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Everblazinggg:She's more childish than you can ever think. I don't control intentionally. I don't always complain but whenever do it becomes a problem. Some girls like you just want a guy that you can match on. Not every guy can be like that |
obataokenwa:Thanks bro. |
2SWT:Thanks. I've done this lots and lots of times. Sometimes she switches emotions and turns it into an argument and my anger won't let me. Then I'll have to apologize. |
obataokenwa:I was ready for anything when i asked her if she was tired. I didn't want to be following a lost cause. But she said she was still interested in the relationship. She's really confused! ![]() |
Lalasticlala please help a brother. |
Good day Nairalanders. A very depressed soul needs your advise to make an important decision. This is going to be a long post, i apologize for the stress. Bear with me. I have been with my girlfriend for close to a year now. Everything was good at the beginning as usual with our little fights here and there. I have my own fault as i tend to flare up easily and she does has hers too. She's usually very rude and she shouts a lot even when we are having a little misunderstanding in public. We both agreed we were going to work on these flaws to make everything go smooth and i tell you I've always tried my best in that aspect. But recently my girlfriend has been acting funny. She doesn't call frequently and she prefers to chat most times. Although this is an issue that i encountered at the early stages of our relationship because she said that's how she is so i tried my best to cope with it even though i wasn't sitting well with it. However, things have changed drastically to the extent that she doesn't even call at all or check up on me on social media. There was a time i called her like five times(I usually call only twice and if you're not picking i chill and wait for a call back), because i wanted her to pick up but she didn't. Instead she sent me a "hi" message on whatsapp without an explanation for why she didn't pick my call. Also, she doesn't pay attention to me when we are in a conversation. She fixes her interest on other things like her phone, the television or just staring at the ceiling like I'm a bore to her. So all these made me to think deep and ask what may have been wrong. I wanted to conclude that she was getting tired of the relationship but I said let me ask her first maybe it was my fault. I know that sometimes I can be controlling and authoritative but it's not my fault sometimes because she does anyhow when left to do her things alone. It's like she wants me to always tell her what to do. But when i do, it's a problem. So when I asked her she told me everything that she was not tired but I was putting pressure on her. I promised to stop pressurising her and I also asked her to change from her behaviour and become who she once was and we agreed. Last week, on a Wednesday morning I woke up to her message on whatsapp and I replied without getting any reply till like 12 so I decided to call her. She told me that she was eating and she would call me when she was done. After an hour she hadn't called and i called again and she told me that she was sorry that she was watching a movie. I got angry and complained to her, but instead she was rude (as she usually is) and started raising her voice. She said what had happened is in the past and she cannot do anything about it then she hung up. I'm fed up. I don't know if there's any other guy although I've noticed some shady behaviors of hers but they aren't concrete enough. This is not the kind of relationship i want because it's obvious that we are on a different perspective. I don't bug my girl or attach myself to her, but I also feel that the right things should be done in the right measure. It's been a week now and she hasn't called or sent a message even on Christmas Day. I want to call her now and break up, but I'm confused cos I still lover her. She has her good side which is rare in most girls. Sorry for the long post once again. Please help with your contributions. |
smellingmenses:I wonder if you even understood my post. Any way that's you, not him. He felt robbed and he decided to take it back(albeit in a wrong manner). |
sekem:Gbam! |
exceltech:LOL! I laugh you @bold. Are you a guy? So you can easily call up a girl and asked her to return all the money you've spent on her? Can you really do that? Be sincere to your humble self. Is it not this same Nairaland that a guy created a thread about how he wanted to collect the phone he bought for a girl who played him. I couldn't hold myself from laughing at the insults he received that day. From the same set of Nairaland women and some pusssy niggas. He was called "broke" , "stingy", and other words. Simply because he wanted to collect back his phone. ![]() Now if you're a lady. How will you feel about such a guy? Be honest to yourself. A guy asking you to pay back all he has spent on you. It's still you that will settle down with your friends to insult and laugh at him. Please let's be realistic. ![]() |
yomz1e:Good! You can fvck off now! ![]() |
smellingmenses:[b]Yes! There is no crime on her part in the face of the law. The same way you can't hold any girl/guy liable if he/she leaves you for another person and breaks your heart in the process. Despite all your commitments and dedication to the relationship. But tell me the truth. Are you not going to feel robbed? Or let me put it in a better phrase "used". Why do some people go all out to hurt their ex after a heart break? So it's the same thing here. The girl has actually not committed any crime legally. In fact that defense will not hold water. But as a human being how will you feel? So, this is it. We have guys out there who have the mentality of "money for hand back for ground". If they meet a girl and she is demanding they all expect to get something back in return and we all know what it is. We cannot hide the fact that we have many greedy girls who don't learn. Now this is not about rape, because rape can happen in many other forms. That guy is guilty of rape no doubt. But will I blame him for thinking that's the best way for him to punish the girl? No. When we look at it from another angle, RAPE is not justified, but it is not an excuse to do things that can lead to it. The girls are always told it is never their fault they are raped. I guess that's why they can do anything and when it leads to rape it becomes another thing. If some girls reduce the way they follow guys for money up and down or they stop this their "maga" whatever, I believe we are heading in the right direction to also curb this rape menace. I know we still have many st00pid guys that will rape for no reason, but in this scenario I feel differently. [/b] |
yomz1e:Meanwhile i don't give a rat's ass what you know 'bout my type. ![]() That's my opinion up there, if you don't like it, you can shoot yourself! ![]() |
All these st00pid and hungry girls be forming smart! If you will not have sex then why depend on the guy to cater for you? This life is give and take. She can't tell me she didn't know what the guy wanted cos I'm dead sure he must have made signs. But she wanted to play sharp. If someone is helping you in anyway and you know he/she will demand something from you that you can't give away then it's better and wiser to cut yourself off before it gets bad. But people are too greedy. They will want to keep eating and eating even when it's clear things may turn bad. Abeg make we hear word! ![]() |
I vote LANICKY NLJEGA.... |
I vote LANICKY , MYSTICGAL ,MISSGDOPE. NLJEGA. |
Glock8:Plasea donts cracks my ribs diz evening. ![]() Yu want my kunu to enta my nose ![]() |
Tomfrench:Plasea make sure yu brings my champagne to my manshun when yu win. ![]() If nots I will tells all d girls to stops following you ![]() |
Setaje:Oya go comot the pix na ![]() |
Neyoor:Plasea which planets are u from After all dez yur noises u didn't tags nljega. ![]() Y ar yu doing lyks a sahara goat ![]() |
I votes tomfrench Cc: NlJega |
Setaje:U don enter. ![]() |
Itx tru sha. But not all gals ![]() |
goke4all: |
Nyc thread. |
All dis drug dealers sef. Come do mechanic dem no hear ![]() Abeg who on gen make I charge my i-phone ![]() |
KingAdeOluomo1:I dey cum. ![]() |
Booked |
mazeech:Plasea I needs MB ![]() |
Fine doctor. |
Nice one. |
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