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viewlekan:
There are different kinds of "medical person" as you put it, we have doctors,nurses(qualified and auxillary),emergency attendants etc.
[b]From your post I doubt you would be in the first two or else the hospital where you practice would be a danger zone to be honest.[/b]I am yet to come across a medical doctor who would make a diagnosis based on stories in the newspaper and more importantly it is extremely rare to find practitioners who would make definite statements like "she did not die a natural death" without being part of the medical team that attended to her or having enough information like an autopsy report.

Either of the following have happened
1.You are an internet troller that claim to be what they are not and use anectodal statements to support their post

or

2.You are a "medical person" as claimed.

If it is Number 1- No problem,we have numerous of your sort

If it Number 2-Please tell us where you practise as a matter of urgency( so nairalanders can avoid it) and of equal importance where did you get this qualification from? even Iyana ipaja Institute of Computer studies would not produce a half -baked "medical person" like yourself.

oh oh

chiejik:
i'v read this long time ago.from hint

oh so it's not true

soloqy:
Now all these other stories about Bellview has made this a very scary issue.

Its about Lives here. We dont want the authorities to make us regret and mourn for things that could otherwise have been stopped.

Are there no limits to the luggage a plane can carry?

What if they decide to appear competent with ppl's luggages and start to overload those planes?

We ought to be thinking right now on how to prevent any "unforseen/foreseen" circumstances right now.

The authorities must wake up to their responsibilities. The complaints, protests and embarrasments, are enough reasons to clamp down on Bellview till they get their acts together.

Lets not easily forget the past.

ps
Anyone know how or where to forward letters of complaint? I think everyone affected recently by Bellview should do so. You might be saving a life.

Their website click on complaint

no not always

dat man voodoo don catch una dats y una dey cross each other now, lol abeg na joke o

wow

lmao ;d ;d ;d ;d

Nezan:
He promotes the lifestyle of looters and told us that anybody who is pissed about it should go and produce a paper that promotes the lifestyle of poor people? So, his mentality is like: steal, become rich, live big, and we at OVATION shall celebrate you.

true

yemiyemi:
Hey people, so happy that my day is 21st September, also happier its not 11th september, you know what i mean,

yemilois:
am september 21.

you guys are my birthday mate I am 21st as well

VIRGO ROCKS

lekmosad:
I WENT TO GF HOUSE I MET HER BEING ROMANCE BY ANOTHER MAN ,AND THE MAN GET UP AND SLAP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO.

wait by d door and srt crying

VIRGO rocks, we are destine for greatness

Ujujoan:
You are right, I made mention of a guy paying the bills just to get the gril to say yes!! That was when I was talking about the wooing thing. But then they changed the topic to 'Why should I spend on a girl? Why bother? What happened to independence? Why cant you work for your money? . . . And I'm like 'Wao'! Now its even a crime for a guy to spend on his girl!!

Even though NLders decided to digress from the topic, I still think my question is valid.

Those days a man will take tubers of yams and goats to the family of his intended, just to make his intentions known to her family . . . If the family wants to give their daughter, they'll happily accept. If they dont, they tell him to go back with his gifts.

These days, if a lady accepts gifts from a suitor, she becomes a gold-digger, if she rejects, she becomes a model wife!!

These days, guys dont think they should offer ladies gifts because they think 'they are not worth it'

Now I understand if you dont have any gifts to offer, or any money to spend, but why do you have to hold back when you can give, just because you assume the girl's a gold-digger

dats not true if she is my girlfriend/wife/fiancée why not cus I will everything/anything for my woman cus i knw 100% dat she will do even more for me.

Tanna:
1. No I was not Big when we were dating. I gained more weight with each child over the years. But I have been big LONGER than the years I was normal weight.

2. About the visa- He actually applied for Nigerian passports for the kids, I did not qualify for a Nigerian passport [/b]so he applied for a visa for me. All at the same time. He showed me the kids passports, but keeps saying more info is needed for my visa, [b]Like a 2nd letter of invitation from his family, and one thing after another. he never showed me the letter from the consulate to prove they are really requesting more info. He keeps saying he has it in his office at work and keeps forgetting to bring it home for me to read.

3. I am not huge. I have been asked to model since I have been this size. Men check me out or flirt with me all the time, american and otherwise. so its not like I'm not attractive. That's why I don't understand this sudden concern-- and RUSH for me to lose weight for the trip. Sure I probably should try to lose weight-- but he is behaving as if it it urgent for the trip.

4. I am the size of Jennifer Hudson when she played in DreamGirls. My profile has a pic to example my size. That's not me, but looks a lot like me.

sorry guys for going off topic but pls is dis TRUE

wow

MyPeace:
my hubby knows exactly how much l earn. He even knows my ATM pin and l know his. We operate joint and separate accounts. He is into private business, l might not know exactly how much he makes a month but l have idea, as long as he contributes his quota to the joint account and fulfills his obligations at home, no qualms.

Theres no need to hide your earnings. People hide when they feel their spouse will take advantage of it. l think if u have a financial plan for your home, there will be need for 'financial hide and seek game'

You are right

@ poster

YES, it makes life easier

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Arsene Wenger - Wengay

Princek12:
Uju, Uu, Uju! How many times did I call you? Three. You are such a flip-flopper, saying one thing before and another thing now. You posted the question and you appear to be missing the issue. You said that what happened to a guy spending, paying bills, just to get her to say yes. Inferentially, that means the guy should do all the spending when he meets her; she has not said yes or is saying no; before any commitment on her part or reciprocal favorable treatment from this girl; and he should do all that spending including paying her bills just to get her to say yes.  You did not post a question about how a girl will appreciate a little spoiling from her man, which is what you are saying in this post but not what your original question is. To change your stance in the middle of this argument is a copout and a punk move. Most guys won't mind doing that to a girl after they are in a relationship, committed or engaged or married, and the guy is sure that his money won't be going to waste, because the same girl may say no.  Mugus, Old, ugly, pot-bellied guys, and guys who lack substance or self esteem and think that  that is the only way to get a girl will probably pay your bills just to get you to say yes. But, come on, this is 2009, men should be smarter with their money and invest wisely, because the girls will be chasing you when you are financially OK. Like I said earlier, I am sure a lot of guys will woo you  with cash if you stand on the side of the road and sell that stuff, like some girls in Lag or Abuja. Uju, don't be a flip-flopper. You also talked about how does a guy expect to meet a decent girl with that mentality. Have you ever asked yourself: how do you expect to meet a decent guy with your own mentality? Think about it before responding to this, if you ever do.

true talk

Ujujoan:
This thread is not about me personally because trust me, treasure's not my problem. This thread is about the whole idea of guys thinking they can buy a girl just because they gave her one or two gifts, when its supposed to be a gesture from the heart. And women thinking they'll be seen as materialistic if they accept gifts from guys, when in actual fact, some guys offer gifts from the depth of their heart!!

I dont have to come to NL and broadcast what I have to offer a guy personally and my ability to 'love and care' is certainly not your problem.

good for you

Ujujoan:
Why do they have to be independent of each other? The affection and the gifts, I mean. Why does it have to be an eithr or? Can't a guy express his affection and still be able to give his girl gifts?

A guy travels out of the country and gets you a Swatch watch, as a girl he likes, and you rule him out and trying to buy you? Trying to force you to notice him? Thats a bit short-sighted if I should say.

Your reservation should only be there when its obvious the man's not worth a dime in attitude and affection. But dont you dare victimize him cos he belives in buying you a gift or two.

Dont make him apologize for being rich!! Ask Luther Vandross!!

he is DEAD, lol


now I knw what tickles you all a guy needs to do is go to NEXT clearance and spend £10 on you every month and d ass belongs to him, lol what your address

Ujujoan:
You know what baffles me in this thread, is not just height of hypocrisy from the ladies, but the blatant display of total disrespect from the guys.

I use the word ‘hypocrisy’ cos I can boldly say that every girl appreciates a little spoiling from her man. I’m not accusing you ladies of using that as a basis for selection, but don’t tell me you don’t smile when a guy buys you a gift. If you all are as sensible as you claim, then you’ll know the ‘treasure’ is not going to make you fall for a guy. You won’t even accept gifts from a guy you don’t like. But if a guy you like doesn’t buy you gifts or spend a dime on you, you’ll be the first people to post ‘he’s stingy’ on this forum.

As for the guys, you all come here to say ‘ladies are no more worth it, ladies are cheap, they are booty-calls, no time to waste, what’s the point . . . ‘ How do you even expect to meet decent girls with that mentality?

I asked a simple question. . . . .What happened to ‘Treasure’? Most of you have decided to ignore the question and attack me personally. Now I don’t mind being the NL gold-digger, I don’t even mind being called materialistic. But when are people going to start understanding that materials things does not rule out love. That a guy spends on you doesn’t mean you don’t love him for who he is and also the fact that he’s stingy doesn’t make your love real. That a guy is broke doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be truly loved, but can’t the rich guys get the same benefit?

Just because a guy can buy a lady a lot of nice things doesn’t mean he’s trying to buy her love. Those are just things what money brings. The heart is all that matter in the end.

So maybe if you all start thinking like that, you’ll stop seeing ‘treasure’ as something negative!!

I am sure if you show a guy dat you LOVE & CARE for him wooing you won't be a problem so far your love is real, you always talk about what you want but never for once say anything about what u are going to give apart from ass to get what you want maybe you need to think about that and i guess dats why all d ladies here are against you not being HYPOCRITE.

iice:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=317597.msg4459836#msg4459836

busted

are u serious

waterworks:
@ujuan i am a woman.
maybe its the expectant gifts any money for paying bills youre looking for that is blocking your eyes.

You dont need a man to pay your bills since when was paying bills considered wooing? you mean you wnat them to slap u with money abi? Its women like you that make it hard for women like me to find a good man not looking to buy my love. lazy unresponsive women looking for who will pay thier bills and take them to exotic resaturants. If all youre gonna use the eductaion you are now privileged to have to sit at home and wait for a man to pay all ure bills why do we fight everyday for equality?

And most of all how bout the ones who cant pay the bills nko?
they will start wooing again once lazy women like yoursleves get up and show them they are worth beign wooed!

you are a very SMART & INTELLIGENT woman God bless you

Raymonwell:
Am on dis site 2 search 4 my right lady since 2month nw,bt unfortunately 4 me, i hav nt gotten any one.pls pple in d house shuld help me look 4 d mother of my unborn baby. My felow Guys and Ladies am beging u in Gods name. My contacts are: 08028850963/07033494121. Or raheem4luv@gmail.com.

2 months pere don worry u still have time lol

Ujujoan:
Hey I didnt say I was looking for anything, Billioniare or Wooing. As a matter of fact, I lifted the OP from a friend's post on FB. And the more I thin about it, the more I realize that its true. Guy no longer do those things. Even when they do, they expect you to be their slave just cos they paid for your house.

well it depends on the kind of relationship that man has with d chick,

Ujujoan:
lol. Now that's a different perspective. If that's what you guys are asking for,  then we should know. Then maybe we can all arrive at a compromise. I mean if I'm paying for the mean, you should cook it and do the dishes and if I'm paying for the rent, you should do the clean-up!1  

I guess you didn't find your billionaire guy dats y u looking for a regular wooing person now abi

Aprilmay:
Especially the guys,most of them look like Agbero in oshodi

oh oh

Ujujoan:
At least he's sleeping with his ex and not some new girl he just met in the club!! Look on the bright side, he married you, not her. So your place's not threathened. The fact that you knew about it and still went ahead to marry him means you condole it to an extent. So stop b**ching!!

WHAT

na wa o

@ The Seeker, you are very intelligent mehn big up

hug and have a chat den go your own way even ask for her number

hmmmmmmmm