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We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by ra4fo(m): 11:34pm On Nov 05, 2014
Hello evryone.my name is rafael........I'm not regular NL poster bt I was given a very big combo shock by my so cald gal earlier todae...
We were close pals nd we talk about almost evrytin nd jokes 2 bt as. It wud usually b in a relationship,dere came one or 2 little problems.I wud xplain.............sori2bore u guys wit malong story bt I rili fil bad ryt now nd pls I wud want ur sincere and matured advice pls.......most expecially d ladies. I noticed while we were in skul up2 atleast 75pcent of her frnds were male..and often times I talk2ha nd advice to reduce d rate at which she kips male company bt as usual she wud pick up an offence nd in d end it gets2luk lyk I'm naggin wen deep down I know wot am talking about.to cut dat story.......fast forward to wen she was at service....I started to notice changes in her like e.g wearin makeups which she hated b4 den, havin close male frnds dt visits her at a place etc often tym I tak2ha about ds nd somtyms we even quarel....I spoke. My mind nd told ha2cut on dose rubbish nd she said ok..and nw dis monin,she cald me nd was cryin nd told me she was a month pregnant...I have not seen her nw for lyk 4months or. So nd I was amused at the news nd also dumbfounded....later,she confessed it was one of d male frnds she has dere and dt it hapnd ova a month which she neva told me bt claimd she wanted to confess bt dnt kno aw2....wen I askd wot took her dere,she told me she wen2cuk for him nd one tin leadin2anoda,dey made out.nd I was like whew what am I hearin?I cudnt biliv my ears because dis was a gal I trusted nd cudnt av imagined dis......I wonda y women can b dis wicked at times nd wen d deed is done,dey finish u wit cry........des notin I dnt do for dis gal rangin fm cukin to makin ha hair nd somuch more.bt. Wot I get back is dis heart destroyin news.....I'm not bodad anymore.I'll jst like to have opinions from females nd males.matured ones pls
Questions are also welcomd.I'd try2ansa all2d best of my ability
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Celebrimbor(m): 11:54pm On Nov 05, 2014
Bros..... I really feel your pain..... It must be really really distracting and devastating..... But.... what do you want us to advice you on?

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Omolola1(f): 12:00am On Nov 06, 2014
Sorry about yourr pain. It's a normal thing to get heartbroken, it's no news.
What exactly do you need advice on?
The cost of pampers in the market? Or the cost of baby food? Or probably how much each ante-natal session would cost?
Because really, the pregnancy is none of your business, so I'm wondering what advice you need asides kicking her out of your life and moving on to the next!

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by emperorchedda(m): 12:02am On Nov 06, 2014
grin and some girl is supporting marriage.. Marry one of the whor'es we have littered all over our streets?!
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by ovalrose(f): 1:38am On Nov 06, 2014
emperor,please dont generalise. all women arent sluts. @op,i wonder what your reply to her was apart from congratulations. what kind of advice do you want? like Omolola said: move on with your life abeg.

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Xxpress(m): 1:43am On Nov 06, 2014
ovalrose:
emperor,please dont generalise. all women arent sluts. @op,i wonder what your reply to her was apart from congratulations. what kind of advice do you want? like Omolola said: move on with your life abeg.
But 90%of them are.
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by shortgun(m): 1:59am On Nov 06, 2014
emperorchedda:
grin and some girl is supporting marriage.. Marry one of the whor'es we have littered all over our streets?!
grin grin grin
later they will say we should get married. I thank my stars for the kind of heart I have, I can only imagine Wot d OP is going through now........... he's even worried dat she's shedding crocodile tears grin
OP, instead for u to be shouting hallelujah and singing hossana dat God has delivered you, u are here whining.

I've always told people around me to give 30% of their hearts when in love and keep 70% for the day of heartbreak........ it will surely come.

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by deejayterabyte(m): 3:32am On Nov 06, 2014
You better thank your stars that you didn't marry her before she gives you another man's child

What do you need advice on? How to move on?
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Nobody: 3:33am On Nov 06, 2014
I personally think she is trying to play mind games on you... She may be trying to a solve the issue of trust between you guys..
Tread cautiously...
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by ra4fo(m): 4:57am On Nov 06, 2014
Celebrimbor:
Bros..... I really feel your pain..... It must be really really distracting and devastating..... But.... what do you want us to advice you on?
...tnx bro,she's actually beggin me wit heaven and earth nd aparently stil luvs me nd wan2get rid of d child bt I kicked against it dt I cnt commit murder....I dnt even kno wot2do wit ha case dts y m askin because as much as I want2let ha be,I still get2pity 4 ha atyms....so am askin,shud I liv ha alone or not.wot do u tink......tnx

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by ra4fo(m): 5:00am On Nov 06, 2014
the pregnancy is none of your business, so I'm wondering what advice you need asides kicking her out of your life and moving on to the next![/quote]...........ok I tink dis is wot I nided,I'd jst make do wit dis nd do d needful..tnx anyway
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by ra4fo(m): 5:03am On Nov 06, 2014
Ok,have heard all what u guys said......tnx a bunch.it has been indeed helpful
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Nobody: 6:01am On Nov 06, 2014
As if i where in your shoes, what I do is to advised just as you did when you try to advice her , now that she has find herself in such situation, what I will do and advice you is to completely abandoned and forget her to bear the outcome of her decisions.

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Sunkyphil(m): 6:14am On Nov 06, 2014
i hope u haven't mounted on her after she got preggy if not na serious gobe o
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by YankeeJoe(m): 12:55pm On Nov 06, 2014
Omolola1:
Sorry about yourr pain. It's a normal thing to get heartbroken, it's no news.
What exactly do you need advice on?
The cost of pampers in the market? Or the cost of baby food? Or probably how much each ante-natal session would cost?
Because really, the pregnancy is none of your business, so I'm wondering what advice you need asides kicking her out of your life and moving on to the next!

why wont u be in support of her misdeeds? Afta al, u ve done even worse by means of ur expression...
Little wonda most of u whores grow old witout getin married and u claim its witchcraft frm d village

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Celebrimbor(m): 12:59pm On Nov 06, 2014
YankeeJoe:


why wont u be in support of her misdeeds? Afta al, u ve done even worse by means of ur expression...
Little wonda most of u whores grow old witout getin married and u claim its witchcraft frm d village
ah ah bros..... That was unnecessary na shwo..... I smell killjoy
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Omolola1(f): 1:10pm On Nov 06, 2014
YankeeJoe:


why wont u be in support of her misdeeds? Afta al, u ve done even worse by means of ur expression...
Little wonda most of u whores grow old witout getin married and u claim its witchcraft frm d village

Did you go to school at all?
You should learn how to read, understand and comprehend before writing. It would do you good.
Cheers!

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by shortgun(m): 1:12pm On Nov 06, 2014
YankeeJoe:


why wont u be in support of her misdeeds? Afta al, u ve done even worse by means of ur expression...
Little wonda most of u whores grow old witout getin married and u claim its witchcraft frm d village
Harsh! very harsh.
There was nothing in her post to suggest that she supported d girl dat deceived the OP, her response was very objective and realistic if you ask me.
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Mznaett(f): 2:19pm On Nov 06, 2014
Incase!
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by ra4fo(m): 3:11pm On Nov 06, 2014
Daninya1:
I personally think she is trying to play mind games on you... She may be trying to a solve the issue of trust between you guys..
Tread cautiously...
...........alryt, I will.tanx
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by kagari: 3:49pm On Nov 06, 2014
My advice is based on your topic cause i dint really get the language you wer writing in
.
Hmmm, my guy forget the past and face the future

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by ra4fo(m): 5:33pm On Nov 06, 2014
Sunkyphil:
i hope u haven't mounted on her after she got preggy if not na serious gobe o
...............she got pregnant a month ago bro.and iv not seen her for 4months til nw.I hope dat litraly ansas ur questn
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by ra4fo(m): 5:37pm On Nov 06, 2014
kagari:
My advice is based on your topic cause i dint really get the language you wer writing in
.
Hmmm, my guy forget the past and face the future
...........pls. Bro I'd lyk u 2 elaborate more on d past nd muv on lyk u said
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Nobody: 6:05pm On Nov 06, 2014
I really understand ur pains.This is what is happening in my relationship now as I speak 2 u but I broke up just yesterday.I've complained times without number but no change.On Monday,I caught her with her neighbour in her closed room.I didn't tell her I was coming.Man,u should've broke up since,what were u waiting for then?Their are lots of ladies out there man!It really pains though.
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Nobody: 6:12pm On Nov 06, 2014
ra4fo:
...tnx bro,she's actually beggin me wit heaven and earth nd aparently stil luvs me nd wan2get rid of d child bt I kicked against it dt I cnt commit murder....I dnt even kno wot2do wit ha case dts y m askin because as much as I want2let ha be,I still get2pity 4 ha atyms....so am askin,shud I liv ha alone or not.wot do u tink......tnx
guy,free her pls.Bet it with me,this will continue even if both of u got married.It's in her blood already,she can't change.as I told u abt mine also,I taught it dat if @ the end of the day we get married,dats how she will be flirting around,I immediately text her 2 leave me alone and keep dating the guy.This scenario is peculiar with yoruba ladies,they aren't satisfied @all.May I ask if ur gal is a yoruba Lady?

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by kagari: 6:20pm On Nov 06, 2014
ra4fo:
...........pls. Bro I'd lyk u 2 elaborate more on d past nd muv on lyk u said
.
My friend if you cant understand the summary, what is the probability that you would understand the sermon

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Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by YankeeJoe(m): 8:31pm On Nov 06, 2014
Omolola1:


Did you go to school at all?
You should learn how to read, understand and comprehend before writing. It would do you good.
Cheers!

ya, am nt only a graduate bt also a rational thinker..

Truth, we must learn 2 cal a spade a spade!! Kill sentimental biases.. Dats jus my take
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Celebrimbor(m): 9:07pm On Nov 06, 2014
YankeeJoe:


ya, am nt only a graduate bt also a rational thinker..

Truth, we must learn 2 cal a spade a spade!! Kill sentimental biases.. Dats jus my take
did you have to insult her just so that you can clarify your point? Please bro despite the fact that this is a faceless forum does not mean that you should be disrespectful. You said that you are a rational thinker, act like it.
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Nobody: 10:40pm On Nov 06, 2014
In Chris Brown's voice "These Hos aint Loyal".My man u should be thankful this is happening sooner than later.Most of the girls that I know that have more male friends than female friends always have issues with fidelity.Thats a fact.I dont care what anybody says.I have been around the block.Look at the positives from this heart breaking event.Now u wont end up with a slut as ur wife.U wont have to deal with diseases like HIV and other STIs like penile warts.U wont have to shoulder the responsibilities of another man (because that was goona be ur portion before this event).You just dodged a bullet.Actions have consequences.Let her deal with the consequence of her actions.May be she will learn to be a better person from it.I feel ur pain.The betrayal and the breach of trust.It could have been worse if u guys had tied the knot.If u were in my neighbourhood I would have taken u out to get u drunk so u can forget ur sorry.Cheer up man.Better ladies await u. Peace
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by Exponental(m): 11:43pm On Nov 06, 2014
congratulations....
u are vindicated. u aint gonna father a bastard from her.
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by karmaleon: 12:15am On Nov 07, 2014
Sue her!
Re: We've Been Dating For 2 Years, And She Still Got Pregnant For Another Man by ra4fo(m): 3:23pm On Nov 07, 2014
ebenezer4o2:
I really understand ur pains.This is what is happening in my relationship now as I speak 2 u but I broke up just yesterday.I've complained times without number but no change.On Monday,I caught her with her neighbour in her closed room.I didn't tell her I was coming.Man,u should've broke up since,what were u waiting for then?Their are lots of ladies out there man!It really pains though.
........yes dats very tru bro and tnx for ur concern.nd sori bout ur xperience2............wud like2talk 2 u some more if dats ok wit u.dis my num.07037730319....tanx

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