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SageWithSarcasm:
Why do i have a feels you are this girl and this girl is you
Regardless.....from the story there is no foul play. They should chalk it up amongst "past"

If it's me nko? Should I kill myself?

gideonvalor98:
That's how most of you do. Why will you use your birthday date for the outing? You went on a shopping spree with him and you can't even make comment or ask questions relating 'maybe it's a gift and nothing attached ' if he had demanded you return his gift, what will you do?

Baby girl you're a thief!

Thief ke?? Why are you pained? R u the guy??

Nehyooh:
Sensible guys do break-up through phone as well. Just to avoid you ladies crocodile tears that may still tame guys that doesn't have interest again

😂😂😂 crocodile tears lol

Tymk:
USELESS topic.
The op, the mod that push it to front page. Se un, everyone above and below me are all useless

You viewing and commenting...what will we call you

ExudeLoveToAll:
A guy did this to someone he isn't dating, people are really trying. I can't fathom me being in this scenario ever.

This is my recipe for excluding wasters of resources out of my life . At the beginning stage of wooing a lady, sex and money is taken out of the equation. I delve to know your inner mindset , if it doesn't align with mine I declare mission impossible ghost protocol. If it agrees then I ask , if offer is accepted then we are good to go.

People are there to milk the other person of his resources and then throw them away like a pack of cards, getting to know someone is all about stripping people of their finance and livelihood.

I can't believe people will use Monsey to try to coerce people into accepting them. Most times it hits the rock.

This is my way of taking out locust out of my precinct

Okay noted

Bellotelli:
Forget all these una long talk. The only time a man can beat his chest and say this is my girlfriend is when he has sex with her, very good sex o, especially a typical Nigerian girl.

Chai... Sorry to those "No sex before marriage crew"... coz nothing to beat their chest for

bonnyhope:
Yes o

Oya send your azza make I give you your 2k so we go rest.... 2k= dating for your side😂😂😂😂

GOVERNORR:
If guy de collect your number easily, I mean if you de give guy your number anyhow, na general market

But girl don give you number before? Why didn't u tag her "General market"..
And you wey more than 3 girls get your number , are you "General Supplier"?

Etranshub:
if the feeling is mutual

Ok

Rebuke:
Wait, does this then validate the popular belief that any girl having a close male friend is most likely having sexual intercourse with the male friend?

Oh, FWB = friend with benefits, smh.


Why not marry that yhur "friend with benefits" then?


Ladies should better wise up and stop being stupid. Yhu give yhurself to some guys - to be eating yhu up in the name of friend with benefits? That is so dirty and gross to even imagine.

Abeg let us rest with all these marriage talk.. Did you marry all the girls you've had sex with?
Stop being hypocritical here please..

bonnyhope:
Then he should not be ready to spend his hard earned money

Wahala...so now to you, your money goes hand in hand with sex??

bonnyhope:
Na hm fall mugu na

Spending without plucking the fruit

If I'm not ready nko?? Will he rape me?

ExudeLoveToAll:
A guy did this to someone he isn't dating, people are really trying. I can't fathom me being in this scenario ever.

This is my recipe for excluding wasters of resources out of my life . At the beginning stage of wooing a lady sex and money is taken out of the equation. I delve to know your inner mindset , if it doesn't align with mine I declare mission impossible ghost protocol.

People are there to milk the other person of his resources and then throw them away like a pack osf cards, getting to know someone is all about stripping people of their finance and livelihood.

I can't believe people will use Monsey to try to coerce people into accepting them. Most times it hits the rock

This is my way of taking out locust out of my precinct

Okay noted

bonnyhope:
When billing has started

So if he gives me 2k.. datin don start?

Etranshub:
The moment you agree to go out on a date then its official

I make fantastic metal works ranging from iron roofing to handrails and many more

So if I go out with a frnd I must date him?

akube34:
why would you even agree to go on a date with someone you dnt want to date

Do you date every friend??

obie3rixe:
There's hunger in the land and youre thinking of fornicating

When u were eating and fornicating nko? Now hungry don come we no go hear word

akube34:
you don go fk, conscience come Dey hold u

Shii...no be u I follow f.ck, so come forward and say something about this thread, or remain silent and listen for that back wey u dey

Persephone1:
Dating for me starts when dude has ticked all the boxes and we have made deliberate decision to get close above friendship or talking stage level the number of weeks,months or years this level takes differ and depends on readiness and attraction .

Now to your scenario, If I meet a guy l like, i wouldn't be under the sheets with another guy few days I met the guy I like. That lady is either detached from her body or has her emotions everywhere. If I'm a guy, I wouldn't take such lady seriously.

Nevertheless she didn't cheat on him, rather she's a loose one.

Well this is good.. but, sometimes what we like doesn't really show at first sight... Maybe after some time of chatting we come to realise that this guy is a good person... So does it mean that till we discover the hidden treasures about this guy, no sex

Felaincarnated:
Wen she confirms d alert😁

really? If the guy is always broke but a nice guy nko?... meaning say no dating till money enter??

shagasha:
Dating begins when you've fu**ed each other. Else you as a man will be spending and assuming. Some girls Will say 'Yes" to you and be making demands but wouldn't want to get down with you. As soon as you are serious about getting down with them, they ghost you.

Still my thoughts

I doubt... Coz according to you, after sex comes official dating status... Then what about "No sex till marriage"... that one mean say after marriage comes dating

donbachi:
The day she starts making demands

😂😂😂... I doubt... Coz I know some guys will think if a gal doesn't ask from him, then Maybe some other guys outside are giving her...

FavouredNK:
Then that's no forgiveness and be careful of what you say before marriage as you never know who you will end up with and be forced to back this your" never" language.

Thanks.. but my mind remains mind.. before, during or after marriage... I won't change my person...

IconicR:
That's his loss because you never agreed to his request, he was the one assuming things

Easier said than done...
What I learnt sef was, the best way to break up relationship is through phone..
Coz some guys can be very aggressive when annoyed...

IconicR:
That is their own cup of tea
How would you just assume you are dating someone just because of one yeye lunch.

I've had the unfortunate encounter of my life happen like dis....
Mine sef was birthday...
Met two weeks before my birthday, we began chatting, so I decided to use my birthday to meet..
Lol, we went shopping o, we ate...he really spent sha...
It was December...
January came, new year resolution, I decided to cut off, lol he became angry...oo..
Said many things, I couldn't recall, but he mentioned the birthday outing..
But we weren't dating, I told him...

So Nigerians guys has this "I spend on you, you are mine" mentality

IconicR:
Giving your number to a guy doesn't equates to dating na.
The dating starts immediately you agree to his toasting, that's what I'm saying.

Ooho... Some guys don't know that one o...
After one lunch, they believe I have agree to toasting..

IconicR:
The relationship starts immediately she agrees to his love request
In this case she didn't cheat on him because he's yet to pop the question .
Slept with a friend is the part I don't understand, how?

Surely as a single girl without commitment, some girls have male FWB...
Then when she has a serious guy in her life, she'll end all commitment and focus....

"Immediately she agrees to his love request".. how?
Some guys that'll see you on the road and begin to shower you with love talk so how will we know the original love?

Abi once a guy collect your number, you are now dating? If I collect another guy number the next day nko?

After seeing this topic -https://www.nairaland.com/7803848/leave-good-woman-man-because -
I decided to ask when does "We are dating" officially starts in a relationship..

Assuming a guy exchange number with a girl on Friday, they began chatting, on Friday the following week, they met for lunch...

Fast forward to a month later, the guy discovered that Tuesday before the Friday they met for lunch, the girl had sex with a frnd..

Can the guy claim the girl cheated while they were dating??

I'm confused here ..

maasoap:
And how many times are you going to start all over again if it keeps happening?
Well, that's only if you know sha

Lol... My dear, we came to this world alone, we will die alone...
There's a certain age I'll reach, if my man misbehave and we divorce or separate, I'll remain single for life ..
And since women lives longer than men, the man will die first

Wealthoptulent:
Not the time to blame, a word of prayer 🙏 pls

If the cause isn't important to you then you are also someone who drives against traffic rules...
These celebrities are fond of drinking before and during driving, taking hard drugs and smoking...

As an adult they have to know better...

But let's wait to hear the cause, nothing like a word of prayer!!!!

Cause Over speeding or drugs or both?

Nice... Nice family... Keep it up....