WAXXSTAXX:
Akwa Ibom and Cross River men date and very often, marry women of other ethnicities, too. Personally, I prefer our women to all others. Nigerians know that having Akwa Ibom and Cross River girls as significant others generally means a man will most likely have or experience a relatively HAPPY and PEACEFUL RELATIONSHIP. Who wants a deceptive, superaggressive, MONEY-HUNGRY 'MAN EATER' for wife or soulmate? No, Akwa Ibom and Cross River girls are NOT CHEAP in any way, form, or shape. What's the author's meaning of CHEAP? Our women are known to be very nurturing, God-fearing, decent, and loving. That's not saying they're perfect. It just means they are, in comparison to those outside of their race, less morally corrupt. Akwa Ibom or Cross River women of exemplary character abound and that's wonderful. Our women are not raised or taught to sell LOVE because it is something SACRED. When they fall in love, it's purely based on TRUST. Typically, AKWA-CROSS WOMEN tend to believe that their lovers are well-meaning, honest, trustworthy, dependable, and God-fearing men. They generally give and trust that others would do likewise. Love for sale? No, it's not, and will never be their way or style. Unfortunately, many people don't hold similar views and values. To some, if a woman fails to make financial or material demands before inviting a man into her life, she is "cheap." Yes, 'cheap' also means gullible and weak. They take kindness, lack of craftiness, refusal to financially exploit men, innocence, and clean, uncorrupted love for weakness. In their warped and very twisted mindsets of vice and debauchery, women must bare their bodies, wear Brazilian hair wigs, and sell their bodies---prostitute themselves to the highest bidder in order to be considered 'cool', 'swaggerlicious', and 'sophisticated'. Idiok mkpo! God, forbid! I'm especially proud of our women for refusing to follow in the devilish footsteps of those whose men so shamelessly traffic them within and outside Nigerian borders. Our AKWA-CROSS women are, on average, the MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN in NIGERIA !!! You all know it, too. You cannot deny that reality, can you? Their deep beauty and loving ways explain why men from outside the region literally 'troop' in, year round, to find wives, lovers, and soulmates. Look, it's happening even as you're reading this write-up. Now, don't you wish your women were HOT, BEAUTIFUL, and LOVING like our Akwa Ibom and Cross River ladies? Below, please see photos of beautiful and happy AKWA-CROSS ladies in their Ankara outfits. Also, see photo of fashion designer, Miss Ituen---dressed in yellow.

Here's the link to a video that might titilate your jealous mind:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNSxNsr4wmA

In 1959, the late great R & B singer, Wilbert Harrison released a big hit titled 'Kansas City'. He obviously had heard about the jazz-crazed Kansas City and its population of beautiful women. In the song, he talked about going to Kansas City and getting himself one of its "crazy little women." If you're a great guy, our lovely AKWA-CROSS women will not deny you a chance at true love. Just don't think they're cheap and gullible because you might get your feelings hurt. ONE LOVE, people!

Link to Wilbert Harrison's 'Kansas City':


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UonBS_mvW-E

And AKWA-CROSS' own late great ETUBOM REX WILLIAMS:

'KUDARA ERERIMBOT'


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38aceNY_wKY

. Mr watxxstaxx if u dnt mind,can u save evryone nd myself all dis righteous sermon about akwaibom gals because I dnt kno dem all but I certainly know one dats totally diabolic and have done me great harm....I urge u2go. On my profile and read more.....d so cald akwabom gals or women dat u praised,I dated for 2years,kept ha happy for most of it....tukcare of her needs to d best f my ability bt do u kno dt dis same lady went to cuk for one of her man friend in his aous and still slept wit him? Hell yeah slept wit him and got pregnant for him nd dis is a woman dat always profes ha undyin luv2me anytime we talkd o............so mr watxx woteva,I'd urge u to carry out certain research b4 hypin ur ladies........u cnt b2sure u kno coz nt all dat gliters is gold

ebenezer4o2:
guy,free her pls.Bet it with me,this will continue even if both of u got married.It's in her blood already,she can't change.as I told u abt mine also,I taught it dat if @ the end of the day we get married,dats how she will be flirting around,I immediately text her 2 leave me alone and keep dating the guy.This scenario is peculiar with yoruba ladies,they aren't satisfied @all.May I ask if ur gal is a yoruba Lady?

.No bro,she's an ibeno gal,fm akwaibom

Thanx evryone for ur toutful nd nice contributions......I'm rili grateful because u guys have been indeed helpfull.........

ebenezer4o2:
I really understand ur pains.This is what is happening in my relationship now as I speak 2 u but I broke up just yesterday.I've complained times without number but no change.On Monday,I caught her with her neighbour in her closed room.I didn't tell her I was coming.Man,u should've broke up since,what were u waiting for then?Their are lots of ladies out there man!It really pains though.

........yes dats very tru bro and tnx for ur concern.nd sori bout ur xperience2............wud like2talk 2 u some more if dats ok wit u.dis my num.07037730319....tanx

OP is very ryt I av xperienced almost evrytin he talkd about.....nd. I tel u people its very real,very true,soul demoralyzin and pathetic...............anybody dt wants to kno wot I mean shud pls read it on my profile

SELENAqueensy:
the same way the precious boyfriend of ours could be a cheat.....

...................selena ha tel u fm xperience nw dt d OP is very wryt no nid2take sides.....my own galfrnd dt I intend2marry nd I also do evrytin for ha and make ha happy d most tyms of her life...I even cuk4ha2 nd do anytin u can eva want a man2do4u bt do u kno dt afta 4month of bein apart,she calld me2daes back dt she was one month pregnant? I cudnt biliv it because I trusted her bt jst like d OP said.nomata aw a girl is or wot she does,dey wud stil act possessed and luk to catch fun....dis whole women tin is jst pathetic

kagari:
My advice is based on your topic cause i dint really get the language you wer writing in
.
Hmmm, my guy forget the past and face the future

...........pls. Bro I'd lyk u 2 elaborate more on d past nd muv on lyk u said

Sunkyphil:
i hope u haven't mounted on her after she got preggy if not na serious gobe o

...............she got pregnant a month ago bro.and iv not seen her for 4months til nw.I hope dat litraly ansas ur questn

Daninya1:
I personally think she is trying to play mind games on you... She may be trying to a solve the issue of trust between you guys..
Tread cautiously...

...........alryt, I will.tanx

Ok,have heard all what u guys said......tnx a bunch.it has been indeed helpful

the pregnancy is none of your business, so I'm wondering what advice you need asides kicking her out of your life and moving on to the next![/quote]...........ok I tink dis is wot I nided,I'd jst make do wit dis nd do d needful..tnx anyway

Celebrimbor:
Bros..... I really feel your pain..... It must be really really distracting and devastating..... But.... what do you want us to advice you on?

...tnx bro,she's actually beggin me wit heaven and earth nd aparently stil luvs me nd wan2get rid of d child bt I kicked against it dt I cnt commit murder....I dnt even kno wot2do wit ha case dts y m askin because as much as I want2let ha be,I still get2pity 4 ha atyms....so am askin,shud I liv ha alone or not.wot do u tink......tnx

Hello evryone.my name is rafael........I'm not regular NL poster bt I was given a very big combo shock by my so cald gal earlier todae...
We were close pals nd we talk about almost evrytin nd jokes 2 bt as. It wud usually b in a relationship,dere came one or 2 little problems.I wud xplain.............sori2bore u guys wit malong story bt I rili fil bad ryt now nd pls I wud want ur sincere and matured advice pls.......most expecially d ladies. I noticed while we were in skul up2 atleast 75pcent of her frnds were male..and often times I talk2ha nd advice to reduce d rate at which she kips male company bt as usual she wud pick up an offence nd in d end it gets2luk lyk I'm naggin wen deep down I know wot am talking about.to cut dat story.......fast forward to wen she was at service....I started to notice changes in her like e.g wearin makeups which she hated b4 den, havin close male frnds dt visits her at a place etc often tym I tak2ha about ds nd somtyms we even quarel....I spoke. My mind nd told ha2cut on dose rubbish nd she said ok..and nw dis monin,she cald me nd was cryin nd told me she was a month pregnant...I have not seen her nw for lyk 4months or. So nd I was amused at the news nd also dumbfounded....later,she confessed it was one of d male frnds she has dere and dt it hapnd ova a month which she neva told me bt claimd she wanted to confess bt dnt kno aw2....wen I askd wot took her dere,she told me she wen2cuk for him nd one tin leadin2anoda,dey made out.nd I was like whew what am I hearin?I cudnt biliv my ears because dis was a gal I trusted nd cudnt av imagined dis......I wonda y women can b dis wicked at times nd wen d deed is done,dey finish u wit cry........des notin I dnt do for dis gal rangin fm cukin to makin ha hair nd somuch more.bt. Wot I get back is dis heart destroyin news.....I'm not bodad anymore.I'll jst like to have opinions from females nd males.matured ones pls
Questions are also welcomd.I'd try2ansa all2d best of my ability

chester47: I need help!!(i met this girl,we had some chat,bam!she was into me..she was working as a sales girl.A Year older than me,but am a bit higher,.She invited me over to come wen her boss is not arround.for your info,am studying at ukraine,lugansk uni,but am applying for ma immigration.and she never knew.I came over the next day,and we talked for 10mins,and this girl was over me.she is such a good kisser,we had a little kiss,she ripped of ma cloth}NOTE:We where still in her shop and its open,got ma clothes off unziped ma trousy dipped her long nails inside,strugln with my pantie to bring it out,but i stopped her.and said no.she pleaded and said it wont take time'but ah damn refused.she then pushed mi away,and told me to get out.which i did,then 5days later she came to my house and heard me discusing with ma parents about ma immigration due to crisis n uk,and traveln bk on sept..after we met.at ma house,she now ignores me,and i luv em now.what wil ah do..she hates me xo much what will i do to get her back she really want the sex but am not ready.how can i show her love that doesnt include sex pls how.such a cunt..help nairalanders..am a full Nigerian

.lol,story for the gods,m comin lemme ask sango nd I'll get bk2u I promise

Pls anybody have good knowledge on how to carry out neat and nice art job with the use of a mesh?........tried to do mine but my art work neva come out good enough for shirt printing.pls feel free to comment if u av an idea.





Thanks:

I have been married close to two years to a Yoruba man who is 26. I'm 30 and had two children from a previous relationship. Btw: I'm American. I have known many Nigerians and my best friend is Nigerian, so I'm somewhat knowledgeable about the cultural. In the beginning my husband claimed to love me and that he had the opportunity to marry someone else but he didn't love them. He told me that he did need my help though, and if I didn't help him he'd find someone who would. I was already in love and was convinced at the time he loved me. After marriage we began having many problems...from communication and other issues. My best friends parents who are Igbo demanded to meet him BC they didn't feel right about the marriage and that it was sincere. At their home they asked him many questions and explained to him that I was their African daughter who was born in America and if he hurt me or was using me, they would find him and hurt him. He promised he was serious and loved me. Other Nigerians I know told him the same. Yet our relationship became volatile and we separated. I told him I wouldn't file until he showed he wasn't using me and that he was fully committed. When I said I wouldn't file...he would act nice again. Then things got very bad and so I called his mom, sister, and eldest brother in Lagos. They begged me not divorce him and promised to speak with him. His mother always told me she loved me and I was her American daughter. He refused to speak English and stayed on the phone often. O even found a disk which looked like someone was apart of a 419 scam. He has lied about things but said he would do better. I became pregnant and he has his first and only child which is a boy. They adore him and my husband loves that child soo much. I called my husbands bluff and I told him I would file for him but eventually I wanted a divorce BC the differences were too much. He said he didn't want that and he loved me. I told him I was scared he would hurt me, and my 2nd mom and other Nigerians I know have told me stories about green card scams. I love my husband and sometimes he barely says two words to me. He wants to hang out with his friends alot. He's obsessed with his phone and what whatsapp. I know his good friend advises him what to say to him and I even call the friend for advice to. He has let me speak to a few of his friends in Nigeria. He is secretive about his past. Were currently receiving marriage counseling by our pastor. I just want to know if this is real or not. Sometimes it seems he's pretending, other times it seems real. I wonder if he will change once he gets green card. We do still have a very active sex life and my husband can't seem to get enough of me, but I'm not sure about everything. I've been faithful but I'm not sure he has. He promises he's faithful. He's very childish and I keep asking him to mature and be the husband and father I need him to be. Sometimes I feel like I'm raising another child. His mom said we both need more patience and to pray together. Things will be going good for a couple days, then he stops his moms advice completely, even after I remind him. He's very inconsistent and many months ago he told me I love him too much. Who says that?? Sometimes he doesn't seem to care when other guys flirt with me, but other times he demands why I didn't answer my phone or who am I talking to. Please, any advice will help.

. After going through all dat u wrote,I would only drop dis few and I hope it wud help.:"u av to be willin to do all wot he wants,he's ur husband,talk to him.only den u wud kno if he's there for d love or for oda stufs"nigerian men lov respectful nd submissive wife.wish u d best in ur marriage.God bless

Tnk ya'll for ur contributions,it was indeed helpful.tnx

Popowaa: How?explain

jez lyk d question implies,if u liv far away from ur patna,I.e galfrnd/wyf,for any reasn,does it make a relationship stronger?

Enegod: if f**kin isnt a priority to either of you, it
can work wonders. if it is, good luck....

Copy dat.tnx

stag: Na whu I wan de dans 'karo' whit?

lol,u funny gon ni o,I cnt stop lafin...aiit copy dat

idnoble135: For young relationships, it destroys it. Let's say thirty out of forty will hit the rocks at a point or the other.
But in relationships where the partners have grown to really know and understand each other this will really build their relationship.
The issue here is the trust that the latter has over the former. And the trust is often clothed in commitment to one another.
Just like pregnancy can be easily lost in the early stages, so also relationships need to mature before experiencing LDR.
And to add, not everyone can bear the seeming 'loneliness' of LDR. So, some individuals will be truthful to let others know that LDR is a no no for them. LDR for those who really have a hold on their emotions and have staunch trust in their partners faithfulness to them.

u made a very gud point dere.thank u

Fynestboi: I dnt think it does.. For me its no..

Noted bro,tnx

Does Distant Relationship Helps Relationship To Grow Stronger Or Weaker?

Well,dey arnt 6month in it nw,xo wot do u xpect?maybe b4 feb approachs sha de'll prepare to start negociation IMO

losky4real: Am not happy with whaat my lecturers did who still graduates with 4.49now what is the diference between me and someone that graduated with 3.5?

aiya,noh vex o...d difrence ix dat al f una kno book nd una pas wel bt ur lecturer refusd to put evry1 in hx or haa deservin place bt u most av known how nigerian vasities operates by nw xcept ofcourse if u are no nigerian.
Anoda tin u must kno iz dat result cannot categoricaly tel aw inteligent som1 myt b and 2,it doesn't jez guarantee u a job of gold.jez hop for d best and bliv in God.Thank you

Being a student,with all the busy schedules of lectures and evrytin in school makes me think and wonder if dere are any kinds of business as a student one can engage in dat won't much of stop one from other schools activities.
Are there any pls,feel free to share


Thanks:

Pay back's iznt goin to b d best for u,jez takit eazy my man,dat won't change notin,jez forgiv nd try to forget d bullshit ever apnd.

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
You know, lately I'm beginning to think of taking this opportunity to infiltrate my girl's friend too. I think she likes me. She likes everything I do and ever since my girl messed up with my best friend, she has been coming close to me but she isn't doing anything to make me forgive my girl or bring us together again. She stays in Agbara and she told me on Saturday last week that she was going to visit me in Enugu this week. She is the school resumption notice issued by the registrar of UNN as a ruse to come over to my area in Enugu, when in fact her parents would believe she went to school.

Maam,dat simply minx SKUNK

La Rochelle: Na wa oo. It's only one person that realised he smoked SK. I don't know what that means but from its context, it should be a hard drug. The OP needs TWO kinds of help.

Bobo yi fe pami sha.I cnt stp lafin.wahahahahahahahaaaaha AFIN wit ur baby ke?gbangon,get ready o because anoda jakieshan ix about to b born bt only dx tym it wud b in nija.

obalolaunited: Bro you ve done the best thing by forgiving them but don't take her back even if she insisted on suicide let their conscience judge them both move on Bro there are still decent girls out there.
My own experience was different wish I could let u guys knw abt it without being banned still searching for suitable title HW I CAUGHT A NAIRALANDER ALBINO WITH MY GIRLFRIEND how abt that... or probably GO N DIE AFIN

martronilla: there is nothing like betrayal. His friend even helped him expose the girl. He deserves an award. He knows his frnd is dating a slut and proved it by sleeping with her. She wasnt a gud gf frm d start because if she was, she wuld av been faithful... Op, dnt mind this guy's post o. Go and give ur frnd a hand shake. He tried jare. Girls tho....

wetin dx1 dey tak? Ogafunwe o....lyk gaal lyk gaal.fish brain tinx on point.abeg go sleep if u kno noh wetin to yan.ode

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
I helped wake her up. When she regained consciousness,she didn't just know what to do or where to start confessing or how to start pleading for forgiveness.
I categorically told her it was over between us. I collected the dubai necklace I gave her(which was a symbol of our engagement). She pleaded with me but I told her it was over btw us. I left.

The following day, she came to my house with Veron my best friend who betrayed me. They said they came to beg for my forgiveness.

She said it was me she loved, and that it was a mistake what happened btw her and Veron. Veron was speechless.
I told them to go and never come back because I don't ever want to see their faces. I left there.
My girl kept coming. I neglected her. She kept calling me. She called me again yesterday which is why I'm writing this.
Should I forgiver her?

humn.....touching bro,rili touching,I feel lyk kilin som1 for u bt wot dif wud dat maak anyway,wots don ix don.we aal mak mistakes though her's,is jst out f dis world.bt here's d tin bro,it appears she has learnt ha lessons,so if u do stil fil lov for her,pls forgive ha.to forgive ix divine nd to air ix human.thank u

alutacontinua:

I agree....customers are just not flowing these dayz

shewwwwww,maadam shey na business e b ni?.......customers nw a days indeed.