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Celebrities / Male Celebrities With Great Bodies We Never Knew. by rafmike(m): 1:02am On Dec 09, 2014
There’s something very hot about a guy who looks
like your everyday and then pulls off
his shirt to show…BLOW BLING BLOW: abs of
perfection, poppin’ pecs and biceps and triceps
that could hurt a fool that comes very incorrect at. It’s also something that could make you give a certain
celebrity the eye when you weren’t really paying
them any mind before. Check out these fellas
and you’ll know what I mean…

Miguel
And to think, I’ve never looked at Miguel as
anything but the guy with the great voice who
sings “Sure Thing” and “Adorn,” the new baby-
making jams. But who knew he had a body like
this? The singer showcased his very well put
together biceps and triceps, and a nice set of abs
that I think we can all appreciate. Heeeeey Miguel!

Ne-Yo
Don’t let the songwriting skills and the sweet love
songs fool you, Ne-Yo’s got body for days! Just
because he doesn’t show it off like Trey Songz
doesn’t mean anything. He surprised everybody
when he showed off his body and his strenuous
workouts, the “ Screwdriver workout, “and had all
eyes watching when he debuted his “Lazy Love”
video shirtless and delicious. Ain’t nothing lazy
about this body and those pecs! You better work
Ne-Yo…

Drake
Let’s keep it real. Back when Drake, aka Aubrey
Graham, was playing Wheelchair Jimmy on
“Degrassi,” like most young and tall men, he was
extremely scrawny. And while there’s nothing
wrong with being slim, once he became a
successful rapper, he decided to step his game up.
You can now find him posting photos of himself
lifting big weights, playing basketball with friends,
and showing off all his hard work on stage. And I’m
not mad at him (but I’m still mad at that Aaliyah
face tattoo, that’s still just too creepy for me…)

John Legend
While I love John Legend as a musician, honestly,
he’s pretty stale. He doesn’t show off much body,
his music isn’t really risque, and he keeps it pretty
PG in life on the regular. So maybe that’s why I
was surprised to see that the singer, who spends
so much time behind the piano, has a nice six pack
and sweet set of arms on him. I’d like to think it’s
from a lot of hardcore exercise, but I’m sure it’s
from all the shopping and bag holding he does for
his lady, Chrissy Teigen.

Miguel
Ne-yo
Drake
John Legend

Romance / Re: Reasons Why Black Women Don’t Date Whitemen by rafmike(m): 12:17am On Dec 09, 2014
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Romance / Reasons Why Black Women Don’t Date Whitemen by rafmike(m): 11:51pm On Dec 08, 2014
Interracial dating has been one of the biggest
conversations within the black community. Black
men have made it no secret their liking to white
women. Regina King recently raised the argument
that we as black women still have not become
completely comfortable dating outside our race. I
recently did a survey on a group of black women
regarding their reasons for not dating men who are
not of color. Through my findings it seems as
though black women aren’t actually opposef to
dating outside of their race. Part of the dilemma
lies in women of color thinking that men outside of
their race won’t be attracted to them. Below are
the 5 top reasons black women are apprehensive
about going there with a white guy.

1. Body image
Black women are known to be naturally
curvaceous. We are praised for our assests by the
black men who love us. It has been known that the
bigger the backside the better. The rounder the
breast the better. The thicker the legs the more
beautiful. In the white community this has been the
complete opposite. The bigger the butt, the less
attractive. If your hips are too wide you’re
considered fat. Thinner is usually all around better
within the white community. This is naturally
engrained in both African American and Caucasian
people’s subconscious. Many studies show that
black men prefer woman with curves and white
men prefer women who are thin. After speaking to
6 black women between the ages of 25-40 most
state that they believe a white man would not be
attracted to them because of their voluptuous
bodies.

2. Hair
Black women have been ridiculed for their hair for
many many years. Chris Rock made the movie
“Good Hair” that touched on many areas of what
black women go through regarding their hair. If we
wear it natural it’s consider nappy. If we perm it
we’re considered “white washed”. If we have a
weave, we aren’t happy with who we are and
would really like to be a white woman. Regarding
hair we just can’t seem to win. Since this is
already a touchy subject in the black community,
it’s obvious as to why a black woman would rather
avoid the whole “hair conversation” when dating a
white man. Sure most black men hate weaves but
the women I surveyed expressed how a black man
would understand more because he was raised by
a black woman. Because of this, a black man
knows all the changes his mother may have went
through maintaining her hair. He is no stranger to
fake hair or a pressing comb. A white man on the
other hand is used to naturally unenhanced straight
hair that he gets to run his fingers through. The
women I surveyed said they were naturally
intimidated when it came to dating a white man
because of their hair.

3. Background/Education
Statistics show that Caucasians have more money,
better education, better jobs and more
opportunities. In the black community, we naturally
have to work twice as hard and be 3 times smarter
to achieve the level of success deemed to be
successful. White men that are very successful
will usually date a woman who is as successful or
at least in the same class as himself. At least then
he feels as if he has something in common with
her. Because the black community doesn’t have as
many advantages this leaves desirable black
women to a minimum.

4. They are never approached by white men.
We as black women are constantly criticized for
being the ones not open to dating outside of our
race but what happens if white men just do not
approach us? When I surveyed these women, 4
out of the 6 said they were never even approached
by a white guy. Unfortunately black women have
the smallest pool to choose from. We are naturally
attracted to black men but the majority of black
men now and days marry outside of their race.
Statistics show that white men usually date within
their race and if they don’t, they are more likely to
date a Hispanic, Asian or pacific islander. The
percentage of white men and black women that
date is a very low one.

5. Just not attracted to white men
We are also guilty of just not feeling it. 4 out of
6 women also said they were simply not
attracted to white men. They felt as if they
lacked good looks that they were used to, as
well as confidence (swag) and sex appeal.
Because of this it was hard for most of them to
really become serious about potentially being
able to have a serious relationship with a white
man.
As you see there are many reasons that stop
black women from dating white men.
Unfortunately many of the reasons stem from
insecurity. I think it’s important for us as black
women to not miss out on opportunities just
because of insecurities. Insecurity stems from
fear and fear can stop you from attaining your
blessings. At the same time, we are beautiful
creatures who deserve the very best. We
should also be able to get exactly what we
want. If that happens to be a strong, successful
black man, so be it. The sky should be the limit
for us. If we truly believe we can and do
deserve the very best, that is what will come to
us. But it is also important to be open to
anything life may have to offer. Life isn’t about
being closed minded. Life is about taking
chances and enjoying whatever challenges and
changes may come our way. If a good looking
white guy comes up to you and is interested in
you, don’t be so quick to judge or feel you may
not measure up in his eyes. If he approached
you, that means he’s attracted to you. Love can
come in all shades and sizes. Let’s not ever
allow stereotypes and judgments determine
who we can fall in love with.

http://madamenoire.com/124921/reasons-why-black-women-dont-date-white-men/2/

Romance / Re: My Brothers Wife ALWAYS Ask Me To Unzip Her Dress. Is This Appropriate? by rafmike(m): 8:04am On Dec 08, 2014
These pple advising the op above n below me. Are you gullible or stupid. Or both
Lol..
grin

You've got anything to say?
Romance / Re: My Brothers Wife ALWAYS Ask Me To Unzip Her Dress. Is This Appropriate? by rafmike(m): 7:54am On Dec 08, 2014
Raymondenyi:
I think u are the only reasonable person on this thread; it is appalling to see some supposedly mature ladies; ladies giving very stuipid and insennsitive advice without analysing the situation...
And as for the OP ramfike; I think u are a pervvert; to start having some irrational sexual thoughts towards ur sister inlaw makes u a sexual psycho and pervert.
U stay in same house with her; u are her brother; do u expect her to start going out of the house to call the neighbours to unzip or zip her cloths anytimme she's about going to work? Won't that seem to u insane? If it was a case where by she had children and still calls u to do it; den we could think of something else...

The only advice I can give to you, is to remove those perverteous thoughts u having towards ur sister in law; (as its obvious her hearts is clear) if u are so pressed pls go and use the bathroom; self-service urself to ur satistfaction... And leave ur sister alone...

Silly stupid kids everywhere on Niraland... #Spits on thread n walks out#


Hey you've got no right to call me psycho and pervert.. we're all humans. we've got flaws. and we ain't perfect. So I've got every reason to think dat way.
Romance / Re: My Brothers Wife ALWAYS Ask Me To Unzip Her Dress. Is This Appropriate? by rafmike(m): 7:51am On Dec 08, 2014
emusmith:
My neighbor do come to me for that too.
It is normal...
Why thinkest thou evil?

Normal? ma case doesn't seem normal
Romance / Re: My Brothers Wife ALWAYS Ask Me To Unzip Her Dress. Is This Appropriate? by rafmike(m): 7:50am On Dec 08, 2014
Mondisweets:
And they say women are the only ones who who are experts at reading into things that dont exist grin its just a damn zim, she didnt ask u to knock her up undecided
undecided
Mondisweets:
And they say women are the only ones who who are experts at reading into things that dont exist grin its just a damn zim, she didnt ask u to knock her up undecided
Romance / Re: I'm I Still A Virgin If I Masturbate? by rafmike(m): 7:22am On Dec 08, 2014
Impulse80:
sad

U wan book space? ur life dey like nylon on top express road.
Romance / Re: I'm I Still A Virgin If I Masturbate? by rafmike(m): 7:20am On Dec 08, 2014
marieolae:
you are deceiving yourself. Virginity can only be defined in one direction. Smh

in wat direction?
Romance / Re: I'm I Still A Virgin If I Masturbate? by rafmike(m): 7:19am On Dec 08, 2014
dudesexy1111:
Why u dey self sevice.... Find toto fu**k na

I don't masturbate. this is just a common question most youths ask
Romance / Re: I'm I Still A Virgin If I Masturbate? by rafmike(m): 10:34pm On Dec 07, 2014
victomancer:
Yes...Ur a secondary virgin

Which one again be Secondary virgin?
Romance / Re: I'm I Still A Virgin If I Masturbate? by rafmike(m): 7:00am On Dec 07, 2014
Blurr:
Depends on hw yu define d word "virgin"

How do you define de word virgin?
Romance / Re: I'm I Still A Virgin If I Masturbate? by rafmike(m): 1:19am On Dec 07, 2014
neejay1986:
Looking with my eyes...
Hearing with my ears...
Typing with my fingers...
Seems not to have anything to say now....
I'm coming.... I want to consult....


IFA? well Dats #AnotherCharityComment
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Newcastle Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 6th December 2014 by rafmike(m): 10:33pm On Dec 06, 2014
Chelsea lost!
Fact is d unbeaten run is broken!
Painful fact is they lost to newcastle again!
Another fact is by dis time last season we cudnt
maintain our 8point lead!
Strikin fact is we may end december in 2nd position!
Serious fact is man city wud surely capitalize n hunt
us!
Unnoticed fact is we lost witout matic,we have never
lost a game in which matic was involved!
Blameful fact is cahill was kinda slacky,not d usual
rebust focus.
Important fact is chelsea shud be scared now n so
will their supporters!
Medical fact is costa is fit again n is not performin
like when he was unfit!
Known fact is other club fans wud mock us thru out d
weekend!
Statistical fact is we re still leadin d chase!

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Romance / Re: I'm I Still A Virgin If I Masturbate? by rafmike(m): 10:38pm On Dec 04, 2014
ammyluv2002:
Meaning? Privilege as in what? Will first to comment get me a house in Abuja or increase my bank acct that's showing red right now. I only cleared my throat cause I want to know what people will say. No be only privilege na opportunity

If you've got nothing to contribute you can try picking Beans.
Romance / Re: I'm I Still A Virgin If I Masturbate? by rafmike(m): 11:24am On Dec 04, 2014
ammyluv2002:
Hmmmm*clears throat*


Its a privilege dat you're first to comment. don't misuse dat previdge
Romance / I'm I Still A Virgin If I Masturbate? by rafmike(m): 11:16am On Dec 04, 2014
This is a question most youth ask. What does being a virgin mean to you? Being a virgin is it more about the beliefs that people have about bodies, especially women's bodies, and sex rather than about what people do or don't do?

I'm confused about this. What your say about this?
Fashion / Re: Meet The Contestants Of The Most Beautiful Girl In LASU, 2014 Beauty Pageant by rafmike(m): 6:04pm On Dec 03, 2014
Beautiful Igbo girls no dey LASU?
Politics / Re: Biafra Lobby Group Admitted to AU Socio-Cultural Body by rafmike(m): 12:28am On Nov 26, 2014
emmysoftyou:
hahahahha...
yu see why i love my yoruba friends...one person with fear will say the truth...
One day....

Let's say I'm unbiased

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Education / Re: Progress Or Failure In The Nigeria University? by rafmike(m): 9:19pm On Nov 24, 2014
christejames:
chaii! I love this ur sentence oooo, is like u are among our lecturers *grins*

So mk I kill myself?
Politics / Re: Biafra Lobby Group Admitted to AU Socio-Cultural Body by rafmike(m): 4:32pm On Nov 24, 2014
emmalexabl:





Only a toddler or may be a fool would ask this kind yeye question!!

So which are you ??

your signature dey fear me grin
Politics / Re: Biafra Lobby Group Admitted to AU Socio-Cultural Body by rafmike(m): 4:29pm On Nov 24, 2014
I am a Yoruba guy and I truly support de Biafrans. let's just be sincere for once. If Biafra should leave, we de Yoruba's will suffer de consequences. Unless we also disintegrate and become Republic of Oduduwa too. Me dey fear Boko Haram ooo. grin

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Education / Re: Progress Or Failure In The Nigeria University? by rafmike(m): 4:07pm On Nov 24, 2014
christejames:
Those of us that school at the 'back of Nigeria' don't care if they ban those schooling at France. As for your question those of us here don't know anything about agriculture and university.

Therefore you don't know anything about anything grin
Education / Re: Progress Or Failure In The Nigeria University? by rafmike(m): 10:21am On Nov 24, 2014
tobillionaire:
I stay in kuwait, xo dunno. Mouau


And who cares? undecided
Education / Progress Or Failure In The Nigeria University? by rafmike(m): 9:15am On Nov 24, 2014
Out of the 2900 graduates convocated in MICHAEL OKPARA UNIVERSITY OF AGRICULTURE UMUDIKE ABIA STATE (MOUAU) by the school VC, Prof. Hilary Edeoga on 22nd Nov comprising 2012/13 & 2013/14 sessions. Only 14 had First class, 517 with 2nd class upper, 857 got 2nd class lower, while 872 backed 3rd class, 445 managed pass.
The school has been ranked the 2nd best university of agriculture in the nation as FEDERAL UNIVERSITY OF AGRICULTURE ABEOKUTA (FUUNAB) takes the lead.


What's your say about this? Is this progress in the Nigeria university or failure? Plz share your view.

#Note: As you comment below, beware of the phrase "I SCHOOL IN FRANCE". You might be banned! grin

http://www.punchng.com/news/14-make-first-class-as-mouau-graduates-2900/

Education / Re: Why I School In France by rafmike(m): 2:15pm On Nov 23, 2014
Kizmarty:


Why should I want to sch in france
A country well known for her unfairness to foriegners esp negroids..a nation still drinking frm d cups of racism..
A nation where your skin colour is use to classify your lifestyle...


I still wanna know..why should I sch in france?

I don't know what you're talking about. All I know is I school in France cheesy grin
Education / Re: Why I School In France by rafmike(m): 9:47pm On Nov 22, 2014
missdebs:
is today france independence?

is dat a question?
Education / Re: Why I School In France by rafmike(m): 5:18pm On Nov 22, 2014
Donsammi:
0wk..n0ted

I can offer you free visa to school in France too. But you must prove to me that you can speak French.
Education / Why I School In France by rafmike(m): 4:28pm On Nov 22, 2014
Why I Study in France

What if I tell you that the country has one of the most
prestigious education systems in the world? Whether you are an individual seeking undergraduate studies, postgraduate schooling or something else, an amazing education can easily be found in the country. No matter what region that you go to there are numerous
universities and educational institutions offering world-class education for people far and wide. There is a reason that so many people choose to come to France to receive their education and when it is the best education that you require, it is well worth your
time to look at the colleges and universities that are available throughout the country.
As a student at one of these institutions you can rest assured that you will receive an amazing education, while also enjoying the many other things that are to be loved in the country. The universities in France offer students the chance to attend their institutions
on a full and part time basis, with a number of class schedules and courses available. These courses will all vary by the college, as will the times that you can attend. However, it is quite easy to find something that accommodates your schedule and allows you to go to
university in your own time.
Some of the universities in France may also offer their students the chance to complete some of their courses at home via their own computer. This is again something that you should check with the university concerned, as not all of them will offer this option.
Additionally, it may not be offered for all courses or for all subjects.
It is French tradition to welcome foreign students from all across the world. Since the Middle Ages, and the birth of La Sorbonne, the first French University which occurred more than 800 years ago, students from all across Europe have come to France to study,
especially in the areas of theology, medicine and law.
But people are not just coming from Europe
any longer. Many students from NIGERIA
attend college in France. There are also a growing percentage of college enrollees from other countries as well. People come to France to get their education because they know what kind of system awaits them.
France is keen on providing top of the line education in all subjects and to all students.

This is a true statement no matter what university you plan to attend.
No matter what country you are coming from you can expect to be welcomed with open
arms. There is so much diversity in France. It is one of the things that keeps the country such an amazing place to be for all. It is always nice to know that you will fit right in with the crowd when you arrive. No one will question the fact that it can be hard to be the new kid on the block. If you are coming from another nation and culture and are unaware of the country and know no one, it can be far scarier. Knowing that no matter where you choose to go in France you can rest assured that you are going to be welcomed and feel
right at home, really is a tremendous boon.

And that is why I school in France grin cheesy
Education / Re: I Schooled In France Trend by rafmike(m): 3:46pm On Nov 22, 2014
Bonsuir bonjour merci coupa tullepa? est parci garçon un Francophon?

You school in France, I school in FRENCH

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