Which one be nicki dabarbie again..o chim

Ganstarism is taking good shape in our politics..

The funny thing is that she gave the baby as food to wild animals..she could've dumped the baby on the road or somewhere for people to see na

They are getting trillions every minute... They aren't suppose to take a day to fix this underwater stuff

Seun:
Fellow Nairalanders,

I hereby declare a total war against name checkers on Nairaland.

Anyone who draws attention to the tribe of a criminal on a thread about a crime will be banned. This applies regardless of whether they do it overtly or covertly. Every offender will collect a ban because this is regarded as a tribal insult.

The minimum ban period is 14 days. If you have offended multiple times, it's 30 days. If you keep offending, you may be permanently banned.

- Seun Osewa.

PS: I've just made a communication breakthrough with the moderators on this issue. I expect results.

Yes very very good...thats what they do here..
If yoruba person does something..they will be saying skull minners...ofe nmanu...red roof people.can you imagine

Saintinoo:


You are dating a narcissist, run. I am speaking from experience.

ME TOO....THAT SHIT WASN'T FUNNY...BEING WITH A NARC

Negroid001:


Run Bro. She's a narcissist.

confirm NARC,,,very big one

Cloudflare:


You're probably a female narcissist. I'll urge you to avoid me. I don't engage f.ools and 🤡 like you

God punish you from that your hairy chest

Cloudflare:


U too wan join the trend just to feel belong?
Dude It takes a narcissist to know one. you probably don't know the difference between being clingy, emotional manipulations and one who's a narcissist. Oga U met a highly manipulative girl not a narcissist

Oga please shatap....emotional manipulation is part of their character..stop displaying your idiocy here thinking that you know anything

Saintinoo:


You only need to encounter them to know how to deal with them, many people don't know that those narc are demons on their own. They come in different forms, mine was even a V. For people praying to marry a V, not all that glitter is gold.

Do you stay in aba?

That virgin part is a typical weapon of covert narcs...as they want u to believe they are too perfect

Baba honestly speakin eh, Am really scared reading all that you wrote up there and also with other peoples experience...its as if we dated the same girl

and to make matters worse, i still want to go back to her after 5 months we broke up already

BobbieZion:
They are usually very cute and charming.
Now that covers the underlying narcissistic tendencies,so at first you won't see it coming.

They love bomb you and create a false perfect world for you, but anytime you want to talk about any thing serious they snub you.
They are the greatest at entitlement,they want you to become their parent.
They are never available emotionally and they lack empathy.
They are great liars [/b]and have countless sex partners, so they are great cheats.

They make you run mad and after some time you will start losing your sanity.
[b]Their victims are mostly kind hearted and caring people.
[b]They are very intelligent [/b]and they create scenarios in their head, which makes them great at acting and directing.

Judith anywhere you are just know that I am a real OG, you couldn't toy with my intelligence.
And if I had the opportunity I will collect my Mavado watch back, e still dey pain me die.

If you catch them lying even red handed then u have started another war cos they rather die that to admit...i call my ex devil

shielaAhmed:
Nairaland has finally become a breeding ground for tribalism in Nigeria. Many threads on this platform contains tribal hate and the moderators/owner of this sitthundere is not doing anything about it.


Don’t be too surprised if this site receives a hefty fine from the Government soon.

make thunder dissolve u and that ur tribe...smelling aboki

TheSuperX:
I want Musk to give him an uppercut, I hate Zuckerberg 😆😆

hahaha...no be only uppercut....guy una funny i swear

triple996:
NA only make up them sabi,
Empty head, "TYPICAL FEMALE GENDER"

make up and hair...fvcking useless and shameless wh0res

DamnnNiggarr:




Hai!! What an absolute RUBBISH!!!
how can they do such a thing 🙀
why hand the coward over to the police?
handing him over to the police is not just a crime against humanity, but an abomination.
I condemn in it's entirety, handing him over to the police. They should have sent him to the Nigeria's general public for some cross examination.

Rest in peace young souls.

Tufiakwa for you....u didnt even read the news at all

e remain that Jewish pig drake....how can he even be promoting gambling...Jewish people ehh...no wonder Hitler wanted to annihilate them

alllivesmatter:



Are you talking about a woman with ego? Lol. Run while you can. She'll drive you nuts as a wife. Again, I repeat, she'll drive you NUTS as a wife.



Women with ego see nothing good in others but themselves. They're always right.

KEY STATEMENT "THEY ARE ALWAYS RIGHT"...

Mine is so proud and selfish..i call her the devil..and i know this will be a very big mistake to settle down with her cos i will never have rest of mind...but then shes well read and educated, beautiful and has a very high standard which are also the things i want...am just so confused bros....i also think it has something to do with anambra

jfkenny:

I have moved on, another issue is attending a different church after marriage..I think she also want to be in control of the family..

sorry is that girl from anambra

OVO UNRULY

they do it for fun..

they do it for fun..[/quote]

hi

The hustle sef is not easy...this men will want to kill u ontop bed because of 25k wey dem give u...naso this two guys almost want kill my friend with their mighty penis...from 9 in the night till 4 oclock in the morning naso my friend dey cry...i really pittied her last weekend lol...i was just lucky they saw her big nyash and wanted to die ontop her ......she bath with sperm infact

pm if u have the money

EriMma1:


Hmmm... I knew this is where this whole pain and anger is coming from. pure jealousy.

For your info, Kobojunkie is my nairaland crush. Kee yourself.

Na wa o.

Two unfortunate junkies...see how u just came out to disgrace ur zombie mother on nairaland today..

Kobojunkie:
1. Culturally, and following many of your traditions, a lady is allowed to desire that the man caters to all of her needs in marriage. OP did not make these rules up. She is instead echoing what remains a tradition in much of Nigeria today, a rule many Nigerians still hold to even as we speak. Insulting her for stating it only means you are unable to logically reason these things as they really are.

Can't u just see that nobody wants to talk to u...if u like the op why don't u start talking to her instead of forming backup artist for her...abi u no dey shame for this ur life...nobody likes u..u just dey here dey lick op ass

EriMma1:


You are pained. Go and hug transformer.

Continue crying.

Hungry goat...u carry ur hungry sef go meet man , dem buy u suya...u chop suya finish come chop the newspaper join come dey cry say dey no buy u drugs ...why didn't u just die that day na..

that experience alone should have thought u whole lesson about having ur own finances in check..but it didn't

carry ur long throat dey waka from one man to another in search of who go take care of ur needs...u will just die like rat

EriMma1:


See.. this right here is what majority of you have been reduced to and the reason you lost touch of the purpose of your existence. A man doing choo choo choo with a woman. Na man be that one? And if you're a woman, quickly pick one of them from here. Una match.

Carry ur long throat go man house go chop suya. u no even get 20 naira to buy tetracycline...u get luck say she no die that day...tagbuo kwa owegi na suya there...imagine the audacity of a poor rat

EriMma1:


See.. this right here is what majority of you have been reduced to and the reason you lost touch of the purpose of your existence. A man doing choo choo choo with a woman. Na man be that one?

SMH.

You are a very jobless pig thats the reason u are here enjoying all the attention they giving you...how will an adult like u come to a public platform to advice girls not to have a purpose in their marriage..are u not an lmbecile

EriMma1:



The same ashawo that you patronize and pay (her bills) but cannot pay your wife who takes care of the home.
Ashawo go bill una for just a few mins and you men will pay but expect your wife to bring her money to the table. You see why I said better to put that your money to good use in the home by taking care of wifey.

Why should I be ashamed for wanting a good life? Is Regina ashamed today? Many women who's husband are taking care of their needs 100%, how many are ashamed? Rather it's the one who's husband can't cater for that faces disgrace and shame all the time where she'll be looking like a mad dog or a shadow of herself especially if she's not financially Independent. Or you'll hear husband kills wife because of pure water or agege bread. That is why you see a lot of women trying hard to get something doing Then whats the point being with a man if my life cant be affected positively by his presence and I still need to work to cater for myself?
What will he be doing in my life? No you tell me... Especially when there are other capable men out there. Spare me abeg!

i can't believe that people are actually replying and engaging themselves with a big FOOL like you... thunder fire both you and the people replying an idiot like u with a very low IQ

franchasofficia:
To me, she is not entirely wrong for many reasons. Unless she is a materialistic lady before now, only you can tell cos you are the one that knows her better than we do.


Over time, I have come to realize that women of our time are more focused on their life goals than men.


Most women don't marry anyhow again unless they are getting aged and just need a sperm donor for procreation purposes, that is when they can settle for just any man willing to marry them.


But on a normal situation today, most modern ladies don't want to marry just anybody in the name of marriage, and I personally applaud them for that. Women are calculative when making marriage decision unlike men who make marriage decision based on how their dick rises and how their dick makes them feel for a girl.


Love is not enough reason to marry anybody in our current world and time. Love cannot pay bills. Love cannot pay rent. Love cannot feed a family. Neither can love pay school fees.


Don't be deceived by makebelieve movies you watch on Nollywood, Hollywood, Bollywood, etc films, their storylines don't always reflect the reality of life.


Many Nigerians foolishly believe that you can marry as a broke person and after marriage, whatever luck will shine on you and boom you blow and become rich and your wife that married you as a poor or broke guy starts to enjoy wealth, just as they portray in Nollywood films, but little did they know that all those things are lies, just mere imagination of the movie script writer which hardly happens in real life. I don't think there are up to 5% of married people that married broke and later became rich or comfortable in Nigeria. The number is very small and negligible to make any reasonable person to take such risk today.

And if you go close to those that married broke and later became rich or comfortable in life, you will discover that they were prepared for success, how? Most had a job and just starting a career, so it is normal for them to grow in their career with time. Some of them had business they were doing and it is also normal for a small business to grow bigger if managed properly. Some had saleable skills they were honing or grooming, some studied lucrative courses or were studying and in the process got good jobs and grew from there, so luck didn't just shine on them from nowhere without preparations.



If its true that after a broke guy marries, marital luck will open doors for him and he will start to succeed financially and become financially buoyant or rich, then we wouldn't have more than 100 million married poor Nigerians today. If life happens that way, your parents ought to be rich, your poor friend's parents too ought to be rich since they also married poor.



To succeed financially in life, you must be smart in your thinking, you must be calculative in all your dealings in life, and you must be very wise and realistic in all your critical life decisions like marriage.



Please dear Nigerian guys, don't marry anyhow again oh, life has changed. Opportunities of survival are reducing daily due to oversaturation in almost all human endeavors due to global overpopulation oh.


Don't marry a jobless girl in the name of you love her, she loves you....don't marry any girl in the name of she is beautiful, she is young, she is fertile, she has sexy shape, because by the time poverty and financial pressure hit you in marriage, you will hate her without even remembering how beautiful or sexy she is.


Don't even marry any girl just because she knows how to cook or clean the house or greet people, those are outdated qualities to use as sole reason to marry any girl.


Marry wisely for your own future and for the better future of your unborn kids.


Marry ladies with saleable skills.

Marry ladies that have good career.

Marry ladies that are financially productive.

Marry only ladies that are pursuing a career or a sustainable business or trade.

Stop marrying broke, jobless, lazy girls no matter how rich you think you are.


How many rich guys do you see marrying broke, jobless girls?


Son of former IG of Police married Aliko Dangote's daughter.


Son of Oil Billionaire Indimi married President Buhari's daughter.


Tinubu's son married the daughter of a global shipping line MD.


British Royal Prince Harry married Meghan Merkle who is an American A-list Actress.


Former US President Donald Trump's daughter married the son of a business tycoon. Where do I start or stop?


Only boys from poor families rush to marry broke, jobless girls without tangible career or saleable skill once they mistakenly hit money via Yahoo or one off business deal that makes them feel arrived, and few years down the line they go back to their poverty and financial struggle trenches just because of their mistake in marrying foolishly in the name of romantic love and showoff.


Nigerian guys stop marrying anyhow. Put on your thinking cap, stop encouraging Nigerian girls to be lazy and unproductive. That small millions you think you have is nothing when economic difficulty hits you.


Stop looking at flimsy things when picking a wife, we are no longer in the 1970s or 1980s, so you cannot marry for the same reasons your father married your mom, time have changed, global economy have changed, life is becoming more and more difficult all over the world, so you need a lady that is ready to work and partner with you in building a prosperous family, not just popping out kids every 9 months.


Marry a lady that can sustain the family financially if anything happens to you and renders you financially or physically incapacitated for months or even years.


And if you must marry a jobless lady, make sure you have the financial means to set her up with a profitable business or career or skill, and make sure she is ready for this and not just being ready with mouth, be sure she is truly prepared and ambitious to chart her own financial course with little assistance at the beginning. Don't think opening a supermarket or clothing or hair salon for your wife means she now has a job, most of the time, they end up squandering the business capital without anything to show for it. Consider all these things before you marry any lady today.



It is better they call you gold digger than for you to end up marrying a financial liability that will destroy your future.


Back to your topic, the lady is not confident in what you are doing now. She doesn't see a future in those things you are doing and she is scared marrying you may land her into another poverty she has been into under her parents. Its either you sit her down and explain to her why you don't want to rent a bigger apartment and also tell her your future plans, what you want in life, your goals, your financial plans, and while doing this, also ask her her own financial goals and plans in marriage. How does she intend to contribute in building her marriage, supporting her husband in achieving a successful family? Hear her out and also consider what she is currently doing, the course she studied also matters, the skills she has and what she has been using them for currently and her utterances. Her friends; what are they doing, how far have they gone in life?



Consider her family background too, can you cope with their own financial baggage, if any? Is she from a family that can support you or her in growing financially? Will they mar your own growth with their numerous financial problems and requests?



Marry wisely oh if not, you and your unborn kids go hear am oh.

BigBashiru:


Your post is one of the wisest I've read on nairaland in a while....I learned a lot from it...

I swear to God almighty, this post should be studied as a course in our universities right now. but then again u cant judge this girl or any girl with just this particular reason alone.

LikeAking:
So it's dis easy to make money?

na lie o...its not easy to make money..infact this interview sef na scam..it never happened..nobody is david pright and invictus never had any interview..na yahoo boy create am so that pple like u will go to that site a fall prey..no mind them o i almost dun mumu to go buy..that was 2020 b4 God help me..it was even on yahoo news page with a different site..no mind them o be wise