming better; and the Latino community financial numbers there too because of the fact that the difference between both is marginal, the White population is at $76k, and the highest i'm not mistaken, Indian-Americans is at $130k.
4). That's laughable, do you even know what's going on in India?. Indians are still by far the biggest migrants of any group in the world, fleeing India because they can't take the depreciating state of the country anymore... "They overtook Great Britains GDP", yes, technically they did do that, with a 1.4 Billion population😂😂😂, India is still a very much Population driven economy, not a technologically driven economy, though they're way better than Nigeria in that aspect.
The Phujabis want out, the North-Easterners want out because the country is by and large going nowhere... India has one of the worst Per Capitas in Asia at $2600, the UK you're talking about is at $52000, which is the true representation of how Rich and well to do a country is per the population, as far as it is adequately used and improved on; because it evaluates GDP by the actual population, by the way, Nigeria currently has a per capita of $1100🤦🤦🤦... If i'm not mistaken, any country about $10k-$15k is considered a 2nd World country, $15k and above is a 1st world country, and $10k and below is a Third world country... India is categorically a SHITHOLE, it has one of the worst development per population in all of Asia; that's why i remember seeing an Indian comment in regards to the Moon Land were the dude said that "The Indian government is doing everything to look powerful, while the average Indian is suffering". That's not exactly how he said it because i can't remember exactly how he said it, but that was the general gist of it. Edit: Some graphs on what i'm talking about👇.
Look at the Influx of Indians fleeing from the U.S to Canada because they don't want to get deported back to India, look at the amount of Indians recently doing a sought of Education scam just to get out of India. The scam entails that they use an Educational path to go to Europe, North American, or Australia, and when they get there, if they can't extend their Visas, they just go off-grid, i watched a documentary on this very issue earlier this year... India is only seen as an upcoming Powerhouse due to the share circumstances that their population has resulted it in, the country is very much categorically a SHITHOLE, everybody knows this.
I have Nepali friends, India's neighbour, and they will literally laugh at what you just said about India.
3). This goes back to the whole braindrain mentality. When you majorly take the cream of the crop to a specific place, they are bound to be successful; the U.S is not an easy a place to migrant to for Nigerians because of the big ass Ocean seperating us, majority of the people who are then determined to get there are some of the best we have to offer.
The rhetoric of Nigerian-Americans are some of the best rhetorics of Nigerians anywhere, let me show you the rhetorics of Nigerians in some other places... In Italy, Nigerians are literally associated with Organised crime; Dubai banned Nigeria for a while because of Cultism. In Switzerland, the Nigerian demographic has the 2nd highest crime rate of any demographic in the country, literally the 2nd, just behind Angolans; Seychelles banned Nigerians for a while because they found out that fraudulent activities increased after they relaxed entrances of Nigerians; I don't even need to talk about the South African one.
What does almost all these countries have in common, easier access to them from Nigerians allowing more Nigerians that you won't associate with being the Cream of the crop into them, many pass through Land/Water routes like this👇, especially into Europe.
Now to answer your question on "Why can't Black Americans?", Black Americans in American is a true representation of the community, and what i mean by that is it entails both the best of the best, the crazies, and the just general norms; living in what you'd basically associate as their homeland at this point... Nigerian-Amercans is not a true representation of the Nigerian community... Like i said before in my previous comment, does that mean that i'm justifying certain aspects of the Black American community like having the highest rate of gang activity per % population, of course not, and i will never justify it; but it doesn't also mean that i will overlook the history that has led to the situation it is today.
Of all groups in the U.S, no group has had it as hard as Black Americans has had it, this is a fact that even some Racist who doesn't want to a conversation on U.S Racial history doesn't dispute... Even after the Civil Rights Movement and everyone lawfully had "Equal Rights", Black neighbourhoods were being Redlined for years, loans were given to Asian migrants to open businesses in Black neighbourhoods, but same loans will be refused to Black people; this is a part of U.S history even Asians today talk about. That is why i told you in a previous comment that "When the world seems like it is completely against you, your options becomes super limited", this is were the mentality of "Beating the system at any cost" came into the Black American community, "I will do anything to beat the system", and the easiest route to make money and beat the system became Crime, and the people who made it became idolised by the younger ones, starting a chain reaction that has led to an increased idolisation of illegal activities in illegal activies... You want an example of this from another community's perspective, read about the idolisation of fraudulent crime in Nigeria, and how it all started; but ours may even be worse, because it came as a result of we putting it country in a crap state by ourselves... You want another example, read about the U.S Mafia, and the idolisation it carried for a long time.
The problem with how you view Black Americans is that you can't differentiate the history Black Americans has historically lived with the one White Americans has lived... To you, it's "they were in a developed country, so they should have that to their advantage", but when the country you live in has historically extremely conditioned and put you at the very bottom of the barrel, cut open that barrel and allow you to fall, where do you think that advantage starts coming from, it becomes almost Non-existent.
Nigerians don't understand how history can change the mentality of people especially when you're traumatically at the disadvantage... The f*cked up part is that we see this very issue in Nigeria all the time, so how Nigerians don't apply it to the historical plight of others doesn't make any sense to me.
Pls don't rise above what Happened more than 400 years ago, bitch and moan about it because you are so useless that you can't overcome adversity you never endured, the victim mentality will take you to the higher plains of achievements, black people are the only ones that were slaves. So because Blacks are so helpless and useless they will remain slaves for life, so Rob, steal, be lazy, stay corrupt, spend all your monies on jewelries, fuq women and abandon them when they get pregnant, walk around with your pants on your ass, idolize rappers, claim hip-hop culture as your own, glorify going to prison, you are slave but you have no problems having guns to kill another black man.
Remain helpless and useless because you are descendants of slaves.
Richtaiwo: The emboldened words are at variance with the common knowledge of anyone who attended, at least, a primary school. Instead of going to school, you chose to be following a third class lunatic everywhere. Now, just imagine the despicable consequence.
You are accusing someone else of the very thing you are doing, why not share you thoughts on the topic or reply a post, who made you her school teacher?
kettykin: Disclaimer: this page does not support violence.
The arrest of Simon Ekpa and the debate about whether it is a bigger mistake than the arrest of Nnamdi Kanu depends on several political, social, and strategic factors. Here's an analysis:
1. Understanding the Context
Nnamdi Kanu: Leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB), Kanu has been at the forefront of the Biafran separatist movement, advocating for an independent Biafran state through various platforms. His arrest in 2021 caused massive unrest in Nigeria's Southeast.
Simon Ekpa: A controversial figure within the Biafra movement, Ekpa emerged as a prominent agitator after Kanu's arrest. He has promoted extreme measures, such as enforced sit-at-home orders, which have caused economic disruption and violence.
2. Comparing the Impacts of Their Arrests
Nnamdi Kanu's Arrest:
Strengthened IPOB's Resolve: Many saw his arrest as politically motivated, fueling greater resentment against the Nigerian government.
International Attention: Kanu's dual citizenship (Nigerian and British) brought international focus on Nigeria's human rights and governance.
Widespread Protests: His arrest led to violent clashes, protests, and heightened tensions in the Southeast, disrupting economic activities and leading to loss of lives.
Simon Ekpa's Arrest:
Controversy Over Methods: Ekpa's leadership style and his alleged role in inciting violence and economic stagnation through sit-at-home orders make his arrest contentious.
Potential Fallout: If not handled properly, his arrest could deepen the attack against the Nigerians state. His supporters might escalate violence, leading to a cycle of retaliation.
Legitimacy Issues: Critics argue that Ekpa lacks the widespread grassroots support Kanu enjoys, making his arrest potentially less impactful on the movement but equally problematic if seen as targeting dissent.
3. Potential Mistakes and Consequences
Misjudging Public Sentiment: Like Kanu, Ekpa's arrest could be perceived as a crackdown on free speech and the biafran agitation, further alienating the Southeast region.
Escalating Violence: If the arrest ignites a stronger radical faction, it could lead to more intense insecurity in the region.
International Scrutiny: Nigeria risks further criticism over its handling of separatist issues, especially if Ekpa's detention lacks legal justification or transparency.
4. Strategic Missteps
Timing and Prioritization: Arresting Ekpa without addressing the root causes of the Biafra agitation (marginalization, economic inequalities, and governance deficits) risks treating symptoms rather than the disease.
Unity and Dialogue: A dialogue-based approach might yield better results than arrests, which often radicalize movements rather than neutralize them.
Conclusion
Simon Ekpa's arrest might be seen as a bigger mistake than Nnamdi Kanu's if it exacerbates regional tensions and further entrenches perceptions of marginalization. However, the real issue lies in how Nigeria's government handles the broader Biafra agitation. Arresting individuals without addressing the underlying grievances only risks perpetuating a cycle of unrest, making dialogue and inclusive governance critical.
Botragelad: Ukraine's really taking the mickey out of Putin. They're calling his bluff, and he's not delivering on his nuclear threats. All bark and no bite. He's been making these bold statements, but when it comes down to it, nothing's happening.
Now, since the West has lifted restrictions on Ukraine's military might, Putin's been crying foul all over the media. Talk about a right old tantrum! It's almost like he's trying to save face after his threats didn't work out. 😂
Good on Ukraine for standing up to Putin's noise. Slave Ukraine🇺🇦!
Glimpsetv: Men, Always Be Sure Before Going Public: Lady Rejects Boyfriend's Proposal in Public.
This seems to keep happening, yet men don't seem to learn from the mistakes of others. We've seen topics like this on platforms like Nairaland time and again, and I believe men should reconsider public proposals.
If you must propose publicly, it’s better to do so in front of a few close friends or family members—people who won't embarrass you if she says no, and who won’t let the moment go viral, as happened with this young man:
A young man was left stunned when his girlfriend refused to accept his ring after he went down on one knee to propose in public.
Surrounded by a crowd, he hoped for a yes, but she declined the proposal for reasons known only to her. Despite the onlookers cheering and urging her to say yes, she firmly said no. In disbelief, the man removed his sunglasses to look directly at her, but it didn’t change her decision.
Men, always be sure she is likely to say yes before proposing in public. This will help avoid rejection and the kind of public embarrassment this man experienced.
SultanOfAbia: No girl will give you sex for saying the truth Just tell them what they like to hear. Simple!!
I don't know why you guys don't know this secret. Girls are not moved by logic. Guys like me use words to move her emotions. Shaa that's a talk for another day
SultanOfAbia: Anytime I sleep with a girl. They immediately fall in love with me and start getting attached.
Not that it is a bad thing It's just that I just want to knack and go. Some of them even start sleeping in my house and washing my clothes for me.
But most times it doesn't end well Because they know my house and come unannounced then they catch me with another girl. Heartbreak begins, but truthfully I hate causing heartbreaks.
Why me?? Asin why can't I have sex without this girls falling in love. It is becoming scary
Immediately I sleep with a girl, she start falling in love.
Bosses, please how do I handle this 3 girls have sworn for me because i broke their heart. But I never wanted relationship just knack and Go!!! Why all these wahala of girls falling in love and getting attached to me
All these is happening because you lie to them, you dont have the balls to tell them your intentions.
I disagree with the first part of your video, and you proved my point in the third part of your video which in turn contradicts the first part of your video. When it comes to nurturing children yes I give it to women, but when it comes to raising kids (especially boys) Men do a better job, so no, women are not the best in raising kids because you need discipline, you doubt me? well compare a boy raised by a single Father to boy raised by a Single mother, see how they handle situations.
No doubt men of these days are (most of them - not all) are like boys, they run away from responsibilities, it's because of their moral decadence that feminist have a foot to stand on. On the hand women should also look in the mirror, most of them know very well the man they open their legs for are nothing to write home about, but they do it anyway, then they blame a useless man for being useless.
Just be a good person whether you are a man or woman, something that seems to be a Herculean task these days.
Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Putting On Waist Beads To Have Sex? by pryme(m): 12:28pm On Dec 04, 2024
