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Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Primenet(m): 8:08pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
Hello good people, I have a serious issue that is bothering me. I need your help please. The issue without wasting time has to do with my mother in law who constantly passes the night in our home. She have her own rented apartment in the same neighborhood but prefer to pass the night in our home. Is this good? How do I put a stop to this? Your opinion is highly appreciated in advance. |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by MickzyDonald: 8:09pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
i wll say a word |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by yvesboss(m): 8:11pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
Lol Bring in a visitor for a week to occupy the room or turn the room to a store I’m joking oooo 1 Like |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Tominix(m): 8:13pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
Ftc wow . . . . . . . . . . Aunty see jus dnt do any tin make sure she feels at home . . . . . . And if she bring the matter bout having a child. Drop the hint that you will need a littie priv...... am nt married though . . . . . . . . ehm bt wetin i knw sef |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by OlawaleBammie: 8:15pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
uu don enter am oo 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Tominix(m): 8:15pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
MickzyDonald:I AM MEANT TO BE THE FTC NA*SOBS* SEUN NO GO CRDT ME NW |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by babyfaceafrica: 8:29pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
Lmao.. Na ur cross carry am |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by GboyegaD(m): 8:30pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
Primenet: What is the reason she is giving and have you discussed your discomfort with your wife? |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by choice17(m): 10:10pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
Oga, have you try discussing the situation with your wife? please do, as it will give you an insight on how to properly tackle her reasons for always sleeping at your house! |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by LadySarah: 10:33pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
She lives close nah and might not like living alone. Get her someone to stay with her or suck it up if she isn't getting in ur way. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by cococandy(f): 11:31pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
Is she lonely? |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Adgideon(m): 11:44pm On Mar 08, 2020 |
Who pays the rent of ur home, or if is ur own house, put ur authority to work, what's wrong with her place, and what is ur wife saying, concerning the issue, which ever you have the final say 1 Like |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by namiji2598: 12:04am On Mar 09, 2020 |
She is not comfortable u fvcking her daughter |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by frozen70(f): 3:23am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Primenet: Pls don't be offended What's wrong with your mother inlaw passing night with you guys Is it that you hate her or you don't want to see her sleeping in your home That woman, no matter how bad she is, is capable of saving your marriage or putting your marriage in a scale of spoiling it depends on your relationship with her If you have children, let her watch over them while you go to work Assuming you are at her age and your daughter inlaw is acting the same way with you, would you be happy about it Have you ever imagined, how loneliness makes her to look for a home to be warm with and her son's home remains her home forever Assuming she sleeps on your husband bed of which she won't do it, it's a different thing Pls change your mind set towards her and give her a warm embrace in your home Accommodate her and utilise her If you claim you love your husband, love her too and you will appreciate her and be happy 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by yomi007k(m): 4:43am On Mar 09, 2020 |
This should not be an issue if there is TRUE LOVE. |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Winneygirl(f): 7:16am On Mar 09, 2020 |
frozen70: You assumed the Op is female. It is the man asking o. Does your advice still stand? 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Winneygirl(f): 7:19am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Old people get lonely/bored with age. If she lives alone, help get someone to live with her. Young ones she can train, or people like corp members who need accomodation. Let her accomodate them for free. She's just lonely. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by frozen70(f): 7:19am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Winneygirl: Ahhh, if a man is the one asking this question, am disappointed in him Would he ask same for his biological mother Except anyway where the woman hates him But real men focuses on more important things than being bothered about the presence of his mother inlaw 1 Like |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by rain21(f): 7:46am On Mar 09, 2020 |
What exactly is wrong with her sleeping over? Is she in anyway disturbing your peace? You can even take advantage of the situation and let her care for the kids and your home. As long as she's useful in the house, just look the other way. What of her husband? Or she's a widow? |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by tunamenga(m): 6:40am On Mar 10, 2020 |
It means you are not accommodating, for a man to be complaining like this. You are creating a problem for yourself. |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Olunmercy56(f): 11:23am On Mar 10, 2020 |
She might be feeling lonely, what if she is your mother, will you send her away Ask her why she is doing that, she might have a genuine reason for that 1 Like |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Richy4(m): 11:53am On Mar 10, 2020 |
Just want to know why she was passing the night at your home.. Is your wife nursing a baby? Is she widowed? Is your wife the only child? Just maybe she felt that you won't mind her passing the night at your place due to the way you portrayed and presented yourself (perfect son-in-law) Not knowing that you were boiling right inside.. which reminds me of my favorite quote "There's no art to find the mind's construction in the face."' MACBETH |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by sisisioge: 11:59am On Mar 10, 2020 |
Hmmm...your post just took me several years into the future. I better conduct my affairs well now so I could have loving children around me. Biko find out why, the grandkids and loneliness are mostly the culprit. |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Primenet(m): 4:24pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
choice17:Thanks for advice. Yeah I have discussed the issue with my wife and not comfortable either. But she can't confront her due the her mum will report to her siblings that her daughter drove her from her home. |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Nobody: 5:17pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Primenet:Eleyi gidi gan. Maybe you guys should look for another apartment to rent and move away from the environ. Me too I love privacy. |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Karleb(m): 8:56pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Mother in laws sha! Most of them would never take what they're giving while they were young. |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Primenet(m): 10:59pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Citygal: Exactly...this the direction of my thoughts right now. Thinking of relocating from the neighborhood. |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by mankettle(m): 5:04am On Mar 11, 2020 |
Tell Madam to increase her ring tone when next u Wan play. Do am often... Grandma will know it's time to shift back to her house |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by RagnarKlavan: 9:45am On Mar 11, 2020 |
Old people get bored easily. I'd say you first investigate the reason she's spending the night at your place before taking any action. You might also want to be a bit more accommodating of her. Above all, never confront her. If you're sending any message about the issue, make sure your wife is the bearer. A lot of diplomacy is required in this regard. Employ a bit of body language/subtle messaging if you must have her stop. Encourage her to visit her other children too. Something like a rotation to host her per time. |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by kason(m): 7:39am On Mar 12, 2020 |
RagnarKlavan: Thanks for your advice. Really appreciate your kind words of wisdom. The issue demand wisdom so as not to let get out of hand. All the same, thanks so much. Have a great day! |
Re: Please Help... Mother-in-law Passing The Night In Our Home Daily by Primenet(m): 7:36pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Olunmercy56: They should stay for a period and go not staying permanently. Whether my mother or mother-in-law. Because you can never satisfy them. |
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