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RomanceRe: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Quintessential1(f): 12:29pm On Jan 03, 2017
Sacluxpaint:
Yes, the guy lamenting.
How old is he?
RomanceRe: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by Quintessential1(f): 12:28pm On Jan 03, 2017
Ademat7:
Yea,during my service year they tickle me so I can laff just to make them laff as well
Lol.
RomanceRe: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Quintessential1(f): 12:26pm On Jan 03, 2017
Sacluxpaint:
You just spoke the truth and nothing but the truth, of recent, it's pretense I have been coming across. I am in the same age category as Jude, but my problem is finding someone that would accept me for me.
Jude is the twitter guy?
RomanceRe: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by Quintessential1(f): 12:24pm On Jan 03, 2017
DavidEsq:
Which one is sophisticated laf again na. Is it dis type? Hohohoho or hehehehe or ahhha(jadakiss type of laf). Cld u spell the kind of laf u are talking about undecided
Lol. I can't describe. That kind of laughter that reverberates!
RomanceRe: I Put 1.5 Million Into Mmm For My Marriage,now I Cant Marry Again by Quintessential1(f): 12:04pm On Jan 03, 2017
tbliss22:
Really? But if he had received help before the suspension, will he still be a clown??

My dear so many others put in their real hard-earned fund, not spare cash as being speculated. I will continue to say this, MMM's return is real but it's for a major collapse.
I'm talking about the OP exclusively. He's just a joker!
RomanceRe: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by Quintessential1(f): 12:02pm On Jan 03, 2017
KingEbukasBlog:
"Laughter may be the shortest distance between two brains, an unstoppable infectious spread that builds an instant social bond" - Daniel Goleman
cheesy
RomanceRe: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by Quintessential1(f): 11:52am On Jan 03, 2017
Haute:
Like "huhuhuhuhaha!!!", followed by lightning strikes, thunder and sudden darkness?

Raine80 , what's yours? cheesy
Lmao... . That sure as hell cracked me up. I ain't looking for no Zeus!
RomanceRe: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by Quintessential1(f): 11:50am On Jan 03, 2017
Ademat7:
We should be friends then..I have host of female Friends that can be my witness
Really? smiley
RomanceRe: I Put 1.5 Million Into Mmm For My Marriage,now I Cant Marry Again by Quintessential1(f): 11:11am On Jan 03, 2017
tbliss22:
But people are funny sha, he's still thinking nd praying to get help fast come 14th of Jan someone is suggesting NNN again to him. Nigerians are truly wicked!!

Bros if this is true, I will advise you keep calm, relax and hope MMM resumes as promised.
Pay no attention to him. Who's going to marry him? He's simply a clown who hasn't realized his life is going downhill.
RomanceRe: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Quintessential1(f): 10:28am On Jan 03, 2017
mikolo80:
I pity such woman
What woman?
RomanceRe: Is't Possible To Leave In Same Room With Your Sister Without Been Tempt by Quintessential1(f): 10:25am On Jan 03, 2017
brownhawk:
shes talking trash as if she knows the closeness between my step aunt and me. we are pretty close and each others favorite and very genuine friends
It's all in your head, I tell you.
RomanceRe: Is't Possible To Leave In Same Room With Your Sister Without Been Tempt by Quintessential1(f): 10:24am On Jan 03, 2017
RandomHero:
Hello, Miss-lowkey- brownhawk 's - StepAunty. Calm down. wink
I can never be that person.
RomanceRe: "Marry With The Little You Have, Now That You Are Young'' - Nigerian Guy by Quintessential1(f): 8:06am On Jan 03, 2017
Honestly, what this guy is saying is the truth. We aren't about being broke here. As long as you can feed yourself and at least 2/3 extra mouths without begging, then you can get married if you find a woman who loves you and who you love in return.

The truth is when you have "money," yes, there'll be girls in their droves. But these are girls who'll only see you as means to to an end. As a security! And they'll do nothing but pretend they love you. Trust me, girls pretend like crazy! And with their high end pretence, you'll end up being saddled with a wife who doesn't quite love you for you, but who has chosen to get married to the best available financial option she had.
RomanceRe: The 10 Starter Rules For All Serious Relationships by Quintessential1(f): 7:40am On Jan 03, 2017
Odunharry:
Maybe it's not meant to be or u guys still waiting for who will start reconciliation process
Well, we're working on it, though. We want to save the relationship.
RomanceRe: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(op): 7:38am On Jan 03, 2017
truthsayer007:
I like the way you just ignored the other points. Awesome cheesy

As per marriage, Sure. Its a Man's role. But believe me even as BF, that same thought follows. Ladies will always see guys as their money bags, whether marriage or no marriage. And Note that they don't bring any Quota financially. Na you be my BF so na your work to take care of me. Simple & Short !
And that's the wrong mindset that needs to be changed...
RomanceRe: The Girl You Cannot Provide For Does Not Belong To You by Quintessential1(f): 7:37am On Jan 03, 2017
Orikinla1:
Do you want her full names, photograph and phone number of her boyfriend Frank, the manager of a cyber cafe and business centre at the Jibowu Bus Stop, beside Ekesons Transport Service, near Yaba, Lagos?
This happened between 2001 and 2004 before I left Lagos.

PM and get the facts.
These details you provided does not validate your story. Was it ever recorded? No! So, please!
RomanceRe: Advise The Poor Girl by Quintessential1(f): 11:28pm On Jan 02, 2017
godfrey01:
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its okk... nicely written... this 2017 I guess things will change for the better and I am still hoping to meet one monica I will stick to.. who knows if it might be you
2017 promises a lot...
RomanceRe: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(op): 11:26pm On Jan 02, 2017
truthsayer007:
First off, its not the status quo throughout the world. In most developed countries its 50/50.

Nigerian ladies aren't handicapped without provision, but they want you to do it, Its your role as a BF or Husband. (That's the claim).

She claims she already bringing her body to the table, so what else do you want ?



Ofcourse not, problem is they see it as their right for you to cater for their needs. And Me i have accepted it, I'm not even complaining lol.
When you marry a woman, It becomes your responsibility to cater for her and the kids. It's a right, she can demand it, even if she's expected to also bring in her quota.
RomanceRe: What's The Weird Thing That Attracts You To The Opposite Sex? by Quintessential1(f): 11:24pm On Jan 02, 2017
His laughter... I love sophisticated, contagious laughter!
RomanceRe: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(op): 11:17pm On Jan 02, 2017
firstking01:
Still not appreciated, you'd bid it high now with something elsetongue
Lol. Better accept it now that I'm still offering.
RomanceRe: The 10 Starter Rules For All Serious Relationships by Quintessential1(f): 11:16pm On Jan 02, 2017
Odunharry:
Nothing ke? Did any of you travel out?
No.
RomanceRe: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(op): 11:15pm On Jan 02, 2017
jakandeola:
notice me
Whatever for? I'm not you.
RomanceRe: Advise The Poor Girl by Quintessential1(f): 11:14pm On Jan 02, 2017
godfrey01:
love doctor.... advise me too... I don't love a girl for too long... as soon as i get what i want, the love fades away... by the way does love exist in girls world because girls if this days their live is for your money and not the real you....
If the feelings fade after sex, then it was never love. You said it yourself@bolded. All you felt was carnal desire.
And yes, a typical girl believes in love, even if a good number of them are materialistic. It is what the society has turned them into. Men started it by enticing women with money, some others deceived them just to get through their legs. And so, they sought out for recompense. No love, no sex, without the money.

This is the order of the day, but still, there are exceptions.
RomanceRe: The 10 Starter Rules For All Serious Relationships by Quintessential1(f): 11:08pm On Jan 02, 2017
Odunharry:
You guys couldn't devise a means to keep d fire burning?? Truly, long distance relationship isn't for everyone
There was little or nothing we could do. Now, we're just tottering.
RomanceRe: Which Of These Two Is A Better Option For A Purposeful Union? by Quintessential1(f): 11:07pm On Jan 02, 2017
EmperorLee:
Due diligence? Naah, people change. I might have been a player all my life, what if at that moment, I am really ready to settle down ?
Then she needs to know that you were once a player... And make a more conscious decision to marry you regardless, knowing what may eventually happen.
RomanceRe: Advise The Poor Girl by Quintessential1(f): 11:02pm On Jan 02, 2017
Love's just got to find her naturally. But she has to tune for psyche and let the trauma fade away...
RomanceRe: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(op): 10:56pm On Jan 02, 2017
firstking01:
Ehenna, you seem not to thank me...i have people who needs ittongue
Thank you smiley
RomanceRe: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(op): 10:55pm On Jan 02, 2017
truthsayer007:
Errrm hollup bro ! I just left the rest room nau & I defecated pretty well. So no issues there smiley

As per the post, copied or not. As far as Nigeria is concerned, ladies always want a man who can and must cater for their needs financial. It is a Nigerian upbringing and societal way of thinking.

If you like talk from now till tomorrow, it doesn't change a thing biko !

Other points were Ok.
Yes. It would continue to be a man's position to cater. That's the status quo the world over and not just in Nigeria. But that doesn't mean the woman's got to be wholly dependent on him, so much so that without his provision, she'll be handicapped... Or that she's got nothing to bring to the table, from which her man can benefit.

But wait a minute, would you rather have a woman cater for your needs?
RomanceRe: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(op): 10:51pm On Jan 02, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
Don't you worry about me,brah. I'm getting married for sho'.
just not to a Nigerian girl.
That ship sailed a while ago. we on some exotic shít now.
Goodluck...
RomanceRe: Can You Lash Asthmatics Patient Just For Fun? by Quintessential1(f): 10:41pm On Jan 02, 2017
Laveda:
Lol advisers are coming
And when she dies in the middle of it, he'll redefine gbese!
RomanceRe: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(op): 10:38pm On Jan 02, 2017
firstking01:
I thought i applauded you??, well, draws my appreciation back.
Lol. Is that how you use to do? grin grin grin

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