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FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 10:29pm On Mar 25, 2016
Cutehector:
I pray never to b put in such temptation
Lol..
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 10:28pm On Mar 25, 2016
Love Machine:
My culture doesnt permit adultery by a wife.The husband either divorce her or be preparing for his funeral.
Woow!
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 7:15pm On Mar 25, 2016
SerialDigits:
if she can allow me to get down with any of her friends cool cool ...Equation balanced
Woow! That's weird.
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 7:14pm On Mar 25, 2016
missbronze:
For the fact a wife is human and not God, then, she is likely to fall into temptation and sin against her husband.

It can happen to husband too.
Unfortunately men do not rhink like that..
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 6:56pm On Mar 25, 2016
AccidentalGenius:
if I'm a married man, I definitely wouldn't cheat. If I do travel for that long, I expect her to be the responsible wife I think she is and not ruin the marriage for something as silly as sex


It's a foolish thing to do
If you don't cheat then I believe you have every right to chase her
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 6:41pm On Mar 25, 2016
AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it
What if you travel for let's say a year and half? Consider the fact that you ain't no saint either.
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 6:39pm On Mar 25, 2016
missbronze:
If he as a human can sin against God and ask him for forgiveness, and, he forgives.


Then, he should forgive his wife. Esp, if she is remorseful, Kids or no Kids.
Anyway, that's how you think it should be but unfortunately, it's not..
For most men, there have to be a damn good reason for a wife to cheat.
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 6:36pm On Mar 25, 2016
firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his wife as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.
Yeah, I agree with you on that one, though not all men would do that..
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 6:34pm On Mar 25, 2016
Chanchit:
I do not have a problem with a cheating wife as long as I do not know. But for me not to know, she must have worked with the CIA before.


On a second thought there is one reason, if I travel out of the country for a long period of time.
Ooh, that's quite understandable..
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 6:25pm On Mar 25, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.
What if there isn't any kid between them yet, do you still think he should forgive her?
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 6:20pm On Mar 25, 2016
McCarlito:
Where is the person she cheated together with
https://static.omgvoice.com/images/2016/03/10123018/buhari-2-300x195.jpg
We just have to discuss
Lol..
FamilyRe: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 6:18pm On Mar 25, 2016
falconey:
undecided

I am not a FATHER.
You mean you won't forgive?
FamilyWhat Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(op): 6:12pm On Mar 25, 2016
I know it can be very painful and frustrating if you find out that your lady cheats on you, but as we all know most cheaters (The men) disagree with double standards when it comes to cheating... Lol..
So, here is my question:

What could make you forgive your wife if she cheats and ask for your forgiveness?
Considering the fact that you ain't no saint, will you forgive her?
RomanceRe: Still Wondering Why Nigerian Men Have Difficulty Getting Married, Early In Life? by PureWays(m): 11:07pm On Mar 23, 2016
bernardette:
if we continue to blame one gender or the other, solution ll never surface...a female like myself, you dnt have to own a mansion b4 you could win my love...a man, who can use his head to make life good for himself, and is ready to step out of the "shit parker" you mentioned...with my assistance, he ll step out..not a man who stays in the city flexing with friends, crying NO JOB..and wake up one day, all he can tell you is that I am not ready for marriage, even at 35yrs of age, I ll ask him, what have you been doing from 25yrs of age?..tell me why I wont move on to a better man...
Lol.. For goodness sake it's not the men's fault..
I have couple friends that want to marry but due to Financial problems they haven't..

Poverty is scary especially when wife and kids are involved, please stop the rant already, it's very annoying.
RomanceRe: A Message To All The Guys On Nairaland by PureWays(m): 9:06am On Mar 22, 2016
Would you blame them? The poverty rate in Africa is high and virtually all women are scared of that shiit.

In the western world, the economy is good, the environment is great with sane society, which helps an individual's effort to pay off.
Gurls just want to be secured, maybe if that is sure they can go for six packs, but a smart lady should never make six packs a priority in Africa..
RomanceRe: What Makes Her Your Main Chick? by PureWays(op): 9:00am On Mar 22, 2016
See as these guys derail my thread. angry
RomanceRe: What Makes Her Your Main Chick? by PureWays(op): 8:55am On Mar 22, 2016
Ifakiland:
main chick is d gal dats able to handle me, calm me wen am angry, allowed to do shakara, eat her food, don't force sex on her, give her stuffs before she ask...cos she usually don't ask, knows my mom...av my mom fone number. side chick we just fvck, chill and fvck again.
Oow.. Aiit.
RomanceWhat Makes Her Your Main Chick? by PureWays(op): 9:28pm On Mar 20, 2016
I'm carrying out a survey on what players really want in a lady. Your honest comments will help in my quest.. Lol..

To the players in the house, what makes that girl your main chick? Why not others you toy with?
Is there any special attribute that you can't just let go?
RomanceRe: Marriage Is NOT A Partnership by PureWays(m): 8:56pm On Mar 20, 2016
Vinshu:
In my country, feminists are recognised and besides, no man is and no man will dominate me. Seems you don't know me
You just proved their point with your "no man will dominate me. Seems you don't know me" sentence..

It's obvious you are trying to fight something above you here, your community frowns at your kind of mentality and you couldn't do shiit about it other than rant on a Nigerian forum..

Okay, let's face your premises:
Going by the rule of logic, you claimed to be a feminist whose main goal is Gender equality.
How would you fight for Gender equality when you want the men to provide for virtually everything in a marriage?

Seems you are trying to create some options here, you want the men to choose between Gender equality or Being the only provider in a marriage (since they claim to be above women)
I understand your plight miss, and I know it hurts thinking that men want to eat their cake and still have it.
This is the way the world is wired, you need to deal with it.

What do you really want miss?
Gender equality or Men providing everything in a marriage?
RomanceRe: Marriage Is NOT A Partnership by PureWays(m): 8:53pm On Mar 20, 2016
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RomanceRe: Unrealistic Demands Of Girls No Guy Should Ever Give In To by PureWays(m): 7:58pm On Mar 20, 2016
Don't reduce yourself to ritual cos of a lady..
RomanceRe: (pics)top10 Most Handsome Dudes That Should Compete For Mr Nairaland 2016. by PureWays(m): 11:55pm On Mar 19, 2016
Lol... Seriously??
RomanceRe: Not All Men Cheat!! by PureWays(op): 10:57pm On Mar 15, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Dey there make pant dey wear you grin grin
sad
RomanceRe: Not All Men Cheat!! by PureWays(op): 10:56pm On Mar 15, 2016
maoweidong:
Real men value the woman that values herself. It's really simple,show him what he can get not what he can have cos in the end no man can own a woman.
Yeah, but unfortunately only few of you ladies dig this.
RomanceRe: Not All Men Cheat!! by PureWays(op): 8:06pm On Mar 15, 2016
Fr33born:
True. Not all men cheat
Yeah
RomanceRe: Who Knows The Real Name Of This Fruit? by PureWays(m): 12:01am On Mar 10, 2016
Estharfabian:
Really? My Animation?
Uh....



Thanks!wink
I didn't say that to impress you though, was just being honest..
What's with the animation by the way?
RomanceRe: Help!!! Kindly Advice. by PureWays(m): 1:40am On Mar 09, 2016
bigt2:
Orie ti buru. Iyalayae ni were. Omo ale jatijati.
Woow!! Relax man, it was just an expression.. Anyway, I apologise if it seems like an insult to you, I guess my funny gesture wasn't so funny to you.

Now, will you please delete the above statements? undecided
RomanceRe: Who Knows The Real Name Of This Fruit? by PureWays(m): 1:34am On Mar 09, 2016
Estharfabian:
Almond. undecided



Relax miss, I don't think you need that expression (judging by your animation).

You brilliant.
RomanceRe: Help!!! Kindly Advice. by PureWays(m): 1:23am On Mar 09, 2016
@ Op, you sound as if you have (had) plans for her..

If you do have plans for her: Confront her, though I think a lady that tells petty lies like that doesn't deserve to be kept.

If you don't have plans for her, then why the stress? undecided
RomanceRe: Help!!! Kindly Advice. by PureWays(m): 1:19am On Mar 09, 2016
bigt2:
Save the stress and bang more and more till you dump her ass.
Werey re oh! grin
RomanceRe: Not All Men Cheat!! by PureWays(op): 12:47am On Mar 09, 2016
dukeolumde:
Another example is my formal BOSS who was a MILITARY OFFICER. Whenever he is Stressed, he looks
for someone (a male or mostly a female) in his contacts and strikes a very long conversation like an hr or less on the phone
gisting and cracking jokes and in the end, u see him feeling better than before... at first I didn't understand him,
but the whole picture became clearer when I noticed he wasn't doing anything funny with the women involved.
NOTE: My job prescription made it possible for me to be with him from early morning till about 9 pm at night.
As for me I socialize, look for other people's trouble or go swimming...
Am not asking u to believe me. I am just telling u people are different and have different ways of dealing with Stress/pressure Q.E.D


Ooh
Christianity EtcRe: How Do We Know Christianity Is True And We Are Not Deceived? by PureWays(m): 12:40am On Mar 09, 2016
unphilaz:
I like the bolded statement, how does Islam,Hindu access to be a Muslim,Hindi etc
I dint get your question.

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