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Lol..how are ya'll doing?

Women are not chicken brains..they r jst weak but very wise..

chikeorji123: True indeed!!..

sure true

We need to warn those that hasn't gone into the act to desist

Thanks @dyt...its true..

My dear sis, you are in love with a married man
but do you actually
think he is going to leave his wife for you. Oh
yeah, he did say that
and you believe him? This is the same man that
lies to his wife about
where is going and where he has been when he
comes to see you.
This is the man who lies to his wife about
working late when he is taking you
out to dinner.
This is the man who lies to his wife about the
perfume on his shirt
coming from a social/¬networking event where
he was hugging and
greeting people there but in actuality that
perfume she smells on him
is your perfume you had on when you and him
were messing around.
So the next time he says he's leaving his wife for
you, think again
because he is NOT LEAVING HIS WIFE FOR YOU.
He’s just using you and
wasting your time.....please kindly follow on twitter @wisper2raw

Ladies, ... Sex is NOT love, and love is not sex. You can
have sex and not be in love. You can be in love and not
engage in sex. A man/woman can still have sex with
you and hate you. Be wise!
Using sex to manipulate a man will. eventually fail. It
is self-deception to think that giving him sex will make
him love you. True love will never force you to engage
in sex. A man who doesn't love you will not change his
mind because of sex. If he tells you 'to prove your love'
by having sex with him, he is only using you.
Making yourself his 'sex slave' is foolish! Love will
never shame or degrade you. If you have made the
mistake of trying to use sex to try and get a man to
love you, now is the time to re-access your relationship
and build it on the right foundation.
If he ever gets married to you just because 'the sex is
good' it will be fatal to your marriage. Let him get
married to you because he truly loves you, honours
you, respects you, feels a strong emotional, mental
and spiritual connection and wants to spend the rest
of his life with you.
True Or False? Please kindly follow on twitter @wisper2raw

They will soon..but is a hard and regretable way

Lol very funny..how can you date their siblings

Am not saying you should be enemies..I mean at the early stage of breakup..when you have moved on and u are so happy without them then you can be casual friends..no much chating and not much calling..some are not matures anough to be just friends with their ex's..I have one ex that if I truely want to be faithful to my girl I shouldn't talk to her..because if I talk to her jst for two weeks I will fall back inlove with her..it all depend on the memories u share..thanks the twitter handle still remain @wisper2raw

Dear nairalanders we all face heartbreak and so on..I know time heal but it depend on how you handle it..time can be 2months, a year and 3years so take these steps seriously..
1) Accept the fact that they are gone:The first and most difficult step to getting over an ex is to convince yourself that they’re gone and it’s over.
You can’t be friends with them, because if you stay as friends your feelings will keep growing and you will
End up crying to them one day. You can’t contact them for anything. You can’t check up on them. Accept
That they’re gone, those hugs and kisses are gone, those hang outs are gone, those dates are the past.
It is not at all easy but it is vital that you make yourself understand this. Stop stalking them on their social
Network accounts, delete their number, delete your photos with them. It will hurt now but it is for your own
Good for a better and happier future, always remember why you broke up and help it make you stronger.
2)Don't talk to their Friends:You probably became good friends with their friends and you guys started hanging out together. Stop talking
To them, the more you talk to them, the more your mind will tell you to ask about your ex and how they’re doing
And if they’re seeing anyone now, and it will all end up hurting you and eventually throwing yourself at them again
And being hurt again.
3)You can't be Friends:When I broke up with my ex, we decided to at least stay as friends, BIG MISTAKE! Slowly and surely, we
Started talking about our feelings again, and then it went on and ended up being another breakup which
Hurt a lot more than the last one. You simply can not be friends with your ex because it wasn’t the relationship
You guys were in to begin with, your relationship started with love, and when love is in the mix it just doesn’t
Go away no matter how cool you try being with them, you’ll continue feeling stronger for them and it’ll hurt you
In the end.
4)No contact, on any level:Keep this in mind, if you contact your ex for any reason you’ll slowly want to talk more to them and you’ll get
Interested again. It starts off with a harmless phone call or a text message and it leads to you two talking all
Night and saying how much you miss each other. The part where you two broke up and why suddenly vanishes
And all you can think of is being with them again. So it’s a HUGE no, don’t ever contact them, have no means
To contact them, and if they contact you just simply ignore them because they won’t do it forever. Don’t be
Weak and help yourself get through it.
5)Don't keep anything that reminds you of them:Throw away everything that they gave you, don’t keep anything that makes you think of them and how sweet
They were and how awesome they were because they broke up with you for a reason. And making yourself
Think of the good times will make you forget the bad and make you commit the same mistake again. So
Don’t keep anything that belongs to them or they gave you, it will be extremely hard but it will be worth it.
6)Hang out with family and friends:Now that you’ve told yourself it’s over, stop killing yourself for it and start living your life again. If you have good
Friends, they’ll make sure you get as happy as possible. Your family also understands. Be around positive
People who make you feel good and you’ll be back on your feet in no time! Please kindly follow on twitter @wisper2raw

Yea nice to have a mixed character tho..but its hard to find

Enough with the fight..;ust let us all know our worth..sometimes we just need a heart that understands us.. Am on twitter @wisper2raw

Mmmm nice thought tho

But you can take a cow to the stream but you can't force him to drink.ladies should be real

They will learn by mistakes

Ladies…
No man ever wants a 'crazy' wife! It is only
guys who want a 'crazy' girlfriend, so don't
be deceived. A guy who wants you to party
hard every weekend, expose your boobs,
wear skimpy clothes, loud make ups and get
down with 11 bottles of beer while he is on
15 will NEVER marry you!
A guy who wants sex everywhere with you
when he is not yet married to you will see
you as a LovePeddler when the time for marriage
eventually comes... Have you ever wondered
why most of these crazy guys go for the
'timid' and 'local' looking girls when it comes
to marriage but dump the sexy, sassy and
gorgeous looking ones A man wants
more than beauty for marriage!
Those boobs you are flaunting everywhere
will eventually sag someday so invest in
yourself! A man really wants a place he can
call home, he wants a woman who is modest
and can take care of his parents, one with
whom the children can confide in, the one he
can take major decisions with and tell all his
fears. He wants a wife, mother and sister all
in one...
I'm not saying that looking good is bad. In
fact looking good is good business, but you
have got to look beyond that and pay more
attention to things that keep a home. If you
truly want to attract a decent man, please be
decent yourself and do not let any man use
you to pass time! ...... May GOD grant you
the wisdom to be the woman a man truly
needs! Follow on twitter @wisper2raw

Nkem Owoh A.K.A Osuofia is finally on twitter kindly follow him.let's show him some love ----> @Nkem_owoh1

Yeaa Nigeria's tope actor is now on twitter let's show him how famouse he is follow him on twitter @nkem_owoh1

Good one

I always tell people starting a relationship to ask themselves this question. Will this relationship matter a year from now? The problem is most people wast time in a relationship they know won't end up in a home and they boldly chase away the ones that would have married them all in the name of am in a relationshsip so the question is Will u marry ur current BF/GF? Please follow on twitter @wisper2raw

I joined nairaland back then in 2004.it use to be the hottest nigeria social network.I remembered we held a nairaland meet up party in ikeja in 2006 and it was fun.we were like one happy family. But now what you have here are kinda childish minds..someone will create a honest post hoping to get a honest respond and the next 5 comment will a little relate to the topic and from there it will be fight, abuse and insult deviating from the post. Another is when the first person comment with either yes to the post maybe the post says should I marry him or not then the rest responders will comment yes and yes and if is no the rest will say no..and if the first responder starts with an insult then the rest will continue to insult..when one create a post u go back and start praying so that the first won't start with a bashing or with rudeness..nairaland is loosing or has lost his tastes..we should be matured.and also stand on our own opinion and help people..rather that follow the first comment with his/her opinion. And another is there too many fake stories and post, people seeking for attention and popularity, please if a thing didn't happen don't come here and forge a story.. The mgt should also do something about this.. Follow on twitter @wisper2raw

Don't have anything to say but all I want to tell you is that you should be carefull who you pick hun..well on the other side I guess u will be distracted by the too many mails..and lastly no responsible man will take you seriously for puting this up.thanks mr Rawlins on twitter @wisper2raw

In a relationship who disturb more for sex? Guys or Ladies? .have had this in mind to actually ask..though it varies..in my own point of view both male and femal love sex equally.men like sex and are not shy or scared to air their sexual fustration and tend to lack in the area of controling the sexual desire but I think females like it too but are too shy and scare to ask for sex.and tend to control it a bit more..so what do you think.who demand for sex more?Follow on twitter: @wisper2raw

He is not working yet.jst doing his masters and staying wit his sister

Am not the one in this situation.someone is.

You have a good friend and he works but almost spend all his earnings as soon as he gets his pay.you went advicing him to save some money and he in turn asked you to help him keep his money in your bank account so that he won't be temtpted to spend the money if the money is in his bank account.he was able to save 200k and then after his landlord came calling for another rent bill and he asked you to make withraw for him to pay his rent.it was a weekend and you made the withraw on friday hoping to give it to him on monday and your sister which you stay with falls ill and needed like 250k for admission and treatment and she must be treated that same weekend. Now the question is what will you do? Spend the money on your sisters life or give the money to your friend? Follow on twitter: @wisper2raw

I know this is not what you are expecting but if you are with good info to help please kindly do..my twitter account got suspended please what can I do to get it restored and have you seen or experienced any similiar case and how long did it take to get back on..thanks please your help will do..

Am rawlings banks..I got nice tweets,mind blowing ones,educative,inspiring,motivational,love etc on my twitter just follow @wisper2raw....drop urs let's tweet nd get many followers.
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My dear I will advice u to clearify tins before u quit so that Ur conscience will b clear....find out who dat lady is...press him to open up if he really loves u...b be wise in reading his words..plz frnds folo me on twitter @wisper2raw

Most girls r like dat...try giving her space nd see if she will notice..plz ya'all folo me on twitter @wisper2raw

If u r wise I tink u can knw hw to go about it