₦airaland Forum

Ujujoan:
Trust me I've loved. I know about all the care, attention, intelligence and all that. I also want them; but from a rich guy!!

I dont have to be there for a guy to make money to get respect from him. Any guy that dosent think I deserve respect must be insane.

@r231

What difference does it make? It dosent change what I want!!

Ujujoan:
Okay 30's a little ambitious. Does 33 - 35 cut it? _{Cos Nigerian guys are a bit slow}    

Whatever, I just dont want to marry a poor man!!

Mamali1:
hey, you cannot clear a 1999 car . You can start from 2000 so watch that agent. Cars below 2000 go through Cotonou

Uche2nna:
Diff strokes for diff folks , I guess.

I do prefer working my way up, and not down.

wakagirl:
Really?

Ujujoan:
@ Uche I know that shit happens. And when they do, I'm willing to deal with it. I had a priviledged childhood and when I lost my dad, I had to face poverty. Did I die? No! I faced it and I survided it.

The rich get poor and the poor get rich. That's life. Call me twisted, but I'd rather have the rich now and poor later, than the poor now and rich later. What I cant chance is the poor now and poor forever    

Ujujoan:
@ Nuzo: If I didnt have 'chikers' to make me wonder who to choose, then there is absolutely no need for this post. Dont you think  

@ Muzbo: There's no need for your sacarsm, so shove it okay !!

Like Uche said, I just listed what I wanted in a man, its either you agree with me or you dont!

@ r231: I know what I'm saying. A guy actually told me that his reason for wanting to marry his GF was because she had 4 million in fixed deposit.

I dont need a rich guy for comfort or to show off; I just dont want a burden!!

Now you guys can attack me all you want . . . . .  isnt that what NL is for?


he will be gone as soon as dat money is done all he wants is d money maybe cus he didn't want to pay for d wedding lol

Ujujoan:
'Let he who has no sin be the first to cast the Stone'!!

I know I sounded a lil bit ambitious, but I also know 90% of you all talking here wants comfort as well.

Guys date girls for being beautiful or even rich. What's wrong in me wanting a rich guy?

What I have to offer in return is totally irrelevant; and the fact that I dont date broke guys does not make me a Golddigger!

I dont intend to settle for an abusive or demeaning relationshiop with my hubby, but I dont intend to settle for a broke one either.

I'm not naive enough not to realize that money corrupts, but I also know that a corrupt man will be corrupt with or without the money.

Now I made this post because I got tired of my family and friends telling me that letting that young man go because he dosent stay in his own house is a wrong decision. And that dating that rich guy is trouble in disguise. I just need to feel a sense of financial security for me to be content in a relationship or even in marriage. Otherwise I'm just going to feel the guy's not man enough!!

I'm prepared to build a future with a guy, I just dont want to start from the scratch!!

wakagirl:
Yeah that's the spirit my dear, you are not wrong nor unrealistic, infact u are not been materialistic but sincere.

I got a good new for you jare. I have a cousin who is only 29, 100% single, has chains of biz, very handsome and has all of those things and more. Not only does he have landed properties in Nigeria he has houses abroad.

Now, he doesnt need you to bring anything to the table financially and unlike you with numerous criterias he has only one critaria. . . . . . . . .u must be 100% VIRGIN

Lets talk jare.

MUZBO:
Hey y'all, pls who knows how much it'll cost to clear a container of say 4 cars at Lagos port? Does it depend on the model year of the contents or not? Also I'll like to know how long it takes the Bill of L to arrive after paying for shipping from U.S! Thanks.

russellino:
@ IBIME you took the words right out of my mouth.
@ poster i really hope you have something to bring to the table yourself otherwise ppl might label you a gold digger babyyyyy!!! Emmm to properly advise you could you please provide your age and financial status.

debest1:
Mr sam please how much does it cost to ship the cars from EU states to Lagos?

Sonye:
@ fyneguy

Moses wrote the law of divorcement, Jesus mentioned it and did not change it. You need to learn the bible is the Bible. No one can change it. read it all yourself.

@r231
i dont know why he did it. I guess you need to ask him yourself. like i said, i did not write the book. no matter how big or little the church is, a sin is a sin and no man can change what is written

Sonye:
yes it is darling. its adultery, which is of course a sin. i didn't write it. its all in the good book called the bible. being a pastor is not that easy. there are so many things you have to abide by. and you have to live your life as an example  for others to learn.

Sonye:
@ r231

no one is saying you have to wait for her death!!!  The bible says it all, God hates divorce. and if you dp decide to do it, you have to remain married, otherwise, you will be committing adultery. he must have read the rules a long time ago but he decided to break the rule.

also, as for the girlfriend part, it depends on what you base your relationship on. a pastor can have male and female friends but no sexual thoughts.

hope that answers your question

Sonye:
I am a member of Christ Church parish and was in church when Pastor Itua announced his sack 3 sundays ago. It was really sad because he has been an inspiration to all and we miss him so so much.

[b][b]But lets face it, its all in the bible. a christian that divorces and remarries commits adultery. Mark 10 and Matthew 5 says it all. Christians have to abide by the law Moses wrote in the Bible. He was not meant to marry at all until his first wife dies. If she doesn't he should remain single. Its all in the Bible and as a man of God, he should live by the word.[/b][/b]

As for the sack, it was the elders of the church that unanimously agreed to sacking the pastor, not G.O. Adeboye. He was aware this was going to happen in the first place. he was just praying against it.


We all wish him the best

nastyboy:
;DSimpy yell " YES DARLING, I WILL MARRY YOU BUT DNT PUT THAT NASTY RING ON MY FINGER, GO GET A BETTER ONE ITS MY ENGAGEMENT FOR CRYING OUT LOUD" That will teach him not to give put a silly ring on a deserving lady's finger, lol

sjeezy8:
The type of reality shows about me cause im so damn interesting

chic2pimp:
. When will NL learn the meaning of friendly banter. Kai una peeps sha.

Naturez:
r231 and ritchboy why una dey fight nah?

MrCrackles:
Who is Pete Edochie?
Men, Nigeria is crazy. . . Kidnapping is the latest big deal in that country!
I hope they dont harm the dude oo. . .

ritchboy:
isnt it past ur bedtime?
.

u mean like losing 5 of their first 12 games last season?

and who is this buffoon?
ur youngest son i guess. remember what i told u about FAMILY PLANNING? no??