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NockMedia:
Boys abrɛ. Let them know what it feels like to be wooing a lady upandan and she Will be forming hard-to-get LOL

Liliantalks:
lol kia , u self. I like gist o lol

xcabczyxabczzzz:
Nice, have you ever look back and think I wish I didn't even bother? If yes, how do you deal with such thought?

xcabczyxabczzzz:
Interesting, so what is your mindset or philosophy when you just want to go with the flow?

donproject:
Aswear you are 100percent on point. I fall to that category of men, 3 ladies like that in the past. I didn't handle the whole thing properly, those overtures came too soft to me, and I wouldn't go for them.

Goalnaldo:
I mistook you for a female. Probably why you didn't reply my mention

Karlifate:
Too much sense!
Lotsa girls/ladies are only interested in the 'now', not potential.

Liliantalks:
why did u delete the second part , was busy with something so couldn’t finish reading. I wanted to settle down and give u a reply

Liliantalks:
I am projecting my true inter self here, I don’t want to meet any one here

Liliantalks:
true that , u tried

Liliantalks:
definitely .

Liliantalks:

Liliantalks:
i am a first born female. I am a wonderful mentor to my younger ones lol, it’s not about gender Biko , we make the mistakes on behalf of everyone. So we r always wiser .

Liliantalks:
25 - 30

I trust in God for sure . ❤️

Liliantalks:
I go vex for you for this one , so woman no fit mentor the rest abi ?

Liliantalks:
hmmmmmm okay, u might be right

Liliantalks:
lol i swear!!! , the ones I like always show me wynnnee ,,, now I am single till further notice . Only the strong can survive.

Liliantalks:
true but so many women see progressive pathway in different ways. And U can never know the future , the one wey u think say go blow fit no blow , the one u think is useless fit hit jackpot . Life is so unpredictable. So just pick guy that fit ur quality but u start checking those qualities when he makes efforts , cares and yes has a financial source( atleast averagely )

Liliantalks:
lol that’s the only reason we look at o he’s either ugly or broke . Lol

Liliantalks:
lol he might not be short in the department sha

I hv learnt a big lesson from life , let me share with you , when I was younger i had a lot of guys coming my way , but back then I was so ignorant on what I should look for in a man , now I am older I regret some guys I let go, guys I felt we’re too short , talks too much , swaggerless , aggressive , smoker , etc . Guys i liked were hoes , I dated some but i was little or no value to them , I was there till they met another. Funny enough all the guys I wrote off r in a relationship n doing very well in their relationships ,loving there women silly , well some remain idiots lol

look for efforts , money, care and attention, that’s what really matters. Get a list of what u want in a man , and check if this guy meets 75% of it , if he does , accept him. He can still turn out to be a fool after sex o, I can’t give u any assurance, men r wicked . But that’s a step to the right direction.

piamily:
Asinnnn

Liliantalks:
is he ugly or broke?

Liliantalks:
Lalasticlala
Farano
Let’s hear from a largest audience

piamily:
Can’t explain
I just feel it

Like you’re an introvert but people around you think you’re extroverted

piamily:
You sound like an introvert

piamily:
Damn true !!

piamily:
So true

Irony of life

Zoie:
The average Nigerian man suffers from an extremely weak self esteem that needs to stay constantly bloated to stay functional.
That's why they chase after ladies who treat them like shi.t and avoid ladies who show them love. The hunt makes them happy. The thrill of having to constantly woo a woman makes them feel good. Makes them feel she is better than the one who shows love even without being wooed..even if the former is a retired runs girl.

piamily:
Why?

Are you attracted to guys?

piamily:
Lol
I love that line” be where you’re worshipped not where you’re tolerated .

So you love to be chased huh

I see