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RomanceRe: I Want To Break Up With Her But I'm Confused. by RennyX(op): 2:38pm On Dec 28, 2016
Everblazinggg:
Boy O boy.....chill. that babe is definitely tired of your childish act. If am her, I would have dump your childish ass since. Go get your self a new girl friend that you can control like mumu or change your ways like you don't care and watch your babe become happier
She's more childish than you can ever think. I don't control intentionally. I don't always complain but whenever do it becomes a problem.

Some girls like you just want a guy that you can match on. Not every guy can be like that
RomanceRe: I Want To Break Up With Her But I'm Confused. by RennyX(op): 2:25pm On Dec 28, 2016
obataokenwa:
The girl is done with the love. move on
Thanks bro.
RomanceRe: I Want To Break Up With Her But I'm Confused. by RennyX(op): 2:25pm On Dec 28, 2016
2SWT:
Just sit her down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel if she really loves you she would change.

Let her know that she's making the relationship hell for you and you are thinking of leaving her
Thanks. I've done this lots and lots of times. Sometimes she switches emotions and turns it into an argument and my anger won't let me. Then I'll have to apologize.
RomanceRe: I Want To Break Up With Her But I'm Confused. by RennyX(op): 2:23pm On Dec 28, 2016
obataokenwa:
she too is confused on how to dump you. she don't know how to tell you too. keep dreaming of lost love.
I was ready for anything when i asked her if she was tired. I didn't want to be following a lost cause. But she said she was still interested in the relationship.

She's really confused! huh
RomanceRe: I Want To Break Up With Her But I'm Confused. by RennyX(op): 2:14pm On Dec 28, 2016
Lalasticlala please help a brother.
RomanceI Want To Break Up With Her But I'm Confused. by RennyX(op): 2:02pm On Dec 28, 2016
Good day Nairalanders. A very depressed soul needs your advise to make an important decision. This is going to be a long post, i apologize for the stress. Bear with me.

I have been with my girlfriend for close to a year now. Everything was good at the beginning as usual with our little fights here and there. I have my own fault as i tend to flare up easily and she does has hers too. She's usually very rude and she shouts a lot even when we are having a little misunderstanding in public. We both agreed we were going to work on these flaws to make everything go smooth and i tell you I've always tried my best in that aspect.

But recently my girlfriend has been acting funny. She doesn't call frequently and she prefers to chat most times. Although this is an issue that i encountered at the early stages of our relationship because she said that's how she is so i tried my best to cope with it even though i wasn't sitting well with it. However, things have changed drastically to the extent that she doesn't even call at all or check up on me on social media.

There was a time i called her like five times(I usually call only twice and if you're not picking i chill and wait for a call back), because i wanted her to pick up but she didn't. Instead she sent me a "hi" message on whatsapp without an explanation for why she didn't pick my call.

Also, she doesn't pay attention to me when we are in a conversation. She fixes her interest on other things like her phone, the television or just staring at the ceiling like I'm a bore to her.

So all these made me to think deep and ask what may have been wrong. I wanted to conclude that she was getting tired of the relationship but I said let me ask her first maybe it was my fault. I know that sometimes I can be controlling and authoritative but it's not my fault sometimes because she does anyhow when left to do her things alone. It's like she wants me to always tell her what to do. But when i do, it's a problem.

So when I asked her she told me everything that she was not tired but I was putting pressure on her. I promised to stop pressurising her and I also asked her to change from her behaviour and become who she once was and we agreed.

Last week, on a Wednesday morning I woke up to her message on whatsapp and I replied without getting any reply till like 12 so I decided to call her. She told me that she was eating and she would call me when she was done. After an hour she hadn't called and i called again and she told me that she was sorry that she was watching a movie.

I got angry and complained to her, but instead she was rude (as she usually is) and started raising her voice. She said what had happened is in the past and she cannot do anything about it then she hung up.

I'm fed up. I don't know if there's any other guy although I've noticed some shady behaviors of hers but they aren't concrete enough. This is not the kind of relationship i want because it's obvious that we are on a different perspective. I don't bug my girl or attach myself to her, but I also feel that the right things should be done in the right measure.

It's been a week now and she hasn't called or sent a message even on Christmas Day. I want to call her now and break up, but I'm confused cos I still lover her. She has her good side which is rare in most girls.

Sorry for the long post once again. Please help with your contributions.
CrimeRe: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:52am On Sep 10, 2016
smellingmenses:
I don't give what I cannot afford! Funny a woman knows your worth most often at a glance...... hence I never feel robbed....
I wonder if you even understood my post. Any way that's you, not him. He felt robbed and he decided to take it back(albeit in a wrong manner).
CrimeRe: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:49am On Sep 10, 2016
sekem:
I'm not supporting the rape in any way at all but then there's something called cause and effects.

If as a lady, you think that the reason why a nigga is spending all that money on you is because of love then I think you are not even mature enough to date in the first place.

Life is quid pro quo.

Don't tell me anything about he was willingly giving because that is utter balderdash!!!

If he didn't give; you won't even stay so let's just skip that part, okay? undecided

Common sense should have told the lady in question, and all ladies as a matter of fact, that you cannot be stingy with your pussḯe and still expect the guy to be a cheerful giver!!!

No. It doesn't work that way. At some point, the guy will be provoked into action.

You call it rape.

He calls it justice.

It is as simple as that.
Gbam!
CrimeRe: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:47am On Sep 10, 2016
exceltech:
I see many beggars on the street, even some ver persistent ones,
if I decide to give such people money does that give me the right
to force them to do anything ?

Since a lady can't force herself to be dependent on you why not
cut her off instead of whining on how she was eating your money ?

If the guy wanted sex from the lady and gave her money and the lady
refused why not demand for his money back or better still visit the nearest
brothel instead of complicating life by enticing an unwilling partner ?


Being dependent is not a crime neither is giving compulsory, a male or female
could be a dependant in different scenario and I am sure you once depended on
someone, if a guy isn't comfortable giving all he needs do is stop it.
LOL! I laugh you @bold.

Are you a guy? So you can easily call up a girl and asked her to return all the money you've spent on her? Can you really do that? Be sincere to your humble self.

Is it not this same Nairaland that a guy created a thread about how he wanted to collect the phone he bought for a girl who played him. I couldn't hold myself from laughing at the insults he received that day. From the same set of Nairaland women and some pusssy niggas.

He was called "broke" , "stingy", and other words. Simply because he wanted to collect back his phone. grin

Now if you're a lady. How will you feel about such a guy? Be honest to yourself. A guy asking you to pay back all he has spent on you. It's still you that will settle down with your friends to insult and laugh at him.

Please let's be realistic. grin
CrimeRe: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:39am On Sep 10, 2016
yomz1e:
Thank you, again my intellectual self will not respond to such stupidity
Good! You can fvck off now! grin
CrimeRe: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:38am On Sep 10, 2016
smellingmenses:
the girl has not committed any crime! the guy who deactivated also known as numericalguy should be in the gaol....
[b]Yes! There is no crime on her part in the face of the law.

The same way you can't hold any girl/guy liable if he/she leaves you for another person and breaks your heart in the process. Despite all your commitments and dedication to the relationship.

But tell me the truth. Are you not going to feel robbed? Or let me put it in a better phrase "used". Why do some people go all out to hurt their ex after a heart break?

So it's the same thing here. The girl has actually not committed any crime legally. In fact that defense will not hold water. But as a human being how will you feel?

So, this is it. We have guys out there who have the mentality of "money for hand back for ground". If they meet a girl and she is demanding they all expect to get something back in return and we all know what it is.

We cannot hide the fact that we have many greedy girls who don't learn. Now this is not about rape, because rape can happen in many other forms.

That guy is guilty of rape no doubt. But will I blame him for thinking that's the best way for him to punish the girl? No.

When we look at it from another angle, RAPE is not justified, but it is not an excuse to do things that can lead to it. The girls are always told it is never their fault they are raped. I guess that's why they can do anything and when it leads to rape it becomes another thing.

If some girls reduce the way they follow guys for money up and down or they stop this their "maga" whatever, I believe we are heading in the right direction to also curb this rape menace.

I know we still have many st00pid guys that will rape for no reason, but in this scenario I feel differently.

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CrimeRe: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:19am On Sep 10, 2016
yomz1e:
We know your type... You come here forming gangster boy and yet you soft like agege bread
Meanwhile i don't give a rat's ass what you know 'bout my type. grin
That's my opinion up there, if you don't like it, you can shoot yourself! cheesy
CrimeRe: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:08am On Sep 10, 2016
All these st00pid and hungry girls be forming smart!

If you will not have sex then why depend on the guy to cater for you? This life is give and take. She can't tell me she didn't know what the guy wanted cos I'm dead sure he must have made signs. But she wanted to play sharp.

If someone is helping you in anyway and you know he/she will demand something from you that you can't give away then it's better and wiser to cut yourself off before it gets bad. But people are too greedy. They will want to keep eating and eating even when it's clear things may turn bad.

Abeg make we hear word! grin
FashionRe: Miss Nairaland 2016 Grand Finale by RennyX: 11:57am On Jun 25, 2016
I vote

LANICKY

NLJEGA....
FashionRe: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - Semi-final by RennyX: 5:57pm On Jun 22, 2016
I vote

LANICKY , MYSTICGAL ,MISSGDOPE.

NLJEGA.
RomanceRe: Tomfrench Wins Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 by RennyX: 5:47pm On Jun 27, 2015
Glock8:
Agarawu wey wear knickers like colonial masters for picture.

Mba, i no do grin
Plasea donts cracks my ribs diz evening. grin sad

Yu want my kunu to enta my nose huh sad
RomanceRe: Tomfrench Wins Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 by RennyX: 5:42pm On Jun 27, 2015
Tomfrench:
hahaha!!! grin grin..... *Back to business*sad
Plasea make sure yu brings my champagne to my manshun when yu win. angry

If nots I will tells all d girls to stops following you huh sad
RomanceRe: Don't Ladies Feel Ashamed Taking Photos In Hotel Rooms, Lobbies And Lavatories? by RennyX: 5:38pm On Jun 27, 2015
Setaje:
I don enter oooo. Na now d thing just dey click!
Oya go comot the pix na grin
RomanceRe: Tomfrench Wins Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 by RennyX: 5:37pm On Jun 27, 2015
Neyoor:
I decided to stay away from the preliminary stage of this competition because the contestants were too many and the battle wasn't tough then. how would you be asking me to be selecting 8 people when i'm interested in just a contestant.



Anyway,anyhow! I don come to cast my vote for my sole candidate from the inception. If u like hate me for voting someone of my choice, i no send, na so we voted benkumar in 2013, naijaboy last year and i'm here today again at this late hour to exercise my nairaland right by voting for no oda person than








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He is not handsome,yes u can say that, beauty is not everything. Beauty without Brain is tantamount to zero, odo! He is just, talented,inteligent and hardworking, though i hate him for always draging FTC( First to comment) with me, especially on lalasticlala's threads. But, yet i like him like a brother. Let me add the initial nd vote like a scholar b4 they nullify my vote.
Plasea which planets are u from huh After all dez yur noises u didn't tags nljega. huh

Y ar yu doing lyks a sahara goat huh sad
RomanceRe: Tomfrench Wins Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 by RennyX: 5:24pm On Jun 27, 2015
I votes tomfrench

Cc: NlJega
RomanceRe: Don't Ladies Feel Ashamed Taking Photos In Hotel Rooms, Lobbies And Lavatories? by RennyX: 5:23pm On Jun 27, 2015
Setaje:
Very silly. I am not disputing the fact that girls do a lot of rubbish. someone even made a comment about girls that take picture in the front sit. I didn't no that one sef was bad to some people. I take a lot of pictures in front of my bros car. So some people would actually think I am an Olosho for that. What am I saying sef. This shouldn't come as a surprise. My friend that got married to a white man is still been called a prostitute. Even though my friend works as an expatriate and ends 5000 dollars a month. That's what she told me she earns. she read chemical engineering. When we go out, they look at all of us somehow. So u see the psyche of ordinary Nigerians. Come to think of it, all the pictures we used to snap anytime we go out I uploaded it on fb o. Chaiiiiii lipsrsealed
U don enter. grin
RomanceRe: Don't Ladies Feel Ashamed Taking Photos In Hotel Rooms, Lobbies And Lavatories? by RennyX: 5:20pm On Jun 27, 2015
Itx tru sha. But not all gals huh
CareerRe: Help Union Bank Unjustly Terminated My Appointment! by RennyX: 5:15pm On Jun 27, 2015
goke4all:
I feel your pain. First contact your HR to find out what happened and get a lawyer to write the Bank.

I work in a bank and I know a good bank won't terminate a performer just like that unless you are not telling us the full story. Do you have a DC case?
EducationRe: Important Ways To Simplify How You Read by RennyX: 5:15pm On Jun 27, 2015
Nyc thread.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Drug Smuggler Arrested In Delhi, India by RennyX: 5:14pm On Jun 27, 2015
All dis drug dealers sef.

Come do mechanic dem no hear huh

Abeg who on gen make I charge my i-phone huh
PoliticsRe: Inside Details Of How Buhari Chased SSS Away From Inner Aso Rock - Premium Times by RennyX: 5:12pm On Jun 27, 2015
KingAdeOluomo1:
Mr buhari on gen go him domot go. charge
I dey cum. huh
TravelRe: My Trip To Aba by RennyX: 3:58pm On Jun 27, 2015
Booked
RomanceRe: Female University Student Caught Having Sex In A Busy Street. Photos & Videos... by RennyX: 3:57pm On Jun 27, 2015
mazeech:
Follow link to see them and watch video. This is disgusting and public indecency! sad
https://www.mazech.com/caught_in_the_act
Plasea I needs MB huh
EventsRe: Checkout The Bizarre Cake A Doctor Received On Her Birthday (photos) by RennyX: 3:57pm On Jun 27, 2015
Fine doctor.
EducationRe: UNN Student Gets Scholarship From Frank Edwards For Drawing His Portrait(photo) by RennyX: 3:55pm On Jun 27, 2015
Nice one.
RomanceRe: Female University Student Caught Having Sex In A Busy Street. Photos & Videos... by RennyX: 3:54pm On Jun 27, 2015
Pictures huh

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