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It depends on the understanding between two partners. If both of you can come to an agreement, why not?

Okay

watchindelta:
u fine! show us ur pic

OMG! such beauty!!!

refiner:
We all are beautifully and fearfully made...we can do without make up right?...

Infact i don't apply make up...cos it instead makes u feel or look older than your age...

This thread is just to make those with low self exteem to feel confident and realize that they can do without make ups and look super dope!

So let's share our no make up photos...no dulling pls..

#NoMakeUpFreak!
#NotAshamed

Please..no insults...

RIP! To English!

QueenSuccubus:




Are u sure she didnt saw u when ur trying to unlock ur phone? U know these oldies sha they have this telescopic eyes

Ooh yes! Ooh yes! Ooh yes! Don't be surprised ooo...

Hmmm.... see publicity stunt.

She sharp oh!

Is that what p-square told you?

jeromzy:
no man us ugly..

Efe too worwor abeg!

Ehn?! P-Square talk true na.....70% of Nigerian guys especially Nairaland guys (90%) are fucking ugly and broke

ABI! Guys are the worst kind when it comes to money and gold digging
And they say girls like money
If I hear!

alexialin:
that's a good one too
I bet will he appreciate u a great deal for it.

No mind broke hungry guys on this forum.
They wont allow ladies hear word.
They should just spell it out.. Women give us money!!!!
And lots of it.. In sacks!
Then all their insults and complain about their Gfs will end..

Are you for real?! We should figure it out?!
I guess you are not ready for girls to change then. I think you just like to complain and pick on girls for no reason. You just exposed yourself shio!

It's our problem but you keep complaining ladies have nothing to offer?! It's very clear you guys are the same as us girls because guys like you don't know what they want

Case closed!

MEGGATRON:
lol, even if I speak I speak for myself what difference would that make? [b]you ladies should figure it out, its your problem. [/b]

Chai! See as you open their yanshes!

alexialin:
My dear, guys asking such questions are simply irresponsible.
They know what they want but they are ashamed to say it.
And we ladies know what u guys saying this trash wants.
Let admit it! They are broke, lazy and y'all clamouring for what does a woman bring, they simply want money!
Oh yes! Money and lots of it too. That's why they are ashamed to even utter it out..

Make una come collect!
Ladies have become Central Bank..
Lazy bunch!
Don't go and look for work do, Op and his cohorts.. Lol
Dey wait for large bags of money from your women. U hear??
Una go wait taya!

Nice

Financial support when I can
My time
Emotional support
Sexual support when I can
Help him with the chores when I can
Nurturing when I'm in a good mood
Being extremely patient and a good listener.

alexialin:
For me? I bring emotional stability, true love, humility, a good listening ear, and I stand by him through thick and thin.

And mind yall guys here, waiting to hear financial support.

He sees its as disrespect to his ego, the first time I talked about money issues. He loves taking charge financially and he feels it's his task and responsibility to handle all financial matters. And yes he seeks my opinion if it has anything to do with us.

I simply make him grounded emotionally. And he's so happy
Love you boo boo..
And thanks Seun.
If not for Nairaland, we wouldn't have met each other

If you can't answer the question, how do you expect the ladies to provide you the attributes you expect from them? If you can't give an answer, then keep quiet and stop complaining!

MEGGATRON:
i'm not telling......I know where this is heading.

The guys can't tell the ladies what they expect from them, this is because they don't know what they want. And they expect the ladies to change, it's a big shame to them because they don't even know the answer to their questions. What a bloody shame!

alexialin:
If Nigerian guy do not want this attributes from his girl.

What then does a Nigerian guy want??

Cos am not understanding where this is heading to

Tell us point blank what u want from a girl yur dating.

It's better to say it and let the ladies know or hold your peace and stop complaining about ladies not having anything to offer, because it shows you don't know what you want at the end of the day.

MEGGATRON:
What the man is lacking. it varies by each man's needs.

Okay what do you want from a lady?

MEGGATRON:
What the man is lacking. it varies by each man's needs.

So what do you expect a lady to offer?

MEGGATRON:
I don't know what relationship is to you, actually I do but that's not the issue here. it isn't a competition but an exoneration between both parties, if one is offering more than the other it becomes a burden.

its a quid pro quo practice, it should be fair and balance in good faith.

Because you were beaten like an animal when you were a child doesn't mean other children have to suffer the same fate. I guess you are an animal in human skin

I just pity your children

uzoclinton:
Nigeria is turning into something else
.. So because of this small beating w won't hear word again. when I was a kid koboko was my best friend....

Anyways its Better to cane her and avoid stories that touch the heart (we all know what some neighbours are capable of doing....) than to spare the rod and end up regretting

Mr man! What do you expect a lady to contribute to the relationship?

If men have no answer, I guess they are no different from the ladies

legendsilver:
Y are you escaping the question? You have only rained down insults since the beginning of the topic. Now its clear that you have actually not contributed to his life, meaning you are a parasite in the life of that gentle guy that work all day to make end meet.

Just run far from me cus the topic was not directed to you initially.

Why can't you answer it for us ladies

leoshouse:
No disrespect Sis, but have you wondered if he could easily get these things you listed from any other RANDOM lady?

Okay so you are lucky you have a good guy. Lets take a look at an average Nigerian guy, trust me, any girl can offer what you listed.

I think the problem is ladies are in an industry where their "substitutes" offers better package and these ladies don't try to upgrade or get better.

No lady has still answered the OP's question!!

Does it matter?! Na wa oh! You are sounding as if a relationship is a competition

MEGGATRON:
OK, although no one is measuring but [b]what he does outweighs yours. [/b]

So what do you expect a lady to bring to the table?

MEGGATRON:
"support and encourage" and if she isn't there to do that the man would go astray? [b]bros we have family and friends for that.

"A good woman will always set her man on the right path"
yeah thats if the man is on the wrong path which is unusual.

[/b]

Cleopatra4:
OMG please someone help me I'm going gaga right now.

I don't know why the Op should be worried when his gf already explained to him that the family doctor has everything under control, that his gf won't have a problem getting pregnant, unless he's planning to leave her.

I smell distrust

Yes I did read it through

If it were the other way round, would he like it for her to abandoned him because his sperm count is low?

He said:I don't want to find myself in a situation whereby we will be unable to have kids on the long run.

So he's thinking of leaving her. And some people are like, "don't let love blind your eyes"

Those people that are saying such, I know they won't want their gf to leave them if they have a low sperm count.

Gangster1ms

JamesReacher:
What is this one using to compare? Impotence and irregular menstrual flow. You read it through?

He said: I don't want to find myself in a situation whereby we will be unable to have kids on the long run.

That means he's thinking of abandoning her

BarrElChapo:
Your reply is all wrong. He is worried he didn't say he has left or wants to leave... if he were impotent won't she be worried and seek advice too

Op if it were the other way round, would you want her to abandon you if you're impotent?
If you can answer this question, you've gotten your answer.

BossAndaz:
Hello friends,
Please i have been dating this lady for quite sometime now and I really do like her but each time I think of getting married to her I get worried about a certain condition she has.
I observed that she hardly talks about her period and when I asked her about it she opened up and told me that she doesn't have a regular flow. She sees her period like at most three times a year or so.
She said her family doctor has told her not to worry that when she is set for marriage they is something they will do so that she wouldn't have issues with getting pregnant.

This has been so worrisome and I don't want to find myself in a situation whereby we will be unable to have kids on the long run.

Please does anyone know about this sort of situation?

That means girls too can cheat on their boyfriends but can't cheat on their husbands

Sounds fair to me

I understand! He should avoid looking at the comments, I know it's tempting but he should resist the temptation

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Oh! Well I guess he couldn't take it no more. You know these people get daily tongue lash from trolls and fans alike.

This is just one of those times he chose to reply one of them. I feel it depends on a person's mood. Sometimes he jokes with such things, if you follow him you'd know that.[/color]

Actually I did ignore

IamAirforce1:
Not every hate comment you ignore.

You've been rudely attacked in Romance section and I didn't see you ignore.

The best thing to do is to ignore

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Any personal experience? [/color]

Is it by force to comment? Can't he ignore?!
Any reasonable human being would ignore.

IamAirforce1:
If someone talk down on your hustle out of hate, you go understand Davido's feeling.

He's on point.