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DTALLPRINCE:
Bros Y you dey give am fake hope na?

sexymoma:
you are the thinner version of peter
wey me dey find how i go make money, u dey hia dey talk say u resemble wan person
abeg comot hia

yeye

Bigcake:
Cant you be yourself? must you look like psquare? However, you look like a foool.

4C2215131:
And you know the funny thing? No one has even considered this aspect of the story: Could it be he saw her as someone who's be comfortable in a strip club given her personality?

People come to conclusion about your personality given how you relate with them. Yes some folks would still do what they want to do irrespective of your personality but on the average people relate with you based on how they've judged you.

How does the verdict come about? By your actions, thoughts, words, demeanour, disposition etc when you are with them.

So, the OP may have conveyed a loose, carefree, cheap, daring, experimental, indisciplined and irresponsible lady to the chap in question hence he saw absolutely nothing wrong in taking his 'don't-give-a-Bleep' girl to a strip club as he felt she may be right at home in such an environment.

Ten will get you a thousand when I tell you that same chap won't do this with some other girl he considers 'homely' or 'vitreous' or the so called 'wife material' even if he could be wrong as the said wife material is just pretending to be a 'good' lady which also proves my point. He'd rather take her to the cinema than to a strip club virtue of how he 'sees' her.

Guess he was wrong. You know the 'ole saying! If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck then it is definitely a duck.

Sometimes, the book is judged by the cover.

4C2215131:
Thought I was the only one who noticed this.
Well, each to his/her own.

4C2215131:
Thought I was the only one who noticed this.

Emperoradrian:
Nice write up Op,bt I've been scrolling up and down ur post to see whr u stated if u did anytin wit,or did not do anytin wit d gal at NYT while u bot were asleep...

if u did anytin wit d gal,den u r lucky,and no fear,after all,ur babe Neva bcom ur wife,even if na ur wife,dia is always room for mistakes and adjustments...

if u no do anytin wit d gal,den my guy u b big MUMU. opportunity cums bt once!!!

coolh3ad:
Wait!..You said you excuse yourself to make a call when you guys are together??...why would you do that??...

firstking01:
if asup/ASUU strike or internal strike comes up now, the relationship never end?, esp if you both are living in diff states?,,,,so, call her, sit her down and talk things over.

firstking01:
still, i 've told you what to do in my post...you are just in a school relationship which can end anytime, so, why all these clinginess?

coolh3ad:
Be sincere ooo bros......1. How would you feel if she slept at your friend's place 2. She hid it from you and didn't tell you about it........Bros I take God beg you....No lie oo

Smartguy001:
Go n do d rite tin n stop looking for who is insulting who... Apologize nigga stop acting like a pvssy nigga real men accept der mistakes n make amends

firstking01:
And why would she get angry, does she own you?,,,are you married to her...abi she be monitoring spirit, what typa cLinginess is that...so, i can't freeLy pass the night in a femaLe friends house cosof one girL that can ditch me anytime huh...

lurlah2014:
MY ORE HAVE FI OBO JONA #HER PUSSY HAS BEEN SOLD FOR FREE, COS IF I WANT HIM TO BE MINE FOREVER SO SHALL IT BE


THE DIFFERENCE IS CLEAR #I CANT BE LIKE MY FRIEND, SO SHE CANT BE ME NEITHER