The question I wish to answer here is this: are there spirit husband and wives? If, yes, who is likely to end up having one?


There are no such thing as spirit husband or wife. They are all inventions of
pastors and men of God. But more correctly put, they are inventions of the devil which he passed to men of God.

But again, spiritual husbands and wife exist.

I know it now sound paradoxical and incoherent . Well, I had to make it so for effect.

Generally, the devil is into the business of deceiving, and oppressing people.And so he is constantly inventing or discovering newer and more efficient ways of getting into peoples lives for the purpose of deceiving and oppressing.

So,one of his popular approach is to pick someone and manifest himself to the person in a weird manner possibly in the dream and then whispering the interpretation to your mind in the first person i.e he makes you think the thought originated from you. Once you fall for that ploy and you believe it , one or more demonic spirits will be assigned to you whose responsibility is to do everything possible and necessary to strengthen that your belief.

So, here you are. You had sex with a woman in your dream. It will mean nothing and remain harmless until the devil succeeds in making you assign a weird reason to it. Once he succeeds with you, you'll have demons operating in your life to strengthen and uphold that believe.

If you are a man of God who has been deceived into believing in spirit husband, the devil is likely to assign an army of demons to your ministry whose job is to make people in your ministry to have experiences that conform to that belief and help strengthen and uphold that belief so you are likely to have a lot of cases of people with spirit husband and wife in your ministry and end up casting out demon whose existence in their life was as a result of your belief.

So, yes, there are spirit husband and wives because there are usually some demonic spirit behind them, but they come into existence as a result of belief system created or initiated by the devil and the people who are most likely to have them are:

1. Christians who believe in them;
2 Christians who attend a church where their existence is believed;
3. People who have friends, parents or relatives who believe in them;
4. Random unfortunate people who somehow end up believing in them.

You can give one thing to d devil, he is smart and hard working.

Well,this principle apply not only to spirit husband or wives issue, but to many other such similar issues.

So, if you have them how can you get free from them:

1. Realise their origin- your belief
4. Get born again
2.Pray against them, or get someone who can
3. Get knowledgeable in the word of God;

However, you best protection against them is to be born again and believe you can never have them Or simply stop attaching weird meaning to your dreams.

Well, I remember what pastor Kumuyi said many year ago at a December Retreat in Ayobo.

"If the devil is not a coward and he is really interested in tempting you to commit fornication, then he should send a real person in real life to tempt you to commit it. If he sends one in your dream, ignore it it shows he is a coward." (Expressed in my own words. It as a long time ago.)

"If the devil gives you food to eat in the dream, don't forget to ask for meat and eat them all." (Expressed in my own words. It as a long time ago.)

Those two statements made many years ago set me free.


seun, lalasticlala, Mind44. Kindly put it on front page if you think it worthy of it.

whisper88:
Good day all, the idea of the reality of one having spiritual partner gets me confused. Many years back, I happened to find myself in this vigil my aunt dragged me to, and the female pastor / prophetess told me I have a spiritual girlfriend . I was really perplexed, because at the said time your boy just finish secondary school and I was shy as hell to even talk to girls. So I just ignored her, cos there was no girl in my life then.

Fast forward to two weeks back, a pastor/ prophet was invited to the house for vigil. After prayers he started dishing out problems and spiritual challenges we all have individually. When it got to my turn, yes your guess is good as mine, he looked at me and I have a spiritual wife . I just smiled and didn't allow that get to me at all.

So my question is how true or real is it for one to have a spiritual partner he may or may not know about? Please first hand experience is all that is needed not hearsay, our religious brothers and sisters, real experience(S) is needed not faith or Bible teaching. Your valid inputs are highly welcomed.. pardon my typos in case . Gracias

The truth is this: if you believe you have spiritual husband , then you have them.If u believe u dont have dn u dont have them.

There is nothing special about having sex in d dream. It will only have a meang when u assign one to it.

If u find urself sleeping with someone in d dream, dont let it border u one bit. There is nothg to it.

tosyne2much:
I know it happens for real

It doesnt exist, see my first post on this thread for explanation.

oneda:
spirit wife / husband is just one of the many ways demons torment their hosts. In delivering someone who is having such problem is just the same as any other person possessed by demons. You realize that the evil spirit is in the person and not what comes and goes as many believe.
i would have explained better but my keyboard is not functional.

They dont exist see d explanation in my first post on this thread.

Slayer2:


I got to know about her cause I always see her in dream. Got rid of her with the help of strong spiritualist.

They dont exist see my first post on this thread for explanation.

Slayer2:
Very real. One they disturb me that year, but I don pursue her

They dont exist, see my post above for explanation.

whisper88:
Good day all, the idea of the reality of one having spiritual partner gets me confused. Many years back, I happened to find myself in this vigil my aunt dragged me to, and the female pastor / prophetess told me I have a spiritual girlfriend . I was really perplexed, because at the said time your boy just finish secondary school and I was shy as hell to even talk to girls. So I just ignored her, cos there was no girl in my life then.

Fast forward to two weeks back, a pastor/ prophet was invited to the house for vigil. After prayers he started dishing out problems and spiritual challenges we all have individually. When it got to my turn, yes your guess is good as mine, he looked at me and I have a spiritual wife . I just smiled and didn't allow that get to me at all.

So my question is how true or real is it for one to have a spiritual partner he may or may not know about? Please first hand experience is all that is needed not hearsay, our religious brothers and sisters, real experience(S) is needed not faith or Bible teaching. Your valid inputs are highly welcomed.. pardon my typos in case . Gracias

There are no such thing as spirit husband or wife. They are all inventions of
pastors and men of God. But more correctly put, they are inventions of the devil which he passed to men of God.

But again, spiritual husbands and wife exist.

I know it now sound paradoxical and incoherent . Well, I had to make it so for effect.

Generally, the devil is into the business of deceiving, and oppressing people.And so he is constantly inventing or discovering newer and more efficient ways of getting into peoples lives for the purpose of deceiving and oppressing.

So,one of his popular approach is to pick someone and manifest himself to the person in a weird manner possibly in the dream and then whispering the interpretation to your mind in the first person i.e he makes you think the thought originated from you. Once you fall for that ploy and you believe it , one or more demonic spirits will be assigned to you whose responsibility is to do everything possible and necessary to strengthen that your belief.

So, here you are. You had sex with a woman in your dream. It will mean nothing and remain harmless until the devil succeeds in making you assign a weird reason to it. Once he succeeds with you, you'll have demons operating in your life to strengthen and uphold that believe.

If you are a man of God who has been deceived into believing in spirit husband, the devil is likely to assign an army of demons to your ministry whose job is to make people in your ministry to have experiences that conform to that belief and help strengthen and uphold that belief so you are likely to have a lot of cases of people with spirit husband and wife in your ministry and end up casting out demon whose existence in their life was as a result of your belief.

So, yes, there are spirit husband and wives because there are usually some demonic spirit behind them, but they come into existence as a result of belief system created or initiated by the devil.

You can give one thing to d devil, he is smart and hard working.

Well,this principle apply not only to spirit husband or wives issue, but to many other such similar issues.

TheOtherGeek:
@queryunical

I think you'd be breaking some software development principles by making the decisions yourself... But if you feel it's what you need, then go ahead but you will need a really well crafted algorithm to determine how many change sets exists, the size and also collect those change sets and notify application-x of the most recent change set. Sort of like an internal pull request if you're familiar with Git.

Do, create a fresh thread for this topic so other professionals/enthusiasts could hop in as our discussions are getting interesting.

Too bad. I had to re-pop in.Just this post now. I think you suggestion is good. the only thing I have to exclude is user notification and use application notification and that is for goo reasons.

Remember that anither device possibly located on d other side of the globe had updated data and the update has been committed to database. If any user uses an data set, his document become invalid. Users have no choice but to use new and up to date data in other to ensure their document is valid.

I will create a new thread if and only if your suggestion fails. And I dont see aby reason why it should.

Ok. I am finally out.

I'll mention you when next I visit nairaland. I am still online studyg and researching. Have got a timed assignment that I must take to night. If I dont study and research hard enough for it I may end up submitting a poor solution.

Would love to continue the conversation but wisdom demand that I leave now.
Ciao!

TheOtherGeek:
@queryunical

I think you'd be breaking some software development principles by making the decisions yourself... But if you feel it's what you need, then go ahead but you will need a really well crafted algorithm to determine how many change sets exists, the size and also collect those change sets and notify application-x of the most recent change set. Sort of like an internal pull request if you're familiar with Git.

Do, create a fresh thread for this topic so other professionals/enthusiasts could hop in as our discussions are getting interesting.

Too bad. I had to re-pop in.Just this post now. I think you suggestion is good. the only thing I have to exclude is user notification and use application notification and that is for goo reasons.

Remember that anither device possibly located on d other side of theglobe

TheOtherGeek:


Hmm, I have gone through all the posts properly now..and I must say, this is one hell of a software you're working on...(keep up the good work)

Now, let's take the popular blogging CMS app "WordPress" for example..

If you've used WordPress then you'd be familiar with the "non-clashing" method of working with content. WordPress creates what they call a "change set" and stores this change set in Json format. When another user tries to customize the theme, the icurrent user's change set isn't affected... Instead a new changeset is created for the new user, hence the possibility of clashing is taken out. All done with WordPress, let's move on...
Now, you could benefit a great deal from this concept using the simulation process, but the only thing is you will need yours to be "notify-on-edit" rather than "non-clashing". I'd explain:

Notify-on-edit:
User A has a change set saved for a document he's working on, User B wants to work on the same document so a new change set is created for that same document notifying the user that another change set exists...the user can either wait or proceed editing the document.... There will be no clashing, remember you're using change sets now.... But when both users are done there'll be two versions of the document from two change sets... The end users are alerted and can "merge" both together.

Just see it as committing code to a repository.... Just the way git works, you'd also have to borrow some concepts..

I haven't tried this ever in my years of programming but if this works for you, you'll need to buy me a cup of coffee.

Ok. I think I will attempt to use a modified version. of this ur suggestion, if it works, dn you'll have coffe on me.

Got to go now. I so much appreciate your suggestion. Thanks a log.

Bye for now.

P.S.
If a better idea ever occurs to you don't hesitate to let me know.

By d way I saw you laugh over my use of the word Jason in place of Json.Well, I had to neccssarily form d habit becaude d dll I mentioned above use the function JadonEncode and JasonDecode. This usage is delebetate.PHP has the functions JsonEncode and JsonDecode.I had to use a different name since the webservice use those php native version.Remember my dll is now also a php extension. That means php now also has access to it.

Now you understand why I had to form d habit of using jason instead of json.

So, really, as u can now see it not really to bad a habit as it might initially appear to u.

It was quite nice chatting with you. So now I formally welcome you to nairaland Mrs.(Miss) TheOtherGeek.: "Welcome to nairaland" .I'm out.

TheOtherGeek:


Hmm, I have gone through all the posts properly now..and I must say, this is one hell of a software you're working on...(keep up the good work)

Now, let's take the popular blogging CMS app "WordPress" for example..

If you've used WordPress then you'd be familiar with the "non-clashing" method of working with content. WordPress creates what they call a "change set" and stores this change set in Json format. When another user tries to customize the theme, the current user's change set isn't affected... Instead a new changeset is created for the new user, hence the possibility of clashing is taken out. All done with WordPress, let's move on...
Now, you could benefit a great deal from this concept using the simulation process, but the only thing is you will need yours to be "notify-on-edit" rather than "non-clashing". I'd explain:

Notify-on-edit:
User A has a change set saved for a document he's working on, User B wants to work on the same document so a new change set is created for that same document notifying the user that another change set exists...the user can either wait or proceed editing the document.... There will be no clashing, remember you're using change sets now.... But when both users are done there'll be two versions of the document from two change sets... The end users are alerted and can "merge" both together.

Just see it as committing code to a repository.... Just the way git works, you'd also have to borrow some concepts..

I haven't tried this ever in my years of programming but if this works for you, you'll need to buy me a cup of coffee.

But a modification of the change set might be useful-for the applicationx, and not the user, to work on.

TheOtherGeek:


Hmm, I have gone through all the posts properly now..and I must say, this is one hell of a software you're working on...(keep up the good work)

Now, let's take the popular blogging CMS app "WordPress" for example..

If you've used WordPress then you'd be familiar with the "non-clashing" method of working with content. WordPress creates what they call a "change set" and stores this change set in Json format. When another user tries to customize the theme, the current user's change set isn't affected... Instead a new changeset is created for the new user, hence the possibility of clashing is taken out. All done with WordPress, let's move on...
Now, you could benefit a great deal from this concept using the simulation process, but the only thing is you will need yours to be "notify-on-edit" rather than "non-clashing". I'd explain:

Notify-on-edit:
User A has a change set saved for a document he's working on, User B wants to work on the same document so a new change set is created for that same document notifying the user that another change set exists...the user can either wait or proceed editing the document.... There will be no clashing, remember you're using change sets now.... But when both users are done there'll be two versions of the document from two change sets... The end users are alerted and can "merge" both together.

Just see it as committing code to a repository.... Just the way git works, you'd also have to borrow some concepts..

I haven't tried this ever in my years of programming but if this works for you, you'll need to buy me a cup of coffee.

Ok. This scheme must br what visual studio uses. I some times work on same document on mutiple lunches of visual studio. Once I switch to a new lunch, it tells me that data for the document has been changed from an external source and ask to know whether or not I wish to load the new data. I can say yes or no.

But, no this is not what I want, users are not to be bordered in any way.It is the application in the device that gets notified and that must take the approoriate actions.

TheOtherGeek:


This sounds like a better approach because you need to fetch data intelligently, imagine an organization like Glam using this internally.. This workflow could work out better.
Except in the scenario where multiple users are working on a document at the same time...is this the case?

No two users work on thesame document but two or more users can be working with the same data at the same time. One or more users can update that same data at any time they wish and that data update must be reflected in other devices.

TheOtherGeek:
@queryunical it is indeed complex, and lol @ "Jason"

I could deduce that the app is kind of like a self hosted SaaS application..

For this kind of application, from what you told me...you can still get a scalable app that runs fast without switching database type. Have you tried the Slave - Master replication technique?
Even for a web app of a similar structure reading and writing into the same database could cause issues. But since you're talking realtime, that'll mean that some data won't be available for some "0.*" milliseconds... You could benefit from simulation in this case.

Apart from that, other problems seems to exist in the middleware...which boils down to "using the right algorithm". Give me a minimal code example of how the data is being sorted.

There is a central database that all devices that access the internet get data to via the singular webservice.

TheOtherGeek:
After reading your modified version of the post, I think you're using Java. Am I right?

Modded:
I think you're trying to do too much and the servers get stressed up... Things could stop working..

Why don't you fetch, store, edit and push back....must it be "realtime" can't the real time experience be simulated.?

Considering my last post, do you think the application shldn't be in real time.

Actually, in line with my simulation scheme,I have the plan to make the webservice(it services all devices) to send notification of data insertion from a different device to the other devices via a socket connection to the device. But then, I will need to come up with a scheme that will determine what new data insertion is relevant to that particular logged in user.It is a multi-user app with which users can carry out various word processing action depending on the data that is relevant to them.

TheOtherGeek:
After reading your modified version of the post, I think you're using Java. Am I right?

Modded:
I think you're trying to do too much and the servers get stressed up... Things could stop working..

Why don't you fetch, store, edit and push back....must it be "realtime" can't the real time experience be simulated.?

The problem is that for the internet connection users will be expected to access the database from different devices, web, mobile,etc.

If operation is not in real time, then some users will end up using outdated data.

TheOtherGeek:
After reading your modified version of the post, I think you're using Java. Am I right?

Modded:
I think you're trying to do too much and the servers get stressed up... Things could stop working..

Why don't you fetch, store, edit and push back....must it be "realtime" can't the real time experience be simulated.?

Please read my reply and respond appropriately.

Actually, I have a simulation version.
Each request successful request is saved to disk.Before making a remote connection, the client app tries to retrieve outcome of successful sumilar request from disk, if it finds none it then proceeds to make a remote connection.
The app only makes a remote connection for new request not- previously made request.

TheOtherGeek:

I've been in your shoes quite recently, funny enough I was working in a larger organization you all know (sorry names are private)..although we didn't make the mistake of starting with a relational database, of course it's a large team...but we did, however, make the mistake of inventing a new algorithm...

We later found out there was a more suitable algorithm that was well proven and tested, we had to switch we weren't much affected but deployment time was a little bit delayed.

Now, there are lots of algorithms out there for different use cases since Ada Lovelace's first Bernoulli numbers computing algorithm... Do your research first, you may need to outsource, you may need to spend it's what gives your product the mark of quality.. No man knows all my friend.

Concerning the slowness of your application... How is the remote data being fetched? I don't mean algorithm now but what tech? Are you using MySql remote connection or socket technology?
And also what language are you using..(I'm guessing C or VB)

The answer to ur question is some how complex.

First, the database can reside on the internet or an organisation network.

For the network, the app carries out socket connection to an installed server app requesting to save or receive data.
The server runs queries as neccessary to grant the client request. it returns success/failure status and requested data( if relevant) all in jason format.

Every request is sent in form of a numeral code along with associated data.
The server app simple retrieves d retrieves the numeral/ request code and passes it to a dll along with the entire data.The dll uses a switch statement to figure out the request type and call an appropriate functuon whose job is to grant the actual request.
The dll simply returns the return of value of the request executung function which is in jason format to.the client.

For the internet, the jason data is sent to a web service written in php which simply retrieves the request code and pass it and the entire jason data to the same dll which now exist as a php extension.
The client app and the dll is written in c++.

The database is mysql and I use c++ connector.

TheOtherGeek:


Depends on what I'm doing right now. I'd be glad to help though, so give me more details...
What algorithm?
Merge sort, bubble sort, Huftfman coding (greedy algorithm)... And what language?
My fingers could do with some little exercise.

I doubt if it any of the existing algorithm will be relevant. I think what I need is an absolutely new algorithm and an absolutely new data structure.

There is this word processing desktop app that I wrote. It uses data gotten from remote database over a nework in realtime. What I am experiencing is not 'real time' enough for me.In short, its processing time is too slow ,in my own opinion, to be called real time.

I am aware that is a bad idea for a word processor to run with data from remote database over a network because of users expect data in real time, but I believe I can crack this nut.

To be honest, I have not checked out all the existing algorithms yet because I am yet to fugure out the appropriate data structure. I think I really need to come up with an an entirely new algorithm and ADT.

Modified: I know moving away from a RDMS to a NoSQL database will help, but I
cant afford the time required for that move at this time.In case, you wondering what kind of data structure I am currently using, well at d moment I am using a set, list, and array (if I remember right), as for algorithm. I really did not deploy any. I did not see the need until now.

But if you know an algorithm and data structure that you think will meet my need kindly suggest them here an l'll check them out,but keep in mind that users must copy and paste in real time, type in real time scroll up and down in real time, carry out all normal word processing including image insertion, figures insertion, figures manipulation(like grouping,ordering, rotating,moving, edge and side extending etc) etc in real time.

And if you
must know my data are pointers to objects that model figures like rectangles, squares, textboxes and that hold information about their content,position, and orientation, font and colour in use and caret location which must all be updated and saved to database in realtime.

TheOtherGeek:
That's nice, well done

Would you be willing to help write a data structure given d specification?

Wow! This is quite revealing! I now finally know seun's personality type.

alpontif:
It is a simple matter.

Find a Bible. Read the whole of the new testament. Don't rush. Take your time.

As you are studying the new testament, Google "Andrew Wormack" and download and listen to any of his audio preaching, any.

Once you are done reading the bible, could take a week, don't panic, don't fear, once you are done with it, as you are listening to the downloaded audio, think about Jesus.

Think about God. Think about God's love for you.

It's hard. I know. It seems foolish even. I know.

Think about what you have studied.

Then say a prayer, thank God for leading you to know more about his power, say you accept jesus christ as your lord and saviour. Ask God for the holy spirit to come into your life. Thank him for all he has done. Say all those things. Make sure you say it out. You don't have to shout.

Then start asking God for whatever you want or wish for in your life.

The above seems ridiculously easy, even foolish. But try it first, and you will see that the forces of evil are nothing compared to the Power of God.

It might seem naive, but the above will set you free...if you do it, even if your belief is as little as a bacteria.

Now, when you do the above....there is a chance that the attacks will increase, yes, increase. You certainly don't expect the devil to give up like that. But do not fear, it's a sign that you are winning. Continue to pray, thank God for the Victory, and go out and start dating a woman with the intention to marry her.

You will certainly never experience the evil dreams again.

You don't need to worry, just give your life to Christ, ask for the holy spirit, and no force will be able to oppress you ever again. No force in existence.

It's easy,but hard, because it's easy.

Casa101 this is also a recommended post. Follow this counsel.

bloodofthelamb:
SIR, YOU NEED NO PASTOR OR PRIEST...ALL YOU NEED IS JESUS CHRIST OUR DELIVERANCE...THOUGH, I STAND UPON THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS! TO COMMAND THE SPIRIT WIFE TROUBLING YOU TO GO AND NEVER RETURN AGAIN IN YOUR LIFE...AMEN...AMEN. YOU ARE FREE AND DELIVERED...PUT YOUR FAITH IN CHRIST FROM NOW ON..

casa101 key into this prayer by faith and all ur problem is solved .U dont necessarily need a Pastor .What u need is a xtian who can excercise authority ovee d spirits troubling u. This brother has just done that . Give ur life to christ and stop living in sin. Join a pentecostal church. and live for God.

angelboy01:

Is high time u stop masturbation my guy, stop watching porns or imagining anyting dat is sexually explicit in real life…is nt only u, it happen to people due to over usage of the parasympathetic nerve supply to their penis as a result of excess masturbation and it is called “SEMEN LEAKAGE” and d dream part of it is as a result of wat u mastered ur brain wit, its all ur fault my guy, stop being silly!…. Anyway taken atleast 2 eggs in a day( I do prefer u take it raw) for a period of time will nt only stop ur leakage bt also help u grow nd more active. I was also affected by spirit wife but prayer is the key I swear, don't use one stupid soap or anything or meet one prophet for any solution. Pray against spirit wife and if you need prayer points to battle them let me know. Check my signature for my number I can send you the prayer points on whatsapp. But I beg u, Stop Masturbation. it doesn’t last!!

Peoplw who.are sexuall active dont masturbate. I dont think he masturbates.

casa101 Kindly confirm that you do or do notmasturbate.

adepeter2027:

They are ask fake as the talking serpent depicted in the Bible.

Effects of Marine spirits are mind control as a result of fear. Nothing more, nothing less

I am a born again xtian, but I agree wt you.

TimeMod1:
This is most ridiculous!
You can find information about me via a mode of online communication using the name of jesus??. Lol!, pass the weed!
By my fair share of knowledge, neither Jesus nor any of his disciples performed a miracle without a point of contact. How then would you find out the littlest about me?, I guess by prayer and
fasting!! LOL!.
Maybe you have something to prove, I may be convinced to accept your God if you would reveal to me who I am in some couple of hours, since you're so scared of the efficacy of my own spell.

Le me tell you how spell work. When you cast a spell, straight away, the spirits associated with the spell move into action to effect the instruction of the spell. The spell wilk succeed only if the target person lacks spiritual protection or if the target person doesn't have access to superior powers.

If the target person has access to superior
power or has spiritual protection, the spell may backfire or simply fail.

Spell do work, but they don't always work.For your information, your spell will never work with me Chances are that they will backfire.

Look, I advise you. Quit backing on spell they often fail.On the contrary, give your life to christ ang gain access to suprerior never-failing power.

Get rid of that seven books of moses that you are you are banking on.It will fail you again and again.

TimeMod1:
This is most ridiculous!
You can find information about me via a mode of online communication using the name of jesus??. Lol!, pass the weed!
By my fair share of knowledge, neither Jesus nor any of his disciples performed a miracle without a point of contact. How then would you find out the littlest about me?, I guess by prayer and
fasting!! LOL!.
Maybe you have something to prove, I may be convinced to accept your God if you would reveal to me who I am in some couple of hours, since you're so scared of the efficacy of my own spell.

I am not scared of the efficacy of your kind of spell use it if you can. What I am saying I can attacj you if I have good reasons to without hsving any knowdge of you. All I need do is direct my attack at the nairalsnder with the username TimeMode. Ur username is enough for me.But since christians don't go about attavking pple I wont attack you because I have no good reason to. However if you attempt to attack me. You give me good reasons to attack you. I will never initiate an attack without good or justifiable cause, just as I will not send u my pics to make a point.

God's power is not for show off nor is it for oppression. I hope you get it now.