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Family / Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by realvenc: 10:23am On Mar 25, 2017 |
In your third paragraph you made a clear submission based on the write up. Which is what I asked you how you came about it. And instead of a logical explanation you fly into an insulting rage like a hot headed kid. Does not matter what you claim you suspect... Even your first and second paragraphs all made direct criticism of the OP for his IJN...If not backed by action... Which I felt was a good point. aribisala0: |
Family / Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by realvenc: 8:48am On Mar 25, 2017 |
The submission in your last paragraph was deduced from just this single incident or you know this couple before now. Na wa aribisala0: |
Family / Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by realvenc: 8:23am On Mar 25, 2017 |
He claimed he called the hospital to complain about the bill and not because of distrust for the wife... That, I believe is normal.. gbishman: |
Family / Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by realvenc: 8:04am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Don't ever say this bro... Unless of course you no longer believe in your marriage which from your earlier posts I think you still do. What your wife did is not good but do not turn it into an act of war or show of strength by denying her of any support as it is your responsibility. You have the arsenal, physical and financial strenght plus intelligence to win so nothing to prove or gain. For a solution in an issue like this, call your wife and talk to her as you would to your paddy wey fall your hand. Let her know what she did was wrong and not in your principle.......Don't scold her as you would a kid. She is your partner not your subordinate. In marriage it is all in your hands to either scatter or mend. Gain respect or lose it as things unfold because humans are never perfect. skypeme: |
Romance / Re: She Constantly Ignored His DM On Instagram For 3years! Now They Are Married by realvenc: 10:46am On Mar 19, 2017 |
This was not persistence or consistency in any Love. If she had opened the door to talk to him without letting him in for whatever reasons and he now persists till she lets him in then the story will look a little good. There is no need suffering a guy by ignoring and snubbing him and expecting him to be patient and understanding. When he does not even know your stance. solasoulmusic: |
Romance / Re: She Constantly Ignored His DM On Instagram For 3years! Now They Are Married by realvenc: 10:18am On Mar 19, 2017 |
My dear, it is weird that someone you ignored and could not talk to for 3 years, you have finally come to marry... No level of business or being busy should stop anyone from responding to a simple Hello whether offline or online. Men are not always saints just that this scenario is particular with ladies here.. Asking them out must turn into a mountain climb and by the time they have come around either the guy has moved on or he is already exhausted to keep pace in the relationship itself. If the guy had moved on then this supposedly good married life together would have been lost to both of them... It is a lesson. amokeme: |
Politics / Re: Atewe Gave N35m To Winners’ Chapel – Witness by realvenc: 9:06am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Why are you bringing your Oyedepo into the matter yourself just to make a defense. Reacting to the story; Any church or person that takes money from whoever that offers it without rejecting it outrightly if the source can't be explained and also openly preaching against stealing and the donation of stolen monies has a big problem. Does not matter if it is a bishop, pastor individual, Tom or Harry. We had a society once where parents, communities, churches openly questioned their wards about the source of their wealth. Criminals where never celebrated and crime/corruption was on the low. Today the revise is the case and everybody should expect the church to play it's role rather than defend it. tolujohnso: 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Atewe Gave N35m To Winners’ Chapel – Witness by realvenc: 8:31am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Wait... The joke is on him really... 35 million Naira is a few millions to a church and so goes unnoticed. Why then are Nigerians complaining about corruption up and down if a church simply looks the other way while individuals (Not corporate bodies or even govt) donates huge sums of money to it. And these individuals are church members whose status are well known to the church and so without question the church know they mostly cannot legitimately afford it. The church and Christians as a whole has got a moral and religious obligation to not put people to sin but rather to encourage people to leave their sin. These hundreds of millions donations from church "VIPs" is not helping anybody in any way. Same as the over bloated school fees we see in church owned institutions which drive many people to corrupt practices both at business and work in order to send their wards their. GlorifiedTunde: 1 Like |
NYSC / Re: See The Reason Most Nigeria Graduates Are Unemployable (pics) by realvenc: 2:32pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
I can't see where I have condemned anyone or claimed to be a Master of English Language. All I said was that it is nothing to be proud of or excused or justified to be a graduate of a tertiary institution and at the same time can't express yourself correctly in simple correct sentences in the Language one is schooled. Does not matter if it is me or anyone. Wrong is simply wrong. And I still maintain that there are people who never went as far as any tertiary education but who are okay so the excuse of falling standard of education does not really stand for me. Nusaf: |
NYSC / Re: See The Reason Most Nigeria Graduates Are Unemployable (pics) by realvenc: 8:29pm On Apr 16, 2016 |
You can tell me it's a typo error and leave it at that. Anyone who is a graduate of a Tertiary Institution anywhere in the world but cannot express themselves in simple correct sentences in the Language of schooling is simply not something to be proud of or to be excused. English does not need to be the mother tongue, if not why waste time and space going to school. And finally take up the space of well qualified people in professional employment positions later on through favoritism. And keep messing up the Nation. Why not go and be a successful illiterate as most people on this thread has highlighted a lot of persons who never went to school but are successful. Just saying... Djbaka: |
NYSC / Re: See The Reason Most Nigeria Graduates Are Unemployable (pics) by realvenc: 8:05pm On Apr 16, 2016 |
Thank you for this response as that has always been my thinking whenever I see the lame excuses people make on issues like this. Why go to school in the first place especially as far as Tertiary education yet you cannot construct simple sentences. And most contributors here are supporting or excusing such. The truth is this... if they cannot express themselves correctly in English the language of their over 15 years of Education then they cannot do same in any native language or Engineering or Medical Language as most people here claim. Nigerians should simply stop supporting mediocrity else no need complaining about the state of the Nation cause it is all part of the problem we have today. At most keep quiet or accept your shortcoming and go improve yourself, after all being educated has nothing to do with going to a formal school. sonature1: |
Business / Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by realvenc: 3:04pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
47, 83, 19, 18, 06, 84. My numbers for today. Good Luck. |
Business / Re: How Much Did You Exchange The Dollar For Today? by realvenc: 10:03am On Feb 04, 2016 |
purplish: Please are your US Dollars still available? I need $2,000. |
Celebrities / Re: Fans Blast Femi Adebayo For Kissing His Daughter On The Lips by realvenc: 4:20am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Seriously this is not just a matter of Right or Wrong, perverted or not perverted. It has more to do with the kind of values you teach a kid when you take certain actions in their presence. Remember their life is shaped by the things the see around them. Now in this case what exactly are you teaching this kid? There are 1001 other ways to teach/show a kid love and affection. If anything the kid should be the one behind the camera while the mom and dad should be the ones locking lips. Anyways if the guy removed the photo then even he surely saw something not wholesome about the pose, especially the public display |
Family / Re: Theory Of The Modern Wife by realvenc: 6:04pm On Jul 19, 2014 |
Very intelligent and genuine write up. You just highlighted the issues we face as a society and without showing any gender bias. Evil is bad and has no gender, age or religion. The problem is we tend to blame the other party for our shortcomings. gohome: Feminism. 2 Likes |
Business / Re: Punter Backed Germany To Beat Brazil 7-1, Wins $46,000 [pix] by realvenc: 4:16pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
I put it to you that Dangote will never call 7million a small money. Not even in a faceless forum. Infact no person with legit income will ridicule any amount of money cause he\she knows how hard it is to make even $1 of legit dough. Roliks09: Why's everyone hating on hardboy? He spoke from 'his perspective' and the figures he picked i.e N.7m was from the calculation someone did. If Dangote told us 7million was small money would we hate on him like this? Let the guy be jare |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Frank Onyeachonam, Yahoo Boy Jailed In London by realvenc: 4:26pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Imagine stealing innocent peoples hard earned money and devasting them and then justifying with some crap. Nigerians will never accept responsibility for their actions or inactions.. It is either the devil, or their ancestors or even God or in this case their victims accestors. So You find yourself in the supposedly Gods own country, where everything works and the pasture is greener and GEJ is not even the president and cheap scam is all majority of Nigerians here can do. And many are still desperate and eager to come over. Why cause we celebrate criminals in our society. Well a thief is a thief, whether you are stealing millions or kobo or using a gun or a pen or a PC. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Frank Onyeachonam, Yahoo Boy Jailed In London by realvenc: 4:07pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Pastor sovpounds: |
Technology Market / Re: ORDER FROM EBAY,ALIEXPRESS,AMAZON,ALIBABA,ETC SERVICE CHARGE IS JUST $10 by realvenc: 11:15pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Can you guys arrange shipping from china to Nigeria Chrisvicmall: |
Autos / Re: Pre Order Your Car From The Usa, 40% Deposit, 21 Days Guaranteed by realvenc: 12:38am On Nov 21, 2013 |
My Oga How much to land a 2005 Ford Escape Limited. Best Price. Thanks. |
Autos / Re: @-{Deal$$ Of The Day **Novembe 11th, 2013** Come In And Pick Your - Femmmy Motos by realvenc: 7:13pm On Nov 06, 2013 |
Sent you an email. await your response |
Autos / Re: IAAI and COPART buying made easy - LIVE BID by realvenc: 7:09pm On Nov 06, 2013 |
Sent you an email. await your response |
Car Talk / Re: I Want To Buy A Ford Escape 2008. Pls Advice by realvenc: 9:53am On Sep 30, 2013 |
realvenc: Am looking to buy a ford Escape 2008 SUV. But I have these questions and need some clarifications from honourable members of the Land. Still waiting for your comments people. MODs abeg help |
Car Talk / Re: How Much Does It Cost To Maintain A Ford Car? by realvenc: 12:23am On Sep 30, 2013 |
Am looking to buy a ford Escape 2008 SUV. But I have these questions and need some clarifications from honourable members of the Land. - Is it a ride that is fit for naija use in terms of bad roads, fuel economy, ease and availability of maintenance. -will it be a good decision to buy this as my first ride - I have not seen this ride sold in any auto delearship here in lag. Is there any reason. Also it seems nigerians hardly use ford brands especially the Escape. - Finally what will be the best place to buy this ride and at what cost. Any dealers in the house with an offer can holla Pls I need advice to make a good decision. Thanks all |
Car Talk / Re: ***You Can Actually Get A Cheap, Good Car At Salvage Auction*** by realvenc: 10:58pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
My oga.. Thanks for the info. What abt Auction Export• Are they in the same category as the ones you mentioned below. I have visited their site and Copart. Auction Export had this buy now button which I think is cool if I find what I want and don't want to be involved in a bid... IMO But then am new to all these but want to test the ground I actually sent you a text on saturday. Let me know if you got it and when best to call you or if you did not get it. Let me have a number I can get you on. Emperoh: |
Car Talk / Re: SUV Made By Innoson Motors (Pictures) by realvenc: 10:28pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
Thank you my brother for this. If this man is doing something that is not done (or rarely done) in naija and he is doing it legally and creating jobs and opportunities in process. I wonder why some people here are displaying their negative and biased mindset and making it sound like the are smart. Even if it is a chinese car, his endeavour (whatever you call it) is creating jobs and opportunities which is somethingany well meaning Nigerian will commend. If at all we should be taking abt how government can create policies. Plus enabling environment that can promote and support what he is doing. For instance, if it meets necessary standards, why can't govt make IVM or any other being manufacturered (or assembled or whatever name u give it) in naija official brands or provide necessary tax breaks or other biz support or incentives so as to reduce cost of production thereby making it competitive. Sometimes most Nigerians would rather we stay where we are cause it profits them or at best gives them something to say Fhemmmy: 1 Like |
Car Talk / Re: ***You Can Actually Get A Cheap, Good Car At Salvage Auction*** by realvenc: 8:25pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
bellong: Does the info provided about the cars on the salvage auctions detail the problems with the cars. So one can estimate cost of restoration |
Car Talk / I Want To Buy A Ford Escape 2008. Pls Advice by realvenc: 5:21pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
Am looking to buy a ford Escape 2008 SUV. But I have these questions and need some clarifications from honourable members of the Land. - Is it a ride that is fit for naija use in terms of bad roads, fuel economy, ease and availability of maintenance. -will it be a good decision to buy this as my first ride - I have not seen this ride sold in any auto delearship here in lag. Is there any reason. Also it seems nigerians hardly use ford brands especially the Escape. - Finally what will be the best place to buy this ride and at what cost. Any dealers in the house with an offer can holla Pls I need advice to make a good decision. Thanks all |
Career / Re: 20 Things 20-year-olds Dont Get by realvenc: 11:00pm On Jul 27, 2013 |
seriously!!!!! did you even read the write up FrostyZonn: Forbes is full of crap. What do they really know about 20 year olds, anyway? |
Career / Re: How Did You Succeed With Your 2-2 Or 3rd Class? by realvenc: 4:15pm On Jul 27, 2013 |
Good success story. Did you get the FBN just because of the added masters. Also I think FBN has second class as a criteria for most of their graduate recruitment these days. Or did this happen a long time ago AceMiss: I finished with a 3rd class,did my masters and am currently working with FBN. Like Spicy said it's all by God's grace and a determination to make something out of life. Am still far from where I wanna be but am super motivated to keep pushing. For all the 3rd "classers" out there,stay determined. There's very little a determined person can't achieve. |
Career / Re: How Did You Succeed With Your 2-2 Or 3rd Class? by realvenc: 3:57pm On Jul 27, 2013 |
My Brother, University year is a phase in the life of any individual and like most aspects of human life, it has its own score card. No need justifying below average performance just because u have been able to get ahead. As we have a lot of young minds here and they can get the wrong message. Yes most graduates are better than the grades they made in school; Yes sometimes some other factors may have come in play but we should not for any reason down play the need to pursue excellence in whatever endeavour we get into. Be it academic or not. Mind you going to school is not entirely about getting a job and also getting a job is not the standard for career or life success either. Unlike what the society here is making most people to believe. So that u got a job ahead of your colleague with a better degree means nothing. For the OP my advice to you is to access where you are coming from and reposition yourself by acquiring relevant skills and knowlege that will get u what and where you want to be in life. [Squote author=tope56]I had 3rd class grade and in all the interview l,ve attended, they have never ask of my grade or my score in school, all what they want to see is your confidence and your ability to perform your job functions very well. In my present job, l did interview with people that have 2.1 and first class and by the grace of God l was given the job with salary that is above industry average with no professional certificate. Advice: Do not underestimate or over estimate your self you are who you think you are not what people think you are and don't listen to what people say about especially from negative thinking people. All my close friends almost have 3rd class except for one that had 2.1 and all of them have gotten well paying job except for one that have 2.1.[/quote] |
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