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girlsoswit:
Please help me ask them o. I knw sabi wetin I do them o.

hello sweets

omotola is better ,there is no doubt about it

stella aint good,litle wonder she acts in few films

which way?im actually very confused,and its been bothering my mind

smone said we serve God and thats why he brings to past whatever he's promised ,when we serve him in truth and in spirit

another person said God serves us too , using matthew 7:7,and numbers 14:28  to defend his own points


numbers 14:28 So tell them, 'As surely as I live, declares the LORD, I will do to you the very things I heard you say

Matthew 7:7  "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.


it was like an argument yesterday at work,a colleague of mine said we serve God and God serves us in return

please what is your take on this?

Do u think we serve God? or does God serve us?

comments please

@topic

watever for?i need my parents blessings for goodness sake

i got their blessings and i can testify that its working for me even till date

marrying a man wt out ur parents consent is a very tough one,trust me ,some men will use it against u later,cos they know dat u cant do anything and u cant run back to ur family,d respect will vamoose

his grace like seriously where do u get all dis ur stories from?

joichi:
I swear i've rily had a swell time on tis thread. Pple seem 2 hv a lot 2 say but lik d sayn goes, only he who wears d shoes knws wer it pinches d most. Let me break tis gist down a bit so u can all knw wer i'm coming from:
-  we met when we wer both unemployed & fresh out of schl
-  he's never spent up to N1,000 on me at a go (not even close)
-  i do d cookn wit my money even when we wer both unemployed (his never workd as far as i knw)
-  d only time i eva askd 4 support 4 d meal, he gav me N200 reluctantly because i insisted
-  he only calls me up on my birthdays, no gifts, cards, nothn
-  he flashes me all d time & expcts me 2 call. i don't blv in flashing so i hardly do
-  we had a humongous quarrel because i had 2 insist forcefully that he embarrases me by flashing
-  when at his place, he loves it when i slave away tryn 2 put tins in place by workn my butt out
-  he encourages me 2 buy tins 4 his relations weneva we go visitn even though he never contributes a kobo
-  weneva he goes 2 luk 4 somtin 2 do, he calls me up & tells me how he's tryn so damned hard 2 get a job
-  afta wic he asks me 2 send him crdt as a way of supportn him

i'm not sayn i'm perfect either, but lik i said earlier on, i jst wnt som1 i can grow up wit, not som1 2 pull me bak.
if i go into more details about d absurdity in d name of a rtnship, all d yaps i've gotten from guys on tis thread would only worsen.

"I mean the much interest he shows on things concerning you.
2. Are his vision and goals what you want in your kind of man?
3. Are you comfortable with his features? By his features i mean the way he talks, the kind of friends he hangs out with, his size, looks, intelligence, etc.
"

as 4 these qqs by " wariowei "
yes to the 1st qq. He shows alot of interest & support in all i do & even encourages he 2 achieve more, but he doesn't have as much drive as i do. he seems content wit what he is able 2 accomplish at every point.
As 4 qqs 2 & 3, hmmmm, sori 2 say but NO on both counts.
Even though i knw most people would insult me d more 4 my responses, i rily don't care because its d simple truth. I'm in a dilemna here because i thot i had found a ril man who can help me acccomlish my purpose in life. Also, he came at a time when i was despirate and very lonely so in a way, he filled a void in me.  
Did i also mention that he'ld be 32 tis yr while i'm stil going 2 b 24?

Most of u r very rite when u say i shldn't b washing my linen in public lik tis, but its all because i nid 2 satisfy my conscience when i decide 2 let go of d relationship. I knw i'ld b doin d rite tin when i finally do so some other people wldn't assume i'm jst being overtly pompous because i now hv a job & all.  Wen we both wer unemployed, it wasn't beta. It only got worse now that i do because he acts lik its his right to eat my money wit me. He's always depended on me for as long as i can rmbr.
Even when we both didn't hv a job, he'ld take me 2 eateries & i'ld foot d bill. The only time he'ld consider footing is if d bill were less than N600 & i'm dead serious.

gosh and sammilla is busy giving out his usual stupid advises,telling u to continue in d relationship

@poster

forget d sex,u might meet smone better off,leave that relationship,u have ur parents and siblings to take care of

d guy is not worth it,what is sex,they r so many men good in d acrobatic dance and still have peace to offer

this guy is just giving u sex,but no peace of mind,wats d need of being in a relationship that keeps me under too mcuh stress,like not giving me d peace i require?

abeg na mistake i make wt my first post na osita funny pass,d guy is good

their names keep confusing me

Moyola:
u seen him b.4?

if i say yes,will it make u straigthen ur mouth a little?

Moyola:
hehe. . .  

u heard of,

Burriful bois, Pretty dudes

sum are aktually goodluukin o!!!

like stephenp. . . . . .

Ruby_Pearl:
Yeah, later on, if he is determine to get a job.
But what if. . . .if he is not.

But seriously, who is slow enough to stick with an unemployed man?
Nah, posted just loved being the one wearing the pant.

Ok, he was employed before they met, then he lost his job.
Common sense should tell him to get another since he has a girl and her family to take care.

abi ooooo,sm one like me if i was in her shoes right now,i don't have a younger one to take care of,but what about my parents

they need to be compensated for all they ve done ,i can't imagine spending the money im supposed to use on them on one NFA (no future ambition)guy

Hannibal:
Honestly, i understand where you are coming from. . . .
I was just stuffing ma comments in the throats of those that preach sex equality on this forum.
If women can act like freeloaders, i see no reason men cannot follow suit.

ok,get u now

anyways i keep saying it,im not a feminist and will never be one not in dis life or in any other life

@topic

uproot d guy and move him into the next thrash can

thanks

Hannibal:
Would u even take a look at this thread if a man posted his gurlfriend relies on him for her financial needs??
I guess thats no news. . . . . . It's a natural phenomenom.
Afterall, men are supposed to spend, innit??

they were placed on top isnt it?isnt it why they call them the head of d family?

seriously if d guy was not putting all his family burden on her no problem but dis one hes already doing it,she should find her square root abeg

women r d fragile ones arent there?we dont need too much loads

a man builds and invites a woman into his home to help him continue building

its not d other way round

KarmaMod:
Some guys are shameless.

How can he go to the girl's family./house with nothing in his hands yet expects her to buy stuff for his family.

L-O-S-E-R

abi ooooo

its not as if d girls family members r suffering but its a normal thing



i remember when my sisters were getting married,i grew fat then because of what i received from their suitors

its normal,she spends on his family but he spends nada on hers,this guy is a joke

_Queenisha:
we are basically saying the same thing.As long as the man is employable and taking steps towards getting a job,l'll manage with him
But if he sits around eating puff puff and waiting for me.
na that time I go tell am say difference dey between love and lovu

yea i know,i just added a few points

Hannibal:
You women are hypocrites.
Yet, u expect men to go to Naija and marry from the village.
Bring the babe to the States, polish her up, pay for her fees in school and ease her into a good job.
Meanwhile, y'all cannot do the same. . . . . .So much for sex equality.
The babe should GET ON with it and stop whimpering.

if he likes let him go marry from d desert,nobody forced him,he went wt his two left legs,so wats my own?

_Queenisha:
jenny I'm with you here.
I wouldn't walk out on a husband or fiancee or even boyfriend that falls on hard times as long as he's making efforts towards getting a job.
Then again,I wouldn't with my korokoro eyes seek to be entangled with a jobless man.
No money no love.I wish I knew what this lady's situation was.
Was he unemployed from the get go?

even if he just lost his job yesterday,he shouldnt put his family burden on d girl,or make it look as if its her right to put food on his table

if she continues like this ,how will she save enough to even give her siblings  five naira?

im not against dating or being wt broke dudes(even though i pray i wont find my self wt such,thank God) but when d man sits back and does nothing because d babe is busy sponsoring him and his family,even though hes not bought a single coke for my siblings ,then im out

Ruby_Pearl:
Hey, we want equal treatment abi?
So, why can't women wear the pant in the r/ship for once?
Don't complain, let me see that bright smile

talo je mbe?whos claiming equal treatment?count moi out o jare

if i was married to this guy,and then along d way he falls into d hands of financial difficulties,i will gladly help

if i was dating him,and then he gets broke,i wouldnt want to leave d relationship because of d finance,but i will if and i repeat if d guy sees it as "girl its ur right to take care of me,afterall u r going to be my wife"  then im walking d hell out


watch out and see if that guy will remain wt u when he makes it

SAM MILLA:
98 % of ladies in Nigeria there rely on boys for money.
So you girls actually believe that its our responsibility to sponsor your needs.
He has no job. Thats why he relies on you. No guy likes women to spend for him. Believe me.
Keep helping him. Meanwhile i believe you love him, you said you don't know if you love him or not because he has no money, which also makes me suspicious of your personality. You could be one of this money girls.

Encourage him to get a job, help him too if you can and don't put money ahead.

speak for yourself sam,because u r very wrong

and stop asking her to give d guy a chance,because u r very much deceiving her

stop deceiving her

@poster

is it when u start growing white hairs that they will allow u marry?

this is what makes sm women fall into wrong hands

maybe its when ur very old that they will allow u marry,then u will be forced to choose from men in their late 60's

chinedu

affee:
Are all the threads from married people or divorcees?

y do u ask?

abeg brash omotola is beautiful

no doubt

Brash!:
i was home but had people over so i was too busy to come on NL

i heard someone has been talking recklessly like me?!

i am investigating this and would come out with a full dossier shortly!!!!

hmmm na waooooo,na only me d guy no run him mouth on

but i still have mi doubts though

chamotex:
wetin happen, na sin to visualize

seh for dis ur life u no fit visualize good thing?

u only visualize wetin gast do wt female anatomy

by d way brash where were u last nite?

chamotex:
hmmn . . . beads for waist abi

_{i can just picture that right now}

sharappppp diaaaa did i tell u i wear beads on my waist?see ya head,like akamu

smtimes i don't,not because i don't want to but im allergic to them jewelleries,right from when i was a kid,my mum was always forcing me to put on a ear ring,or chain when im attending a party

i hardly put on necklaces or hand chains or wristwatches ,my wrist watches r mostly leather

at first when i was not putting on my rings always,he kept complaining but later got to find out that im not a jewellery type(though he still complains)

but once he sees d rashes on my skin wen i wear them ,he keeps shut

i only put on beads,i love them beads,but jewelleires like gold ,or damond and silver is once in a blue red moon