Truckpusher:
Some behavioral pattern isn't just normal at all.

People shouldn't be too close to the friends of your partner abeg, how hard is it to achieve ?

Cutehector:
u should be telling the op, not me

Truckpusher:
Why would one pass the night with bae's bestie ?

Op , don't worry eh your partner will seek for revenge sha and you might never find out sha .

Stolen fucck is the sweetest Fucck ever .

osedvgirl:
dont spew lies here jare

lurlah2014:
MY ORE HAVE FI OBO JONA #HER PUSSY HAS BEEN SOLD FOR FREE, COS IF I WANT HIM TO BE MINE FOREVER SO SHALL IT BE


THE DIFFERENCE IS CLEAR #I CANT BE LIKE MY FRIEND, SO SHE CANT BE ME NEITHER

sickstars:


are u op gf?

lurlah2014:
NO, MAYB IN THE OTHER WORLD

Rexhenrex:
the only reason i will be angry is if she had cheated on me before or i don't trust my friend..she is over reacting

haul:
You all dug a big hole of hypocrisy on this thread and buried your brain in it. well, I will be so kind to exhume your brain back to your head.

If he had told her what does it change? Will she hear it and think nothing happened between them? So many asss niggas telling you should have told her are just lame with their games! Somethings are better kept as secret.

Smartguy001:


Sharap na because u dey receiving end make u dey get mouth d form boss...Yeye foul na him u b...mehn u 4kup put fisee

lurlah2014:
MY ORE HAVE FI OBO JONA #HER PUSSY HAS BEEN SOLD FOR FREE, COS IF I WANT HIM TO BE MINE FOREVER SO SHALL IT BE


THE DIFFERENCE IS CLEAR #I CANT BE LIKE MY FRIEND, SO SHE CANT BE ME NEITHER

firstking01:
And why would she get angry, does she own you?,,,are you married to her...abi she be monitoring spirit, what typa cLinginess is that...so, i can't freeLy pass the night in a femaLe friends house cosof one girL that can ditch me anytime huh...

Rexhenrex:
and you couldn't state your point without an insult?

Smartguy001:


Go n do d rite tin n stop looking for who is insulting who... Apologize nigga stop acting like a pvssy nigga real men accept der mistakes n make amends

Rexhenrex:


she doesn't trust me at all although I haven't given her a reason not she says am too good to be true when ever I excuse ma self to make a call problem, of she sees a female staring at me she will nag if she sees me with a female course mate problem...I can't apologise am tired but I still love her.

Rexhenrex:
Please i will need your utmost sincere answer to the question!

There is this pretty lady i have been dating for close to 2years now(amanda),she av been caring and very understanding but it doensn't mean that we don't have misunderstanding at times tho,but we always know how to resolve our issues without it escalating..

An incident happened some days back that got her pissed.I slept at her best friend's place who happens to be her course mate also without telling her not as if it was on purpose. what happened was that i was at my place on saturday last week all bored up so i decided to take a stroll in the evening,and as the devil may have it i was at the area which my bae's best friend(sophia) lives in.so i just said i should stop by and say hi! As i got in lo and behold she was playing scrabble (which happens to be my best board game) with a friend of her's(sylvia) who happens to be her next door neigbour.

So she invited me to join them in playing which i obliged to whole heartedly. you know how games are na, after 3straight round wins her friend sylvia said she will be taking her leave while my g.f's bestie sophia refuse to coincide defeat and dared me for another round which i won then for another round again i still accepted so as to show her i can still beat her. in the middle of the game something told me to check the time,as i checked i was shocked. it was already some munites to 10pm and i hate walking on the road at nights due to dangers of the night and for secuirity precussions(ranging from thefts,cultists oppression e.t.c)so i slept at her place and left sunday morning! I didn't see it necessary to tell bae i don't know how she got to know but yesterday she brought up the issue and was very disappointed in me she has refused to reply my msgs both on whatsapp and f.b nor pick or replied any of ma calls and i fear she might wanna break-up with me.

Does she have any reason to be angry??

that leaves me with this question, what will you do if your partner male passes the night in your friends place who is a female or if your partner female passes the night at your friends place a male without your consent??.

#Matured answers only please and no insults just say your thoughts.(pardon any typo and grammatical errors)

Cc:lalasticlala.

coolh3ad:



Be sincere ooo bros......1. How would you feel if she slept at your friend's place 2. She hid it from you and didn't tell you about it........Bros I take God beg you....No lie oo

firstking01:
still, i 've told you what to do in my post...you are just in a school relationship which can end anytime, so, why all these clinginess?

Rexhenrex:

firstking01:
if asup/ASUU strike or internal strike comes up now, the relationship never end?, esp if you both are living in diff states?,,,,so, call her, sit her down and talk things over.

Rexhenrex:
like I have said I will only get angry if I don't trust her.

Rexhenrex:
yes boss thanks!

Rexhenrex:


she doesn't trust me at all although I haven't given her a reason not she says am too good to be true when ever I excuse ma self to make a call problem, of she sees a female staring at me she will nag if she sees me with a female course mate problem...I can't apologise am tired but I still love her.

coolh3ad:


Wait!..You said you excuse yourself to make a call when you guys are together??...why would you do that??...

Emperoradrian:
Nice write up Op,bt I've been scrolling up and down ur post to see whr u stated if u did anytin wit,or did not do anytin wit d gal at NYT while u bot were asleep...

if u did anytin wit d gal,den u r lucky,and no fear,after all,ur babe Neva bcom ur wife,even if na ur wife,dia is always room for mistakes and adjustments...

if u no do anytin wit d gal,den my guy u b big MUMU. opportunity cums bt once!!!