yeah! this is very good convo o, any more experiences? im sure not every one has it that easyy ( heard couple of shocking stories)

una just dey scare person with all this marriage talk!

Brash!:

una just dey scare person with all this marriage talk!

tell me about it! so far you don't have anything to worry about, seems like men are favored!

No nairalander will come and say

this n that is wrong with their marriage.

Everyone wants you to believe its all smooth sailing on the Caspian sea.

Gamine:

No nairalander will come and say

this n that is wrong with their marriage.

Everyone wants you to believe its all smooth sailing on the Caspian sea.

really??

Gamine:

No nairalander will come and say

this n that is wrong with their marriage.

Everyone wants you to believe its all smooth sailing on the Caspian sea.

You've not read from sistawoman then.
I hope I didn't give the impression anyway that i'm living in gloryland
I emphasized several times that marriage is a lot of hard work,a lot of give and take,a lot of seflessness is required.
You make your mistakes and learn
I made loads and still make them.
But I am happy with mine.
If I had to do it over again,it'll be with the same man.

_Queenisha:

You've not read from sistawoman then.

u sef sabi sista-woman?!

Brash!:

u sef sabi sista-woman?!

what is with you and sistawomen sef?

Well, Good fer ya Queenisisi.

I hope others can say the same.



Cos most will have us believe its been cream and Fondue from day one.

Nice try.

But we are human beings!

Brash!:

u sef sabi sista-woman?!

LOL
how about Leilah who's told us everything from her non loving husband to his painful anals with her.

Brash!:

una just dey scare person with all this marriage talk!

scare ke?
we are telling the hard truths.
It's a learning process and it starts with picking the right spouse.
Not everyone in shokoto is marriage material

Gucci_Babe:

what is with you and sistawomen sef?

wetin concern you with wetin Brash dey write?!

_Queenisha:

LOL
how about Leilah who's told us everything from her non loving husband to his painful anals with her.
scare ke?
we are telling the hard truths.
It's a learning process and it starts with picking the right spouse.
Not everyone in shokoto is marriage material

I know about that Leilah own, she sef too talk!!

on the marriage side, i feel you, itz not going to be a bed of roses or smooth sailing so m bracing myself! ;

and your right, not everyone in shokoto is marriage material.

brash

my thread *sowieee**,

Leilah And SistaWoman are not Nigerians.

i guess that spells a lot

Gucci_Babe:

brash

my thread *sowieee**,

Your thread?!

Your forum?

i dont give a bending FUC.K!

Gamine:

Leilah And SistaWoman are not Nigerians.

i guess that spells a lot

or it is either they are Nigerians and are fronting under a funny guise!

So Gamine now that you've graduated, you can start looking carefully.
If he comes riding in an Okada nko?

Gamine:

Leilah And SistaWoman are not Nigerians.

i guess that spells a lot

There are tons and tons of threads from Nigerians about their spouses.
The only difference is that they come in with new names most of the time.
We've had threads about cheating spouses,physically abusive,husbands not talking to wives,mother in law issues and I bet they were from Nigerians

@BRAsh

You G AY ass shouldn't be on the thread, look for a thread with info on "Gay Marriage" Only a B itch will act like you do, go F uck yourself. f ucking ass hole!

@ gamine,these are just 2 of the several from unknown names.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-165735.0.html#msg2728916
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-52335.0.html#msg1097492

Gucci_Babe:

@BRAsh

You G AY ass shouldn't be on the thread, look for a thread with info on "Gay Marriage" Only a B itch will act like you do, go F uck yourself. f ucking ass hole!

welldone and clap for yourself

your warped sense of reasoning, thinking and level of maturity doesnt surprise me, no wonder your name is GUCCI_BABE!

you are a very good girl!

Brash!:

welldone big girl!
BRAVO

thanks small boy!

_Queenisha:

@ gamine,this is just one of the several from unknown names.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-165735.0.html#msg2728916

@queenisha!

whoa thats crazy. i wonder how she would handle the situation

@ Gucci did you see the other one about a woman who actually caught her man in bed pants down with another female
Not all marriages are good and some are worse than others.
Sadly women in Nigeria have to deal with so much and most of the ones in unhealthy marriages stay because of lack of finances and soceital stigma as do many women all over the world esp the lack of finances part.

So Osisi went to CU? . Did you?

Where are the men to tell us what married life is like?

rikkyjen:

So Osisi went to CU? . Did you?

CU I meant was Christian union AKA NIFES
not that new university that started d after my time.
I went to a proper University

davidylan:

Where are the men to tell us what married life is like?

I wonder.
josh josh already said a little.
Where are all the men hiding their marital status
I won't mention names

_Queenisha:

@ Gucci did you see the other one about a woman who actually caught her man in bed pants down with another female
Not all marriages are good and some are worse than others.
Sadly women in Nigeria have to deal with so much and most of the ones in unhealthy marriages stay because of lack of finances and soceital stigma as do many women all over the world esp the lack of finances part.

whoa i havn't read it yet! that gotta be difficult , how does she deal with it.

Another thing is money! is it advisable for you and your partner have the same account? if you have a personal must he knows, vice versa

_Queenisha:

I wonder.
josh josh already said a little.
Where are all the men hiding their marital status
I won't mention names

lol men dont seem very comfortable talking about stuff like this. I only know one uncle who doesnt mind spending time to talk about his marriage . . . only he's an old school fellow.
This thread is more for the women . . . havent learnt much besides that word "compromise".

davidylan:

lol men don't seem very comfortable talking about stuff like this. I only know one uncle who doesnt mind spending time to talk about his marriage . . . only he's an old school fellow.
This thread is more for the women . . . havent learnt much besides that word "compromise".

you havn't learned anything        oh my Gawd,  you must know a whole lot then! and men don't feel comfortable talking about anything but games, sports. cheating, etc anyways!

Gucci_Babe:

you havn't learned anything        oh my Gawd,  you must know a whole lot then! and men don't feel comfortable talking about anything but games, sports. cheating, etc anyways!

hehe i know enough for now. I will have to learn much more later and the rest comes with experience anyway. There's not much a guy can pick up from here . . . a guy isnt told to be submissive, basically a woman works 3x as hard as a man to keep a marriage. Frank truth. 

Are all the threads from married people or divorcees?

affee:

Are all the threads from married people or divorcees?

y do u ask?