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Romance › Re: Lady Loses Her Boyfriend To Another Lady After Twitter Bet by Rawhumper(m): 6:07pm On Apr 11, 2020
missimelda01:
As much as I can't place a bet on my boyfriend, I think the guy is cheap. The girl deserves someone better, except the relationship has always been a

joke.
Imel-jewels honestly i keep nobody should put his or her mond cos of another person.I dont trust anybody but if i love i can just try to make it work afterall we all die one day.....nice to meet you
Romance › Re: "I Slept With This Lady, She Demanded For N200k But I Gave Her N20k" - Man Says by Rawhumper(m): 5:38pm On Apr 11, 2020
biacan:
See why I always tell my friends to date mature men and not boys this is what happens when you date boys sad
Very right,its a childish man that will do a town cry cos of bedding a girl.Even in d universities,whats so special u slept with a lady we should give u trophy.Honestly i detest such attitudes,d truth is ladies come to guys stays on their own have less male friends than the noisy empty expired bottles....mtcheeeeeewwww
Romance › Re: Excited Man Grabs His Wife's Backside While Posing For Picture, People React by Rawhumper(m): 12:14pm On Apr 11, 2020
donstan18:
Before you support this, ask yourself if you can grab your man's diiiick or if you can allow your woman grab your diiiick in public or while taking pictures.
You are always feeling,depends on d man shaa,some wont mind if u grab their dicks.
I dont see anything wrong in that i sometimes hold my girls ass for some mins while walking....
Family › Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Rawhumper(m): 11:47am On Apr 11, 2020
Heiterkeit:
So because she is wasteful, it is now a sign that she comes from a rich background. I wonder what one would not hear on Naiaraland.
It doesnt necessary mean thats the cause for her wastefulness.I give it to her upbringing-the type of peers she kept and also the pressures she passed thru in life.
If i have one,i limit the funds i give her
Romance › Re: Loneliness & Dating Abroad: Perspectives of a Nigerian Student in The U.S by Rawhumper(m): 11:05am On Apr 11, 2020
Ur name suits you deae,so sad u passed thru lots and met the wrong ones.
Now am not an abroad freak any longer d business am doin in Abuja is ok fir me its just that Coro wants to obstruct many things.
I have missed chances to b in US my mum was pregnant n travelled to d states but came back a month to her delivery to Naija.In 2005 after i finnished school.I got admission in Coastal Carolina University to study Computer Engineering.I lost the visa interview.I have dated white american SM in the USA who i later found out to be a CIA.Her coming to Naija was a difficult thing as my line here was traced by d CIA it was hell that time.Even her mum a soldier smashed her phone because of me.She got another one and told everything.She was willing to help me to come over but i saw it as my death.She told me she hated her job and life.Wanted a free life she was 25years then.
Everyone has their stories to tell,am content with what i have so dear its not a must u die because of a man.









quote author=HeavenlyCherub post=88279844]

Honestly I think you have good points in your paragraphs. I agree that as women we shouldn’t single out every man who isn’t walking in their purpose at that given time. However I would never advise anyone to settle.

Some of the financially challenged/student men who come to the US, a very large percentage have taken advantage of good women all in the name of love. I can only use myself as an example. I have dated guys who weren’t stable financially so I can only try help my fellow sisters.


Man 1: Yoruba guy - I dated him for 5 years. Great guy however refused to self improve. He did yahoo. I found out about it and tried to make him stop and do legit as I wouldn’t want our foundation built on potential blood money. He refused a legit job and informed me he knew “the life he wanted for himself and 9 to 5 was not it.” This is because he was consumed by lifestyle and driving range rovers and a Porsche’s. I stuck with him for love but I refused to marry him or his proposal as he didn’t believe in taking care of a woman. He was very selfish (during the course of a 5 year relationship this man never gave me any assistance for upkeep - mind you I didn’t need his money as I do very well for myself but every woman wants their man to be able to support and provide in small ways. This shows me you’re stable and can support our family should we hit hard times. He would always ask me why I need money and what I do with the money I earn. $10 to buy a panty he could not even do, but he stayed embellished in Gucci, LV and Prada. He also had a baby on me and begged me to raise the child with him if it was his after dna...I was scared toput myself in that position as a time when I have to depend on him will come and he would not man up as he should so I broke it off. He proposed I said no. . No way I can submit to a man like that?..

Man 2: was an international student, the devil himself in human form, they say respect them, support them and let them reach goals.. this guy I supported financially for months, paved a way for him to get his paperwork.. loved and supported. He was nice at first but when we started dating he started changing. Abusing me for not giving 5k usd and not wanting to marry him for green card... I thank God for protecting me from that one chance. He is the biggest regret and bad mistake I ever made in my life. So disheartening you support someone and they physically, verbally abuse you and blame you for the wrong going on in their life... read my story on my profile from 2 years ago for more context Note: I myself am not perfect and I’m constantly working on self improving and strengthening my bond with Christ. I’m big on giving advice to others so they won’t repeat the same mistakes I have made.

My aunt always told me never to date down. Never settle and I did. All the women waiting...wait for Gods time don’t force or rush things because you want to get married. You will end up with someone who puts baggage on you and breaks you emotionally, physically, financially etc. Let Go and Let God. If it’s his will for your life it will be. Don’t leave worse off then you started.

I also have a friend she married someone coming straight from naija. They lived as man and wife 3 years. He got his green card and went back to Nigeria to marry his real girlfriend.

I truly dislike when men put down women like this post. Marriage is not an accomplishment. It will be nice to find a compatible companion but sister- you are enough as you are. Don’t let anyone rush you. Some are happy but many more want to get out of the marriage you are rushing to. Be wise and Let God lead.

Pray for God to give you discernment. Marriage is life and that’s a long journey. Don’t end up with the wrong person because of societal pressure and advice from OP above. I have said my own[/quote]
Crime › Re: Thief Poses For The Camera After He Was Arrested In Lagos (Photos) by Rawhumper(m): 10:18pm On Apr 10, 2020
enomakos:
I think the police arrest the wrong guy
this one is a yaba left escapee
Lwkmd you right bro
Crime › Re: 4 Armed Robbers Gang-Rape A Lady In Anambra, Record It, Blackmail Her (Photo) by Rawhumper(m): 10:16pm On Apr 10, 2020
I really detest rspists,one cant enjoy sex if the girl doesnt return it....sex is soo sweet if the gal responds and u feel her wetness and after sex putting her hand or head on ur chest to sleep.Than tearing fighting and even killing in the process....hot irons should be used on their dicks while they are awake
Family › Re: Please Say A Prayer For My Son (PHOTO) by Rawhumper(m): 3:20pm On Apr 10, 2020
StellaBella:
Thank you.
It is well dear,i pray that the power in the word of God which says by His stripes we are healed is moving firth to sustain,NEVER! Will that sivkness find its way in his body again.In Jesus name.Amen. Stay safe
Romance › Re: Honest Answers Needed Pls by Rawhumper(m): 3:11pm On Apr 10, 2020
Phenomenal16:
..he doesn't behave this way..
To be candid dear,u are beautiful and seem reserved i believe most of the qualities u said u possess.Dont lwt any guy make u look worthless same goes to the guys.When ur mum gave birth he wasnt there and didnt know you.Try and find out what the prob is,maybe he kept quiet cos he try to check out anothet lady if it didnt then he run back to you.Take your time and find out,nobody deserves this especially you if u truly what you said you care.Take care
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 2:43pm On Apr 10, 2020
thesmallgod:
Make I connect you with someone in new zealand but if you break her heart I swell na Ogun go kill you oo grin
I did be honoured if i can have the chance to be in touch with anyone is responsible and reasonable. Here is my mail sleakkyone@gmail.com. Thanks
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 8:29am On Apr 10, 2020
scoundrel:
So, she left entry level employment in one company and settled into the same existence in a better paying country. I see nothing new there.

Why do Nigerian women depend on marriage to draw their status in life? That is why they jump into wedlock with useless entities and fall out a little later. In all the groups I follow the married women act like they shuttle out of Earth anytime they feel and others should worship the ground they walk on. Mscheew.

The problem with the females you met OP, is the cold weather. The place is always chilly thereby magnifying one’s loneliness. The white people don’t also look someone’s way because everybody has to make themselves useful to society in one way or the other. Society is the major aim while human relationships take less of a priority. Our brothers go there, see how the environment is and adjust quickly. They came for a better life to begin with, women are liabilities. The women adjust too, but a woman without approaches from males once in a while is a caged wild animal, hence the emotional outbursts you report of.
Wow i love your analysis dear i love you for that especially women been caged animals when not approached. Its really true,if a guy meets such in bed his name is sorry.....real sorry will be his next name
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 8:21am On Apr 10, 2020
Cocao:
Dear Sir,

Moving abroad is not something you rush and do. Most people are in the process for not less than two years. I am talking about legal relocation not overstaying visit visas. Within those two years, what exactly makes you think that there is no strategic plan for the abroad when you eventually get there. If you are in that process believe me, there is no scenario where you have not thought about EVERYTHING at least 10 times. So if having put in so much money and effort and immigrate without partners, don't you think they don't know the outcomes?

Let people, let ladies make their decisions. It is not your problem!
You are right,every human has the freewill so as the ladies....these are advices that can help.I understand ur point i really do
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 8:15am On Apr 10, 2020
Overthemoonman:
Any girl based in Canada should pls message me. I am very available. I am liberal and will be submissive too. Just state your conditions and I will abide by it. Just inbox me @ ayodelecollegue@gmail.com... I am very serious..
Bro u have sold ur dignity,u think any real woman would be pleased to have such above statemrnt as a potential husband. Its only d really desperate ones would go for it. No offence but am trying to b true to u.Tnx
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 8:12am On Apr 10, 2020
[quote author=EVILFOREST post=88253653]Thank You so much.
My WIFE is a TRADITIONAL person.
She likes African Villages and Masquerade dances.
And she likes investment so much.
She is not a SLAY QUEEN at all.
KIDS visit Nigeria almost every year. [/quote










I must say u are a lucky chap with such an amazing wife. Hope u all safe oit there. Stay safe bro]
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 8:05am On Apr 10, 2020
joelag:
I get one Ghanaian lady for Canada that never mind getting married to a Nigerian man, she is ready to visit Nigeria if need be.

Note: Her waist no be here ooh. Kind lady though.
Does she have values whats her age...am not interested in coming,am after been compatible with her email me if she likes my pic sleakkyone@gmail.com. Plz tell her i dont take shit if she is the nagging type,i prefer she cheats to nagging or else i leave her.Thanks
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 7:55am On Apr 10, 2020
yettymuse:
I better be lonely in Canada and USA than be unlonely in Nigeria! Who all of una epphuh tongue
You wrong dear both in sayin that and about an average nigerian been an idiot.I believe Nigerians are the most intelligent people in the world and am truly proud been a nigerian its just the politicians and the security outfits i hate with a passion.I hv a Comm of Police,Air Commodore,Naval Commdr but i turned down thei offer to work in any security outfit in Naija cos d are d ones to really help d civilians when the country is at unrest cos of the corruption but d rather protect d politicians because of promotion and meagre salary...very pathetic.So dear think twice
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 10:09pm On Apr 09, 2020
bilulu:
It's not about Nigerians alone, they hardly get married here in Canada, it's all about boyfriend or girlfriend. You will see a lady of 40 telling you she's never married in her life but she's having kids with different men. So it's like a way of life. You hardly get a boyfriend or girlfriend because no place of meeting unlike Nigeria. You can't just see a girl on the road and approach her. So it's not about Nigerians but whites inclusive
Please if yo see a girl and approach her on the road what will happen am curious. Cant a guy appoach peson e like?
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 9:56pm On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:
Nah! Just coming home to see if she can get a guy.
Thanks for been the caring type looking after the feelings of others,it goes a long way to tell whom u are.Kudos....you can see my pics and see if she like me and also i marry for love not money...believe me i dont give a shit about where she stays,all i want is compatibility i really stress it bro.Thanks and God bless
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 9:47pm On Apr 09, 2020
Cocao:
This is very funny. So as a Nigerian woman looking to immigrate to Canada I should think twice because of men? Men? Hahahahah... You people won't really allow women to make their choices in peace. Ha!
Cocoa it depends on what you really want,remember in life there are exceptions in everything so the choice is yours..take care and stay safe
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 9:22pm On Apr 09, 2020
DivineGrace123:
I think the bolded is the summary of the whole thing. A lady with a good personality will always get someone no matter what. It all boils down to a person's personality.

There are so many Nigerian churches and Nigerian Whatsapp groups over here in Canada where Nigerians can connect with one





another (for those who are interested in











You sound interesting and made a right point.How are you faring over there especially this trying period?

















Nigerians). At least, I know some people who got connected to each other via one of the Nigerian Whatsapp groups I belong to.

From my own experience, I still believe that a lady with a very good personality will always get someone no matter what. However, for ladies who don’t have good personalities and behaviours, they will find it so difficult to get someone because the Nigerian men over here have so many alternatives (i.e. beautiful Asian ladies and so on).
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 9:08pm On Apr 09, 2020
Kekereekun123:
i recently got canada pr. Even from our canada pr whatsapp groups the ladies there don dey hustle men. Some bad guys just dey chop dem for fun o. Marriage is not an ultimate goal in life. These ladies should adjust. They will also want you to take them back to Nigeria for societal wedding lol. I would rather use my. Money for MBA
Even in naija i feel gor the ladies upon there are sexy fine gals still most cant settle down.I once had a lady in Abuja,when i visited her for a weekend every min literally speaking she was asking me to take her to my people,even when i told her she sounded desperate she was so much on me i became scared,also she was excessively possessive...i had to quit cos i felt she was choking me with her marriage palaver.
Romance › Re: Secondary School Students Caught Having Sex In Festac, Lagos by Rawhumper(m): 8:36pm On Apr 09, 2020
clapbest:
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Honestly am proud to be a Nigerian,we are really intelligent and talented.Its bad govt that killing the people....to be honest when i read peoples ideas and assessements on issues i marvel..i salute you all Naija people i really do.
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 7:29pm On Apr 09, 2020
author=gargoylern post=88246524]
Bad as it may be in Nigeria, it's easier to get a man here. Men would actually look at you or whistle or somehintg like that, even if it's bad tactic. Why not then? After all, they are your "kind" in some way. Trust me, some Nigerian women in Canada don't as much as get looked at twice. Some who I know who didn't dress too well back in Nigeria have seen good reason to up their dressing in CA, if only that will at least get them noticed.[/quote]Its really sad but its not just about the white men aint looking at them...i think the main cause is the availability of women in general in population.I only marry any lady in diaspora based on love not her wealth.I have lived a life of pleasure.I want happiness in my home,number one catalyst is love between the couples
Romance › Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 7:15pm On Apr 09, 2020
Its really true most Nigerian girls in diaspora are lonely,i once had a nurse that wanted marriage so my people fixed her to then i was in University and was during exam period so couldnt see her and she had short time that was how we never met.This is true....to be honest i wont rush to ask for a girls hand in marriage cos of her wealth what happens when u find urself not in love,will u have the heart to dump her,mostly likely d may kill d guy.So if there is any lady available overseas,i need to see her pictures and know her age.I can never marry any woman i dont love even if her papa na President.I dont joke with love and happiness....these are paramount.Thanks
Crime › Re: Sola Fatunla: Man Kills Monarch For Snatching His Wife In Ekiti by Rawhumper(m): 6:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
I say this here and again,if the ibos really come together and say Biafra will stand,quote anywhere no govt or tribe can stop them.Its just there is division and most dont want to.The Biafran war lasted 2yrs plus with the ibos isolated still the Northerners couldnt eadily defeat them even with mercenaries from Egypt,Chadetc and weapons from Britain,Russia,etc it took them almost 3years.The ibo scientists manufactured devastating bombs crudely that shows any how the future will be if such happens....so govt jumping up n down with some elements against Biafra is cos the whole ibos dont really support it.Dont dare the Ibos!! This is honest truth
Crime › Re: Sola Fatunla: Man Kills Monarch For Snatching His Wife In Ekiti by Rawhumper(m): 6:32pm On Apr 09, 2020
Both Are really stupid,Take me to any Guy that fought or killed another man because of a woman...honestly such deserves triple Death plus sea of spit to arrange his burial ground.This era killing ur fellow Guy cos of woman...I once had a very sumptous G/friend front n back.She asked me to escort her to type her Project to cut it short...after i came back cos it was evening i saw d smallish attendant tried to rape her...then i was muscular i had d urge to squeeze him to Death but restrained myself.........abeg dont give urself headache because of a woman.Just think about it,do what u can to make it work,if it doesnt dont let it eat u up plz
Romance › Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Rawhumper(m): 2:24pm On Apr 09, 2020
Have u Anything to Say? Honestly i dont put my mind on women....Nobody knew when i came to d World so i shudnt allow too thinking to Take my Life.I like woman i dey straightfoward and i have them but i dont bother much about what they do,i believe a woman Can only check herself and we that Want to kill ourselves based on fearing them cheating,havent we cheated often? I cant kill or beat a gal cos of that i rather quit the relationship and breathe fresh air abeg...

























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