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There are many reasons why girls don't go for handsome dudes..
A lot of handsome dudes are wussies, they don't posses other qualities of being attractive..
I can't blame em for this because they don't have to fight to conquer a clan during their teens (If you know what I mean)..
They believe being handsome is all what it takes to score any girl, some don't thought.

And also, a lot of handsome dudes have ego and will keep hoping for some angel to date while the available ones are taken by their friends..
Most handsome dudes are not reserved, they behave childishly, talk anyhow and that's a huge turn off to most ladies..

I believe some ladies prefer not so good looking guys because they know the good looking ones won't give em the praise, attention, financial assistance or time they desire, so they go for the not so good looking ones.. To me, that's smart..
To y'all complaining about being handsome and single, iI think you should up your game or deal with how things are.. Some girls are smart, you know? (If you know what I mean)

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Finish the sentence now. . .

Let me finish it for you. . .Thing is the guy was ugly. . .

It is always ugly guys that always think girls are checking them out even if the look was just innocent, you never see the good looking guys say this. [/color]

Well, maybe he's just messing with you or maybe he thinks he's handsome and irresistible, and also he may be playing mind games just to lure you into believing that he's cute and you want him.. Tricky and cray but it works..

Religion in a lot of ways keep accordance in the world..

Hello all,
These questions are directed to the Christians..
There are these thoughts in my head and I've not been able to get satisfactory answers to the questions..
It was written in the Bible that "The soul is what will be judged by God", so if soul and Spirit do exist, what's the essence of the spirit of a man when it's soul is what will be judged by God?
Also, i want to know if souls do have their Minds, if yes; How can it be compelled into eternal torture without a fight or figuring out a way to escape ( I know it's a funny question but it can't be ignored)..
If No; That means, if tortured, it won't feel the torment since it has no mind.
To the Christian folks, what's your view about these?

abimbawealth:
Somewhere in ib...in my papa house

Lol.. Okay..

abimbawealth:
Awwwnnn...thanks tho

You welcome.. So, where do you stay in Ib?

abimbawealth:

Ooh, don't take it the wrong way. I just want to know why.. You look pretty nice for being single, don't you think?

abimbawealth:
Booless

But why huh?

echomog1:
Yoruba n wowoness.....bread n butter

Folks like you are supposed to be ignored.. Your hate for the Yoruba will change nothing.. You are just an hater that fuels their progress, technically..

CountDracula:
If there will b any blackmails it will b me doin d blackmail

Lol..

Boland:
Op, are you being blackmailed?

Nah..

Hello all,
I don't know the appropriate section to post this but incase it's in the wrong one, I will like the mod in charge to put it where it should..

Have you ever been Blackmailed? How did it turn out? And in case you were able to get out of the chain, how did you go about it?
I'll like you to share your experience...

mentorandfriend:
You've probabaly not heard about emergency contraception. Who gets pregnant from unplanned sex in this age and time?

That's true, I was just wondering..

LasoulMacuby:
Abort sharply. What da hell.
Thunder fire d arm robbers Sha.

Lol.. But she needs the baby.

donholy28:
she should just manage and pray d child looks like her...or else na problem

Lol.. True though.

donholy28:
A 35 years old single Lady should just keep d baby...she might die trying to remove it

It's not easy Bro..

SUGARBEE:
Yeah true. . The wisest thing to do in such situations is to keep the child cuz she might end up destroying her chances of getting pregnant next time

Exactly.

SUGARBEE:
Yeah I know.. That's why I said it depends on the situation and morals of the lady involved

Yeah, I know.. I think the best a lady in such situation can do is to keep the baby, who knows she may not have another chance since she's 35 and still single.. She will have to develop a strong bond between her and the child..

Lalasticlala.. I think this topic should be on front page for more views..

agarawu23:
children that went tru suffering are the leaders we have today.

That's not true Bro.. A lot of them end up being a problem to the society..

martyns303:
Abortion of course, the psychological trauma for and the child would hunt for life. If she were to keep the child, seeing that child will always remind her of the circumstances resulting to the birth, and the child will grow up not knowing his/her and would be worst to know the event.

Just save the heartache and abort, if she desperately wants a child, she can briefly date a guy, have an unprotected sex and have a baby. I have seen ladies asking guys to get them pregnant.

Nice one, though I believe abortion is a bad idea..

SUGARBEE:
I'll advice any friend of mine to abort the child..

Ooh.. That's not good enough.. God forbids that, remember

raayah:
I would advice her to do what's best for her.

And what do you think will best for her?

agarawu23:
say NO to abortion

Yeah.. It's bad but it's difficult to raise such child.

SUGARBEE:
Depends on her morals, it would either determine her to keep it or abort it

What would you advise a friend in such situation to do?

I was just wondering a situation where, a 35-year old single lady that has been looking for a potential husband gets raped by an Armed Robber and later gets pregnant.

What should she do?
Should she abort the pregnancy or just keep it just incase? Lol

Wow!! You've got to be kidding me.. To be honest, she isn't the most beautiful or the most sexy...
She's just a normal chick, I'd score her 5/10.. Ooh, although I haven't seen much ladies pic here, but I'm sure she isn't the most beautiful..
One of the girls that commented on this thread is even more beautiful than she is..

I don't think that guy was raped.. It all seem like a joke to me..

Ladies don't prefer "rich scam guys" , just that a lot of the "rich scam guys" have attractive qualities that maybe you may also need to acquire..
Maybe you are just too weak for the ladies you seek.
Don't get me wrong, you can be good and also tough, you just need a balance of both.

Jollyjoy:
no dear,it just the mindset.

Seriously? It's not easy to set your mind to perform such transformation... lol.. And if it's truly what it seems, then she's got a huge mind.. lol..

That's some crazy shiit.. Maybe she's been possessed, or how else would you explain a lady as bright as she is to result to such?
That's just crazy.