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@megamind, U and Mazi, y'all need Jesus

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]please spill your dirty little secret [/quote]Hehehe, that's all folks.... Old thins haf passed away behold all things haf bcome new.

lorretta u: Men are so obsessed with sex.and the whole virginity concept.lost my virginty in my twenties and in my final year in the university.but guess what?am I married to the dude now?Helll no!truth is the quality of woman involved is primary before such things as virginity or not.cos u married her a virgin doesn't guarantee she'll make a good wife.and because u met her a non-virgin doesn't mean she's bad.if anything I'd blame the men who put such ladies under intense pressure until they give in and then they turn around and start looking for virgins.talk of hypocrisy.anyway for those of u blabbing about how to marry a virgin.I'd say you're ignorant.if the reason why u married her is just that she's a virgin what will you do when the novelty of it wears off in 2-3 yrs.like mine did.(If it even lasts that long)then u find out you both do not really love each other.u saw her as a prize initially and she loved u because u made her feel special.when it's gone what do u do?pls u guyz reason like adults.

You said twenties abi? If you know when I lost my own...I no fit talk am, I be badt geh. Anyhoo, now I'm married and happily married for dat matter unlike OP above who marry virgin but she don commot for house. Look beyond some things peeps.

esere826: country no hard for those that tap into the power of christ

Christ is the ultimate, seek yea first the kingdom and then all other things shall be added.

@megawax, I've been offered Heroin before but passed on it, same here.

ighoosagie: Re u saying a prostitute will have better s**x control than a virgin,
Someone who has turn down so many sex offers, distinguished herself frm d rest , have control over her emotions,Guilty conscience dey worry u.

Hehehe, you see your myopic life? Did I call prostitute? What you are saying now is if a girl isn't a virgin and has dated a few guys before marriage she don turn prostitute? In short all girls are prostitutes if they are not virgins? Wake up bro, having sex in a relationship no be prostitution. Why do I bother to answer some village-mentalised people?

Floundered economy in our country. (@ megawax^^ ... NO HOMO? U sure abt that?)

Sapphire86: Splendor of a 22 karat coloured diamond ring is all I want, esere826

Esere826 and Saphire86, maybe you guys should open a seperate thread and do your coded toastings.

esere826: Wanna what!!!??, Jeez!!!! all of una for this thread seem to have itchy pelvises

Pelvises, wow, dats a new term for the you know what.

esere826: better get a copy of 'Brighter Grammer" or some other English text book

Book a room already queenofhearts, you know you wanna.

alfablondy: Night after night , I refresh oga Mazi and Oga flow 1759 threads for new updates.

Updates from those threads are your way of catching your groove at night, that's really sad.

[quote author=Boricua:Negro]I was riding with you ....Right up until you wrote Alek Wek. [/quote]Yeah she ugly but my point is she's well liked. Her colour is da bomb!

Motherland was where Lagbaja used to perform, wondering if the place still exists.

Na wa o, sometimes silence is indeed the best answer to some things, so I'm not answering or talking to anyone. Rather I'm thinking out aloud.
Ladies please don't let any ara-oko oyibo worshipper ruffle your feathers a bit. Anyway you are embrace it. Black is wonderful, see the black ebony beauties that grace the catwalks and fashion shows in europe e.g Alek wek, Naomi Campbell back in the days. The darker you are, the more you are loved sef.
Just embrace yourself and be confident, I know maaaany guys that loooove their dark skinned beauties, my hubby number one (luv u boo ).
To each his own abeg.

[quote author=Mazi_Omenuko]Virgins don't exist in my word; I pop the cherry and show them the true meaning of being a woman.[/quote]Woman don suffer o, you just can't resist a chance to objectify women, Mazi needs deliverance!

Disgusting!!

luvmijeje: Something about this thread is drawing back and back here, I hope it is not addiction.

Addiction is another word I lov, it has some romantic inclinations.

[quote author=Mazi_Omenuko]Punny isn't the only thing in my vocabulary.[/quote]Meaning of some words are too x-rated for my ears which have been anointed.

[quote author=Mazi_Omenuko]Writer and mother has the same stress pattern[/quote]Pattern of which you could never begin to understand, my dear Mazi. (This game is never ending nao, not even if you are a gramarian), maybe we should start eliminating people, starting from those with double posts , just joking o!).

Wow, na wa o, all this stereotyping. Being a yOruba girl myself married to an ibo man, if my husband had heard all this one, he would have run o.
I advice you to court for atleast 6 mnths abeg, u might not know everything but some things might stand out. Marriage is however totally different from courtship and it helps if you get to know each other quite well and even your families' so you might have an idea of what you are getting into.

That's all I have for now.

One word 'exquisite'. Me likey very very much!

Hi LVMJ, I laugh tire when I read this, my own mother told me no let man 'meet' you from now on since you don dey see your time.
I'm quite surprised she doesn't know what it is yet when my 3 year old here sef has an idea.
Just be truthful to her sha, what age is she? 9? 10? 12? Depending on d age, tell her once every month it happens like dis for a few days and shows she's grown up now. Give her a little sex education too while you are at it. Ask her what she already knows abt it, answer any questions and leave the rest for her mama, hope I helped.
Wonder how I'll tell my own daughter when she comes of age.

Nothing to it nao, most times we ladies have a picture of who we would like to get married to, it almost always doesn't turn out that way because we find out that those guys are douches while the correct ones are the ones we would never have expected.
She's getting married to you because she loves you, don't sweat it. Congrats BTW.

Finally, GRAD, u are a good guy, not many guys would show the same restraint you have par exampl`e, op directly above ^^. Dem for don resort to trickery or take am by force.
Do what you think is best for you in the end.

pappythinko: Wat an xperience folk sees frm a seating position sme neophites fi knw c frm ontop stallion plaza.i supos u r speakn frm experience

Naa, Not from personal experience, just thinking logically. It's really not rocket science, when GRAD don tire, na him go quit the relationship by force.

@ Grad, do you have plans to marry her? If not, then why, pray tell are you still in the relationship?

[quote author=Harvard-Grad]Why evils now repogirl? I have never cheated in a relationship, fact.[/quote]As far as your mind don think am, you don do am already.
Am not exactly telling u to cheat, you should let her know the kind of relationship u really want and if she doesn't want it too then break off, find another chic, if she like make she still dey disturb you but you move on except you think you can manage like this.

If you can manage, its better o, you will learn patience and self control well and I'm sure she will value you a lot but if you can't, better you move on sooner rather than later so the both of you dnt waste any more time. She's 27, she needs to settle down soon sef, U'll be doing urselves a favour.

luvmijeje: Grace to fufill my dream I pray for today.

Today my son's first tooth popped out.