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Olami90:
I won't have said it better. You covered all.

I think there is a lil hope on nairaland girls now with what I have seen from you one other moniker 2days ago.

We need more of you, not the dull heads that argues blindly and always justify their gold-digging prowess.


God bless you quin.....
(Loving you already)

Thanks.

firstking01:
Hope you didn't write this just to gain traffic?...
Anyway, i 'll just applaud you for this write up.

And what will I do with the traffic? Do I own Nairaland? I'm simply putting across a heartfelt message in the hope that some people, even if it's just one person would imbibe the lessons.

IamLEGEND1:
if only you practice what you preach.
but I've given up on that ish a long time ago.
the average naija girl wants you to feed her and her entire family while she fücks other guys on the side. All in the name of not putting all her eggs in a basket.

Everyone isn't average... At least not as far as mentality is concerned.

You say you've given up, but I'm pretty sure you intend to get married and to a woman that's worth the trouble. So, dear, Legend, revive the hope.

Olami90:
Op don't mind people like this. Bad belle won't allow some be able to defecate again when it get to a time.
No amount of cross over nights service can give some breakthrough.

Ignore and do your things, what is important is the message you want to pass

Yea. Thanks.

brownhawk:
no u wish. I'm everything her husband is not

You're not and will never be. She was stupid once. She's past that, but you're obviously still stuck in that time.

Odunharry:
Si what happened?

Distance happened... We both got too busy... Distractions set in.

Neyoor:
Did you mean OP is not the copyright owner of this well-written piece?

He doesn't know what he's saying.

truthsayer007:
Hmmmmmm nice copy and paste tho. Keep it up !

You might as well show me the source It was copied from.

Mindset Modification... Learn to stop putting others down unnecessarily... And without facts.

Now, this is a brand new year and we all know the psychological feeling it comes with. We feel as though we've been given a fresh slate to write our fate on. But our mindset goes a long way in determining what we become and the results we get. So, for me, these are things I feel we should take cognizance of and effect changes in...

*. It's just about time girls stopped seeing guys as their money bag! Hustle! We have more successful men simply because they know from the get-go that they have to be successful otherwise no one would look after them. But most girls just seem to think there'd always be a man to take care of them till they wither and die. Don't date a man because he's an extra source of income. I'd rather you even date a man just because you want to f*ck him. But ideally, date a man only because you care about him, because you want a possible future with him!

* Quit Following the Crowd. This goes out to the girls, too. You know you're a broke ass, why you going to ridiculous means to keep up with trends and look all flashy? You're just a fool. Learn to live below your means (if you ever want to get rich and stay rich). Yes. Better that way. Otherwise, live according to your means ,but never above your means.

*Develop Virtues and Core Values. Is there any tinge of morality in you? Is there any commendable positive thing about you for which you can beat your chest? How are you different from the lot of girls we see around? By what principles do you live your daily life?

*. Everything in a relationship should be mutual and not one-sided.

*.Think about Making it in Life. Think about legitimate and decent hustles! You can be rich, too!

* Stop acting as though you competing with every fellow girl you see.

*.If you find a man who's ideal for you, hold him close and never let him go!

* Don't be in a hurry to screw any man. Honestly, I beg you. Abstain! But if you must, then give it time.

* Find your God!

Add yours...

Orikinla1:
Broke girls with broke boyfriends suffer a lot.
One went about starving and using pieces of her T-shirt for sanitary towels.
One day, she came to me and wept about her broke boyfriend.
Then she suddenly pulled off her blouse without any bra and offered me her thing in exchange for her welfare.
She tried for months.
But I rejected it, because her boyfriend was my friend.
Then she stopped coming. And I never told him till date
Real men provide for their women..

Cooked up story!

TrapQueen77:




Oohh dear..


I agree with u when u said that men shud not be in relationship when he is broke.. But I think every female is born with survival instinct.. So whether we're broke or not, we will find ways how to survive in general..

True.

Now, I'm beginning to think some people decide to get married just because of pre-wedding photos concepts.

brownhawk:
not my sister but I remember those days I used to bang my step aunty before she got married. till now I still see that respect and love in her eyes

Respect and love! You just wish!

Odunharry:
chaii.. U don make me stop dey eat this food.

Lol. Sorry.

dabrightt:
Came here to read comment..where are the calabar boys...

What's your problem with Calabar people?

EWAagoyin:
what dere to cope about...my blood sister fa....I don't even see her sexually pleasing atall...my blood o....the thinking alone is giving headache sef ...why all dis useless questions sef....the op is a pervert serious one

Lol. I can feel how irritated you are over the Op's post. The truth is that he already has impure thoughts. No matter how little they may be.

Even if she's 19, she's silly!

Awwn. Brings a lovey dovey relationship to mind. We were once like this.

All these people, sef!

I don't know why everyone is celebrating the guy. What he did was plain dumb! WTH is take your number? He's looking for an easy lay, girl ain't ready to play ball! Nonsense .

This is surely beyond what any one of you can comprehend...it isn't love, neither is it money.

Dating stupidly!

dabrightt:
are you from calabar or edo or ondo which of the three

What's with the whole hypocrisy you all like to peddle? I'm not from any of those places. I'm from Argentina.

I broke up with my bf once because I thought his joystick was small. Unfortunately, prior to him, I had had none to compare. And when I tried a second one, I realized my bf was just perfect. I need not try a third.

Honestly, I love these pre-wedding pics!

The little light-skinned girl. Is she a part of the family, too?

jakandeola:
is very wrong cos any woman dat does dat doesnt want save her marrage.beforr children, u have man as husband yhe children will grow yet the husband remain d same. a woman belong to her husband simple as abc

What's this one saying?

Dfrenzy:
Hmmm... nice one, so what do you think is the best way to approach this? Thanks

Don't indulge her... Just let her continue putting in all the effort.

Bahddo:
i believe it's the first one. Girls usually like the attention more than the guy giving it.

Stop giving her attention and she'd start wondering if there's a girl you find more attractive, or if the attention she used to get was all in her head.

Exactly.

Talk about perfect imperfections, instead... This means that, a person may be imperfect, but such imperfections suit you. You can deal with them.