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This topic is very important and should be given a wider and legal views for knowledge sake.


Moderator kindly put this topic on the front page so we can learn

Please who can touch on the perspective

Please let the legal minds comment on this

Rexology:
What is the reason(s) for married women to take their husband's name? Is there any legal implications should one decides otherwise?

Please Mod, push this topic to front page so we can get wider and legal perspective on this subject. This, no doubt, is a silent question in the mind of so many married and intending wife.

olumide3367:
See what feminist and modernizatuon have caused? .. Soon women will ask must I have a child in my marriage?

I want to know the legal perspective of taking or not taking husband's name.

Rexology:
What is the reason(s) for married women to take their husband's name? Is there any legal implications should one decides otherwise?

I will like to get the legal implications of not taking your husband's name, if any.


Mod please move this to front page to get a wider view on this .

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Any body that dies in Nigeria now would be linked to Covid-19.NCDC desperately wanted to record death from Covid-19.A man that has been battling serious health challenges was the one that reportedly died of Covid-19?

Its actually #125

yomi007k:
Can you prove that I "fornicate,lie, hate,steal, kill, disrespect,disobey"?

If not , hold your peace.

I was not referring to you in particular, but to every SOUL who claim to hate Adultery, but comfortably indulge in other forms of immorality . My comment calls for life- stock-taking.

When Christ told his disciples that one of them would deny him, Peter was the first to say he CANNOT do it, but we know the rest of the story."By strength shall NO MAN prevail"

yomi007k:
Thou shalt not commit adultery.

Thou shalt not covet your neighbours wife, goods or properties.

I can't even date a lady that has a bf let alone married woman.

Na wa o.

Are they the whole commandment? We must not chose the ones that are convenient for us to obey. Every sin is big enough, no one is smaller or bigger.In fact ,the sin of disobedience, as small as it might appear to our eyes, was the the first sin of mankind that destroyed the world.
My point is, we should not be righteous by half. You can't claim to hate Adultery whilst you fornicate,lie, hate,steal, kill, disrespect,disobey etc.
God is not man and he is never pleased with our hypocrisy.

Agboriotejoye:
Even at that, with that judgement, it means APC had no candidate since they never presented Hope as a replacement for Nwosu. If it had no candidate, then it should not have participated in that election which makes all the votes casted for it null and wasted

APC presented Hope who contested the election, APC NEVER presented Uche Nwosu as their candidate. How can you say APC had no candidate in that election?

fergie001:
I agree it will be technically difficult to revisit the Imo case but your assumptions are wrong.....

In the suit of Zamfara that was quashed by the CJN...PDP was also not a party to the suit.

In the case of the HoR member representing Yola/Girei constituency , Modibbo
.....PDP was also not a party to the suit.

In the case of Zamfara, it was a matter of APC not conducting the primary election as required by law and NOT a case of who actually won the party's primary. In the case of Imo, it was a matter of who actually won the Part's primary and NOT the issue of APC failing to conduct the primary.
They are not comparable.
The Supreme Court agreed with Uche Nwosu as the authentic candidate of APC, but having contested the election under AA, his APC canditure was therefore nullified ,giving chance for Hope to become the APC candidate legally.

seniormallam:
In bayelsa the defence council failed to point out error........but for IMO, they are not asking SC to reverse itself......... But to enforce the judgement that declared Nwosu the candidate of two parties (APC/AA)......... Which translate to both parties not having a candidate, so they never participated in the said election.

Neither PDP nor Emeka was a party to that particular suit, therefore was not a beneficiary of that judgment. Recall it was APC intra-party affairs. Citing Ishaku vs Aisha (mamaTaraba) 2015 and Ortom Vs Tersor 2015, PDP and Ihedioha are gone for good.

ChristianNorth:
Exactly what I said. Reversing its judgement in Bayelsa will make the court lose what makes it final.

In IMO, we are not asking the court to set aside itself but to enforce its earlier judgment that declared Nwosu as the rightful candidate of APC.

This automatically will return Ihedioha.

PDP is coming

Neither PDP nor Emeka was a party to that particular suit, therefore was not a beneficiary of that judgment. Recall it was APC intra-party affairs. Citing Ishaku vs Aisha (mamaTaraba) 2015 and Ortom Vs Tersor 2015, PDP and Ihedioha are gone for good.

koife:
Hello fam, I'm not used to writing about my personal life. I try as much as I can to keep it off social media. On this very instance I'm tired and I desperately need honest advise, I'm also ready for insult.
I met my wife and we got married less than two years after our meeting.
I must say my wife is a quiet and slow person by nature and very churchy. I won't forget to add that since I met her I've had many blessings come my way. We are blessed with a 6 month old daughter.

My main issue with my wife is that she sees home upkeep as my total responsibility, yes, I do it but she hardly contribute anything and any time I'm coonstrained fin. She would say all manner of things. My wife isn't that a smart person, she would wait for you to give her direction in the simplest of things and shys away from taking charge and ownership.

I got a 6 digit [/b]job few days after introducing as her my fiancee to my parent and I'm often at sea for three more than 6 months. I've observed my wife isn't prudent with money no matter how much passes through her hands. At some point I'll get her attention how much she has spent without knowing and then she would go " wow, I didn't know it was that much" after doing some addition.
[b]She works with insurance firm and her pay is within 60k (Max)/monthly...with that, she still get home support from me and my sister who is in USA. Recently I gave her her usual home support money and my sis did too....her allowance and commission came too. My wife had over 95k total in less than two weeks.

I was surprised barely a week and, I asked my wife support fix the car I left with her at home with just 5k since and i was yet to be paid salary. Note, I bought this car to ease her movement at her instance oo, she suggested the car is idle and we should get someone do bolt( taxify) just to get us additional cash.I got the driver do agreement with my lawyer via my coy and travelled shortly, the car alternator shut down and wouldn't charge, it was at that instance I asked her help out and she said she had no money on her and that she was barely surviving. I was shocked and Drew her attention to how much had gone through her hands in less than two weeks. Don't get me wrong, it might not be much to some peoples financial cash flow but we are Young family and less than two years in marriage. My wife believes once money comes, it's time to solve all her outstanding problem and ive told her she needs to prioritize.

Recently when I got to nja I left 600k in her account and told her we shouldn't touch it in case of family emergency but I noticed each time we have little need at home she would pressure me go get the cash. Some how we kept touching the money till it got to 300k and I travelled again.
I've tried my best to groom her and get her financial planning life better but she would not accept she has issue. I'm considering getting her family and mine involved but I dear it would out her in bad light before my family ( trying to protect her), I I decided to bring it here since it's faceless forum for candid advise

Need I also add that I can say one thing give times to my wife and she still gets it mixed up. I've asked her to read book and expand her intellectual capacity. It was just two weeks ago I forced her go defend her post graduate project after many years of abandonement....we quarreled. I later helped her arrange the work and pacify her supervisor allows her defend without paying school fees before I left.
Pls is my wife just dull or does it have to d with her character with life and money? Pls advise me coz I'm getting sick, really sick already. I'm typing this onboard on my way to Japan. I can't even concentrate

The fact that you revealed your Wife's monthly salary and concealed yours is an indication that you are not saying the whole truth about yourself. You just want to expose your wife's weakness whilst hiding yours.

fergie001:
https://punchng.com/i-didnt-forge-my-certificates-sacked-bayelsa-dep-gov-elect/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

This is what happened when you want to show off.His WAEC Certificate was enough to qualify him, but he needed to show off by submitting all his academic credentials thereby exposing his multiple names.

In his speech,he intentionally circumvented the reason(s) for having multiple names. Having multiple names is "fraudulent" according to the Spreme Court.

Listing the Schools you attended and the names of your classmate is inconsequential to the extent that one can actully graduate from an institution and still go ahead to forge a certificate of the same institution.

kepstone:
Good day my people.
Moderator Please I need you to move this to front page I need sound and matured advice.
I am AS..Life has been so good to me because of God, my parents, good friends.
But this aspect of my life has left me crying. Since 2008 I have been praying for a life partner, like from my University days, I have never lived a bad life never entered into relationship until 2011 after my graduation. I asked my University girl out it went well only to discover after 5yrs we were not compatible because of oga genotype, I saw this girl crying in my room when we decided to part ways, she was the most amazing gf I had then, I never had sex with her, she was saying you are all I desire but why us, why why. After that I got hook to another 2015 ending by my friend her genotype was AA, this girl was the nightmare of my life it did not workout more than 18 months, I met another 2017 church member who was AA later turn to scammer I gave my all but Still it ended. I rested a bit met another in 2018 Holy Moses drama queen though AA, the relationship was money centred I have to quit. All the good girls I have met are AS who loved me deeply and ready for marriage I have lost 5 good AS l mean
Matured rich ladies due to genotype issue.
I am not getting younger at all, many ppl ask me why is that you don't want to settle down I keep saying in God's time but the major factor has been oga genotype.
I recently met a lady she is everything I have ever prayed for in a wife, she loves me to piece but I asked her about genotype, she said AS 0+ I was eating when she told me I lost appetite and started crying lord why me, I was in my room chatting with her and eating.
Amazingly my parents were AS and they gave birth to all of us AA and AS I can't say how this miracle happened we are 7 in number no SS at all. Should I forget about this girl and keep waiting for someone with AA good character and the one I love.
Can I talk to her that we can push through this, knowing that I only plan to have 2 kids in my family AS+AS=AA,AS kids
I am not happy, did not go to work today just thinking lord why me.
I need help.

In life, 1+1 does not necessarily equal to 2. God is in charge of our lives, no mortal has absolute contol over his life. It is very important you marry a lady that loves you more, than the one you love more.
A lady that loved you deeply is an asset, but what did you do? you left her because of her Genotype and by extension, the genotype of your children.
While you are still pondering on the possibility and fear of giving birth to SS should you marry AS, also ponder on these:

What if you end up getting married to a lady with AA and she bears no child?

What if you end up with AA that will send you to your early grave?

What if you marry an AA lady and give birth to a child with down syndrome?

Too many WHAT IFs to ponder on. What God has prepared for you might be inconsistent with what the world want or expected but the end thereof lies his Glory. Listen to your inner spirit and follow your conviction ,don't listen to the world.

fergie001:
For all those who have poured all manner of invectives on a Senior Jurist, Justice Mary Ukaego Peter-Odili (JSC) CFR, and maligned the integrity of learned Jurists that chaired the panel on the ill-fated Lyon/Degi Mandate.

Ecclesiastes 10: 10 said something important “If the iron be blunt, and he does not whet the edge, then must he put to more strength: but wisdom is profitable to direct”..

Unbiased lawyers in the house can help us digest.

Please can you send me a copy of the judgment via email?

AuthenticNG:
https://authenticng.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Nnamdi-kanu-wake.jpg'

Wake Keeping still going on

Prince Ogewanne and his Ohuhu cultural group(Warrior)

bobkezel:
I mean, is it aluminium or negerite

Aluminium

I need a roofing quotation for 3 bedroom flat covering 12.8 by 10.8.
Someone gave me this estimate:

This is the roof estimate.
(1) 3×4×12=19
(2)2×4×18=90
(3)2×4×12=76
(4)2×3×12=190
(5)2×2×12=144
(6)1×4×12=18
(7)1×2×12=60
(coolpatterns =46

Thi is the estimate of zink &Nails.
(1)9 bundles of roof sheets.
(2)parapet aluminium =6m×10pcs.
(3)Rc=6m×14pc.
(4)VG=6m×5pcs.
(5)VT=6m×5pcs.
(6)ET=6m×10pcs.
(7)One bag of 4 inches nail.
(coolOne bag of 3 inches nail.
(9)5 pounds weight of 2 inches nail.
(10)4 packets of zink nail & 12 packets of vent.
Labour cost=#170k

Is there any disadvantage of Aluminium parapet?

bobkezel:
What kind of roof sheet is that

8feet roofing sheet

I need a roofing quotation for 3 bedroom flat covering 12.8 by 10.8.
Someone gave me this estimate:

This is the roof estimate.
(1) 3×4×12=19
(2)2×4×18=90
(3)2×4×12=76
(4)2×3×12=190
(5)2×2×12=144
(6)1×4×12=18
(7)1×2×12=60
(patterns =46

Thi is the estimate of zink &Nails.
(1)9 bundles of roof sheets.
(2)parapet aluminium =6m×10pcs.
(3)Rc=6m×14pc.
(4)VG=6m×5pcs.
(5)VT=6m×5pcs.
(6)ET=6m×10pcs.
(7)One bag of 4 inches nail.
(One bag of 3 inches nail.
(9)5 pounds weight of 2 inches nail.
(10)4 packets of zink nail & 12 packets of vent.
Labour cost=#170k

Is there any disadvantage of Aluminium parapet?

I need a roofing quotation for 3 bedroom flat covering 12.8 by 10.8.

Offpoint:
First of all I want to know the sacrifices you've made for him.... God I hate this line of speech.

I don't see no love here, I see you not wanting to let him go because he's rich, handsome, tall and dark.
He cheats, you're OK with it, he does this: you're OK with it, he does that: you're OK with it. He keeps his Health status away from you: you're OK with it because he's made, he's tall, dark and handsome.

Dude is, was and will still be a jackass, but you don't wanna let him go because of status and physique.

Guys double your hustle: where money talks, bulshitz bow and Love take a backseat.

I still wanna know the sacrifices you've made, do you invest any money on him? do you help him with any contract? do you help him with his job?

His time with you is over and he wanna explore more, so don't try to tie him.

OR just because you....
let me stop before I say something that might got me 100 mentions

Some people no just get self-worth at-all

The thing just tire me. When it comes to ladies, it's always about what they have done and sacrificed for you.

Where is your location?

oladiran2:
Sorry is your case if you price car like this.are you buying baby boy

I priced this car #500k, this was your reply to me. It seems this car is the most valuable asset you got in your life hence you attached all your financial problems to it to the extent you are aggressive to any potential buyer who price below your price.
Happy Sale!

500k very serious

Snap the interior and the engine

bonnyhope:
are they no benue people on this thread? i am yet to read from them

Lol...in Benue, most people simply go to the nearest Rice mill and buy unbranded stone-free local rice in Tin(s).
In Benue State,CP is the best specie of rice with long grain followed by OC.

The level of Jungle justice in Nigeria is alarming and should be checked. A young lady reported her husband's attitude of allegedly disrespecting and disregarding her, without hearing from the husband, judgment is been served against him already. Sadly this is what we have become in this Country.
Since I have not heard from your husband to have a true picture of the situation, I am not in a position to advice you . Beware of the counsels you get from people online or offline. Most people advising you here are either single or had a failed marriage.

In all remember that "a wise woman builds her home but a foolish woman destroys it"
Peace!