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Baleeson:
guy Chile ...I started mine last year September one stupid older man introduce me to masturbation..may thunder fire that man..my prick just the stand anyhow that's why I came to the useless man for solution ..the man tell me how to do the thing...... thought am 23 now...let me tell you what to do ...if you're muslem or Christian fast alteast two times a week....

try lime orange (lemun tsami)with lipton small sugar inside hot water....try it ,it works like maggic....

1.don't forget to try that lime orange it works...
2.occupied urself with many things.
3.go out chart alot with guys.
4.follow ur guys go play ball..
5.keep girls mattaer for one side for now ..wat do you want to achieve in life start working on it.. no keep girl matter for now.
to this for like 2weeks and thanks me letter.

and the most important amoung them.. don't stay inside room alone..I knw the spirit, don't over stay in the bathroom ..5 minutes is okay .like me now na 2 minutes I don come out....

lime orange..it works bro...let me stop here...

I really need you to help me out please
I need help with this stuff. I want to stop

gowonmaharajah:
from experiences and my own view,
it's a capital NO.

But how do I stop? It is killing me fr

gowonmaharajah:
yes.
masturbation is really powerful mehn.it saps off your life force and energy.
have you noticed you feel emptied and and kinda sad after doing it?
that tells you something, brother.
some folks use it to their advantage tho'
it's all bout how molded your mind is.

What I wanted to know is that can you masturbate and still be successful?

luxy44:
I would have said maybe you should stop for 6 months and assess your life, but can you even stop??

Well, masturbation comes with this feeling of guilt. To me, if you feel bad constantly over an act, then it is bad.

Masturbation may not be the cause of the set back in your life, but I am sure it is one of the major reasons you can't overcome the stagnation in your life. Yes, how do you focus on God when you masturbate. Masturbation makes you feel unworthy and unacceptable before God thereby killing your will to pray.

There's no technical way out of sin especially an addiction, invite the Holyspirit. Tell God to help you.

However, don't stop praying about the set back in your life while you struggle with masturbation. Keep asking God for forgiveness and make conscious effort to stop.

May God help us!

This really helps. Thank you so much. Blessed

I’m 23 years and I masturbate a lot , I’ve being masturbating since I was 15 and I’ve tried to stop too many times but I can’t
What I noticed about myself is that I’m kinda left behind from my mates and I really don’t know the cause. I noticed I everything I lay hands on don’t yield success and this is a burden to my life. I want to know if masturbation causes step back in one’s life or all that is happening to me is just a normal reality of life.

The quickest thing I can do is to dumb her but I can vividly tell you this girl has got good luck

Ugaboy:
I dont entertain negative feelings if doesnt deny me anything i want from her
...jst free her ok, she definately know what she want

Hello everyone!

The girl I call my girlfriend is double dating me with another guy
Though when I met this girl, she has being in the relationship with that guy and she told me she has a boyfriend but she wasn’t interested in the relationship with the guy anymore that she loved me already. But I vividly understands how girls act so I asked her too many times if I was going to be her only guy because I can’t afford to share her, I explained to her I could take my leave if she’s not ready to leave the guy (all this was to avoid a toxic relationship because I know I can’t bear it) But she told me to give her little time to breakup with that guy so we can have the best relationship.
To cut the long epistle, we have being dating for over a month now and we have and sex too many times and even had abortion once. But what keeps me worried is that She is a busy person who is only free on Sundays. So what she does every Sunday is that she shuffles meeting me with meeting the other guy, for instance, if she comes to my place this Sunday, she goes to the other guy’s place the next Sunday. And for me, this is not the kind of relationship I want with her. But I don’t understand what to do. She blocked me from viewing her status when ever she goes to the guy’s place but my friends shows me and makes jest about it this every Sunday. I really do not want to leave this girl because she has good good luck I can tell cause since we’ve being together, My endeavor has being very positive. Please advise me.

funmisticqueen2:
You y not mature, simple

I’ve got the money, I’ve got the swag and mentality. But they just leave for me complaining about what I don’t like. And all you could think is that I’m matured

Good day everyone, I’ve being worried about an issue and I thought I should discuss it here because I need advice.
I’ve had series of relationship but all of my relationships never worked out. This is my third relationship this year and all my girls end up breaking up despite the fact that I show massive care and affection and I don’t cheat. But it seems most of the girls I dated aren’t just cool with me because I tend to react to everything I don’t like and whenever they chat and talk to guys, I don’t feel cool with it. I’m this kind of a very jealous person and I can’t just overlook things when I see them. This result to issues all the time in my relationship and girls end up leaving me saying I’m not calm with things and I react to everything I see. But I’ve thought that things I see and talked about are issues that I’m not comfortable with and I think I should talk about it to keep my relationship going but all has never worked out because they all end up breaking up. I met a girl on the first day of this month and it’s surprising we broke up already and it’s not even the end of the month yet. What should I do please? Am I the one having issues or I’ve not just find the right girl. Please advise me