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helinuesIsaMumu:
During Jonathan, i had a job that paid me about 210k per month, i was ok. Now i have a job that pays more than twice of that and i am finding it hard to live comfortably and 'ball'

Now, imagine what people who don't work now go through. Truly, in seeking for solution, Nigeria found a problem

Hassanmaye:
You are joking

RedEnergy:
So far, highest salary I have ever received is N100k . What about you?

pocohantas:
The interviewer is so dull and his exclamations are ********

Whether Tuface married her or not is not our business. What we know is, Annie thought she could pull a Disney love story with a community gbola. If our husband were a human being, it would be Tuface.

Pero done kuku do breast and nyash. We die here. Na unofficial second wife she be.

Annie should take heart o. Naija men no fit retire from brolosho duties until they are old, broke and sick. They will now find their way home like the prodigal son. Straight into the bosom of the virtuous wife. She would have to spend her retirement posing for family frames, reminding him to take his drugs and cooking unripe plantain swallow with oilless vegetable soup.

SUPERBLOOM:
Either you are male or female and over 25 years and unmarried, the reason why you are unmarried isn't because you haven't find a partner.
You are unmarried because you don't have money and you lack family support.
It's harsh but true

strangest:
Even sensored doors? I'm not doubting you though

Alaganature09:
One criminal spotted

strangest:
Charm indeed but is it that easy to open those car doors without any tech?

Abcruz:
@pstemma1990

I understand what you're going through. You might have probably heard the saying that "life is not a bed roses" and that is very true because everyone has a certain problem to battle with..

Whatever you're going through is only a phase that will fade off very soon, if you can hold on with patience and perseverance. Thanks sir.

Behind the story of every successful man, lies moments of hidden tears and pain. The pages that are not read aloud; and that's the phase you're in right now.

Keep hope alive, this phase will pass away.. I have seen a baby cry for a while and in a second he laughed. That's the beauty of life, the pain never last.

Regardless of what you're going through, as long as you still have breathe there is nothing you cannot achieve if you stay focused and hopeful in the storm.

Do not sit in the dark worrying over why things are unfair to you in life. Worrying will not change anything. Life is full of challenges and obstacles and executing plans to overcome them is what makes all the difference..

"Expecting life to be good and fair to you is like expecting a bull not to attack you because you're a vegetarian." Braze up like a warrior and fight the good fight.

You have gone through a lot and you don't have to be tired now. Keep pushing!
Your eyes have seen so many things and you don't have to be afraid now. Keep hope alive!

The sun will shine when you least expect it. Just work at your own pace and all things will fall in place at the right time. Do not compare your journey to what your mates have achieved. The table always turns.

In whatever you do, put God first. He will certainly change your story from bitterness to sweetness as He rightly did in the case of Jabez.

If you feel overwhelmed at times and you need someone to speak to you can call a mental health counsellor :: 08008002000
It is free.

Stay strong! This too shall pass and it will be unto you a testimony.

frozen70:
I in


Try not to give up over things that are under you control and authority
It's a matter of time, it will pass off
With God all things are possible

efficiencie:
Our human nature has made us very sensitive to our circumstances...when the times are good we are happy and when it goes south we get depressed! And as long as we have this nature only a change in our circumstances can bring happiness but I can give you a couple of thoughts that linger in my head when I'm feeling depressed and blue.

1. There is someone out there going through worse.
Always realize your are not alone. Suffering, pain and displeasure are common in this world. Even the Bible says "man that is born of a woman is of a few days and full of trouble"

2. There is a purpose for your birth here on earth and that purpose is worth living and fighting far
There is no effect without a cause. Your birth on earth is not an accident rather it is by design. It would
be a tragedy if you exit this world without finding your purpose and living it.

3. if there is a God, then you must give account
If there is an examiner of your life on earth would you like to appear before Him empty with nothing show for the years you spent in the land of the living?

4. There is a time for everything
...a time to cry, a time to laugh, a time to work, a time for leisure...a time to be depressed, a time to be joyous. If you believe this you will keep up the fight knowing that your time to laugh, rest and be happy is coming. But you must realize that what you sow is what your reap. If you want the times of mercy to come for you you must have mercy on others. If you want the times of joy to come for you you must make others joyful.

5. There are benevolent and malevolent forces working for and against you
Always realize that some events will be beyond your comprehension and while some will be in your favor others may be to your destruction. Always recognise the power of these forces to shape your future!

mariahAngel:
Well, the environment is holding you back.




Here in Lagos, you can charge up to 6k-7k (or even more, depending on how modern your designs are and your location) for a pair... that is, if you’re very good at what you do.

You need to explore other places, but you can still source your material from the north as they’re cheaper there.

mariahAngel:
Well, the environment is holding you back.




Here in Lagos, you can charge up to 6k-7k (or even more, depending on how modern your designs are and your location) for a pair... that is, if you’re very good at what you do.

You need to explore other places, but you can still source your material from the north as they’re cheaper there.

mariahAngel:
You need to make up your mind to leave that place.
There’s hardly anything for you there.

How much do you charge to make a pair of sandals?

mariahAngel:
You’re welcome.

Ok. Think about moving to Jos with him.
I think there are better opportunities there (in Jos) than Nasarawa.
The problem could be the environment and not you.

What business are you into?

mariahAngel:
Well, you need to leave that place as there’s hardly any opportunity there.
First of all, save up some money and go locate your brother.

mariahAngel:
You both need to be together more than anything.
You need him as much as he needs you.
where are you located again?

mariahAngel:
Do you know where your brother and sisters are?
You all need each other.

Kobojunkie:
Seems to me like what you need is sleep.. did you know that the mentally sick brain needs more rest than the average Brain? Have you tried using sleeping pills to get you some sleep?

mariahAngel:
Are you the only surviving son in your father’s compound?

Solvik:
There is an expiry date to every man's problem please keep hope alive and keep trusting in Jesus Christ. For there is hope for a tree: If it is cut down, it will sprout again, and its tender shoots will not fail (Job14:7) Worry won't solve anything but it adds to it, be anxious for nothing but by prayer and supplication make your request known to God. Don't allow the thoughts of your mates are doing better than you, let that evil thought know some of your mates are dead, mad, prisoners etc Fight it with the scriptures, prayer, praises, sing hymns.
Please make yourself happy and start thanking God for all those things He has been doing and He will do more. Ask him and believe He has done it, it is well with you always.

When peace like a river attendeth my way
When sorrows like sea billows roll
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say
It is well, it is well with my soul...

WeNoGoDie:
So you've been to all the churches and know they're all scam. Good luck with that.

WeNoGoDie:
I suggest you change your church. Move from one church to another till you find a church that has solid support group that helps its members and treats you as family. Genuine churches and not fake.

People frown at it but there's absolutely nothing wrong with going to different churches till you find one that caters for your circumstances.

Aurelius1:
The summary of all he said is that village people dey disturb am.