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I have a feeling this man is Innocent..

Sometimes I wonder why some people suffer for the things they didn't commit..
Is it to make them strong?
Is it because of something cruel they've done in the past?
Is it to hide them from bigger trouble?
Alot of questions...
Anyway, it's a crazy world we live in, I know these mysteries are clearer to the Most High.

I smell Racism, it was very potent back in those days..

pareto:
Why did you just conclude this. You don't even know if he was kidnapped before coming here.

Seriously?

There are two (2) things involved..

It's either he's truly mad or playing a Prank.

If it's a Prank, he's safe, but if he's truly mad, there are two (2) things involved..

It's either his time is up or he's on to a bigger deal ( Y'all should know how it goes)..

If he's onto tthe next one, good luck, but if his time is up, Toor! That means he's doomed.. *Clears throat ** That's all!

*Sighs* Igbimo Ote, Ba se n pakan nikan ru!

I just hope this man's "shiit talks" won't eventually result to war, that's if he becomes American president.

I would do same in his shoes. Him wearing a bullet proof vest will mean he lacks Confidence in God which is against what The Religion preaches..

I would do same in his shoes. Him wearing a bullet proof vest will mean lack of Confidence in God which will be against what The Religion preaches..

Very strange.

I'm really confused here. I think something is wrong somewhere.

Chibuzoc:
The end of Nigeria. Is near

So you think.

Nigeria will be great again whether you want it or not.

Well done boys!

I think that there is a covert plan behind Boko Haram. Just look at the Ammunition recovered from them.

I think this political game has gone beyond the nation.. It's like there is a hand of some advanced country in this.
I pity the poor souls that are being used to carry out their evil plans, I still wonder how someone can be that foolish..

Anyway, that's life, some people will rather be pawns to ease their Pain. What a shame!!

With Barca's latest bid for continho, I'm still contemplating on the player to sign between him and Pogba.

og2711:
This right here, is why Nigeria cannot have head. Hard times for who?!! Has PMB ever queued for fuel? Has PMB ever slept without light? Has PMB's salary ever been paid late?

If the president who flies around in private jets and is waited on hand and foot has it hard, what about the other 100 million Nigerians living below the poverty line?!!

Guys like this are the type to carry knife and go and fight for politicians. I heard this same type of retarded comment during the TB Joshua debacle and was equally amazed

Go and read and know the real cause of Fuel scarcity Bro..
It's the President responsibility to desolve the heat though, it's not a problem caused by the President, it's a problem he faces..

Welcome Mr President..

I know these are hard times for you, I pray you overcome all the problems and come out stronger and better..

Nigeria will be great again.

Some ladies be forming cool with this while in the real world they won't go down that lane..

Anyway I think it's not cool...

What will be my gain? I will spend my money, time and even waste my strength and her on the other hand receives err'thing..
Seriously, it's bullsh*t!

It has always been like that from the beginning, the masters using the pawn to manipulate each other.. It's not like I totally agree with the write up but I think there is an iota of truth in there..

It's a planned fraud so I won't say he allowed the devil to use him..

It's a pity that these con men claiming to be Men of God are destroying the name of the church....

This man just sold his conscience cos of money.

Neemcie:
Dear friend,


Go get your girl!!!

It's not his girl..

@Op, let her go, don't let your emotions rule you...

Be careful Man, I think you are already considering having s3x with her..

Don't be fooled, she simply wants the benefits that comes with b*nging the boss..

I think it's your fault that made her have the balls to request for such, prolly the way you look her or something..
Anyway, don't feel too fly sir, I'm 100% sure it's a trap, so snap out o it, it's trouble..

If you really wanna make her stop the advances, cut all communications outside the office with her.

She's an asset but if care is not taken she'll become a liability you won't be able to ditch (If you know what I mean).

Adanna28:
Phuck that bull'sh'it mehn smh NEVER
I dont even look at my Man friends that way.

Are you sure the thought has never crossed your mind ones?

@Op, I think there is a reason beneath that question. Lol...

Ooh, really? Lol... Who gives a fvck anyway? There are many fishes in the sea my dear..

lolaluv1:
So she should be 'humble' and marry a fraud, right?

You make it sound as if that's what he does for a living...
Though it was a desperate decision that could bring about a grave consequence but it has also helped the Op in some ways..
If the Op can go back in time, he'd probably make the same decision..
All he need do is to make peace with his friend's family..
I believe as his lover, she should be able to think that through..

sashaa:
this here isn't good reasoning

We've seen people do worse things..
I believe the Op would have explained how it all happened to the lady, it's not what he planned, no one is perfect dear..

Stop thinking she is gonna change.. Trust me, they don't.. She's a hungry runs girl,so don't play nice with her.. Ditch that lady Bro, she ain't worth shiit!

9 years old boy is too young for all these.. Haba!

I normally don't say this but I think you are whack dude!
You posting shiit like this on a faceless forum is unnecessary.. What do you wanna achieve with this huh? By the way, your gold rolex wrist watch is fake.. It's a replica made by the Chinese, it's everywhere and don't tell me you bought it 40k or anything of that range cos even if it's 300k, it's still fake..

Guyman02:
Find a subtle way to tell your friend's family what you did?

I like your write up if only you will remove the above portion. The family can accuse him of killing their son and that will be a bigger wahala. He can do a change of name officially.
His late friends family still needs his help and what they dont know wont kill them.

For him to move on, he needs to tell the family of his late friend, and I don't see any other way to tell them other than that... I used the "subtle" word in context of him being wise with his choice of words as he explains it to them..
Nothing can't be settled if you use the right lines.

Strahovski:
Dear,

The economy is no excuse. Alot of Nigerian ladies cheat. I worked in Ghana and Nigeria for about a year since my colleague introduced Nairaland to me. I've seen many Nigerian girls. Even dated some. And all I could feel was disappointment. They are mostly gold diggers.

What stop them from getting jobs? No jobs, fine.. start a small business. The time spent chasing boys and men with money and nd spending money on makeup.. save.. gather funds and start a business is that also forbidden?

Nigerian ladies lack vision. A girl will graduate and the next thing is marriage. No vision. No future.. enslaved as a liability to one man.

In Australia, (my country) ladies don't think of marriage until 29 or 33 why? There are men who are begging for their hand but they have careers to pursue. Visions and dreams to fulfill so their children would come into a beautiful world unlike Nigerians. Marry and give birth that is their own destiny. Even In poverty.

So dear, You are Nigerian, no offense meant but just saying.

Some Nigerian ladies are greedy though, but not all..
You should consider the economy Bro, the economy is really bad here..
Though, I don't support the nasty act of our ladies but to be honest the economy also made it worse..

henryhemon:
Am sorry to burst your bubble, she is worth it and she is a very good woman,how many can resist marrying a comfortable man knowing how he made his money,she's very rare bred. Don't give someone a bad name to hang him or her.

Nah Bro.. I sense Pride in her..
She wants a perfect marriage, that kind of woman can't be with you through thick and thin, though I may be wrong but I think it's up to the Op to decide on that. Judging by his write up and story, he should be smart enough to see that if I'm correct..

To some extent, your post is right.. But why choke them with this post? Why not look beneath there flaws and bad attributes? In most cases it's because of the rejection they get from folks around them that make them insecure.
Why not pity them?

Short guys should channel their anger and frustration into building their minds and being successful.. That will definitely attract a nice lady.
But unfortunately, our world has been spoilt by the media, almost every young lad wants the fast money to feed their thirst for hoes..

@ Op, this is a very delicate matter that should be handled with wisdom...

Nobody is perfect, to me, what you did wasn't that bad.. You made the decision out of a difficult situation..

First thing you should do is to start making plans on building your own business, so incase the truth later comes out, you will have something to fall back on...

The truth will be out one day, so the best thing I believe you can do is to buy yourself some time to gather enough capital for a nice business..

Forgive yourself and ask God for forgiveness.. Find a subtle way to tell your friend's family what you did, though the problem here is that they may take advantage of the the situation and ask you for too much (if you know what I mean), but still, I believe you owe them that...
As for the lady, she isn't worth spending the rest of your life with.. For goodness sake, a woman that is supposed to spend the rest of her life with you should be able to forgive you of that..
Let her go and pray she doesn't tell anyone that matters, cos I think she will eventually tell someone..
It's a crazy world we live in Bro, don't beat yourself much cos of this.. Stay strong, you will get over this, trust me..