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majekdom2:
why should it go bye bye??

majekdom2:
what happens after the marriage? Will you rather remain in a marriage as hell or stay single. I will share my experience. So, I had this chic we bee dating for 3 years. Issues started coming up and yea things started going apart. One day, I checked into her Facebook page and saw she was discussing marriage with different men even in other countries. It left me depressed a I wa not ready then. We later went our different ways. Long story short, she is still single, we talked and she was ready to continue with me bu the truth is I have been loved differently and still in love with a girl that has stuck with me regardless the odds. Even if I find out this babe is doing something fishy, I ll know I have messed up. My point is, this principle is based on selfish interest. It doesn't hold. Marry your bestfriend, your lover not just a "proposer" for the sake of your marriage and kids.

porozhniy:
What makes you think it must stop after marriage?
It ain't no crime, remember?

loswhite:
you make it sound like a game. Life is risk love is risk. Committing to one person is risk before or after marriage. The best advice is not to love not to marry stay alone and be safe no risk

majekdom2:
a man does not have any upper hand. As I said, it's the society you have found yourself. In most developed countries, the woman gets better in the divorce case... it keeps the men in checks. Back to the argument, so why do you women complain your spouse is cheating. If you can agree to dating multiple partners then you should be fine with having juinor wives.

nameo:
Aii.... But are you also up to your guy multiple "dating" at the same time?

majekdom2:
have you not seen divorce cases after 6 months of marriage. Let's be reasonable here. There is no particular principle to getting married and staying married other than knowing your spouse an praying for God's grace.

loswhite:
have not seen why guys sacrifice everything for a girl and the girl dumps him?

Giel:
you were able to get it,
some people won't read and understand the article and will rush to comment

morscino:
I totally agree with d writer,getting married is like getting a job,u can't say becos u went for an aptitude test in a firm,then u shld cancel all other applications.
This is d reason why d baddest guys marry d best girls and d baddest girls marry d best guys...I've seen it happen a lot.

Halfpenny:
Wow! You are like the only person who gets it. It's nothing to do with sex but rather socialising. This is an old school mentality. My mother and aunties used to say a beautiful woman should date (chat to ) 30 and chooses 1.

It's not about being a slut or a gold digger blah blah but about being a woman of value! Now they want us to grow old behind one boyfriend who will eat and use up your beauty and then tell you 2, 4, 6, years later that actually you're not his type or that he wants to be alone blah blah and now you're stuck dealing with low self-esteem and other issues. I recommend this approach to any smart woman.

Halfpenny:
This makes perfect sense. No body said that you should sleep with them at all but you should go out on dates until one proposes commitment. This is nothing to do with sex to those shouting slut! It's about meeting other men and having a pool of men to choose from instead of waiting for 1 man to decide if he really wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Biggest pro of this kinda set up is that you won't be too attached to one man. I will definitely be considering it.

kimbra:
Where did you see money there on what I said?. Must you broke NL guys always bring money into everything?.

omerta07:
And i ask you this one question, when you eventually want to have sex, do you do it to please"him" or you do it to satisfy yourself??
The way ladies talk about sex these days makes one wonder if they dont enjoy sex too...

izzou:
God never ordained same sex marriage. So thanking God for it is just mocking him.

You don't thank God when you sin. You beg for forgiveness

veekid:
So Tboss is popular than Bisola for your mind abi? Dey mumu yourself o

BigBrother9ja:

This dumb bltch should remove that nose ring

jboycrb:
Hmmm. See scope, he won't come for u.

DavSagacity:
for ur mind abi...
if the guy toast you ...u sure say u go reject..?,
abegi pack well Jare make u leave that thing.

sunkieisland:
millionaires no dey worwor for some babes face. the money will make him handsome......


after all


beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
..... especially when money is involved

toprealman:
Few months from now if everything works according to plan, you will sing a different song.

saraphina:
but e money fine sha...

Mikylopez:
pained?

jeromzy:
and is psquare ur role model?

muller101:
I hope ur digging tools are well sharpened?