₦airaland Forum

chesterlee:
Hmmm...prolly 1 out of 1 thousand men

tosyne2much:
no vex ma

tosyne2much:
ooookay continue

Btw, I thought ladies claim they hate it

tosyne2much:
@ d bolded.. ** shaking my head in disappointment **

agarawu23:
dats hw u start learning how to cheat on ur husband. just $5

pretydiva:
A woman's pride is her virginity.dats d best gift she can eva gve 2 her husband

Tallesty1:
Those one are no longer good for marriage.


They should be made to serve the gods of their land.

striktlymi:
I am trying yo understand this....

Are you saying, if you've been in two previous failed relationships then your third would necessarily be the lady you would get married to, no matter how bad she is?

Doortun:
@quivah No matter how radically feminized the society is what is good for the goose can never be good for the gander as far as number of exes is concerned, will you be proud to know your daughter is moving on to the 11th boyfriend even if she didn't end up sleeping with all.

I have also noticed that over 90% of men who do not care about what happened in the past are those who have skeletons in their cupboard and they go into marriage to become cheats at any slightest opportunity all because they are aware of marrying a wreck. I don't ever see myself looking outside when I'm owned and I must have good reasons not to.


Another twist, that is almost not possible.

Tallesty1:
can someone ready have that many ex?

Doortun:
You are all dressed up in that custom made black suit and she is wearing that beautiful white gown and the pastor says you may now kiss the bride. But wait, not everyone is so ultramodern not to care what that mouth had been used for; singing praises to the lord or used as a vault for bodily fluid by Tom, Diick and Harry.

Maybe other 3 of her exes are seating randomly in the congregation and are smiling at you to see what (not-a-winner) you have become. Because what you treasure and you are going into is a place that has explored in all ways and they have vowed not to return.

My logic to this is not to use her past or number of exes to judge her sluttiness, but to know what she will likely become, because if a girl/lady is really a sweetheart, No man, I mean No man! Will let her go. 6 guys cannot be buttholes to watch a lady take a leave. I understand there may be personality clashes but having 6 exes means something is just fundamentally wrong with such person.

@lafflaff123 I kinda agree with what you said though, it was a convo that lead to that, I didn't even ask her. Of a truth, it is something I would like to know about a lady I really care about. Other than the long list of exes she is a very sweet lady and to set things straight I'm not traditional, but if there is just one thing I do not want from my partner I wish to give MY ALL, it is long list of exes...

Tallesty1:
There is no way she can still have everything he needs in a woman.

Even the op do not have everything she needs in a man......

We all need love, ain't we?

But a lady or a man that have had many partners(even if they ain't many) can never love their wife/husband completely because each person s/he dated took a part of him/her with them and they cannot be recovered.

dre11:
Kia

You try not be small things

Chiadanin:
Yes. You are right. Some men r complex. I am just oversimplifying things in general. Each case/couple/relationship is different.

At times, it is the dynamics of the relationship that determines how "complex" things get.

Maybe the men I knew/know are simplr ones or at least thats how I saw or see them.

mesoade:
. . Female are more complicated,MEN know what they want,women don't . . Women are harder to please too

dre11:
@quivah

Nah real thesis you write oooo

Chiadanin:
I disagree.

If its is one thing I know.....

Men r extremely simple.

Feed them, sex them up and love them.

Thats it. Tried and true.

I wish I can be that simple as a female. But I am work in progress.

And I try hard to live drama free life.

Ivyluvie2:
as it is,she already got rebuked for her comments,u kinda took it too far.

Bellfun:
A very dead brain!...and we know her type...holier than thou!

Ivyluvie2:
that's harsh

carefreewannabe:
Am I right when I say that you are part of the "men are polygamous by nature crew"?

And what is the underlying message of your comment?

That I should cheat based on the assumption that ALL men cheat because you find it "laughable" that I think that the man in my life deserves my 100% loyalty?

lafflaff123:
@carefreewannabe i find it laughable when i see comments like yours here, so you have a good man right? you don't want to hurt his feelings right? and does he too not want to hurt your feelings? i know you trust him so much that you know his whereabouts 24 hours right? everyday? every minute? EXPO from a Man's point. He will CHEAT on you even if your V-A-G-I-N-A is made of crude oil, and he will do it SKIN to SKIN.

Your husband/boyfriend/sugar daddy/toyboy/man or whatever we want to call him is not a bad person, HE IS JUST BEING A MAN.

So why is one woman not enough for one man? are you guys serious? if one man is stuck with one woman what then is the faith of the other thousands of girls that are single? and don't mind being girlfriend number 8 or 9?

Sex is cheap, and is given freely and it does not matter if the guy is married or not, too much willing women TOASTING another woman's man these days anyway. So the other day, 99 women on Facebook put ENGAGED/IN A RELATIONSHIP on their status handle.

Still on that Facebook 99 men put SINGLE on their status handle, so i am wondering who these ladies are engaged to or in a relationship with?
So what am i trying to say? too much women every where without a man to call their own, and we guys will have our fill. Its like Christmas coming in the Month of JUNE.

All these internet WOMEN keep deceiving yourself that you will find that man, that will be faithful to you only, no be only faithful? as long as their are the Ini Edo's that don't mind collecting others husband, we men cannot say no to the OTHER WOMAN.

Livingwalker:
Cool

Sowl:
Glad to know this cam from a lady like her....its good to know we still have considerate and intellectually inclined women in Nigeria

ireneony:
am just saying the truth from what i have witnessed. I know of some tribe in the south that don't allow their wives to cheat, because the day they cheat either the man or the woman will die....
please don't hate me, am only saying the truth