Parasitic:


Wow Thanks for the inspiration. If you can assist me acquire some skills I will appreciate. I have been trying my best but it aint working out.

All thanks to God. Please pm me.

Parasitic:
All I want to get is the rands and the naira.
I am jobless and i'm thinking of suicide.

Relax bruv. Cast your cares on Jesus for He cares for you. Suicide is not an option.

MrCork:



.....read which post?...u cheat on yor man & then abuse his mother sayn she hate u coz u cheat....or is ther somthin we are missin??...madam yoer story is cnfusin coz I don't gewrrrrit..we don't gerrrrit ..no body gerrit! (no ofeinse)

Please ignore him. He's a troll.

You guys are amazing. You are the best. Thanks y'all for being there for me. I really want to thank everyone who has taken time to contribute meaningfully to this thread. People like bisous, nneka123, wristwatch, enkay4love, inza, KMTee, classicB, Marinel(whom we are in the same boat), maxdozie, jnrbayano(my brother from another mother who ensured that the thread hit frontpage), emmynent, ucheosefor and others too numerous to mention. Thank you so much.
Things are getting better. I gave her a call this evening and she was very warm and lively. I pray God's will be done.

InZA:
No need persuading her.

If age is an issue for her,then it will always be an issue, you can't persuade someone out of that mindset.


Just the same way you care for her, you can care for someone else too.

So it's better you both go your separate ways to seek other people.

Thanks but it's so difficult to let go. I love this girl so much.

enkay4love:
Having assured her that the age difference is'nt an issue in the relatnshp & she still insists its a big deal,if u still persist on winning her back & she insists on a NO,then you don't have to kill urself,simply man up & move on,cos the one who truly loves u & really is for you,will look past ur age & not make it a mountain factor to ur relationshp.

enkay4love, thanks so much for being there.

bisous:


You are welcome ,BTW don't let it cause you sleepless nights

Thanks a bunch, Bisous. You're a darling.

Nneka123:

Some Relationships can have problems with no difference in age. Sometimes two people are content with a relationship like yours, I'd just encourage you to consider whether you two have similar interests and goals. This is important to discuss because she might want to have an active social life while you do not (or vice versa). Because you are in your late 30s, she might be feeling that you a little bit too old for her, but let her know that age is just a number, if she really loves you, she will be with you. Besides she never knew your age, when you guys first met, and she was really into you like you said. So the age thingy shouldn't be a problem for her.

Thanks Nneka123.

wristwatch:
Sometimes it matters if the age difference is too much. A 20yrs old lady dating 50yrs old man and vice versa.

Your case is okay. The age difference is btw 9-12yrs.

Just ask her why she is freaking out abt your age and then keep friendship, communication, commitment level high.

Thanks man.

bisous:


Age ought not to be a barrier to love ,however the difference in a age does matter because there are things a person only gets to know with age ,which can make or mar the relationship

Thanks Bisous. More contribution please. Rocktation, front page please.

Farano, please let it make frontpage . Thanks.

I am in my late 30s and i met the lady of my dreams early this year. The lady seemed to be into me, and then, the big question came. She asked for my age and then i told her. The moment i did, she freaked out.

She is in her late 20s and tolD me the age difference is too much for her to handle. I persuadeD her that it doesn't matter but she wasn't persuaded. As it were, I'm so worried cos i truly care about her.

Please advise me on how to win her heart. I'd appreciate mature response. Thank you.

This is the kind of thread that should make frontpage.
Life has taught me not to procrastinate, cos procrastination is the thief of time.

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