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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Renida: 1:28pm On May 01, 2020

piamily:
Oh ! I get you now. So you’re saying Nigerian men really want ladies to play the hard to get very hard then. So why are they complaining. Well then I’ll keep playing it hard as usual since they think it was bread and butter they got in a platter of gold

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I didn't say Nigerian men. I simply wrote about some persons, male and female, humans in general. It's psychological immaturity. Don't let their immaturity lead you to form new unhealthy habits. If you like the person, keep them far, and watch them beg for your attention as they outgrow their mental posturing. For now, go for where you're worshipped, not where you're tolerated

As for me, I don't want a lady I have interest in making it hard, at my age, level of maturity, five minutes is what I want to bear chasing anyone. Nothing more. In fact, I rather be chased

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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Renida: 1:22pm On May 01, 2020

piamily:
No the guy hasn’t even chased and chased , he just started and is doing shakara because the woman acts interested. I really don’t understand if men expect women to chase them.

Won’t he kill his ego?

I feel sorry if such is the scenario. People lose interest once their person of interest for so many reasons. One of this which I think is the case here is psychological posturing. What this means is some people are used to working extremely hard aka hustling for things. Their entire life rests on a perspective that what they must have, they must work for, unfortunately some of this whole way of thinking affects even not working aspects of their lives. So in relationships for example, this kinds want to toast toast, chase and beg the woman, but if it doesn't follow this narrative and the lady makes asking her out easy, it poses no challenge and isn't mentally tasking. This makes them see lesser value however good such a partner maybe.

I believe the narrative above is the scenarios playing out here. It happens with women also. When people in this category don't suffer for a thing, their brain tricks them to assume it's worth lesser. It's purely psychological

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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Renida: 1:10pm On May 01, 2020

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit.I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

I'll stay here to read comments. At times when the guy pursues and purses and purses, it's oftentimes when the other party picks interest, his begin to dry up

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Accommodation. Needed Urgently by Renida: 1:08pm On May 01, 2020

Lincoln323:
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Am just 29 years. Ejor because of God am begging anybody with help. This is my whattsap number 08101325147. Abbey Lincoln [color=#990000]

And I know someone who can o.

Hmm

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Health › Re: Trump Has Confirmed That The Coronavirus Started In China Virology Lab by Renida: 7:30am On May 01, 2020

Smart Move Trump. Very very brilliant

Business › Re: COVID-19 Distress: Access Bank To Lay Off 75% Of Staff, Says MD Herbert Wigwe [V by Renida: 2:38am On May 01, 2020

Bank top executives have long been known to be very inhumane with a desire to just taking it all to themselves and not caring optimally for society, they hardly want to participate in Can't loam assistance schemes tailored to issue small enterprises loans with very little interest, they barely comply with CBN's directive on regular loan issuance that commemorates with its financial inflows, hardly pay workers good salary and comprehensive package ( I'm the son of a banker BTW), most risks backed through the macroeconomics provided by the CBN and yet banks just keep taking and taking and taking. You see our top five banks constantly declaring pretax profits of 25, 50,100,150 billion in just one financial quarter, see them participate massively in Bonds, Traditional Foreign Exchange, Forex Trading, Oil and gas deals internationally, International deals financing and loan deals, Massive treasury bills investments, yet banks won't allow it's people at the bottom of its ladder have peace because through automation and digitised services it can accrue lots of funds, execute lots of transactions digitally, yet being backed by the nations stock market amongst all the other massive opportunities above, Banks still are insatiable and would want the petty 50-80k jobs of its lower end staffs.

Spits. angry

May I never be this inhumane and cruel.

Hi NekkyCee, what do you think?

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Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Need A Photoshoper by Renida: 10:58pm On Apr 30, 2020

Certified007:
If you are very good at Photoshop... I need you badly... Got small job to give to you

Romance › Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Renida: 10:02pm On Apr 30, 2020*

NekkyCee:
Hi... I'll go through it.

I'm Good. Trust you're doing fab. kiss

.. The young man's heart won't be in.. cry

. That's why some men approach and ask out first, and then later go on to build the relationship, so scenarios like these kinds are avoided. Now we have three wounded soul's, all three would somehow some heart fragmentations.

..if I meet a lady I feel inspired to want to build long term with, I'll rather ask her out from day one, and go on to spend as long as she finds comfortable to build it up. kiss

How do you see my approach tongue

Romance › Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Renida: 9:25pm On Apr 30, 2020

HARDDON:
Second emphasized. Arrrrrrrrhhhhhh.

Can't we just flow without this boring, annoying tautology?

He is really living out his name. Average Joe!

Here is a free meal, and uncle went to just soil it with stupid questions.

Boss

Romance › Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Renida: 9:10pm On Apr 30, 2020

mattfeuter:
Ah! Let’s unpack this!

You have a boyfriend/in a relationship (who you clearly said has been treating you right) that’s not enough ,

You have another guy who is a “friend” according to you but you find him attractive and have deep intimate conversations with.

You told the second guy about your boyfriend and bad man japa, now this is where it gets really interesting! So it bothered you that much that the new guy isn’t talking to you again that you had to open a thread on NL ( all these while having a whole boyfriend).

You even have the nerve to want to friend zone the other guy lol (couldn’t be me tho)

You know you’re cheating right

Please take a crate of cold drinks on me tonight

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Romance › Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Renida: 9:07pm On Apr 30, 2020

Hi. Did you see this thread? NekkyCee embarassed

Health › Re: Lady Falls 115ft To Her Death Posing 4 Pic To Celebrate End Of Covid19 Lockdown by Renida: 2:49pm On Apr 30, 2020

Rip to her. In remembrance in the aftermath of recent events, I'll be careful using phone while charging, and not taking selfies in high storeys and staying Raptureable.

The only insurance against sudden/premature/instant death is Salvation. Salvation gives us the grace to make peace with God and be granted eternity in the face of unexpected/sudden/premature death. Nothing else.

Not vaccines, not medics, just Jesus. Consider your daily deeds and consider accepting Christ genuinely and reconcile every unlawfulness

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Crime › Re: Lady Attacked Husband With Boiling Water, Now On The Run by Renida: 2:45pm On Apr 30, 2020

NockMedia:
Chai! To marry dey FEAR young men, these days.
E be like na baby mama tings sure pass now.

To be honest, the only time a man can't do without a woman in his life and by his side, is during old age.

As a young man, you can live your life without getting married. Don't pay attention to what the society says.

Finally, over 95% of men do want to procreate and have offsprings. Morally, they've got to get married to achieve this feat.

May God never bless us with demons as wives.

Females are now surpassing men in cruelty. Men are ready for committed relationships but the mere thought about how miserable many men are in marriage just stifles that desire cry

Crime › Re: Lady Attacked Husband With Boiling Water, Now On The Run by Renida: 11:27am On Apr 30, 2020*

To marry dey fear me. Unstable people everywhere. May God bless us with the right partner

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Romance › Re: How Can One Handle An Heartbreak by Renida: 11:07am On Apr 30, 2020

Let him grieve. Let him know it's okay to grieve. Then helping him get busy to serve as a distraction would help. He should surrounded himself with good people watch Saturday footballs. Radio programs. Newspaper start d arguments. Anything possible to feed his mind with activity so he is acutely distracted from remembering the incidence would help him

Investment › Re: Get Stunning Graphic Designs @50 % Fee ( Promo Lasts One Week ) by Renida(op): 1:13pm On Apr 28, 2020

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Family › Re: . by Renida: 10:44pm On Apr 27, 2020

Go an buy Ventolin tablets. Each tablet costs like five Naira. Buy fifty Naira own. Whenever you don't have inhaler but need it urgently use them

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Romance › Re: Please Help I'm Scared But I Like Her Too by Renida: 10:41pm On Apr 27, 2020

Love can spin one's head. No one is protected against the intoxication of love. God help your soul. Love Don dey tire people like us.

Travel › Re: UK To Pay Every Health Worker Who Died From Coronavirus 30 Million Naira! by Renida: 10:29pm On Apr 27, 2020

Bola146:
What of here? How much

Talk of your living first. Leave the dead first

Romance › Re: What's The Worst Thing Your Ex Ever Did To You? Share Your Experience!!! by Renida: 10:22pm On Apr 27, 2020

Abasman007:
Well I got real bad stories about my ex's.... Broke up with me then told me she was pregnant days larer...we haven't seen the baby till today... ...
Stuff is that girls are wicked and they know it, allow them manipulate you and you are doomed.... Don't let anyone tell you, that you will find the right one, one day.... There is no right one, if you really want one go to the thrash can and pick your beautiful trouble home..

If you really feel you are lucky, because she loves (pretends) you, you are either her retirement or settlement from her rough youthful fuckahorlic life...or you are going to find out 15 years later your kids are not yours

Things I see in school makes me ask myself, will I ever get married?
Even if I matry, what I Know and see what married women do scares the hell outta my Head.. she'll be yelling at you for getting too close to your secretary but you will never know she sleeps with your brother...
ie: women never like people doing what they to to people to be done to them, Don't be decieved by those tears..it's a weapon !!!

If you ever think you are wiser than a woman...then you are mad.. the best is don't try to find out what she's doing or has done...try to counter it before it happens....some still think they met thier vrgins, but thats what she made you believe and that's why the blood stains fooled you..

N/B....those pictures of couples smiling on their wedding has no way of telling you who a wicked wife or mother inlaw will be

If you think you're wiser than a woman then you must be mad. Oh my goodness. You guys with words

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Romance › Re: What's The Worst Thing Your Ex Ever Did To You? Share Your Experience!!! by Renida: 10:19pm On Apr 27, 2020

Ibrahiimo:
I don't date GIRLS

I’ve never been ROMEO who meets a GIRL and FALLS for her immediately. It’s been a much SLOWER process for me each time I’ve gone into a RELATIONSHIP.

DATING is kind of HARD. Like dinner or something like that. Like a forced AWKWARD situation is very STRANGE. Especially for me, for some REASON

ANYWAYS!!!

Not bad

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Family › Re: What Business Can I Invest 500k On With A Weekly Return Of 2k by Renida: 10:00pm On Apr 27, 2020

TheGreatIYANU:
When you begin to run out of points, or realize you've been arguing foolishly, you begin to attack the person

I understand sir. Take your L and bow in peace.

My last word on this.

Check the logs and see if I've been arguing with you. Smh. Your psyche

Family › Re: What Business Can I Invest 500k On With A Weekly Return Of 2k by Renida: 9:50pm On Apr 27, 2020

TheGreatIYANU:
SMH! You must be smarter than all the research analysts at the IMF!

It is people like you that abandon God-given Reasoning, Logic and Intellect for fool-hardy optimism and positivism.

Keep your folly. I'm busy

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