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RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by quivah(f): 9:54am On Jul 06, 2016
I see that Mr nl is not always about the finest man but the most popular man so I won't be surprised if vizkiz or falconey or even fynestboi wins..

I support the cute ones tho, iamkingzlee , piperson, cutezt!!!
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by quivah(f): 9:47am On Jul 06, 2016
who are all these ugly people contesting for Mr nl sef,, only piperson, cutezt and maybe iamkingzlee,eldaillest and fynestboi try for the list.. why na?!
FamilyRe: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by quivah(f): 9:17am On Jul 06, 2016
canDy4eva:
if the need arises, y nt n besides am a counselor too.
as a counselor yourself, you think his advice on this thread is any thing to go by?

I think not!
FamilyRe: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by quivah(f): 9:01am On Jul 06, 2016
canDy4eva:
r u a counselor?
do you want such a man to counsel youhuh
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 8:31pm On Jul 05, 2016
kaboninc:
Actually I was referring to something else in most of your posts.

The way you single out Nigerian men for something gone wrong is really not fair. As much as you hate us, it doesn't mean other men are better.
lol the thread is about a Nigerian man and its quite typical of you people, I needed to point that out tongue
I don't hate Nigerian men!, but other men are better tongue not Kenyan men tho sad
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 8:23pm On Jul 05, 2016
kaboninc:
Don't you think that instead of dying he should be allowed to live his live the way he chooses so long as they are separated?

Death is not what you just wish for someone just for any reason. Unless in very extreme situations.
no all, you Dont get what we on about here.. she was raped instead of her husband being killed,she was given a choice (Picking her body) which right now isn't in her favour. being violated and still having a 'traumatized' man to deal with.. so any unlucky woman in such situation should have kept her body and let the fvcking dude die instead..lol
I'm not saying any man like that is better off dead after the deal had been done, but she better choose her body over his life when she's faced with such a situation (which I Dont even wish my enemy)..cause he won't remember she gave her body out to protect his life at the end of the day.

PS; killing the man in this situation doesn't mean she might not get raped still, but at least at the end of the day, there's one baggage left out.
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 8:08pm On Jul 05, 2016
kaboninc:
Hmmmmmmm....its best we're killed abi?
I just learnt you all better be off dead than be traumatized with such situation, even worse when you think its all about you forgetting who is in the real pain.
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 7:59pm On Jul 05, 2016
kaboninc:
Nigerian man...
I use this opera mini, everything na small letter for hin side.. Even letters following a full stop, I get tired trying to hit the cap button all the time. so pardon me wink
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 12:10pm On Jul 05, 2016
mightykay:
sorry were u able to collect ur money from one guy dat sold one ebook to u dat we er looking for traffic, the guy's no doesnt go n d post was deleted. kindly give latest of the online buzi
that one don fail Jere..
we were scammed, there's nothing to update about the business, it was all planned, those two guys that claimed to be earning money from the premium stuff were his alternative accts, .. his number has been off,his WhatsApp which I presumed was registered on the same day he opened that thread has been deactivated...
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:57am On Jul 05, 2016
mightykay:
imagine the boy telling u nt insult him but want u to read madness n pass on. my sister u ve respected him by only insulting him cos his post needs cursing to follow. u still show a well brought up style by appologising to him. but if ve him as ur elder brother wont u disown him wt this his display of tantrum dipolar membrane disorder posts
bro, make we leave am..I am very sure he has realized his wrong but just couldnt accept it, yet!
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:55am On Jul 05, 2016
thotianna:
Assuming the tables were turned and the man got raped by homosexuals while the wife denies him sex because she is' traumatized' Nairaland men will enter this thread in hundreds to insult his wife, insult all Nigerian women and advice the husband to divorce her immediately.
Nigerian men (many), are selfish and the problem with it is that they don't realize they are selfish they think their behavior is normal.
One was talking about the woman obtaining permission before getting raped. I didn't want to address his post because I don't want to raise my BP this morning by fighting.
you see, I know most Nigerian guys exhibit some irritating xters but this info guy own pass all levels..
I couldn't take it anymore so I just had to say something to him.
as for Nigerian guys and selfishness, its no longer surprising.
@emboldened, she better not be traumatized.. she better release that puccie..release it fast, only guys get traumatized.
crazy me, I just had a picture of a guy raped by homosexuals
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:32am On Jul 05, 2016
infogenius:
I am so sure you came to this thread to look. I don't have to go with reasoning of so many dummies. I never blamed the op. Please read and re-read my post. Many of you here which includes you are so shallow minded when reading.
You don;t have to send insults to me because I made comment,pass it on and go if you are not cool with it.
I don't need your opinion or what you think to live my life I made a lot of sense even though it was not a popular opinion which I don't care. At least popular opinions have ruined this nation.
Abeg if you see no sense to what i posted, it means you were blinded to the sense it carried.
So just pass and don't insult me.
I'm sorry for the insults, I just couldn't help it.. yeah you made a lot of sense only you agreed to.. LOL much for a lot of sense
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:24am On Jul 05, 2016
thotianna:
I am very shocked that the lady in question is not getting much sympathy for what she went through instead people are talking of the man's trauma. Hmmmm

Am sorry for what you went through, MA. That is one of the worst experiences anyone can ever have please try to forget and move on. Get therapy if you can afford it.
As for your husband he is a very immature man, sorry to say. I agree the situation is not what a good husband will experience and be happy about but he could have at least comforted you. He could have talked to you tell you he still loves you in spite of what happens and he knows it's not your fault.
Ignoring you like this is very very cruel.

For the main time don't let him determine your happiness. Do other things to make yourself happy and don't offer him sex again until he asks by himself. If he continues shunning you after one year then you should seriously consider ending the marriage.
I endorse this post!!
its okay if he doesn't feel the urge for se.xx for what happened but he isn't the only one in pains, she went through a lot too, more than he did.. his support and love and care is what he should be giving, rather than his immaturity..but its unfortunate many Nigerian guys are like this, so I think them being killed if in this situation is just better than being traumatized.. you know they are 'men'., they rather be dead than letting go and supporting their wives..
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:17am On Jul 05, 2016
Acidosis:
It is myopic to assume the woman and her child would be spared after killing the husband.

When a robber tells you "your money or your life?", do you think the interest lies in the life?

What would the robbers gain for killing the husband? All they needed was forced s.ex, and that would be gotten whether the husband is dead or alive.
oh oga
I mentioned this in one of my post already so spare me.
but I believe he's better off dead than facing this 'trauma'
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:09am On Jul 05, 2016
mightykay:
pls quival dont generalise cos im a nigerian man n will never subcribe to dat. this evilgenius n may be op's husband are infinitestimal like 0.00001% of nigerian men dat reason that evil way
oh no, not just infogenius and the op's husband but many guys out there with this mentality.
I Dont think its okay watching your husband being traumatized sad after you were raped(at gun point for that matter)while you were trying to save him..., Dont you think he better be deadhuh
at least, you only have his death to bear for a time :p rather than bearing the rape,stigma, and His trauma..geeeezzzz
and please we both know that your stats is a big joke
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:02am On Jul 05, 2016
mightykay:
can u imagine the boy talking about bravery n he was looking at robbers carring his money and valuables then raping wt his helpless wife but cant do anything but expect the wife take permission to allow robbers. where is d best place to show ur bravery, protection over ur family, chilvary n even die in the course of protecting his home. idiot lied down as the woman lied down n he was talking about bravery. may u never go near such a disdain boy in ur life
the guy just shock people fa..
that's extreme stupidity sad sad
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:00am On Jul 05, 2016
infogenius:
OK, she should kill the man if he looks outside? I tire for you. OK tell us what she should do.

Which one is easier to corporately agree on an action or decide on your own?

My dear, I want you to correct any of the above statements you quoted above and not to create strife on this thread.
sir you are funny cheesy cheesy very funny.
we are talking about rape at a gunpoint,, either man's life or her body..and you still feel wise to bring up cooperation.. permission from her husband before she gets rape while trying to save himhuh
loool cheesy cheesy so even if she decided on her own, she is to be blamed for acting under such pressure in order to safe her beloved but this beloved shouldn't be blamed for going out (willingly) to have se.xx outside because his wife was gangraped while trying to save him..
you are not making sense!! absolutely no sense.
The shock people expressed on your post is an evidence of how senseless a human being can be..

just shut it, you really embarrassed your self on this one ...

except maybe you are trolling sha.. like really trolling cheesy cheesy
even dinachi can't come this low cheesy cheesy :p
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 10:39am On Jul 05, 2016
with the few points on this thread, I have come to the realization that any woman who find herself in this unfortunate situation should go for the lesser evil...kill the man!!! especially if its a nigerian man..
the man better be dead than her being violated.
tho she might still get raped afterwards, but chill at least the husband ain't there no more to be traumatized..
it's your body, its his life..
choose your own oooo
be wise woman!! cheesy cheesy
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 10:28am On Jul 05, 2016
sweet Nairaland
cheesy cheesy cheesy

oh mighty infogenius,, all hail the wisest Jesus hand man, oh righteous Infogenius,, you once advised the woman not to bother if her husband looks outside(for se.xx of course), and now you believe she should have asked for her husband's permission before opening her legs at gun point because se.xx is sacred, more sacred than the life she felt she was protecting lol but it wasn't sacred if the husband looked out for se.xx due to the situation at hand.
all hail infogenius
FamilyRe: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 10:22am On Jul 05, 2016
buhahahahaha cheesy cheesy cheesy I never knew a Nigerian man could be more stu.pid. I thought have seen/heard/read it all. cheesy cheesy cheesy this is just too much, insanity at its peak. cheesy cheesy cheesy dawg please, I need to breathe!!!!
ComputersRe: Did You Know? by quivah(op): 9:01pm On Jun 26, 2016
uvalued:
@quivah i doubt if his accomplice will comply... well i think i will let go and allow "karma" handle him and his accomplice. moving to greater things...thanks
You see, I have issues with karma.. Just count your loss and move on. I have as I'm looking for other stuffs to do.
Gmajor:
the only reason i bought the ebook was becos of a testimony dropped by one guy. Now that i think of it, it could be the op of the thread with a diff monika
Bamiyoolountoke and Rocco are the same person as scheminup, the op. The former came ranting all on me when I pointed this out, they are all bunch of fraudsters!!
ComputersRe: Did You Know? by quivah(op): 7:18am On Jun 26, 2016
uvalued:
seems like the guy has done his worst... guess he feels high... but its a loser that deceive... no wonder he claimed to have a knowledge that he doesnt want it to be saturated...googling "passive premium numbers" shows that you must be in uk to start even thinking of making it.. well else i wil wait for some time and see if he actually sends the second manuall
Lol sir ,the guy is a fraudster! Better Dont waste your time waiting for any manual, its been 3days now and his NL acct has been deactivated. He has also deleted his WhatsApp account registered with the number he gave us, this number has been off since 3days now. I also pointed it out on that thread that I think he registered that his acclaimed WhatsApp acct on the same day he created that thread.. It was all planned!!
Maybe we should communicate with his other accomplices
CrimeRe: Trouble Knocking?! by quivah(op): 5:37pm On Jun 25, 2016
Mintayo:
How far? The fulani men don show? grin.
There's nothing to be afraid of. The fulani man may not even know where the cow was by the time he realized that one is missing. grin
Hi sir! No, dem never show. But my mum told me to run far away if I see any one of them in our vicinity cheesy
Well, true that! He might not know where the cow got missing or what had happened to it, but words spread faster.

Anyways, I have a machete under my mattress now.
ComputersRe: Did You Know? by quivah(op): 7:50am On Jun 25, 2016
uvalued:
really think eo myself.. but since we have his contact email, wont it be proper to request a refund?
I have his email, picture, and his WhatsApp no. That's if they are his.
I already requested for a refund, sent him a WhatsApp message.. But I'm yet to see a reply.
Gmajor:
ok.
So what is the way forward. The main thread has been closed and am yet to understand this premium number of a thing
The op is hardly online on WhatsApp, nairaland, email. So getting to him to teach you is quite a hard task. I am discussing on WhatsApp with another guy who bought the eBook, he still hasn't been able to register on any of the sites tho.
And the way forward ? Hmm keep trying.
As for me, I want a refund, am just afraid if I can actually get it.
CrimeRe: Trouble Knocking?! by quivah(op): 5:05am On Jun 25, 2016
WAGAZ:
I am sorry
lol its okay ma smiley
CrimeRe: Trouble Knocking?! by quivah(op): 4:35am On Jun 25, 2016
WAGAZ:
Booked.

Quivah pls vote lanickyy today kiss
undecided
Some people sha smh, i'm talking about a serious matter and she's concerned about some useless competition.
tsw! Lanicky get place we fit stay for the moment?
CrimeTrouble Knocking?! by quivah(op): 4:25am On Jun 25, 2016
I have just been duped!! well that's not the issue.

So, yesterday evening till night, my mum and I were hearing a loud cheerful noise from a place not quite far from us. She kept asking me what the noise could be about, but I wasn't bothered, was busy thinking about how unlucky I was to fall into some scam, I thought I was careful enough, well that aside.. In regards to the noise, i felt it was some touts cheering themselves up or sort of, and she kept her cool and continued with her business. Some time later, we also heard this same noise, but I was still of the opinion that it's nothing to be bothered about. At night at about 8pm, it happened again, this time my mum went to the bathroom to peep through (we can see a little view of the place the noise was coming from) and she was able to see some guys(majorly) gathered around, but still she had no idea of what was happening. She saw one of our neighbors coming from the place the noise was emanating from, and still there in the bathroom in her amebo self, she asked the woman what the disturbing noise was all about. The woman, claiming she went there to check it out as she was concerned too, only to realise that some group of men(hausa inclusive) have taken it upon themselves to rescue(huh) a cow that fell into an open soakaway, they brought it out joyfully like heroes they think they were (well since they gave some people extra meats to enjoy their saari), killed it and shared it amongst themselves, hence the cheerful noise.
At that point, I remembered that earlier that morning, I saw a Fulani man with his cows grazing around the neighborhood, and concluded it must have been one of his unfortunate cows, so I jumped up to meet mum in the bathroom, to tell her this and she as well as the other woman jumped out of their hearts.
Oh common! we hear about the horrific actions of these Fulani men, now some group of people killed one of their beloved sons cow and you think that's cool?
well, mum and I were the only one at home so we applied some extra security to the door cheesy and still couldn't sleep o.

I was just wondering, maybe its better if my mum and I go to some place to hide for few weeks.
Or we should get extra vigilantes( lazy goats!)
I didn't eat out of the cow o,neither did my mum.. None of our neighbors even gave us a piece or informed us of the free meal ticket, so WE AIN'T DYING FOR ANY OF THEM!
ComputersRe: Did You Know? by quivah(op): 3:58am On Jun 25, 2016
Gmajor:
what about the premieum numbers biz. Have you tried that one out?
I was kinda shocked when i read the e-book. It was too small wit very little info. Not to mention that most of the websites he gave were not opening. Have been able to make head way with it ?
I'm trying it.. I don't seem to get a way around it.
we have been duped. the thread have been deleted probably along with his account.
ComputersRe: Did You Know? by quivah(op): 6:52pm On Jun 24, 2016
Gmajor:
did you try out the bitcoin stuff. The op of the thread just ran off without giving complete info on how it works
I tried it sha, but gave up. The resources and cost were quite high. I had to leave it be. I don't have the time yet.

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