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Nobody can give you good advice on this except yourself, so be truthful to yourself and act. Close your eyes on what the society will say or call you. You are yourself dont deceive yourself.  You can go for councilling if you have to but to tell you the gosple truth no one is there with you, inside you body and cell, you know how far you can go. Eleven year is a long time and you are lucky to have survive this far and am sure it will be in pain.  I dont  know what religion you belong to but almost every religion frown on a woman being alone without being in a husband house even the society frown on it but the good news is that Almighty God does not frown on it. I am a bible believing person and i can recomment a xtian book for your reading if interested reply and i will post the title tomorow i dont have it at hand here. If you believe in Bible, mind me if you dont but this will help you not feel guilty no matter the decision you make
1. God made woman to help man, as help mate He called woman in Genesis
2. In the same Genesis Adam accused God of giving him a woman that made him sin against is creator
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3. Since then God gave everybody the privilege to request whatever they want that is why it is now ASK AND IT SHALL BE GIVEN.
You are the owner of destiny not your religion, socity, friends and family but you yourself. I pray the almight GOD will grant you to make the wisdom to make the right decision, Always pray for wisdom that is what you need to survice in this evil world. No matter you decision, i wish you luck and good health. Take care of yourself.

I personally pity this young girl and wish she seeks help fast before the marriage open up the blind love she has fallen into. Sorry to be blunt but am sure you are those men that want woman for a ride so you would not go for a woman that is more liberal and with enough experience to survive love and when law of diminishing returns set in (most men dont handly this well) . My advice to you is this even though she is young now remember that she will grow in heart , experience and overall it may take a while but she will grow and you will not be able to take her for a ride as you are doing now. I think is a fair play if you treat her like your daughter and go look for a more experienced woman. Marriage is completely different from love. Let go of the girl, you have deprived her of her freedom enough. Love her as a daughter not as a bed mate.

I know blame the pastor who uses elecric shock or whatever some or all of them use. I blame the congregation who no follow advice in the bible that says 'those who know their GOD shall be strong and do exploit' not those that know pastor or born again(st).

Its a pity many people have had bad experiences attending celestial church of Christ. Believe experiences are way of life and if it is meant to happen to you ie destined ( Ayanmo in yoruba) it will. Christians don't believe in destiny i hear someone say i will tell you go back to the bible and understand it not read, Birth of Jesus Christ was prophesy write from Genesis and situation, Satan try to abort it but destined to save we sinners so He came still in respective of obstacles.
Charles Dickens says and i quote "The way to prosper is to fail, fail often , learn and move on"
to this fellow @gbenga_9ja I'll say glad you move on.i don't know your dad personally but he was quite popular then in cele Transmission candles don't link his wealth or disappearance of wealth to cele ( money has wings has the bible made me know) God will protect your wealth oh and continually teach your hand to profit. There are numerous people that have there wealth disappear ( they are never celestial) may be Pentecostal, or other religion they joined the faith, got rich and whatever happen to them mainly in my own view through too much philandering without reasonable accountability ( awa la wa be). You should be grateful to God you have experience as these shows you are alive. I can tell you my experience in Pentecostal the good, the bad the very bad and all sort but i will not as it is not pentecostal that cost it but my destiny. We can blame Judas etc for Jesus death but Jesus must die any way and death of the cross he must bear so take it as you faith.
To pray that you will never step your foot celestial church again I say AMEN to it may the all mighty GOD grant your desires as so to all those saying that prayer. I once said that but now back in celestial church enjoying every single bit of it. To those saying bad things about the church weather previous member, visiting member or whatever i pray that the almighty God will forgive us all and give us knowledge and understanding to understand His calling on our lives. There is one and only one GOD and celestial church worship the true and living GOD.
To those not comfortable with the cele mode of worship i will say its a pity there is nothing we can do about it that is why God himself made different churches, different individual, Elisha, Elijah Joshua etc they know God in a personal way and God appear to them personally and even according to wish also i will say enjoy the doctrine of your belief but doctrine but most importantly know God the almighty.
Do not wear shoe, holy ground , white garment, etc and all that cele use ( to the Yoruba's i will say that is the Edidi, Awamaridi, Olorun ka bi o ko si) I will refer you to the bible again all what is done in cele is from the bible am yet to see one that is not from the bible i would have sight references to bible location but if you want wisdom bible says search for it and after you found understand it. Even Jesus christ (use ise ) by using sand to make the blind man see i can go on and on. The bible says he hides his secret and he only reveals it to those he want. Pray these pray that GOD will reveal Himself to you personally not as he does to Mr A or B but to you as a child to him.
To my Africa people do not let us miss the important thing yet again. Yoruba has egbe ( don't know the English word) technology brought it to us in form of video conference all because we call them oso, aje and all the stuff. We forget that there is good in bad and bad in good even God made everything as dual.
By the way i found this site searching for information which i have not found as i have to read this interesting experiences and after reading i could not help but respond some so please stop tagging cele experience is a way of life. I wish i can reply all but no time as i have to do my own search it's being quite interesting to me i can only pray for God to direct us and as He leads we follow. I am celestian, proud to be one i pray I'll not have course to leave( did someone say amen for me-- thank you) as some did. It is a very powerful, spirit filled, yoke breaking God we worship as the bible reveals to us God will show himself strong on our behalf and at the same time He will show Himself to us as we are to the crooked he will be, to the righteous he will be. You can say cele is old testament but i tell you cele belief in both we belief Jesus Christ is the son of GOD, we call on Jehovah because it is I AM and the bible says if we call on the name of God he will answer and show us great and hidden things which we do not know. Don't know cele pray to God to show us to you, already know or worship there pray to Him also to show you where theres got wrong. Our mode of prayer starts with Jehovah ( I AM -- the Helper, the Giver, the High tower, the protector,Ancient of days etc ) Jesus christ ( the son of GOd some claim we dont believe in ) and holy Michael ( our warrior). God said he will sent his angel before us ( to serve) , ahead of us to divide the red sea abi the rod had to be stretched for the red sea. God will deliver us.
Enjoy and the very best in our numerous faith

I am born and bread celestian left for  pentecostal for about  10years , couple of years with AFRICA religion and back in celestial.
Bear in mind that all that is being said is mostly about the individual's that make up the people in celestial and it is these cele individual that went to pentecostal or whatever religion that may be in vogue tomorrow and to be honest with you , you are who you are your, mind set is you and not the church you go to. If you are a thief ,  born again one million times you will steal and use the wonderful, complete book to cover your self up. I can point pastors in pentecostal that do more worst things than the individuals in celestial but very smart and are do not have very good PRO and moreover not in the lime light like celestial ( eyi ti yio we aiye).
If you talk about the bible I'll tell you it is not the case pastors in celestial church do know the bible you can say that they do not add marketing demo like the pentecostal i can accept that nothing more they do know there stuff and well they do
"Cele is a ritual church and contain African church"  if you to follow the instruction of the bible thats says in all thy getting get  understanding (pro 4:7).  If you understand the bible and especially revelation you will find out there 7 types of churches each with their own fault ( plus Pentecostal, celestial etc) if we apply it in  today's world and i tell you in the old days of real born again ( with many rules about dressing , wealth, technology etc)  how many were born again very few as i happen to be of age and we can go on and on and on.  To the Africans out there please let go back to our past and see how things were.
Celestial church of Christ is an African church and so is the bible an Africa history. To condemn cele is to condemn other faith especially pentecostal. If you say celestial is mainly about spiritual job how come pentecostal use anointing oil, handkerchief and the like let wake up from our slumber and not tag any religion as the Yoruba will say ORUMILA -oru lo mo eni ti o la (  meaning  when we get to the kingdom of GOD ( hell,heaven) we will know who is who) .

Prophesy: is one of the spiritual gift God gave to everyone  not very rampart in pentecostal as they do not really welcome it and the spirit will only stay where is being welcome.  It is there to show us things to come, warn us and pray against it if its negative not to happen and positive pray for its manifestation. To go to the bible we will see numerous examples, how it saved lives and otherwise. Prophesy are things to come,  the birth, purpose of Jesus Christ came thru prophesy even its protection from Herod came through prophesy so do not condemn it , its a warning  and expectation and outcome depends on how we handle good example is 2kings 20 i can go on and on and on but read your bible for personal understanding not marketing purpose. Prophesy can also be liken to pregnancy, the mare fact that you are pregnant does not mean child will be born and child born does not mean will be be old etc.

To the lady that the church did not support after her mothers death i will say sorry may the good God the comforter comfort you and your family. its a pity celestial members, pentecostal members and individual  have lost the love they use to share in those days but God will restore us all. I know the pentecostal will argue that they have not but i tell you, you have but you are using activities to cover it up ( like home fellowship).  I can talk about pentecostal because mine sojourn is the other way round back to celestial from pentecostal. The most important of all is that we have lost our attitude ( i mean  IWA if you are Yoruba iwa ni esin, ori ni eleda ti a pe ni olorun).
"Is based on the old testament " someone said even Jesus Christ himself said he did not come to abolish the law. God will help us make heaven as according to the bible we will not be asked our religion but our  sin/righteousness or righteousness/sin ( plainly iwa ).
Celestial church of christ is a very good church and if you are a member or intending member or whatever religion or church denomination you belong to i reckon you to follow the passage in the bible thats says those who know their God shall be strong and do exploit Daniel 11:32. Enjoy and remain ever blessed.
and do valiantly Daniel 11:32.