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If you must make it up the ladder of greatness in life, you must take important everyday of your life. Those that makes visible impacts in life are those who takes each day of their life like its their last.
It is high time you knew that as each day goes by, you are also wearing out and your strength is also reducing. It is these little days you see that comes together to form your lifetime.

I sometimes get baffled when I see people at a late age trying to put things/resources together to become great in life. The question that runs through my mind to them is were where day some years ago when day where a little younger ? What did they spend their days doing then ?

Onething I want us to know is that seeing each day is an opportunity to

• Look Back,

• Right Your Wrongs,

• Get New Ideas and

• Refire Instead Of Retire.

On many occasions, you get to meet people who claim to be having a great goal for their life but on asking then how their day was, all you hear is " my day was just there. " That is the best answer a failure can give.

If you can finish a day and you cannot boldly say, " as far as today is concerned, I went one or two steps higher." Then you need to watch it for the future blinks so obviously.

The same 24hours those top achievers have is the same 24hours allocated to you and me. The major reason why;

Taylor Hernadez in 2005 claimed the prestigious “Chester Awards” for inventing the “Magic Sponge Blocks” at the age of ten.

Or

Austin Meggitt an American schoolboy at the age of nine invented a device for carrying a baseball bat, ball and glove safely on the handlebars of a bicycle.

Or

John J. Stone-Parker a four year old boy in 1989 invented a star shaped gadget to prevent ice from slipping out of a drinking glass.

It is all because they spent eachday so well not only thinking of something big but also acting on it. There are lots of young minds that has made exploit by making good use of eachday. Seeing it as a chance to step beyond limits or bounds.

The question is

» HOW HAVE YOU BEEN SPENDING YOUR DAY ?

» IF YOU CONTINUE ON THAT NOTE, ARE YOU SURE OF A SUCCESSFUL END ?

» HAVE YOU NOT BEEN SPENDING YOUR DAY BASE ON HOW OTHERS SPEND THEIRS ?

I will release a secret to you today from my personal experience, most of those friends you see that plays or while away their time when you are there that you try to take after has times in that 24hours that they use in planning their life and then you won't be there.

I want you to know that we are different, what I will put up in 2hours, you might put it up in 5hours.

One other important problem militating against our being productive with our day that is eating us real deep is LAZINESS.

Laziness is what result in procrastination and procrastination result in failure. If you are a lazy type, you hunger and thirst for greatness will be seriously poor. Lazy people never wants to get out of their comfort zone. They spend each day satisfying unfruitful desires and at the end regrets.

WHAT ARE THE PRACTICAL STEPS TO MAKING YOUR DAY PRODUCTIVE :-

1. Analyse Your Life Pursuit :-

Everything you work for is making your life a great one and its towards this you channel your daily activities.

It is incumbent on every athlete to always check up where he is going as he takes each step in a race. So also you must keep checking your life pursuit eachday in other to know the next line of action.

With this, you get to know where you are going and where you are.

You get to know things you need to include as you journey.

You get to know how close or far you are to where you are going.

You get to know weather to increase you speed or maintain your tempo.

2. Rate YourSelf :-

This is one crucial thing that challenges you, and to get the best of it, you need to be sincere with yourself.

Trying rating you general pursuit on a scale of 1 to 100, see where you fall. This will help you to really run faster where needed and set your focus for the day.

3. Evaluate Your Previous Day :-

I want to believe you know this guides will be carried out right on your desk in the morning before you go out.

If you will get the best from today and not do more of an unfinished job, you mus evaluate your previous day. Most people start a thing today and was unable to finish it, instead of continuing the next day, they catch up with another thing. This is why you must always check your previous day so that you won't have more of abandoned project.

Previous day evaluation will also help you point out your mistake and prevent its repitition.

4. Set Your Goals For The Day :-

At this point, you need to spell out what you want to achieve for that day. This will also include your chores and other target s you have for the day.

Make sure you are careful in doing this, don't bring too many things into one day. Getting few things done successfully in one day pays off trying to do lots of things with none being successful.

5. Be Disciplined :-

The major problem of most people is the inability to discipline theirself. They make goals but don't follow it. They get engaged in something else. Some get carried away and leave their goals.

It is not just about desiring a good day but following up to make sure its realistic.

6. Resist Depression :-

Depression is one thing that renders people handicap. When you are depressed,you get weak and unable to act as you are suppose to.

You must try as much as possible to take away everything that will depress you or make you sad. When you are depressed, people get to take advantage of you and you even get subdued.

Depression amputates your ideas and hinders your actions. Depression makes you scared of stepping higher. You need to watch it.

7. Constant Assessment :-

As you journey the day, you must continually assess yourself to know your level of of progress. You must put your goals in black and white and tick them as you accomplish them.

This will help you know what is next one your agenda and keep you up and doing.

8. Prayer :-

Prayer is very important if you must get the best out of your day. Always commit your ways to the hands of God before you set out for the day.

You need to always commit everything you face into prayers because that is the master key. If you will agree with me that as mortal bodies, we can not see beyond our physical eyes so we need to employ the service of someone who sees both the physical and the spiritual. One who knows the end from the beginning to take charge. And this person is God.

So as we progress this new year, I want us to seek Gods help before you set out for the day.

Most relationships are very exciting in the beginning, but if you have been in your current relationship for a while already, you may have noticed that the initial excitement you experienced is starting to waiver, and you and your partner may be settling into a dull routine. As a relationship progresses, one or both partners may be guilty of settling into complacency and may not strive to keep the element of excitement in their relationship. The following are a few tips for ensuring that your relationship stays as exciting as it was in the beginning.

Never underestimate the value of spontaneity in a relationship. Too often relationships lose their excitement because the mates fall into a routine that becomes annoying as time goes by. Don't be afraid to suggest new activities in your relationship or to try new things on a whim. Being spontaneous doesn't have to involve big decisions it can be as simple as picking up something new at the grocery store and trying a new recipe for dinner. Whatever you do, just let your instincts take over for a minute instead of relying on rationality. Anything you do that is spontaneous may not work out as well as if you had planned out every last detail but just go with the flow and you'll find your relationship taking a turn for the better.

Exploring a new location together is another way to bring the excitement back into your relationship. Whether you plan an elaborate trip to an exotic location or just take the bus to a nearby city that you have never visited your adventure together will help spice up your romance. Take your time exploring the new location and enjoy the foods and atmosphere that the new place has to offer.

Exploring new cities can help bring the thrill back to your relationship. Still another way to spice up a waning relationship is to sign up for an instructional class together such as a cooking, dancing or pottery class. Working together to learn a new skill will draw the two of you closer as you strive to accomplish a goal together. A class will enable you and your partner to interact in a new way. This new interaction will help to pull you out of a rut.

Spending a night at a hotel is another way to restore the excitement in your relationship. Intimacy is crucial in a relationship, and if you and your partner have found that this aspect of your relationship has lost its spice, it's time to shake things up a bit. Choose a romantic hotel, preferably one with a cosy restaurant. Begin by having a beautiful candlelight dinner in the restaurant and then proceed to the room that you have reserved. Setting the mood with candles and dim lighting is also suggested. A night in a different location such as a romantic hotel will go a long way towards rekindling your intimate relationship.

Another way to bring the excitement back into your relationship is to set up a date night. While you may see each other daily and even go out to dinner every Friday night, setting up a date night outside of your usual schedule will enhance your relationship. Don't just schedule a night to go out to dinner but treat each of these date nights as if they were first dates. Go all out getting yourself dressed up and take special care in your appearance. Prepare for your date night as if you were actually trying to make a good first impression. Going out of your way to having at least one night of fun and romance a week will help add a little zing to your relationship.

Giving your mate gifts for no reason at all is another way to get your relationship back on track. You may have lavished gifts on your partner early in the relationship but as the relationship progressed you may not have done so as frequently. Small, meaningful gifts given just to make your partner happy will let them know that they are still always on your mind just as they were at the beginning of the relationship.
The simple act of holding hands can also add excitement back into a relationship. This intimate gesture conveys a sense of security, but it also lets your partner know that you want to be close to them at all times. Many couples hold hands everywhere they go early in a relationship but don't do so later on. Try grabbing your partner's hand as you are out running errands together. They will be touched by the sentiment and will be happy to be sharing a sense of closeness with you again.

A kiss is still another way to bring the excitement back into your relationship. You may have gotten into the habit of giving your mate a kiss on the cheek or a quick peck on the lips when you see them after a long day of work. Trying kissing them with passion the next time you see them catch them by surprise and let you know not only how much you love them but how attractive you find them as well.
Having a common interest can also promote excitement in a relationship. If there is an activity that you both enjoy doing, make it something that the two of you do together often. For example, if you both enjoy hiking make plans to go hiking every Saturday morning and each time you go out make it a little different by exploring a new location or setting new goals for yourselves. This will give the two of you a chance to reconnect while enjoying each other's company. Having a ritualistic activity that you and your partner enjoy together creates closeness and intimacy that can help put the excitement back into your relationship.

Offering your partner a massage when they are worn out and tired can also bring the excitement back to your relationship. A massage can be a very sensual and intimate experience. Additionally offering a massage lets your partner know that you can see that they are stressed out and exhausted. They will appreciate your putting them first in the relationship, and this will help bring back the excitement in your relationship.
Over time, a relationship may lose some of the excitement that it had in the very beginning. While this may be troublesome, it is also entirely normal and also reversible. Noticing the lack of excitement in your relationship is the first step to restoring that excitement. It may take a little work but with a few simple actions, you can be on your way to an exciting relationship.

If you haven’t had much luck in attracting mister right, you should know that there are some great guys out there just looking to meet someone such as yourself. Forget all the bad dates you’ve had – start from scratch and use these tips to meet someone amazing finally.

The Right Place at the Right Time

So, the first thing you have to consider is where to meet Mr. Right. If you are bouncing around from one bad date to another, then there is a chance that you are looking in the wrong place. Planning ahead a little is often all it takes. If most of your dates come from the local bar or a particular online dating site, then the first thing you need to do is shake things up. Get out of your old habits and start a new routine. If something continues to produce bad results, chances are, it isn’t going to get any better.
One of the best strategies you can adopt is to look for your guy in normal, everyday life situations. When you hang out in bars or surf shady dating sites, the chances of meeting someone of substance is significantly diminished. Not to say that you can’t, just that it is unlikely.

The quality guys are everywhere – that’s the good news.

The bad news is that you can’t just hang out and wait for them to come to you. You are going to have to play the long game and make things happen. That means that you have to brush up on your social skills and get to know them as people first. Nothing is going to break the ice like a warm personality and a smile. Imagine the guy of your dreams. Now, imagine his lifestyle and think about where he is likely to spend his time. You may have to change your life to create opportunities.

Sign up for a business class after work.

Change your career and get to know men of substance in your new job. Shake up your social circle, expand your horizons, and get to know people who could introduce you to your new guy. Get invited to social gatherings where he is likely to be. It is all about immersing yourself in the same lifestyle.

Your Appearance

While it may sound superficial, you are not going to get the guy you want unless you stand out. If he is a quality guy, you are certainly going to have competition from other women. Don’t let this discourage you. The only thing you have to worry about is the best that you can be. Dress well, but not over the top. Lose a little weight if you have to. Have your makeup, hair, nails, professionally done. If you don’t know what to do or where to start, get someone else’s opinion – perhaps your best friend.

Confidence

If you are a confident person, you are going to make others around you feel good too. When you are confident, you smile more, carry yourself better, talk better – and all that puts others at ease. A good mood is contagious. If you are nervous, anxious, insecure and unsure of yourself, you are going to make those around you edgy too. It is something that is hard-wired into humans. You’ve no doubt heard about “giving off bad vibes” – Well, it’s a fact that humans communicate on many different levels – some are very low-key, but there nonetheless. Lack of confidence is going to make you appear unapproachable. You are not going to smile, your body language is going to say, “Leave me alone,” and you are not going to have much to say. Most guys are not going to pursue someone like that, let alone the man of your dreams. We all like to be around fun, relaxed people – it is our nature. Men of substance prefer women who are likewise. They are attracted to women who have confidence and are in demand. While having a fun personality is key, you also have to show him that you have things together. You have to show him you have high value.

Conversation

So, you meet the guy of your dreams – what now? Well, if you aren’t a decent conversationalist, there’s a good chance you are going to lose him. No matter how great you are, if you can’t talk to him, he’s never going to know it. One of the best ways to get better at conversation is to practice. This is especially true if you are a little on the shy side and/, or you don’t feel at ease interacting socially. The only way you are going to get better is to do more of it. Take the opportunity to talk to anyone (and everyone) whenever possible. If you are shy, start with family and friends and then graduate to striking up conversations with co-workers or strangers. Go out on a blind date or two – and even if the guy isn’t what you are looking for, the experience can provide a valuable opportunity to hone your skills.
During the conversation, make sure that you have something to say. If all you do is sit there and agree with whatever he says, you are going to lose his interest fast. Have an opinion and don’t be afraid to express it – he will admire you for it. If you have to, read up on some current events so that you sound like you know what you are talking about.

Attitude

While he may appreciate the fact that you have a bit of an attitude, he isn’t going to want to fight you over every little thing. There is going to come a time when he just wants to take control and decide where you are going on that date, for example. He also won’t appreciate the fact that you come off as a know-it-all. While you may know you’re right, there is no reason to rub his face in it and completely emasculate him. I know women who do this, and they are still single (even though they are smart, personable, and high achievers). You don’t always have to exert your dominance. When it comes down to it, you want to let him know you have confidence, but not that you have an inferiority complex that you compensate for by having an aggressive personality. Don’t appear too eager or you’ll suddenly lose your perceived value. Sure, you may be great to hang out with for a date or two, but when it comes down to who he wants as the mother of his children… well, maybe not so much.

Online Dating/Dating services

If you dare, there is a chance that you could meet a quality guy online, but you’re almost always better off meeting him in real life situations instead. There are so many phonies and flakes on dating sites that you can waste a lot of time and never meet anyone decent. I recommend that if you go this route, sign up for a dating service that caters to local professionals in your area. Free dating sites, while they sound great, really cater to the lowest common denominator, and you’ll find that sifting through the prospects and enduring awkward dates is not the best use of your time. Sure, you’ll pay for a dating service (sometimes a lot), but you have to look at the big picture. They (the staff) work for you and do their very best to make sure you meet someone compatible. If an actual service is out of your price range and you have to go with the self-serve online option, try to use at least a paid service. Not to say that you can’t find love using one of the big free services, but you are going to have to search harder and go through a lot of nonsense.

There is no barrier to these free services, and you never know who you are talking to. There is something about paying for a service and using a credit card. It seems to make people behave and weeds out the undesirables. Finding Mr. Right is not an insurmountable task. However, like most things in life that are high value, it isn’t going to be easy. But look at it this way: How much time are you going to waste dating all the wrong guys? Make a plan now

No. But it's important. When you goto church and listen to the word of God, the glory in your life increases. As you the leave the church building, you leave with a greater glory than you came with. It also happens when you meditate on the word of God.

True talk Op. It's never good to insult anyone whether online or offline. People can take it personal.
Everyone should learn how to be polite.. It doesn't cost you anything

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I know this place. Thank God for you

Bro hold your principle. Its even in the bible that we should avoid pre-marital sex. Who knows, she maybe possessed
She has already given you the red light that she's going to leave you.
So bros, talk to her first, but if she insists, Run Away
Don't negotiate with temptation. When it comes, run faster than Usain Bolt

Discovery of four super-heavy chemical elements by scientists in Russia, America and Japan has been verified by experts and formally added to table

Four new elements have been added to the periodic table, finally completing the table’s seventh row and rendering science textbooks around the world instantly out of date.

The elements, discovered by scientists in Japan, Russia and America, are the first to be added to the table since 2011, when elements 114 and 116 were added.

The four were verified on 30 December by the US-based International Union of Pure and Applied Chemistry, the global organisation that governs chemical nomenclature, terminology and measurement.

IUPAC announced that a Russian-American team of scientists at the Joint Institute for Nuclear Research in Dubna and Lawrence Livermore National Laboratory in California had produced sufficient evidence to claim the discovery of elements 115, 117 and 118.

The body awarded credit for the discovery of element 113, which had also been claimed by the Russians and Americans, to a team of scientists from the Riken institute in Japan.

Kosuke Morita, who was leading the research at Riken, said his team now planned to “look to the unchartered territory of element 119 and beyond.”

Ryoji Noyori, former Riken president and Nobel laureate in chemistry said: “To scientists, this is of greater value than an Olympic gold medal”.

The elements, which currently bear placeholder names, will be officially named by the teams that discovered them in the coming months. Element 113 will be the first element to be named in Asia.

“The chemistry community is eager to see its most cherished table finally being completed down to the seventh row,” said Professor Jan Reedijk, president of the Inorganic Chemistry Division of IUPAC.

“IUPAC has now initiated the process of formalising names and symbols for these elements temporarily named as ununtrium, (Uut or element 113), ununpentium (Uup, element 115), ununseptium (Uus, element 117), and ununoctium (Uuo, element 118).”

New elements can be named after a mythological concept, a mineral, a place or country, a property or a scientist.

The four new elements, all of which are synthetic, were discovered by slamming lighter ­nuclei into each other and tracking the following decay of the radioactive superheavy elements.

Like other superheavy elements that populate the end of the periodic table, they only exist for fractions of a second before decaying into other elements.

Source: http://www.theguardian.com/science/2016/jan/04/periodic-tables-seventh-row-finally-filled-as-four-new-elements-are-added

she caught me using her phone to chat on 2go

I just stumbled Upon this on youtube. Is this what Christianity has turned into?
Look closely, isn't this a pure stage edit? We are truly in the end times.
The Bible is sufficient for you. All these nonsense have already been stated in the bible, so am not totally surprised

Watch here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6X3kVFYDKA

I've seen this pix more than 3 times. It happened but not 2016. And the case wasn't in any way related to snatching husband. She survived this attack. I'll check her name and modify this post. I think the op is looking for cheap traffic

Anna. The girl that went to the same sec. School with my sister she's now a mother. Chei

Also. Creme de la creme

Self control is very important..
Everyone here does have that feeling, but your ability to control it and say No is what makes you standout. Every woman is a wife material. The bible teaches us to have self control. If you truly love that girl/guy you'll be patient. Love is more than just a feeling. It's a way of life.
If you know what love is, then you'll know it's wrong to have sex before marriage. Discipline yourself and you'll be grateful you did. What makes us fall into temptation is lack of self control. Always pray too and study the word of God.

First of all, it's very wrong to put accident victims in the trunk of a car. I bet many of us didn't read that part. Where's is it done?
If the chances of survival for that girl was 45%, putting her in the booth can decrease it.
Well, Op, you shouldn't have fold your hands and watch her die. You should have tried to see if you could still stabilise her. RIP to her

Beautiful people

Cool. Haven't eaten all though. I love fish more than meat

Nice info. It's cool to write a winning resume. I can help you guys review your Resume. Just PM me

Cool list. I love women with good qualities. What does op mean? Original poster?

Lack of money is the root of all evil

busuyem:
Very funny. The love of money is the root of all evils.

PHCN Ladder. Am not surprised.

Refurbished Airplane..

you're not totally wrong. I don't invite any girl to my home for now

cool

I'll continue tomorrow sha. Thanks for the bible passage. I've covered 12 pages sha

sonofthunder:
hahaha... don't be scared. meditate & pray with jer 33:3 maybe you'll have something to share with us when you wake up.
... BTW keep reading if your activities for tomorrow aren't so urgent.

This was my experience twice. I slept and i think i was half asleep and half awake. Then after few hours, my body became stiff, i couldn't move. It's as if something wanted to kill me that night, cos i was struggling to move but was stuck. I couldn't even open my mouth sef. Then when my mouth opened i shouted Jesus and i regained consciousness. I then turned around and i was like. I was almost dead oo.. The name of Jesus is very powerful, though am still a big sinner, am still begging God to help me not to sin again.

I've been reading all the posts here.. And am getting scared. 11:25pm already and it's as if am going to face a big demon when i go to bed. My friend has advised me to stop reading these for now but rather work on getting stronger

Am a victim of this.. So am possessed.. I think a alot of sexual things and masturbate a lot too. I've tried stopping it. But when i do, it comes back very strong that i can;t resist it and then i fall again. This has been happening to me since 2011 till now

mekzyjoe:
Pls we nid mor testimonies n insite sir

I do this fantasy thinking.. too bad

CharlyG1:
Good question my brother. Thanks for asking.

Now, Fantasy thinking or Fantasy thoughts are 'ungodly thoughts' or 'wishful thinking' or 'dirty imaginations' 2 Corithinans 10 vs 5

For example. Mr A watches a movie where he see's a sexually attractive woman. The woman remains on his thoughts for some time. He begins to think about this woman. He creates an illusion where he sees himself having sex with her, or cuddling her, or getting married to her. He begins to imagine the whole thing.
Now, this kind of thinking is what is 'Fantasy or Fantasizing'. Making an unreal thing to seem real. It happens mostly to young children while growing.

MR A doesn't know the harm that's being done, afterall its just normal imaginations to him.
When this act is repeated over and over again, the imaginations become stronger and it opens a portal for demonic activity.
(This is a secret)- Strong imagination is a secret passage to soul travel, meaning MR A is actually doing this for real without even knowing.
That's why I said earlier on, do not read or watch 'Law of Attraction'. Its demonic!

Mr A would later see scratches on his body sometimes, or he would feel the real presence of a person in the room. Sometimes he may release sperm while sleeping. Fantasy thoughts leads to masturbation, which opens up the mind or soul to more demonic attacks.