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ewebiodun:
There are different categories of crime. U can't compare what this boys are doing to kidnapping. If the government was sane. The activities of these boys can be turned into productive enterprise.

This is an army if IT professionals that a government can harness for the benefit of our economy. Do you have any idea how much it cist to run just one computer course.

The people stealing our resources and EFCC is turning a blind eye to are the major problem of thus country. If those are the top do the right thing ,the followership will emulate and vice versa. Please don't stop at blaming those boys but point to our thieving politicians

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gifted5050:
Bro.... This is the time to prove your love... If you love her then go ahead... Other wise hold on to what u want.
And simply imagine you are the one caught with her best friend... If she will forgive you... The truth remains that you may find someone else who u don't love or feel anything for and who package well and cheat on u big time.. The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. My advice is that you give her time to trust her again and believe you me she will work hard to earn the trust if truely she loves you. Just that the risk involved in an incident like this ia that you maybe tempted to remember all that you saw. And lastly. Be careful and watchful if that best friend of yours isn't dangerous... Your life might be in danger because he would think you wanna kill him first so he might come for you since you didn't take any open action.... You are welcome.... Got more to tell you WhatsApp me on 08097116791

delors:
U know the funny thing about stories about catching your partner in the act? Why is it that he came home when they were in bed? I mean were they funking all day since he travelled? How come they were not just relaxing in 5he sitting room after banging the shhhiiit outta each other? Or that she's in the kitchen making after-seex meal for the dude and the did is just in the sitting room in boxers shorts alone etc etc.. How come he walked straight into the bedroom and caught then right in the act?

Anyways, if this is true I feel sorry for the guy...Gid forgive me but it's hard to trust any girl who's not super koko spiritual...even spiritual girls gan are no saints but mehn any girl who's got a bit of flex in her no matter how modest she dresses is a sheep in wolf's jeans. This is coming from personal experiences.

fulaniHERDSman:
Truth is, no well trained girl should lockdown her future for any guy or man that hasn't done the needful on her head. lts either you are ready or not. Relationships are distractions for young people. l have seen young men who cancelled free sponsorship abroad because of some girl they dont wanna lose but eventually lost them to ready guys. l have also seen many loyal girls who were later ditched for flimsy reasons.
Boys should be focussed on building a life and not making life a function of some girls that are also in pursuit of a balanced life. Misplaced priority.
Boys should have as many girlfriends as possible. Likewise girls while shunning premarital sex.
Make it, choose a partner among your best friends, then marry them.

princeeze1:
Pls mature responses needed.

Firstly, I love my wife so very much and trusts her as much, we have been married. 2 years+ and have a son 1+. I decided we wait a little before making more babies to enable more stability and allow her finish her schooling.

My job nature means I am only home 3 nights a week, and she knows my roitine perfectly.

Now d issue, I returned home one night about to sleep, my wife tells me there was an issue, I was like, what was it abt, and she says she was pregnant. So I calmly asked who was responsible, she flared up and asked how dare I ask such stupid question, and who is suppose to be responsible, bla, bla, bla. That have I not been sleeping with her.....

I then began my theory, yes I have been sleeping with you, but you know as much as I know that despite being married, I have consciously and deliberately not had unprotective sex with you, it has 100% been with condom and I have for a long time practiced no condom, no sex with you. Never for once has there been a case of d condom burst, so without my seed in you, are you MARY?

She continued to make issues, but when it dawned on her my arguement was firm, FACTUAL, and decisive, her voice began to wane. She finally kept quiet and then asked, what do we do about it. I was like which we, I am not aware of you being pregnant, pls let me be and posed to sleep off, but sleep refused to come, so I got up and asked her to sit up.

I told her I will be asking questions and I need straightforward answers. 1. How far gone are you, she said she just noticed. 2. Who is responsible, she murmured and sheaid I should lower my voice and she wil talk, but when she saw fire in my eyes, she then smiled and said it was a joke and she wanted to see my reaction.

Now the issues.... I refused to accept its a joke, because, its one taken too far, secondly, she wanted to raise hell and fury with my refusal to take responsibility, but for my FACTUAL claim and firmness which she realised was a sound truth, only made her to finally keep mum. I have a god feeling, if I had not been sexually conscious,.d conversation might not have taken a different direction and tone.

She cried all night, claiming she planned d joke to see my reaction, but I have refused to be emotionally blackmailed. She has offered I take her for a test, I turned it down, and requested she goes to a government hospital within 2days and get a test that shows she is not pregnant and has not been in the last 3 weeks even though I dont know if such test exists.

Nb... I trust my wife and have never had reason to do otherwise, but I want my doubts she has raised in my heart cleared, how do I clear d doubts, how do I tell if it was a reaction she was seeking or just resorted to plan B. Do such test exist? Because ignoring little details is what makes alot of men father children not theirs and I refuse to be a victim.

Mature advices needed,

Prec1ous:
Marriage and relationship do not actually survive on love alone.

If you have grown truly, you should have become futuristic to see that this lady can earn you money from business, take care of your kids and never leave.

YOUR problem now is that, you feel you can do better.. Like get a more educated, cultured and pretty woman. It is called the shiny Object syndrome.

The best relationships is one where the woman loves the most, man's job is to complement with logic.

If you you don't need her again, tell her to go but mark this day, you just threw out a rare gem.

MrOnPoint:
You get it all wrong. It is after making him a star, he decided to abandon them. Who was Kiss Daniel before they invested money on him?

daewoorazer:
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Whatever you know how to do, do it d best way! Coz at d end it's d end that matters, not the means....

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schumastic:
Is true, we have been through that road and that's why I can boldly say I pity you. If you find a girl or know any who can pass the test, it simply means her emotions haven't been triggered.

Women are emotionally unstable being and its during this period they fall for gullible guys or Cheat with someone else. Why do you think when you ask them this ?, why did you cheat on me? they reply back with I don't know what came over me and it only happened once( which is still a lie).

No one is perfect but bro to be on a safe side, don't do distance relationship and don't trust anyone, I can back it up with a bible verse so be wise.(Micah 7:5)

schumastic:
Spot on, for me not to be selfish or self centeredness, she shouldn't trust me as well

schumastic:
I will always maintain my stand on this, distance relationship is a no no if you want to live long.

Also, is good to trust but is better not to. I just pity y'all that trust people easily, most especially in relationships.

Anyway what's my own. after all, am happy being a gamaphobia..

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelors Club, Lagos Branch.

Prefola:
Owk i'will take this since you used the word "FEW"....
But to get those few, it could be likened to looking for crude oil in sahara desert...

Toks2008:
Me i no understand your epistle o but as far as i know, i have never been pussy starved in my life instead i run from it regardless of being broke or not...Sometimes when i write about reality,people quickly equate it with my experience and i care less. My point is that OWO NI KOKO...

Maybe its because i have other qualities that will make me have the lady of my dreams even if i have no kobo in my pocket but that still does not change the fact that MONEY ANSWERETH ALL THINGS so go for the money and ladies will easily fall for you even if you are a short ugly pot bellied jerk.

Toks2008:
Dude please dont be deceived, owo ni koko, if you are stil hustling just stay clear of a struggling lady otherwise you are only toying with your heart as she may end up leaving you if she finds a better guy in terms of finance.

Most of these ladies that ususally disturb our hears with "i was there for you" in most cases never found a better alternative all the time they were with the guy else dey for don shift ground.

Just pray to GOD to make good money or have other qualities that may atone for being "broke" and you will have no issues. I repeat,..OWO NI KOKO. expecially for naija.

lifedynamics:
You see can one stupid and undeserving Female make you this excited?

Jaynom:
Lol talk is cheap o! You will NEVER understand Domestic violence if you've NEVER been a victim.
REMEMBER "for better or worse, in Sickness and in health" is not a biblical Vow but a creation of MAN

Light93:
Guys shouldn't expect that the ladies are happy with this information. If i were a lady I will never be happy with this information.