₦airaland Forum

Definitely!
But no need to get aggressive, do it in a civilised manner

Octevia:
Nevertheless some men are worth fighting over

I don't give a fvck if my bf/husband cheat on me, it's very irrelevant and not something I take personally , I don't know why but that's just how I am....or maybe I'm running mad

pocohantas:
Why are the men angry?
Why do lots of men get angry when women say they can't tolerate cheats? Are they scared of being alone?

If yes, why not change? Instead of changing, they prefer to use scare tactics and threaten women...saying they'll grow old in their father's house. Isn't it better to get old in your father's house, than to die prematurely in your husband's house?

I believe all the diversities, conflicts will lead to a revolution, it's all about the waiting....because it will definitely take place due to natural laws.

If you see the UK has a well structured system where you have England, wales, Scotland and Ireland to make one country even though their government system are diverse. That's how Nigeria should restructure. It would be great for Nigeria. So the south west, east, south and the north will have their own system of government but in one country. I think it could work, the only thing that could hinder it is personal greed.

deedeedee1:
There is reason why i fight for an only yoruba republic. I do not want benin and itshkiri people to join. This is because we will form another "mini nigeria"...which will not be good for us at all. It will hinder our progress. The minorities will always complain of being marginalized.
The igbos that attach themselves the niger deltans to form biafra do not know what is to come. They will regret they form a country with the niger deltans when the country eventually splits. Niger deltans themselves will have many problems, because of too much diversity. E.g Ijaws and urhobo, ijaws and itsekiri, benins and so on.
I should not be talking about biafra anyways.

Yeah you are right about the eat today and not think of tomorrow aspect but don't you think the African kind of greed is way too much than the normal human greed because I've seen politicians in Europe that are greedy but not the way African politicians are, at least they think about their people and about the future.

AHCB:
Personal greed? I think not. It's all about expanding ones mind to stop thinking small.

The mind of a Nigerian is basically concerned with what it will eat today, nothing more, nothing less.

Let's not forget, greed is something possess by almost every human on this earth.

Yea and that poverty mentality relates to personal greed, if you know what I'm saying

AHCB:
Restructuring Nigeria isn't the problem. Changing our mentality is. Poverty has caused untold damage to the mindset of the average Nigerian.

True! And the diversity doesn't seem to end, because here comes Biafra.

deedeedee1:
Regionalism will change nothing. Can i also tell you that our diversity is also a bad system. Dont get me wrong. There is nothing wrong in diversity. But when you have 300 ethnic groups, and there are 3 majority, with each one of them making up 20 percent of the country's population, then that itself is a bad system.

No i was trying to draw my bf's attention to this topic
With that being said, good afternoon sir

dragonking2:
Is the OP your boyfriend?

Asin! The corruption level is far beyond...

AHCB:
What good is a system when the people controlling the system are corrupt than the word corrupt?

Us? Who are the us?

I was having a conversation with the op thank you

dragonking2:
Wetin concern us with your boyfriend?

All hail the only girl child!

I agree with you! My bf was saying the same thing!

Why can't he drop 30k out of the 70k for bills and responsibilities ehn?! What is he using the remaining 90% of the salary for? To go to the brotel and fvck ashawo abi?

Didn't you read the part where she said he buys expensive stuff on credit and get loans where the family have little to spare and have bills and responsibilities to take care of? Isn't that pure wickedness? If it were the other way around I know we ladies will not hear word. Rubbish!

dingbang:
please .. Because she is earning 250k and supporting her own family, we won't hear word again.. Women will always want theirs to be heard. If na d man now dey provide, we won't say anything.. Abi are they not her children? Now you tell me.. What can 70k do? How much is school fees per child...

Solid points! You hit the nail on the head!

Khonifer:
You should understand that these "instagram girls" are only doing so because the method always works.

Men would always talk about how they don't want a slay queen for a wife, how she must bring more than sex to the table blah. One fine girl winks at them and next thing they are already rigid.

These seemingly "dumb slay queens" will end up getting married to rich old men that will abandon their family for them, spend their days travelling round the world and when he dies, most, if not all his properties would be given to them.

If all you have to do is look good and have sex to make a living.. Why go the hard way?

Chai! I pity your future wife
She's going to be a slave woman

dingbang:
Biko please what can 70k salary achieve in this Nigeria... You are not a supportive wife...

Vikings and kkk clans in Nigeria? And they are Nigerians?

That's harsh

AHCB:
Quinn Quinn, she was given 200 recharge card, she still wasn't grateful. I'm sure giving her 1k recharge card would make her a first class b1tch.

Hmmm....it's her luck sha

Benita27:
She was specific she needed a call card of N200. If she need N500 or 1k card she would have told me directly than trying to play on my intelligence.

Why didn't you just give her 1k recharge card, it's no biggie

Benita27:
It's just recharge card na. Give her, no biggie. What I hate most is when some bìtches try to play smart.

One of my gfs called once that she was in school, broke and needed airtime to call home for money. Lol, I sent her N200 airtime which was delivered. She never called me, I called back to confirm if she got it, and she told me she never got a text from me. I tried using it on my phone and was told the card has been used by another customer. Lol, I was mad. How ungrateful could some people be. Called her back and asked her if she mistook me for her bf before deleting her number and blocking her on all my contacts.

Any lady that tries to impress any guy and makes it her sole priority is a BIG ODE!

Please ladies, only try to impress your hubby to be Biko

Your first priority is to impress yourself career wise, your family and lastly your hubby to be. Simple!

Op your title is driving the females away

Lies from the pit of your yansh!

You got it all wrong!
It's united we fall, divided we stand!

hisroyalrealnes:
United we stand....devided we fall.....

One Nigeria oshi wo!

Lemmi ask the gods.....ashakalajfhdijffnfjfudjdnd

The gods has spoken! This match would end in a draw!

Now all of you! Go in peace!

No responsible woman will want to get involved with wizkid

So wizkid should please enjoy his baby-daddyism for the rest of his irresponsible life

You forgot to mention flavour

Enuguboy4nsk:
Afonjas and baby mama be like 5 $ 6

check most afonja musicians from davido;WizKid;olamide..all have babe mama

but check Igbo musicians like P-square. they've got legal wives.

Afonjas bu 'amu-ezu-ike'

Eya my hero is asleep?! You would be missed!

Gbam!!!

I don't watch that show

PokeTotoBoy:
I donut think any of this is in agreement or encouraged baby mama. It is from oyinbo we copy this behavior.

Meanwhile r u still keeping up with the Kadashians

Safiaaa:
One night stand? Not even in your wildest dream could you even touch a strand of my hair. Loser.

Op I agree with you

Okay

Empredboy:
either you show us a picture of a step by step preparation of your prepared jollof rice or your boyfriend confirms it

How?

Empredboy:
show us prove