₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Well, OP refers to an old system that insists on giving the husband of the woman the right to claim all children born during a marriage as his own -- adoption in the case that the child is not his. That is why I included the mention of adoption in that response.

So you do get the old system. I thought you said you didn't get it. Women could even marry other women to have children for them (no lesbianism involved)

Hungrychicken:
You should be ashamed of yourself as a woman, if you can't point your child’s father, so much that you need a DNA to help you out.

E.g the case of Davido, where the lady said that the artist impregnated her, but the artist denied ever meeting her. Now the child is a bastard.

Now imagine Davido married to this lady, happily raising their child, then all of a sudden that lalami guy says they must do a DNA test. FOR WHAT??

[quote author=Secretbloodline post=140030195][/quote]Quite interesting post. The whole point of the ban is to NOT go fishing for bastards where none exists! Throughout human history there were no DNA tests and we somehow managed to survive.
Also, there is no such thing as bastard. The act of copulation that results in a child makes a woman your wife while the act lasted. So bastard is impossible

CoolUsername:
Adoption is something that you go into voluntarily. Paternal fraud is making a man raise another guy's kid under false pretenses. These are completely different topics.

But how is it "another guy's kid" when you're the only father he's known and will ever know, carries forward your name, and references you as source of anything he becomes?
But this is not even about that. This is about upending a family's settled life by going on unnecessary fishing expeditions!

bentenny:
There is a reason why paternity fraud exists and why it should be exposed instead of being condoned.
Why should I take up father responsibilities of a child that was born out of a lie?
What should happen is every child must be subjected to a DNA test to ascertain if the man taking care of them is their real father.
This will make mothers to be more accountable.

Well, DNA never existed all this while and humanity somehow managed to survive!
But this is not even about paternity fraud. This is about upending a child's and family's settled life by going on a DNA fishing expedition

Hezmatosky210:
But jokes apart, there's elements of truth here o. Because after the love and bond with my children from pregnancy to infancy to adolescent to adult, many times we've shared love, sufferings, laughter, pains and joy together then one idiot from nowhere wants to drag me to go and do DNA, as how naw? The fact is that, I will never ever want to think whether the children are mine or not. Children wey i nurture from pregnancy till now

Thank you! Some stranger is introduced to you at 40 as the sperm donor, and suddenly he becomes dad, no longer the only father you've known since infancy!

omooba969:
You're not making sense.

You were asked HOW?

Change4dbeta:
What of at old age, the woman tells the children you are not their father and the children leave you together with mother to meet their true father.



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Children never behave like that. Dad is dad not some stranger they don't know who they are told donated sperm.
Besides, children leave their BIOLOGICAL fathers all the time

AkuBrz:
Gbam you have said it all

I'm not pregnant at all. I'm a man, men don't get pregnant!

LZAA:
Obviously this thread is ragebait
But "OP" the reason DNA testing exists apart from identification is to also
*save lives
*catch and absolve crime/criminals
And finally to trace origins
If the world was to follow your ragebait suggestion the chaos would be unimaginable
There is more to the world than flimsy flings and reckless reproduction ya know

This is why I put MINORS in capitals but mod changed it. NOT ban DNA, just DNA of MINORS!

Abas01:
Nice thread, but I see two major reasons as to why you (a female) is writing this..

1: you are pregnant for someone but would prefer another innocent man to be the father of the child.

2: you have been a in a situation where a DNA was conducted and it affected your childhood and upbringing..

Either ways even though I don’t see sense in banning DNA, I understand your pain

You are totally wrong. I am.male. NOT banning DNA but Banning DNA for minors!

Ashirioluwa:
This is your own personal opinion which I believe the real men outside there will totally ignore.

It also makes a lot of sense

faceland:
You have the right to know if it's your blood or not.

If government ban it, it would just go underground with quacks and even more dangerous implication.

You are one of few that actually try to make a point instead of insulting.
Well DNA is not cheap. Banning will make it even more expensive. And I suspect most men simply want to raise their children in peace, satisfied they're all his biological children

Ashirioluwa:
I believe and support the idea that paternity testing should be required for a father to be listed on a child's birth certificate.

I am not here to raise someone’s child. After the child’s birth, if the DNA test proves otherwise and the man decides to assume parental responsibility, that is acceptable.

YourGFsnatcher:
What kind of weed are you smoking

Yet people pay millions to buy children in black market that are clearly not their DNA, and people fight tooth and nail to gain custody of children.
And how is it "someone’s child"??
A child that knows only you as father yet you want DNA fishing expedition.
Simple: any child your wife has is your child - enforced by govt by banning DNA of children!

GenFunction:
Are you scared of accountability?
“ Going back to how it used to be” as how nau

Throughout human history there was no DNA test. That's how it used to be!

Ashirioluwa:
The child will not know you as his father if you do dna test at early stage.

You need to erase this crazy talk from your head.

How do you know you father is your biological father or your forefathers were your biological forefathers?
DID THEY DO DNA??

grandstar:
Thats in a perfect world

In addition, adultery is a sin. I can still divorce my wife but still have some love for the child.

But we're not talking of adultery. We're talking of going on a fishing expedition of DNA test

CanadaOrBust:
You are simply right - if one stops going by instinct like an animal! We are not lower animals. We are humans!. God gave us brains and we ought use it to override base instincts!

Here's what I further wrote the guy:

Seriously, learn to THINK. It will free you from living by instinct like an animal. For example it will free you from the irrational obsession with DNA. Thinking will let you see that what makes a person your son and you their father is NOT sperm!

And this:

Can't you see that some of your forefathers might not have been your biological forefathers? All through history there has never been DNA. Sometimes, unbeknownst to the father, the most successful of his children is not even his biological child, but he gets all the accolade as his father and the child carries his name and proudly references him as his father.
Can't you see that matters way more than sperm??

I like this your post too much. I hope you don't mind me tagging people on it starting with these ones below.
Nature gave we animals an extremely strong instinct to have our genes survive and most of our actions are dictated by that instinct. But as humans with brains why must we be exactly like lower animals?? We ought USE OUR BRAINS to see that survival of our particular genes benefits us NOTHING! What is important is that we live a fulfilled, satisfying life that includes as much of life as possible, including fatherhood!

Mcslize:
I guess you didn't write that with clear eyes 👀. Say no to colos please.
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[quote author=Denver88 post=140029950]This person is evil

SMT042:
When the Marijuana u smoke clear from ur eyes , come back come read dz shit again.

Hezmatosky210:
But jokes apart, there's elements of truth here o. Because after the love and bond with my children from pregnancy to infancy to adolescent to adult, many times we've shared love, sufferings, laughter, pains and joy together then one idiot from nowhere wants to drag me to go and do DNA, as how naw? The fact is that, I will never ever want to think whether the children are mine or not. Children wey i nurture from pregnancy till now

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deavicky:
if sperm dose not determine father allow ur wife to be having kids for from another sperm donnor.

.Couples where the husband can't impregnate do exactly this. Then there are those who pay millions to basically buy a child!

CanadaOrBust:
You are right! Exactly what I was trying to tell the
GenFunction guy on another thread.

Here's exactly what I wrote him:
I'm teaching you to THINK rather than going by mindless instinct. Nature gave us strong instinct to have our genes survive exactly like lower animals. That's why men have an instinctive urge to sleep with as many women as possible - thereby guaranteeing survival of their genes.
But you can override that animal instinct with THOUGHT! If you THINK about it, your particular genes surviving benefits you NOTHING. What's important is that you are father to a well-raised child who respects and references you as his father!

Thanks. Couldn't have said it better

RISQUE:
There is nothing sensible about what you just wrote. Mods, stop moving senseless topics to the front page please.

Can you please tell us exactly what is not sensible about it point by point before telling mods what to move and what not to move!

Kalulu44:
Who told you they were ban

That's the tory we were told. How they beat Nigeria 99-1. How they will disappear and appear at the other end scoring a goal.

Come to find out there is a simple reason: they never qualify!😅
Big for nothing like Naija!

Ibrahimcoomasie:
Argentina's Peso is officially worthless.

I wonder wht Peter Obi and Atiku would say to this since they said Nigeria should emulate Argentina.

https://x.com/i/status/2076649884510294475

Same with Iranian Rial. See below

yomi007k:
Well, let me join in your conversation.

We need to try something new as the present police force appears to be overwhelmed with just about 400,000 for a population of over 250 million. I know some federal police officers and I can tell you that some spend about 2 weeks on duty before getting a few days off and that to me is not good for the mental health.

Most public institutions in Nigeria are overwhelmed. I work in the health sector and I can tell you that this is one of our challenges.

Adding state police to compliment the efforts of the federal might help improve security situation just as we have street security guards in our neighbourhood.

Just this evening on my way from work, I saw 5 soldiers guarding a Chinese construction worker. These are soldiers that could have been in the front line reducing terrorist activities.

Soldiers doing that is ILLEGAL! It is corruption! And that's the problem that will also occur with state police. But I think it'll be better than what we have now

RightChannel:
Islam growing is not about conversion but about birth rates!

True also. But growth is growth. Eventually they'll dominate everything by shere numbers

guobe:
If the present set up by federal is not functioning properly, I don't see the state doing better.
Copy copy without no blue print will do us no good.

The problem is, I personally think almost anything is better than NPF. One advantage is that each state will now be almost totally responsible for their security. If they spend money to have a good police department they'll be more secure than those who refuse to or can't.
It will no longer be one-size-fits-all.
The huge downside is that inevitably the state police will become private property of the governor and I don't see how that can be avoided in a place like Nigeria. In US the state and local police departments are truly independent. Thst won't happen in Nigeria

guobe:
Let's give them the benefit of the doubt, there may be something they know that we don't know.

We're just copying US as we did with presidential system of govt. But just because it works in US doesn't mean it will work. Just as we created a waay too powerful presidency because we copied US without having any of the elements that keep a US president in check. Same way, state police won't work well in Nigeria because the people are too corrupt. BUT I think it is still better because NPF is totally rotten!

HardMirror:
Most people supporting Iran on nairaland do not want you to know that majority of the people of Iran are fighting against the regime and want to be free. They do not want you to know that the Iranian government has killed thousands of its own citizens just because they are protesting to be free.

Very true. Still Islam is by far the fastest growing religion in the world. See below

seunlayi:
Your comparism is precise. Thank God some of us freed ourselves PHCN vs Gen. Thanks to the free sunshine.

God Bless America and Isreal Jare, ọkọ awọn terrorist

Which one be PCHN? We call it NEPA!!

Emmamay10:
When is the war monger country called Russia is going to play its Fifa world cup 2026 opening match?

How about India, by far the most populous nation on earth
Oh I heard they banned them because they use juju to too easily win every match!

Unfortunately for him nationality is NOT by skin color or place of birth

Lordogaebuka:
Chai this illiterate police officer work is gone. He could have been able to deny the sexual offences but he was caught on camera assaulting her. Welcome to the streets 😂

Flangelo12:
He'll be an ex police office.

It is funny how this guy below pointed out that the story is over 5 years old and the guy was not police, and everybody just ignored him!😂

CanadaOrBust:
This story is over 5 years old (FIVE YEARS!!!)
It happened March 13, 2021.
Nairaland and clueless mods, I hail o!
And yes, he was masturbating. And no, he was not a police officer but a driver.