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That's the suspense baby.....left for u to figure.

I think you will be an amazing lady to be with.











[quote author=MARYIAN post=111045791][/quote]

Respect which elder ?girls of nowadays.

OK she obeyed him,why didn't she follow
other passengers when they alighted....she
once said that the driver made some passeat her.

Na that girl honestly sabi wetin she
wanted,maybe she got more than she could
bargain.
With all the darkness, like u said the driver
may have switched off the light in her
presence,still she did nothing.

I believe she making that video call was like in
case she didn't survive it.

That story really get K leg ooo,honestly....girls are really adventurous,they can do and undo.










quote author=Ray7878 post=111043072]

I doubt she knew the driver before hand, the journey she was making wasn’t one she usually make every day. This one was a one off, the driver was a older guy so as per Nigerian culture (Respect to the elders). She probably just listened and sat at the back.

Hope her post mortem comes out soon.[/quote]

You just said ur intention bro..... This is a very lame way to get attention.

A real man goes for what he wants rather
than hiding under a façade of "am a hustling
but well to do guy" blah blah blah.....truly if
am a girl eh,I will buy latest sharpest clipper I
will cut ur hair even ur eye brow and eye
lashes I will cut every thing u won't have a
kobo left.

Betterprospect:
Cruise ko , kuli kuli ni. I'm a man. So no be everybody get ulterior motives like you.

I have a feeling she and that driver knew
before maybe she used to collect one or two
favours from the driver without reciprocating
so the driver planned for her that night.

How can a driver tell u to sit at the back
without jazz,other people were cumin in and cumin out,u didn't follow them? U fit do that
one.....more news will unfold.







quote author=Ray7878 post=111042570]


Of course I would never have got on a bus that doesn’t have any lights on, not sure if the light was on and then turned off AFTER she got on the bus. But the light were off when she recorded the video that she sent to her mate, and she told her that the driver told her to sit all the way at the back.

Maybe he was meant to return the bus but he then was using it to make extra money, and doesn’t want anyone to see the passengers in the bus? I don’t know as am just guessing here.[/quote]

This one na acting, did Hushpuppi mother or babes slump in court during his own trial.

These people think they own Nigeria and the
worst part is that they are not intelligent or
even physically strong to fight battles it's only
using schemes and mercenaries they are good in.

Kyari must go to USA for his own share of judgement.







uote author=Ademola47 post=111026291]Earlier Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7029181/panic-abba-kyaris-wife-slumps



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/03/why-abba-kyaris-wife-slumped/[/quote]

This one dey look for cruise.....abeg u wan make guys start dey toast u nah







ote author=Betterprospect post=111023103]Good day Nairalander. I'm single, 30 years old. I studied agriculture related course at University level, and I presently worked in that field and I earned about 120k monthly.

I feel unfulfilled and I'm lacking interest day after day. The unfulfillment brewed mostly from my bosses egoistic and narcissistic approach to his employee, the insane working hours, and the lack of liberty, and most importantly, I feel I could do better. Now I have a meagre 2 million naira saved up, small? I know. Buy I'd like to pursue my passion in tech albeit from ground zero.

Now my dilemma is:

1. Seeing that I'm old and already past my prime for a career change at 30 yrs old, does a pursue of another career make sense?

2. Knowing that 2 million is small and would not last long. Does is it make sense to just up and leave?

3. I have a small biz I ideal which I feel could give me close to 50k monthly, but thing is, this is Nigeria and I might be wrong.

4. Should I just suck it up and continue for another year or two? Everyone I asked seems to think I should.

P,S. I worked 12 hours a day and its impossible I merge the two together.[/quote]

These guys never see anything, they are even
smiling. No wahala, e go soon set. Make we see if those faces go dey bright...or alive even.







uote author=ManirBK post=111023924]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GriQTl8Ann0



https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/av/world-europe-60726265?at_medium=RSS&at_campaign=KARANGA[/quote]

This is the ''benefit'' of rigging in incompetent
brother in the name of religion and tribe so
let the north bear their cross abeg.










quote author=Tracka post=111033116]

https://www.instagram.com/p/CbFtRzmAzSr/?utm_medium=copy_link[/quote]

Is Buhari reading our comments.....can
someone tell him posterity will remember him as a total failure

Its better we put rat in Aso rock than have such as our president.

Too bad the National Assembly is folding arms.




quote author=etokhana post=111031446]
https://guardian.ng/news/nigerias-epileptic-grid-collapses-plunges-country-into-darkness-again/
Mynd44
Lalasticlala[/quote]

But all fingers are not equal....they can never lay their hands on Americans or those
countries I mentioned but they can only
arrest and detain.

Unofficially,they can kill them but they will
have to be very discreet and hide the bodies
well a. Unlike Nigeria's case they can do
anyhow nothing go happen.





quote author=Ashinze post=111025639]What I know is that no one is above Asia law[/quote]

Hahaha ewu I think say u get mouth,u don't
tire because where u dey copy....they don't
close book so u dey use my own words.

See mumu format....

I said it before that u are a product of
misplaced sperm.....bro am really ready for u
ooo we go see who go tire.
This format no go save u wasted sperm of an slowpoke of a father and mother.

Taiggarr:
Sorry....

I just think you have abused your mother enough.

I laugh you tot you smart....you son tire u can't manufacture ur own words you now using my own. Keep disgracing yourself you think you change the fact you a big fooool.

Ode!!







quote author=Taiggarr post=111024117]

CHAI!!!!!![/quote]

Useless gay!! U can't change the fact u are a big slowpoke.

Your mum is a product of rape while you a product test tube.










uote author=Taiggarr post=111023943]

JESUS!!!![/quote]

Are u for real bro?

Tell us what happened?
Thanks

Househelp:
Wonders shall never end. Futoite aren't smiling, everyone of them wants to ride flashy cars. That's how a friend almost used me for money rituals. God saved me I didn't look into the Pussycat

Was she staying alone or she visited your area?

And is she a young girl or above 35?

Have reasons to ask.










uote author=Voldoz post=110996187]Good day Nairalanders, Happy Sunday

So this happened yesterday in my street (in school FUTO).

There was this girl leaving with a guy in my lodge, this girl usually dress up, makeup not as if she is going out or something, she usually just move around the street doing nothing.

I told a friend of mine severally that the girl is suspicious and the way she behaves too, how come a jobless person like this be using such an expensive smartphone but my friend told me maybe she has a rich boyfriend or she might be a hooker.

So yesterday (Saturday morning) we discussed this same issue in the morning, I was persistent cause my mind wasn't at peace with her around.

Later that same day around 8:00pm some women were just screaming and I later went out to check what's going on and they told me this same girl was caught kidnapping a child, she has carried the child from the community (Eziobodo) and was caught in the other community (Ihiagwa).

She was a child trafficker.

They were seriously beating her yesterday and they wanted to set her ablaze but she was later handed over to the police.

A moral lesson I learnt from this is that we should be cautious of our surroundings no matter what, we only know people on the out side and not on the inside, that's why the Whites usually calls the police if they suspect anything about someone.

To all the professor Lincoln on the house sorry if I went off with some of my grammar.[/quote]

Somebody that can't manage himself and family, is it party and Nigeria he can?

Abeg let the party destroy itself....God Hand is at work.









uote author=PrinceOfLagos post=111018782]

https://dailypost.ng/2022/03/14/apc-crisis-why-buharis-late-intervention-may-not-save-apc/[/quote]

Are you tired? Onye ara thunder wet no get
brake wash u from head to toe till even ur dust we no go see.

When I warned you to steer clear,you tot I
was bragging. God punish you and your yeye
family. Mkpi nwamkpi......God punish you again. Idiot!!!

You just brought out what I have left,if you
noticed I have not exchanged words with
anyone since this year. God punish you if you
wan run,you must finish what you started ooo for its not well with you ooo. Ode!!!











quote author=Taiggarr post=111022849]

It's well...[/quote]

I knew that's what you say but deep down you,you know it a no no for him.

He should quit that hell is about to enter....we
not talkng about virginity here.

That's not a criteria....

Most said he should quit it and I second it,even other guys that may find themselves in such,I believe this will help them too.

Beremx:
Las Las you go still marry the girl. All these your complaints are not valid. That’s something you can work on. No relationship is perfect.

I wonder why you were bothered about her losing her virginity when you’ve lost yours long before you met her. E no make sense at all

Twoclans is talking our Nigerian half caste.






quote author=Twoclans post=110996880]Kwin Poco, let me do amebo this sunday afternoon . nwAmikpe is advicing bewov to use your cooking recipes on nairaland . [/quote]

Are you insane? Sorry to say it bro you have
seen the red flags and you basking on the
past.

Don't you know that people can change from
bad to good or good to bad so in her case,she is no longer the person she used to be so run
for your dear life.

Forget about the money you spent,you can
try and wait she does something u use it to
end the relationship then if anyone wants to
marry her,you ask for the money you spent on her.

Never you marry that girl.....








uote author=bewov post=110994495]Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here[/quote]

Is this epistle necessary, you guys will turn serious thing into child's play.

I saw the sarcasm, pun and innuendos you used.


Just tell him your mind not in riddles.









uote author=NwaAmaikpe post=110994654]




I think you should marry her.

Why would you let her being a cheat get in the way of what you share?

I can not pay 20k monthly subscription on kpekus since March 2021 till date and let it go down the drain just because I know the woman is no good to my future.

It doesn't matter if she cheats on you, talks back at you, demands equality or isn't homely, what matters is love.
As long as you love her, the least you can do for a lady who stood by you when you had nothing is to stand by her and be supportive of all her dreams.

As she's gone to church, surprise her.
Watch some YouTube videos on how to cook the perfect Sunday stew or read up some of Pocohantas 's cooking topics so you can serve her the best possible meal with an apology letter for being irresponsible enough not to warm the chicken this morning.

That's how to pamper a woman.

If she wants to go hang out with other men, just beg her not to sleep over with them. If she insists she wants to sleep over with them, beg her not to have sex with them. If she insists she wants to have sex with them, then beg her to tell them not to cum inside her.

But if they do and she brings back a bastard baby home, allow the Christian in you love her and the baby just like Christ has loved the church.

If you really love a woman, you shouldn't be scared of anything. Just be reassured that no matter how many preeks she fvcks outside, she'd be back to you.
All you need is love.

My Bible tells me in 1st John 4:18 that "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear,"

Work on yourself, throw away your insecurities, spend more time in the kitchen, learn to treat that woman like a queen and don't stop loving her for the peril she is.

You have 5months to prepare a mind-blowing public proposal and 8months to happily walk into your unhappy future, now is the time to hire the best event planners so you create a lasting impression.

The good part is that if you marry her, you won't need to be paying that 20k monthly subscription. You can then channel it to buying Valium 5 for the sleepless nights she's going to torment you with.

Over to Lalasticl.ala and the other elders.[/quote]

What of the bill to impeach Buhari.










uote author=AliseKazah post=110565780]Child labor has been used in Nigeria since the 1980’s, when the first economic downturn began. Families and parents sent their children out to households to work as domestic maids and servants. However, that has lead to increase in violence and abuse incidents against children.
The problem with Househelps and child labor
Children are often used as emotional punching bags for easily stressed adults and especially mothers. Women often take out aggression of children as a result of being unable to do so to their husband. Female children are even more vulnerable. They are susceptible to sexual abuse(rape) and harsher mistreatment due to sexism. They share the brunt of child labour abuse due to their gender and perceived inferiority.
Child labor is slavery. Child labor is child abuse. Child labor is a crime against human rights.
Unfortunately, many people do not see anything wrong with doing this. We want to stop that by writing and sponsoring a policy memorandum to the National Assembly of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
Our Goals:
Ban child maids/domestic labor
Implement an updated Child Rights Act.
Stop violence & abuse against Child Maids by sponsoring a rigid legislation
Implement Right to Education that ensures free and compulsory education for all children between ages 18
Stop involvement of children under age 16 in domestic labor through proper measurements.
Please, Change.org, help me and other people end child labor and abuse in Nigeria, once and for all. We will forever be grateful for your help.
This petition has been supported by the following organisations/people:
Alise Kazah: twitter.com/alisekazah
New Femme: twitter.com/newfemmeng
NCLA: twitter.com/nclanigeria
Happy Children: twitter.com/happychildrenng
All Nigerian’s Women Association: twitter.com/nwa_nigeria[/quote]

Thank God Floxy ......hope he is safe wherever he is.








quote author=Arewadkiller post=111022314]God saved my younger brother from this people 2yrs ago,he learnt his lessons in a hard way[/quote]

They can't do it to a French,Britiah, American
bro I can bet u that. All they do in such case is
just arrest them and then deport them or
renew their visa after getting money from
them. This is the simple truth because those
nationals have better countries with better Govts.


But look at Buhari messing around with our
resources,flying for medical vacation with the
useless National Assembly doing nothing
because of the Ghana must go bags of money. People are suffering everyday and
anyone will tell us to be kind or fair to these
politicians.











quote author=Ashinze post=111019313]This is what most Asia counties do to most illegal immigrants . I could remember my last experience in Singapore. Not only nigerian's they beat ooo, they beat any national that overstay.[/quote]

I weep with you dear.....have u done ur research about me? that got me








quote author=MARYIAN post=111015243] [/quote]

You absolutely right bro.....even Nigerian
economy is far better than Indonesia.

Guys are hustling but if u hustle,hustle with wisdom and don't be reckless.

AFONJAPIG:
Who doesn't know there's no business or work in Indonesia , such a very poor country , all we does there are Internet fraud and cocain peddling... my people should learn how to avoid some of these unnecessary deaths... no be only Nigeria things hard...

My dear this your statement dey sarcastic, abeg who be the spineless group of men?

Its these politicians that destroyed Nigeria,
anytime there will be revolution or the
other....let none of these politicians including
my uncles or brother that are in it,if they are found wanting,they should not be spared.

If Nigeria is to be set aright,sentiments
should be thrown through the
window.However is involved must be dealt
with. So sad am not going to be a Nigerian
any longer soon.










quote author=AliseKazah post=111014091]
Such a spineless group of men.[/quote]

Buhari is a real failure see the people he appointed useless like him,see Obj when he
was president,he brought in the best in office
and they delivwred. We had the best stock exchange,banking system etc but this one is
here appointing disappointments for us.

Who does Malami think he is?
Causing problems every where.










uote author=fergie001 post=111006411]Malami: I didn't exonerate Kyari, I only asked for further probe



Dr. Umar Jibrilu Gwandu
(Special Assistant on Media and Public Relations,
Office of the Attorney General of the Federation and Minister of Justice)
Sunday 13th March,2022.

PREVIOUS THREAD;
https://www.nairaland.com/7027708/hushpuppi-agfs-office-exonerates-abba#110992614[/quote]

Buhari is a real failure see the people he appointed useless like him,see Obj when he
was president,he brought in the best in office
and they delivwred. We had the best stock exchange,banking system etc but this one is
here appointing disappointments for us.

Who does Malami think he is?
Causing problems every where.





quote author=fergie001 post=111006411]Malami: I didn't exonerate Kyari, I only asked for further probe



Dr. Umar Jibrilu Gwandu
(Special Assistant on Media and Public Relations,
Office of the Attorney General of the Federation and Minister of Justice)
Sunday 13th March,2022.

PREVIOUS THREAD;
https://www.nairaland.com/7027708/hushpuppi-agfs-office-exonerates-abba#110992614[/quote]

You are a real local bush fowl.....I can perceive it Here.

Oke ohia ka ebu......Bush rat that's what u are.

I know soon u crawl back to your dirty dark

cold hole.

I can bless u with my urine,that's what u
should be drinking not water because you are
a lesser animal not up to half human.

Taiggarr:
Nkita raagbuo nne gi ebe ahu!!!

You have proved to everyone here you good at copying foolish brainless brat.

I said it,I knew you lack intelligence intact you
are a big dunce.

Get lost and hang,I don dey tell u as u type it
u didn't know u sent me an
acknowledgement of what I sent u by using
the personal words like me,my etc ode you no get brain ooo no be lie








[quote author=Taiggarr post=111013086][/quote]

Lol you don spoil finish ooo.....






[quote author=STEWpid p




ost=111010188]Chai

RIP bro..you died hustling.

They forcefully used your leg to lambast the keg.

Where is Nigerians in Diaspora Commission??

Abi na salary and travelling abroad to snap pictures dem create the commission for??

Naijaaa.[/quote]