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Love if it use in the right context is the most important but in these days am not sure if one exist so every one lives for him/her self. I would say love yourself first that is the principle thing, for another peason to love you, i bet you wont know but if you really love yourself then you can be compatible with anybody as you will understand that people are in your life for Reason and Season, and some to be part of your history.
As for your virginity i hope it comes out handy when u need it but it real world you need experience in everything you do if you really want to be ssuccessful I wish you the best but my advice is Test Waters this is the 21 centrury .

She is a smart woman and i love her guts. As others have said search your real soul for the reason you want her back, properly after she comes home you will get another wife that will make you a father, typical of Africans especially Nigerians-mixing love with marriage and having kids. Please do let her even though in her own case abortion has made it a bit difficult to have babies not that she can't have but if she comes back to you, you wont give her the emotional comfort women in situation need even if she eventually get pregnant. Please go and look for another baby making factory and i wont be surprised if you don't take care of those kids when they come. Please and please let her go and you will need to learn more about life and situation not to respond with anger and start maltreating anyone. Best of luck

Will the teachers not be on strike, government need to analyse root cause of everything.
Good but there need to make provision for these kids to be and stay in school.

Good point then resign and go and enjoy the fruit of your labour

Everything in life is about concept. I will advice you to start from elementary maths, this may sound funny but will elementary maths, secondary schol one and the before you go to the high leve ones, you will get the basic and work you way up. Life is like build blocks once the foundation is not right you need to go down to the root and do some basic then the top will be easier. There are some online resources that can help, like the bbc websites for kids.Best of luck.

It is not good to disregard anybody be it yourself, parent or pastor but bear in mind that there is nothing like God's work. Most of the things done in church is for the benefits of people not God. You need to learn time managment and avoid people that steal on your time. Even if you study the bible it talks more about time and season, so time and plan everything. You can leave your school work and go to church, God will not send legions of angels to do it but if you learn to manage your time well God can bless little of your commitment either to your chuch or personal life. Look before you leap is the one for religion, it is a great mobilization stream. Best of luck but be wise.

I do not know where to start as there are so many people with issues regarding Celestial Church of Christ. My advise to everyone is simple nobody can change your opinion but you will experience similar issue whichever church you go to---Let's just give it time. Time will reveal that people have lost what is called conscience and do things irrationally it has got nothing to do with celestial.

I will encourage people that contemplating joining the church or new and looking for information that Celestial Church of Christ is a church and not a cult. We beleive in the Bible both old and new testament and we follow the mode of worship as ordained in the bible. I will also encourage you that no matter your fate you have got to Know your God, if you dont know your God people will come and sell you different kind of things.

I will not condemn any church as it is not within my domain to say but i can tell you have being to Baptist and Rccg but i found myself more comfortable in Celestial Church of Christ. If your calling is within the church then match on if you look at the individual members and use it to judge the church as a whole then you are missing out, remember we are in the last days and so many people are rising up claiming they are doing words of God mainwhile they are doing word of their pocket. I will reinforce again to those speaking against the church of God, do not play God allow God to split the churches out as it is written in revelation.

To all Celestians in the house, i say Jorih han hihu: Oluwa ni Oba nla: The Lord the King is the greatest. I am a celestian, will always be a celestian and continually pray that i will not anything that will change my celestian believe.

Good idea, the church has finally merged with the world before they were just bending and adjusting.
Abstinece i will say no, i thick the world will need to understand the natural means of the bosy system and try to let others fit in. Naturally man and woman have a partilar period in there life when there sexual urge is so high that is why in those days early marriage is encouraged usually before 25 but now adays it is different which make abstenace to be like word of mouth.

Yes, but remember vain is the help of a man and remember PS 118 v8 It is better to trust in the LORD than to trust in people. If you love someone you will trust them and if you do trust people of these days i bet you your in ,

Nigeria is a great country with mad genes in which this man is number one funny candidate. Can you imagine president flying out for treatment, i
wish he had slip over in the plane. When will our leaders learn, Abacha died while he slumped, simple promlem that good immediate medical attention can arrest, Adedibu died trying to get visa for medical treatment e.t.c . Are all these rich men mad or what can't they start doing something to the industries in nigeria, bring back basic ammenities, trained tallented doctors and provide them with equipment, water to wash hand after surgery and good electricity etc . Imagine if every goverment is like Nigeria goverment where will these funny men run to for health and second life (living with the life support machine) chances. I can only wish!!!

Best of luck, just in case you make it start doing something to improve the medical condition of Nigeria then you dont need to be travelling around and your rich folks.

Life and decisions and the funny thing about it is there is no write one. I will answer this based on my experience now, if it were 5 years ago i would say go back to school but with my experience now this is what i would do.

1) No do not leave your job expecially if there are high prospect for it. If you leave your job now and go for HND, you might get a job when you finish, age your certificate in two years time may not worth that much. Except if you dont need job for a leaving, i.e self made and dont depend on employement to get food on the table and in the pot and safe (should incase).With the current trend globally graduates may not get you that much in the near future, your experience is what will stand you out.
2) I google what DLI programme means and is actually a distance learning programme, check the certificate that will be awarded if it will be same as the full time or real student then go for this if not do not bother. Even though it says 5 years that should be the maximum to spend i will think, this can be less.
3) This is good as this well established path, it may even help you to set up as an enterpreneur in the future.
4) hummmmm, still young i would not say so except you are under 21 which i doubt. Note that if you stay in your current job and do a part time HND or university you will not look for work as a graduate, your graduate cert will act as a supplement. I know you said you flucked up DE to some univeristy but try again as one of the guys in seven summit said when he could not climb mount everest, 'Mount everest i am coming back you cannot get bigger but i will" and the follwing year he did went back and successfull climed everest. Every failure gets you closer to success.

As i said this is my current thinking and this is want i will do, you have asked for advise and thought i should contribute. Things are changing fast and Nigeria is no behind at all. Best of luck in your decision process.

It all depends on what you really want to do. The best way i think to go about it is to find a service you can provide in the area of Information management, documentation and advertise your service to prospects. You will then decide where to do it whether on home or on the beach. To get a direct work from home job i say will not be that easy even in abroad it is not that straight forward except you are a service provider sell your services to clients. A lot of work from homes also require displine and good time management, in your own case you need to have generator that can provide constant light or you go solar. Depending on the nature of what you do you might not need internet access but having a reliable one will make your life far easier.

All the best, remeber if there is no other way, you have to create one.

where u dey get your statistics from and how many people dey niger self that 60million dey unemployed. If your calculation is right then graduates need to lower their dream a bit and ready to start low and know these new breeds really want something very very tasty which might be the reason for unemployement.

If it indeed happened then that is a slap on the face. I would suggest the lady make an officical complain if so sure of what is being written, with details of her flight etc even if she does not know the name and ID of who molested her she could stilll complain and prevent others from being molested. But i tell you as long as am not in Muritala airport or germany i no go comply to mad regulations. Western world have human rights which protect you from some molestation.
If you want to investigate this further you can employ my assistant and i will do this at no cost as long as you are willing not to paint the truth.

Good advise gomina(governor) but i suggest you should not be bothered about those abroad there choice, whatever plans you have for the nigerians abroad implement it on the ones in Nigeria and prevent more outflow. Everyday thousands of Nigerians are looking for means to leave the country these are the ones that need help not the ones that are use to having basic things in life like shelter, light , water etc. Fashola and his politicians need a lot of Fixing to be done before giving this advise. I am sure his kids are somewhere abroad leaving in cur de sac residents. He mentioned about Asians going home, he should go there and see what the government is doing, most of the giant companies in the world have something to do in Asia, either manufacturing or outsourcing so citizens can boast of employment but in Nigeria is a different story.

Thanks for your advice and i tell you if i have a means i will leave Nigeria, if not for good at least there is consolation when you suffer in another mans land but not when you are a slave among your own people.

Fashola dont just sit down on give advise you need an armour tank to come and bring people back to Nigeria not just mouth talk

1. Poor water for floor
2. dry it up
3. make her wear stileto and say something funny as she walk pasy
4. Be ready to cath her as she might land in the hospital

Be yourself

Please give me a shout if they want it burried oh.

Very interesting, your friend has stopped believing in God. This is my own thought, since he believed once that makes it even more interesting. There is a reason why he stopped believing and from your notes it is like it is taking different accounts into being, GOD does not need anybody's belief before he is GOD. Even if everybody does not belief He will still be GOD, I believe anybody who does not believe in GOd  need to look around at things that are not humanly created and appreciate that there is at least some supreme being behind this, I call him Almighty GOD. I will name just a few some things that are not humanly created

1. How humans are formed, you can read up about how babies develop in the womb and try to explain this
2  How few seed are planted and they germinate
3. Seasons and timing, how it is night in one part of the world and day in another part of the world.
4 How people die and cant come back to life, even with the invention of life support machine people still die
There are so many quetions that we can ask about things around that will justify there is a powerful force somewhere controlling it, am a chritian so  i believe it is the GOD Almight as written down in the bible.

As per the pains and aches of people and nations, there is always a reason for pain and most of the reason is like a stop clock that stops us when we are overdoing things or about to get into danger. If you want to read more about pain and why GOD allows it, the interesting book i found is written by
Phillip Yancey titled Where is God when it hurts  ISBN-10: 0310245729  -- see the link from amazon
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In the book Philip talked about pains and why God allows it and he used so many examples from lepers-- he emphased that lepers always injure themselves so badly because their pain nerves as stopped so they can sustain so many injuries without knowing but other humans know how to stop once they have being injured. This is one of the reasons why lepers are kept in isolation with close watch.

This can be seen in our everyday life, what causes us pain we avoid and build resilence round it and some we avoid completely. If your friend has no pain he would not have reached up to adulthood he/she would have died burning himself on the fire that he was tesing as a small child but the pain nerves told him to move away even from the heat of the fire.

Without  pain he would not have being born at all because the mother will feel some amount of pain before she knows that she is pregant etc and some when the baby is due to be born, all this are different types of pain and degree.

If your frient  want a copy of Philip Yancey book, i can post a copy as i have extra, if your friend promise to read it. Just respond to via this and i will send my contact details to request the postal address.

Anybody can cheat if they so wish and to the mistress who went all this way for a mere man, i'say sorry oh , for the woman in th house you better pick race and leave the man because mistress like this can pray for their enemy to die or be dismantled and you are one of them. Mistress is only working hard and when time comes it will adjust all this hard work, all prays, jazz, ori oke or whatever it is called give it time, good time and you will see that all is useful chasing after the wind as oga solomon said. Nobody is worth the stress you are going through not even a man.

mind my language, but you lots are too young to decide if a man takes a second or etc wife. Let him be, as Jesus said to the woman with 7husband, let who has no sin the first stone. I beg pastor Happy married life o jare

I will definately save a relative than pay a tithe. I belief in applying wisdom to whatever religious group one belong to. When prophet micha wrote about tithe, the purpose was for food to be in my house and ones there is food in one house belonging to God you move to the next house until all houses have food so they say. Remeber the tithe belongs to the lord as stated in the leviticus part of the bible before belonging to levites.

You need to ask about their dress code but suit is the preffered for most business meet and to be honest how you present yourself to the company boost your chances of getting employed even having passed all the rigorous testing and tech bit. The person interviewing you have to have a sense of likening for you. Go for the general pool and always wear suit except if it is against your belief or religion

Lanre

be his servant.

you can o jare dont mind them marriage is more tolerance than anything. I think is great when people of same career marry as they can build an empire professionally as long as they master how not to bring the office into their personally lives and as long as code works programmers are great, if it does not they are in mars or jupiter while physically on earth. Go for it great ideas can be shared also Best of luck

I can't belief in this day and age women still do things of this kind, i can only wish her luck but she should remember no one is worth giving up anything for. If it is on her own rejection i can understand but going ahead of the contract up till winning it means that she wants it at some point but giving it means she need to change her career and look for something that will please her boyfriend and finally is she thinks she is happy with the man she should try phychology of happiness and she will know that she can be happy with anyone if she wants to be.

Please pass on the contract details to me i may apply for the contract myself if is still open

Hi Anivara, if i happen to be you i will go for it especially if it is not on a very long contract that will keep you for so long away from your family (6weeks period as you stated which is not very certain as usual). As for the militant life is a risk and even waking up is a risk but take care as you work there i have never being there only heard about incidents around there so nothing to say on that area. But if it want you want and hurray best of luck on you accent you really have to learn to speak the proper english this time.

Hi,

I think personally you worry about what is nought and i in my own opinion i will say you are better off asking him why he does not want to eat is your food or to put it more politely eat outside. As @yinkuso08 her husband case was to do with upbringing so in your case you need to hear from the horse's mouth.

Keep on trying the harder you look the further you see. I am glad at least one of the few guys that know what they want!!!!! i hope you wont shift the goal post once you find one. Intellgient women, they are very interesting but dont forget they will stand up to anything even if it is to proof a point, men look at them women that cannot be control but i look at them as women that have learnt to analyse situation and voice out their opinion. Men find this intimidating so watch out and best of luck in your search but remember they love highly intelligient men as well.

It's quite unfortunate you have not found job since you left school. From my personal opinion i will suggest you leave the bigger fishes only for now and go for smaller catch you can even think on starting something on your own or going a freeby, if you are christian you local church will do. To be honest i have being in that sort of situation and i know how frustrating it is but you must never let you dream die. Keep on developing yourself and as i said earlier forget the big companies, most of them advertise roles that have are already being filled up to fulfil legal obligation. You also need to be a bit relax at the interview because with no job at all, all interview become a tense period. I know you said you dont mind 20k job but you have got to go for that 20k. I wish you luck, favour and most importantly to listen to your inner being as per which way to go

Personally I would not terminate a relationship based on religion; I will do so only on lies. Religion is a belief which varies according to condition and environment. I am not sure which group you belong to but if you remember in the 80's and early 90’s the then born against were scripture unionist (SU) even the now popular RGGC, there were codes for every thing such as dress code, musical codes, behavioural code and name it but now the only code in vogue is tithe and multiplier products. Simple thing that is need in marriage is how individual accommodate each other the only difficult part is to do with when the kids and how you will nurture then and I tell you the most important religious is to fear of God (however you worship him) and be fair to all mankind which can be summarised as love. But if you apply wisdom to it and teach them the fear of God they will be adult one day and have the freedom to choose which religion to go for.

@gentlegg
If you say women immoral dressing causes men to cheat. Then all men should be really realy evil by now, there are cheap guns every where dont all men turn to hired killers or cocaine addit or the likes because of cheap supply.