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Chiam55:
Gr8 evaluation hun... do a counter thread analysing the pros and cons of dating a mature woman please

......lol! Coming soon! U know I always do both sexes! Non hater!

I have dated quite a few young women (smallies) in my time but recently I have found myself thinking of focusing on more matured chicks in order 2 get more out of a relationship other than sex and parties! I made a list of the good and bad based on my experiences and those of my crew for 2 reasons, 1st to see if anyone else agrees with my analogy and secondly 2 act as a guide 4 those guys who have fallen into the trap of chasing smallies without realising the dangers ahead of them! Take a peek!

THE GOOD >

1. Younger women typically want a man with
maturity, experience, and is done with playing
immature games. Obviously, this is not a man who belongs to her age group so if u are older its a plus 4 u!

2. Younger women are more adventurous and have more of a zest 4 life! Whether in trying new things, dress sense and sexually, they tend to get more of a thrill out of experimenting wit such tins as compared to older women. So if u like the unexpected, you’ll surely have fun dating younger babes!

3. Younger women are often flexible and can easily adapt to changes. They can get accustomed to your lifestyle and whatever that entails because they have fewer ties to prevent them from devoting majority of their time 2 you, like careers, family, or children.

THE BAD AND THE UGLY >

1. Wisdom and maturity in women are qualities that come with age. They cannot develop overnight no matter how you force it. And you cannot act wise or mature unless you really are. If you try to fake it, it will eventually surface as a facade. Most men find these traits admirable and sexy in a woman. Unfortunately, younger women often don’t have them yet so u should be ready 2 argue about or deal with a lot of senseless drama!


2. Younger women tend to demand more of your time and energy. They are more insecure
compared to older women and can be very
"suspicious and jealous". Probably because they have not attained their "self-actualisation" needs yet compared to the more established older women so their insecurities over your presence at all times should be expected!


3. Younger women are sometimes not ready for a serious relationship yet, If that’s what you’re Looking for at this stage in your life, you probably wouldn’t like to deal with their fickle attitudes or lack of emotional maturity as regards to relationships! its all fun and games 2 them!


4. Sad to say, some younger women are just
searching for father figures or a "sugar daddy" to buy everything they wish for. If the idea of being used by someone purely for your money makes U sick to your stomach, be careful when dating younger women. You might not only lose your wallet, but even your own self-respect cause at that stage in their lives they measure love by gifts and money, so its easy 4 them 2 fall 4 the highest bidder!

5. Younger woman r more prone 2 violent confrontations! At the ages from 15 to 24, most babes are still developing physically a well as mentally so it takes some time 2 grow out of dis confrontational stage, which is why girl fights r so common in universities or high schools, and as a result younger babes have no problems wit engaging in violence as a means of resolving disputes, so if u have a younger babe she may result 2 physically assaulting u during quarrels and thinking dat its a way of showing her love 4 u!


6. Sexual inexperience is another down side, Most younger babes look good but are mostly stale in bed due 2 limited sexual experiences and also since they have been smashing inexperienced boys also! So u may find yourself acting as a lecturer in d bedroom most of the time with younger chicks!

Feel free 2 join in the debate or add 2 it!

Lala247:
Marieolae b honest if ur friends see condom i. Ur bag pls

Would their first thoughts be .. Oh God shes a prostitute be real

.....so your sexual health and life choices should be determined by how your friends feel or view your OWN social responsibilities abi? How old r U? I think U need 2 get more MATURE friends maam!

Chisos? What kind of immature thread is this? Are U in primary school! If u think having a condom in a ladies handbag makes her look easy or like a prostitute, then maybe a visit to a HIV clinic will show U that it is more important than every other piece of crap u guys have in your bags! And anyone replying 2 your thread that is not on the safe sex tip? Then u need 2 grow up and check yourselves before U wreck yourselves!

nekaa:
Woman asks 100 men she met on the street for sex, and you won't believe how many of them said yes!

It's a social experiment by whatever.com to see how men and women respond to sex from strangers. Last month, a man went to the streets to see how many women will agree to sleep with a random stranger. He asked 100 random women for sex and all 100 women turned him down. Now, guess what happened when a woman went to the streets to ask random men for sex?

Andrea Wendel (pictured above) approached 100 men by directly asking them whether they would follow her home and have sex with her. Out of the 100, guess how many men said yes? 30! 30 men agreed to there and then to follow a woman they have never seen before to her home for sex!

The experiment happened in the US. The clip was uploaded to Youtube and has since gone viral.

......if the man had been holding a $100000 while asking the women? The entire 100 of them would have smashed him 2 bits, as 4 the woman she's not 2 hot so I'm not suprised that only 30 men agreed 2 smash her, they should have looked 4 a chick that looks like amber rose! That number would have gone from 30 to 200!

Vickybee:
Yes, many times but I will only share one experience.

I visited a friend house(male) and his dad was just staring at me. Eww! I just felt like giving him that, "are insane(?) look" but remembered he's a friend dad and i was in his house.

Anyway, I didn't know how he got my number and started beeping.
At first, I didn't know it was him and I was listening to his jargons.
To cut story short, I stopped picking his calls - didn't tell his son though and I connived with a male friend who acted as my dad on phone to threaten him to stop pestering his daughter.

I can't date a married man or any man above 30years right now.

Vickybee:
Yes, many times but I will only share one experience.

I visited a friend house(male) and his dad was just staring at me. Eww! I just felt like giving him that, "are insane(?) look" but remembered he's a friend dad and i was in his house.

Anyway, I didn't know how he got my number and started beeping.
At first, I didn't know it was him and I was listening to his jargons.
To cut story short, I stopped picking his calls - didn't tell his son though and I connived with a male friend who acted as my dad on phone to threaten him to stop pestering his daughter.

I can't date a married man or any man above 30years right now.

.....until governor show abi? Story 4 the gods!!!

tochibaby:
I just openly declared my crush on her boo blackett and she pounced on me

And I did the same

tochibaby:
I just openly declared my crush on her boo blackett and she pounced on me

And I did the same

.....@op come oh! this sisters situation is a good example of what can happen 2 those who of U who like having or looking 4 experiences with married men! When the wife catch una na DOOMSDAY!

Zenayia:
Hello guys! I have heard a lot about u and how crazily upbeat this particular section in this forum is. I have been a guest for sometime now and have some physical friends who frequent here too.

So, shoutout to you girls! Am here, happy now?

Anyways just want to get to know you all and have fun. Oh, and yeah, i dont take s.hit from no body .

So hello! A new badt girl is in town

.......Be real with it and don't send anyone on NL! Especially the types dat want 2 tell U crap about who is cool or not, or who is old or new! Opinions r like assholes everyone has one. Maintain yours and be true 2 yourself! Eventually U will seperate the wheat from the chaff, and believe me the chaff plenty!

Bloody LOOTER vandross! So was he and his band of 40 thieves waiting 4 sallah or x mas before? Clueless dunce!

Women! We love, hate them then love them again! Enigmatic and mysterious its 2 bad that the forces that created them forgot 2 include a manual in order to help us better understand these creatures, but fear not,your man hook as usual got U all covered! Todays lesson is about the standard lies all women feed 2 guys in relationships so take note..........

1. I'm tired/not 2nite = Lol! U want 2 lash but
she is tired? Better find out your latest
crime boy! did u promise her dat new j.lo
perfume and u did not deliver? Or out of dat
40k she wanted na only 20k show? Well its a
well known fact dat a womans sex drive is
hard wired 2 her financial contentment so
when "tins ruff" expect dis magic tiredness 2
show up in her bedroom vocabulary regularly!
But once u take care of her latest desire
expect her performance 2 increase 2 the
point dat U would think she has red bull
running tru her blood stream rather than
blood!


2. I don't mind if U check out other babes = 4 where? U shall pay dearly 4 this crime for
months if not years! So U think all her hair
and make up, styling up, shoe game and all
other efforts and looking her best were done
4 other guys? Better U invest in a big pair of
sunglasses if u want 2 commit this crime oh!
Women hate dis 2 the core! Envy is dia calling
card! Don't believe she's ever going 2 be mature enuff 2 allow u do dis! SHE WON'T!


3. I'm not hungry/ I dont want 2 eat too much = Eh? so why are U now paying for 4 extra
containers of snacks and chow 4 her from
the burger joint? Babes tell dis lie becuz dey
don't want 2 look hungry in front of u or
others, they may claim dey are watching dia
weight and the rest but how come wen u
guys get home she is now attacking the
"fattening food" more than U?


4. I'm not angry with U/ I am fine= the day U
hear dis 1? Better run from dat house and
allow her 2 calm down before u return! Or we
may never see your moniker being active on
nairaland again! U HAVE BEEN WARNED!


5. I don't mind if U and your boys go out 2 the club. =
she minds, becuz dey all believe we and
the boys can never go out witout womanising
or getting new digits or even lashing! Whether
na burial una dey go sef,as long as she's not there, SHE MIND DIE!


6. U are the best I've ever had! = Yes! Na U
biko! Unfortunately dats also what she told
me after lashing me in abuja, and tunde in lagos, and abdul in kano, and tyrone in new york! U See the pattern? Wake up bro! its called stroking your ego, this will ensure your wallet stays open 2 her and her company will be desired by U! She wins both ways!


7. I'm not good at that! = maybe its a Sexual
favour, like a BJ for example! But the day she
finall handles your W balls, she sucked and played it like felas trumpet! Fear come catch u abi? Sharp girl! Most girls don't want 2 look like
a slut so dey always downplay their sex skills
2 a new paddyman! The more used 2 each
other u get d more u go sabi say na "cheerokee the porn queen" u don keep 4 house!


9. I will be ready before U get here = SHE WILL NEVER BE! Live and learn!


10. I've slept with _ amount of guys = Lmfao! Don't bother asking or hoping 4 a true answer
2 dis question, if u can locate the dead sea
scrolls maybe u can find the true figure in
there! Her bedroom skills will reveal the truth,
but bosses like myself prefer girls with experience so the higher the better after all no be marriage so I no send! And so should U! After all our numbers r high too!


11. I don't care about your money = as far as
naija babes are concerned IT IS NOT TRUE!
Country hard sha so no 2 blame dem, and u
sef go dey happy if u hold your side,so if she
gives u dis scam don't mind her, the truth will come out sooner or later!


12. We are just friends = I don't even need 2 explain dis 1! Figure it out! Lmao!



13. I love U 2! = THAT version of their love is
also available in the 36 states of the
federation, especially in the senate! so take it
with a pinch of salt, love matters only when
rings have been exchanged, families have been introduced and the commitment has been sealed! The rest na joke, I love u is d easiest word 2 say after cu.mming! So slow their roll and your own!

So there u have it boys! And the Babes feel free 2 come and start denying or defending your kind! Cheers!

lalasticlala:
I got this mail from a Nairaland visitor who seriously needs advice.

Please help her by offering her good and useful pieces of advice that would help raise her spirits high..

lalasticlala:
I got this mail from a Nairaland visitor who seriously needs advice.

Please help her by offering her good and useful pieces of advice that would help raise her spirits high..

So she does not know that we find NAGGING worse than CHEATING abi? SHE must be a confirmed Learner!

Maybe dem invite your madam go shiloh! Why u sabi fear like dis?

jomile:
chairman r u d one on ur dp?

.....IT IS I! Hope say no wahala?

Na wa oh? Kim kardashians stepfather and biological father to kylie and kendall kardashian as well as 2 sons from his first marriage, " Bruce Jenner kardashian" has finally decided to become a woman after raising 6 kids and being married to kims mother for over 23 yrs! The former olympic gold medallist gave a major interview on diane sawyers show on friday night, stating...." 'My brain is much more female than it is male. That's what my soul is. Bruce lives a lie. She is not a lie.' He firmly added: 'I can't do it anymore. During the interview, Bruce also admitted that he wants to change his name to "belinda" and has been regularly taking female hormones and plans to completely transform into a woman. But he said he was still attracted to females." I was never attracted to the guys,"' he told Diane, explaining how he has always enjoyed a good sex life. Jenner added: "'I am not gay, I am, as far as I know, heterosexual. As far as I know, I've never been with a guy. I've always been married, raising kids". Some of the procedures that The Olympic gold medalist has
reportedly undergone to complete his transformation include " a laryngeal shave to
flatten his Adam's Apple,he has been pictured wearing nail polish,lipstick, spanx, has recently had breast implants inserted into his chest and has had a nose job to make his nose look more feminine, and has also grown his hair out!" Also his ex wife says he has always loved dressing in womans clothes! Abeg if this was your dad what would U do? Is he MAD or MOTIVATING people with this decision?

Send her to the mexican embassy in abuja make she hustle get visa to mexico so that she can "stop watching and start living the telemundo life"

This post is crap! The op and those quack doctors should step their sex game up!

Was he drunk as usual? He is wondering about deserters but forgot to notice that his mama put of a wife was not even there? This otueke mans stupidity can be studied as a course in a higher institution! May 29th should hurry up and come!

Lothario:
There's this girl at my workplace and sometimes I put my arm around her as friends then she moves my hand onto her boob what should I do from here?

.....call your papa and mama and report her!

kenex4ever:
bros, shoot urself with dat gun. If it kills u then let me know okay

......who be this BIG FOOL? Ok u need sum cheap popularity abi? Sorry! I don't trade banter with homo rent boys! Try another mention U disease afflicted rhino!

Midehi:
hey guy, where did you see that gun beside you, are you a cul.....

......lmao! I own a few my dear! Old habits die hard u know? My equipment Is not 4 public consumption sha, But if u ever need sum help, let me know! Mwah!

agarawu23:
dry(no offence) am done with u have fun

.......LMFAO! Lego man! E better make u run sha, if not dat yur prostitute of a mama would hav had 2 read your eulogy 2moro! When next u see the moniker of the "HOOK", make sur u swerve 2 the lego lane! Dundee! GTFOH ape shite!