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Family / Re: Is My Decision Right Or Wrong by RagnarKlavan: 9:50am On Mar 11, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: Fair point but if it was me, she would have clearly seen my stand on issues like this when we were dating. If I had child/children from a prior relationship, be ready to take all of it. If you start seeing my daughter/son as a competition, don't even bother to come close. |
Family / Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by RagnarKlavan: 9:45am On Mar 11, 2020 |
Old people get bored easily. I'd say you first investigate the reason she's spending the night at your place before taking any action. You might also want to be a bit more accommodating of her. Above all, never confront her. If you're sending any message about the issue, make sure your wife is the bearer. A lot of diplomacy is required in this regard. Employ a bit of body language/subtle messaging if you must have her stop. Encourage her to visit her other children too. Something like a rotation to host her per time. |
Family / Re: Is My Decision Right Or Wrong by RagnarKlavan: 9:40am On Mar 11, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Finally, a woman that gets it! |
Family / Re: Is My Decision Right Or Wrong by RagnarKlavan: 9:34am On Mar 11, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: I completely understand your point but I would rather not use that line at all if I was in his position. There are other ways to deal with the issue. Let's just say I'm very vested in things I feel strongly about. I also agree that men should be able to make some decisions unilaterally, especially if it's for the greater good of the family. Deferring to the wife all the time can be exhausting. The wife should be able to make some decisions too, so it goes both ways. What is more important is to see the main goal of the decision the other party makes, beyond the nose. Again, logic over emotions. In a similar thread in this section, a man has the opportunity to move abroad and raise the living standard of his family but as usual, the wife refused for the most ridiculous reasons. That is beyond me. If it were a girlfriend, I'd dump her like a hot pile of shit! |
Family / Re: Is My Decision Right Or Wrong by RagnarKlavan: 9:27am On Mar 11, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: We're quite alike. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: As A Husband, How Would This Statement Make You Feel? by RagnarKlavan: 7:40am On Mar 11, 2020 |
When you love someone, they fulfill some needs. It doesn't have to be financial, it could be emotional needs. Heck, the concept of love is premised on the idea of fulfilling emotional needs first. Other things are secondary. Except the woman is trying to imply this, something is wrong. She either doesn't understand the statement or not finding the right words to describe her feelings for the man. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by RagnarKlavan: 7:32am On Mar 11, 2020 |
As usual, the women are here again to peddle their emotional selfishness. A medical professional who's supposedly to be on better financial standing is struggling even with two streams of income in a very bad economy. He sees an opportunity to better the family lot for a lifetime and generations to come but wife disagrees because of a petulant issue- one she started in the first place. Sad! If you don't act on your instincts and make a move now, you'll build up resentment towards that same wife for being a cog in your wheel of progress and that could hamper even the said marriage. For those asking if he's written the exams first, I say to the OP- give it a shot. you miss %100 of the shots you don't take. If you must stay with your brother when you move, make it the shortest possible stay ever or make plans to go straight to your own place from Nigeria when you move. It's doable with proper planning. On a final note, make genuine moves to repair the relationship between your family and your brother's. You don't want bad blood coursing over generations because of two petty women. Address the issues without passing blames and own up where you're wrong. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Is My Decision Right Or Wrong by RagnarKlavan: 7:19am On Mar 11, 2020 |
This is the closest thing to any reasonable advise on this subject matter. Your wife is needlessly petty. Any advise here asking you to do it for the sake of peace is coming from a sentimental place. Women are a lot more concerned about their emotions rather than logic. If you haven't given your wife any reason to doubt your love for her and your son, I don't see any reason why it should be a problem. I do not support you sending her away though; it's a matter of communication. Explain to her the reason as outlined by RisenPhoenix. Any other thing is bullsh*t. All that talk about for the sake of peace is why we are in this situation as a country. Emotions over logic all the time. Tragic! Public offices are full of round pegs in square holes because someone's emotion/ego has to be massaged. We need to start making sound decisions right from the home-front. RisenPhoenix: 7 Likes |
Travel / Re: Preparing For TOEFL, Already Taken TOEFL Come In Let's Discuss. by RagnarKlavan: 11:45am On Aug 15, 2017 |
MrFuckallday: Please send it to me via marvinsmith007@gmail.com I'm willing to send it to others |
Travel / Re: Preparing For TOEFL, Already Taken TOEFL Come In Let's Discuss. by RagnarKlavan: 6:54pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Igeoluwatobi: Please tell me how. I want to register for TOEFL. Kindly share materials with if you have, please. Thank you! |
Travel / Re: Preparing For TOEFL, Already Taken TOEFL Come In Let's Discuss. by RagnarKlavan: 6:53pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Igeoluwatobi: Please tell me how. I want to register. |
Travel / Re: Preparing For TOEFL, Already Taken TOEFL Come In Let's Discuss. by RagnarKlavan: 11:32pm On Aug 12, 2017 |
crowntoro: Would you be kind enough to share practice materials with me via marvinsmith007@gmail.com Thanks |
Travel / Re: Preparing For TOEFL, Already Taken TOEFL Come In Let's Discuss. by RagnarKlavan: 9:14pm On Aug 12, 2017 |
Igeoluwatobi: Would you be kind enough to share with me via marvinsmith007@gmail.com Thanks |
Travel / Re: Preparing For TOEFL, Already Taken TOEFL Come In Let's Discuss. by RagnarKlavan: 9:12pm On Aug 12, 2017 |
MrFuckallday: Hi, I'd appreciate if you can share the practice material with me via marvinsmith007@gmail.com Thanks |
Travel / Re: Preparing For TOEFL, Already Taken TOEFL Come In Let's Discuss. by RagnarKlavan: 8:16pm On Aug 12, 2017 |
Hello Good People, Anyone knows where and how to register for this TOEFL exams should recommend. I see quite a number of them (agencies) online but don't know which one is reputable. I'd also appreciate free study materials. Thanks |
Travel / Re: U.S. Non-immigrant Visas: We’re Listening by RagnarKlavan: 8:58am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Travel / Re: U.S. Non-immigrant Visas: We’re Listening by RagnarKlavan: 12:29pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Hello Abujaniv, I'd like to know if one can apply for a renewal of B1/B2 visa ahead of its expiry date, like 2 or 3 months in advance. |
Health / Re: Low Sex Drive by RagnarKlavan: 12:05am On Dec 13, 2016 |
PRISTINEMUSCLES: Thanks for this. Will do as advised |
Health / Re: Low Sex Drive by RagnarKlavan: 9:56am On Dec 12, 2016 |
PRISTINEMUSCLES: It's been daily but I noticed it was off on two occasions. And it's not as hard as it used to be. All of these started over 2 weeks ago |
Health / Re: Low Sex Drive by RagnarKlavan: 10:56pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
PRISTINEMUSCLES: Thanks for your response. Does low sex drive also affect morning erections? On a couple of occasions, I noticed I wake up soft. Lastly, it safe to say it's a phase, right? I need more opinions, please |
Health / Low Sex Drive by RagnarKlavan: 9:59pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
Hi Docs in the house I'm hoping I can get useful advice and opinions here. I'm a 29 year old, sexually active male. Recently, my sexy drive dipped and it's giving me serious concerns. I've never had to use any aphrodisiac for sex and I'm really hesitant about it. I seem to have gone from that Hot dude to trying to be excited about anything sex. It just seems like that part of my brain dealing with such issues and emotions have gone to sleep I've had a rough year, in terms of relationships. I got out of a really bad and emotional one. I've read several articles on this issue but I can't seem to find any respite. I don't know if it's a phase, a function of the hurt. A few opined I should try I should try sex enhancement meds. Will I have to depend on that always to get my groove on? Is this just a phase? Am I being unreasonably paranoid? Is there anyone out there who has been through this before? How can I get back to my old self? Are there any safe and natural meds to use? Please come to my aid. I'm here to answer any questions Thanks |
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