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Pierocash:
i always tel ladies,when ever u see a ready made guy who comes to u for a relationship,u better run cos every ready made guy has a woman somewhr.He only wants to catch fun with u and return to his woman.

Tell them...

ismart:
I am in similar situation as he. However, the girl in my case says she as a boyfriend but respond to my advances like someone who isn't in a relationship. She even agreed to be with me on 25th of December, an important date to be with her supposed boyfriend. She also invited me over to her side on 26th. I have been confused really.

I decided I wouldn't talk to her for a month and let us see if she will show signs of interest by calling me etc....

You're the fall-back-option for her. For whatever reasons, she doesn't want to leave her relationship just yet. She wants to keep you and keep him for as long as she can. She'd let go only if there's nothing she can to to keep both of you.

So, it's left for you to decide what you want. If I were in your shoes, I won't settle for that... All or nothing works for me.

Don't make it easy for her. Tell her to choose where she'll rather be completely, with you or with him.

Y'all should learn not to settle for less!

@Konjikiller. The situation is a lil dicey, esp for us, the readers. We can't quite tell how she feels about you. She may be attracted to you but might still have lingering feelings for someone else. Perhaps, she needs to know if she'd rather stick to that other guy or let him go completely,; and before she's sure of that, she probably doesn't want to get seriously involved with anyone else. Not even you.

And then again, she might just like you in an ordinary way, as a friend, as anything except as a lover. In that regard, she may not want to get romantically involved with you. Possibly, still, she may love you, but still needs some more time to put things into perspective, to see if a relationship with you would be sustainable in the long run. Not everyone rushes into a relationship.

But I don't encourage you to wait any further. Tell her how you feel about the long wait and that you don't intend to wait any longer. 3 months is enough time to think things through, so if she really digs you, then a relationship is worth a try. Don't settle for anything less. Make sure it's a proper relationship she's agreeing to.

curiositymaster:
I honestly feel you don't have to put the '#NoHomo' tag. If you feel something is beautiful just say it and leave the rest to whoever cares to think

Right... . Thanks.

SANDOSKI:
You chop craze abi....

You don forget say I senior you... No try me ooo

You're awesomely beautiful ... #No homo.

PunkyV:
Because it's easier to project a fake persona of awesomeness behind the keyboard. Plus people only post the good pics of themselves online. Out there in the real world there's no filter to hide all your physical & personality flaws, hence you get rejected much quicker. All your ugly is out in the open

That's it...

What's your take on celebrating virginity publicly? Should it be paramount that the hymen is intact? For me, I go with chastity.

Some of these virgins go to unwholesome sexual extents an long as there is no vagina penetration. Hasn't the society missed it?

Here's what a facebook user has to say.

waternogetemeny:
until one person die inside abi? u no well at all.

No one will die...

gabazin080:
AMEN O. but it just looked like there is no solution

If only you are willing... God will make a way.

gabazin080:
i pray and hope its not wat this hungry bloggers are thinking.


thats why i hate seeing dem flaunt their private lives online.

my marriage is about to crash and not even a third party knows about the fire burning in my home, not even a post about it on facebook. cus social media has done more harm than good to celebrity marriages

Your marriage is about to crash? No, it won't happen. That marriage will survive.

udemejack:
i almost used my infinix Zero as electric heater.

Lol. Gracious Lord!

Omogin, where would you like to be thrown to? Libya?

What's the proof that they were together at this "favorite place?"

Thee cannot be used in all contexts, though.

Lalasticlala, Seun, Fynestboi, Ishilove. I think this is a good post for review.

Here's what a Nigerian man had to say about beating up wives. Ufuoma McDermott replies.

Targaeryian:
If only I could like your post more than once

Every other person seems to be antagonising instead, and I was simply stating a fact.

But yes, I acknowledge the "not making it easy for him" part.

ichommy:
Religion Delusion. I can use Oil for Lubrication sha.

That was the first thing I thought the minute I saw the caption, until I read the story. It obviously isn't for just lubrication. He could have easily explained that, instead, he's talking about triplets and everything is going wrong with her.

@Islie. Do you even feel at peace in that church? For me, I'll say you shouldn't even report to your husband's Pastor. Go down on your knees and fight your battle. Call upon your God, eat the scriptures. Whether or not the problem is spiritual, you can win it with God.

In the meantime, stand your ground and don't allow him make love to you in that manner.

That's all levels of wrong!

But on a second thought, that girl may be lying. Why would she consciously sleep with an infected person?

BTW. Since when did Hepatitis B become a STD? Or is sex one of the routes of infection?

This is nothing out of the ordinary. A lot of women won't be found guilty in any single one of those, yet their husbands still cheat.

okowande:
Babe how u dey?

I dey. How are you, too?

Faux Locs. I rocked this hair once.

Uniben students and residents of environ, please, help.

A female student of Uniben didn't go home for the Christmas and New Year celebrations and her number has been switched off since last year. Her parents are worried and have decided on coming to Benin tomorrow to see if they would get one or two information that may help in locating their daughter. Unfortunately, the only thing they know is that she once told them she stays in EXCLUSIVE HOSTEL*

PLEASE DOES ANYBODY KNOW WHERE EXCLUSIVE HOSTEL IS?

REBROADCAST BECAUSE HER PARENTS ARE WORRIED.

*She just graduated​ from the Dept of Banking and finance. Name: Veronica Ukpong*


#Copied

Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Fynestboi.

Please, help propagate this. A life may just be saved.

No existing relatives?

Society really does expect so much of women...

Holy Smokes!

Dwise11:
Me?

Yes, you.

Rizmo:
Hello!

"How are you? I've been wondering if after all these time, you'd like to meet up, to go over everything... "