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he ran away

see what my barry tone voice can do

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9147891#msg9147891 date=1316025678]Okay you all.  My partner want some attention.  _{sticking tongue out at r231 when I said partner}

Don't tear up the thread until I get back![/quote]mine too

we r bout to watch football

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9147852#msg9147852 date=1316025324]Then she will be just your princess.[/quote]nothing is ever gonna change dat

even wen she is married

United all the way

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9147815#msg9147815 date=1316025015]You are going to milk your daughter's future husband for all he got.  I know you made a list when she was 2 years old.  Tell the truth.  

50 lbs of yams
20 lbs of Jasmine rice
40 goats
300 chickens
20 packs of Brazilian weave for the Mrs.
100 crates of assorted Lager
N200,000 in cash[/quote]too small. . . . . my daughter is a princess

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=757157.msg9147771#msg9147771 date=1316024662]@ r231

she is not a NL member?

you don't want her on NL?

ooooooo

i am so disappointed in you

her input would be priceless and invaluable[/quote]she is on FB dats good enough lol

its her choice. . . . i told her to join

but she log on as me a lot of times to read and see what i have bn up to

same old bull crap line

this is 2011 bros change your tune

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=757157.msg9147687#msg9147687 date=1316023889]@ r231

Hey R - I wasn't going to comment any longer until I read your last statement

While your wife is laying on top of you - will you ask your wife if she can open a thread telling us what is the eqtiquette of a Good Nigerian Wife?

I want to know what is considered a "Good Nigerian Wife" - regarding handling money, work, children, house work, sex - also what is this bride price you were talking about as well.

For us foreign women - so we have a better understanding of the culture.  She is nigerian, she is a wife and she is married to you so I would love to hear her point of view.

She can even title the thread R231's wife's point of view - that would be helpful - to us.

Thank you.[/quote]she is not a NL member unfortunately

if she is i will be sleeping on the sofa everynite lol

but you can open a thread like that in family section

i am sure there is a lot of sensible wife and mothers on their that makes a lot of sense

as per the bride price thingy, i was talking about my daughter's

bride price depends on each family cus every family list is diff

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9147658#msg9147658 date=1316023668]Hey Mrs. r231!! Get your husband! He been abusing me! [/quote]hahahaha

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9147604#msg9147604 date=1316023255]It has been confirmed r231 is stingy.  

Lax, you ain't been gone long enough for me to miss you.  Now I was rolling my eyes because you told the men to leave those broke broads alone.  You know damn well SOME men feel good when they have broke broads because it makes them feel good to be depended on.  

Let keep it real.[/quote]my wife is laying down on me

and i just showed her what you wrote

funny enough she is still laughing  

no manners. . . . so he is disqualified

Dyt:
Op
u beta cm tel us d outcome afta u v had a hrt 2 hrt talk wit u so called stingy lovin bf

she didnt ask him properly  

seedord247:
Support her keeee. . . .


what if the dies in the processs will the education be of help in heaven or hell?

did you die while you are studying

jus cus the woman is 58 don mean she will drop dead going to college

support her

rokiatu:
Have a sweet dream.

with a picture like dat

i don't have to wake up

sleep for this time

janiebravo:
@amblors my apologies, that was r231

ok so its the far far away thingy that is the issue now abi?

what did i do

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146769#msg9146769 date=1316015737]Screaming in bold is not going to change the fact that many of these wives are treated like children. 

Come here r231  _{Where is my flowered wife beater?}[/quote]one dozen of rose for you

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146726#msg9146726 date=1316015408]I can't tell.  The way many of African men treat their wives like children and many of the wives put up with it in the name of African culture.  Hmm. 

Hey each to their own.  [/quote]maybe the uneducated ones

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146593#msg9146593 date=1316014522]By the way, if you had to pay a price to get a wife then why wouldn't she let you be the head of household?  If I didn't have anywhere to go hell I would "kiss" arse too.[/quote]again its African culture. . . . . . my daughter lives in US as well and i dont care who she brings home they are paying the bride price

jus cus you pay bride price dont mean your wife will be a housewife or something

mine has a job, a house and a car b4 we got married and she still have everything

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146593#msg9146593 date=1316014522]Of course you would say all the killings are done in America and let not forget them poor people in Africa getting burned alive over some damn potatoes.  SMH.  I am sure all those "jungle justices" aren't making to the national news.  

Again, YOUR RELATIONSHIP isn't the epitome of all relationships.  I don't need to ask African women who is the head in THEIR relationship.  All I have to do is collect all the posts made by [b]men crying their wives and girlfriends making them feel less of a man and BOSSING THEM AROUND.  Great African culture!   [/b]

Hooray for the male head of household!  Not.[/quote]you need to check the size of their balls as well

cus they don't have one thats why they are crying all arnd NL

all i have to say is when you get married,

tell your husband to change his name to your and move into your house

pendo89:
aiiii!! R321
why do you want to spoil the party?
We remain and cheer.

i will be the witness/bestman now

since the ticket is one way

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146387#msg9146387 date=1316013245]You said that Africans value their culture then why is my coworker's husband is a[b]t HOME cleaning and cooking[/b] while she is working?  That don't sound like a head of household[/quote]cus he trade his brain to ABOKI for a COOLER and his family bck home are trying to locate ABOKI to get it bck


[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146387#msg9146387 date=1316013245]So much for African cultures that many Africans can't stop killing each other for a simple disagreement on what should be an African culture not.  You have African Muslims and Christians killing each other over religion but Africans suppose value culture.  Hmm.  That's a great way to value the culture by genocide.[/quote]dat happens everywhere not just in Africa. . . . . . dey do more killing in US dan Nigeria anyways


[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146387#msg9146387 date=1316013245]Who said anything about your wife making decisions without you?  She isn't suppose to make decisions without you and you shouldn't make decisions without her.  Duh.[/quote]thats the whole point, I get the final say in everything


[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146387#msg9146387 date=1316013245]It still doesn't change the fact that all relationships aren't the same.  As I said if you are the head of household as you claimed then you shouldn't have any problems doing everything.

Simple as that.[/quote]All you have to do is open a thread and ask all sensible African woman their role in their various matrimonial homes. . . . .

I am sure they will gladly tell you

SIMPLE

ebonyvibe:
Woodcock Marriage is not relationship o.

Most married people kinda Be Intimate 3X at most o. You are in for a shock if you think it is going to be happening 17X

maybe the 70yrs old ones

so are we going to France for the wknd or something  

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146262#msg9146262 date=1316012367]That's where you are wrong.  There are women who do not mind her husband being the boss while she just sit back but there are women who know she is equal to her husband and therefore the consensus is equal.  

If that how YOUR RELATIONSHIP roll that on YOU.  All relationships are different and the ones that are successful are the ones that works for THEM.[/quote]you still not getting it. . . . . we Africans have a culture and we value it too

all relationships are diff so as marriages BUT regardless MAN IS STILL THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY

My wife will not/NEVER make a decision without consulting me

even African woman that makes more money than their husband still respect them and still understand that their husband is the HEAD

plenty moni dey ma hand abi u wan some

what did i miss

WOW

RIP

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=757157.msg9146142#msg9146142 date=1316011628]I disagree with you Jaybee.

A man alone isn't meant to provide.  Since we are going to use the bible the woman is supposed to be the help mate which means a partner to a man.  So if she is a partner to a man then the man can't be the head.  If the man is the head then the woman isn't equal to the man. Just saying. 

A wife is not a baby therefore she is to put in her own weight as well.  As I said a man will give if he chooses to without request or force.  If the man is forced to give then it is not support. 

Going back to the bible, "if a man doesn't work, he doesn't eat".  When the bible uses "man" to describe a person it mean the woman too.[/quote]It does not matter how you look at it. . . . .

THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY. . . . . . and i am sure 99% of of woman here knows dat SIMPLE