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Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

If you're my sister, i'll give you my support �
You have your life to live and children to raise.,
That man will destroy you and your goals if he stil remains in your life.

He can never change

A woman like you is rare., unfortunately for him he is the big loser here.

Go for what makes you happy..Ma'am

Wordsfrombimpe:
You see this talk of when men says I don't have enough money to settle down

Na lie

If you wan settle down you fit settle

Just have an understanding partner

And that include make use of birth control as you dey think marriage

To pity innocent children

The best thing that can ever happen to a man is a good marriage even when money no dey

An understanding and a supportive wife

People wey marry for Yankee you no the house Dem dey live make we no talk Africa

You start small

And then with time it will get better

copyright Digital Bimpe


You see when I said with time it will get better I implied

Patience will be needed and endurance

The best phase of an individual life is the ability to endure before you enjoy that way you can appreciate what you have more and stop bothering about what you don't have

In marriage

You need to understand there are days you will enjoy and there are days you will endure

You have to have that mindset put in place

No be everyday person dey chop chicken

Some days you will eat egg and some days you will eat fish

So is marriage

If you end up with a materialistic partner who believe in I must live large and look large to suit societal Standards

Then it's your business to deal with life situations when it get hard

If you end up with a non materialistic partner who enjoy simplicity

Simple lifestyle

copyright Digital Bimpe The Coach

Understanding and non materialistic partner in this age and time...

Let me know if you see one...

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Dem never get una time...

Karen2024:
My boyfriend ditched me for another lady few days ago. Now he discovered she's a chronic cheat and he came begging me to forgive and accept him back.


Should I accept him back? I still love him.

Watchout for part 2

Ajakaiye83:
Hello folks,

Please advise me on a serious matter.
Just got a JOB offer for 620k in a very reputable company and I am also processing Msc in UK. should i go ahead with job or keep old job and japa?

Old job pay 280k

Gather the monee small before you japa.. At least for a year...

Lord i seek for your abundant Mercy and Favour in my life.
Let me encounter your divine breakthrough., Success in all ramifications of my life.
Let all my dreams and expectations come to reality.
Amen!!!

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UDOKABESTLUV:
Update From . COM

Acting Chairman Of The Rivers State Board of Internal Revenue Commission, Chibeoso Aholu and his wife, Juliet have welcomed a set of twins after 19 years of marriage, Reports.

From The Information Gathered By , The Twin boys were dedicated at Winners Church in Port Harcourt on Sunday, June 26, 2022.

A Friend of the couple, Rowland Nwosu shared the good news via Facebook, As Sighted By On Tuesday, June 28.

"Honourable Pastor Chibeoso Aholu and his beautiful wife , Lolo Juliet were grateful to God who after nineteen (19) years of waiting in marriage , blessed them with a wonderful set of male twins," he wrote.

"What a wonderful but patient waiting. As you type amen, whatever that has kept you waiting for this period of years, God will make up for you in double portion in Jesus name...amen."

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG

Amen

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Juleh01:
Before the start of Ramadan, I realized work had taken over me that I go a week without designing any stuff (not my usual self thou). So I challenged myself to make a Ramadan Kareem prayer/quotes for every day in this Holy month.

May Allah accept it as an act on Ibadah and grant the Muslim world a joyous and eternal rewards. Amin

Amin.

Nice work

Rubbish write up....l[color=#006600][/color]

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Taiyemando:
While i saw driving my dad to his office today, i took a blank disk from his collections of disk to listen to some cool music because the drive is a 45 minutes drive to the main town of Kaduna i saw going through the musics on the disk by clicking next multiple amount of time, all of a sudden i stumbled across one Obey song..... It starts this way " Toh ba fe polowo Oja...... and follows by a sweet traditional beats... abeg if you know the title of this song, please help by telling me.

Are you sure is Ebenezer Obey., The only song I know with such line is from king sunny ade...,though I can't say have listen to all his album.
But I'm sure of that line in king Ade's song.
Probably you should complete that line "Toh ba fe polowo Oja..."

I will like to know how this game work...bro.

Stephenmoka4:
This won't count, I didn't play it due to poor network. A suppose W1, at least an example of what I meant.

adefitim:
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Thanks, I'll check it out

adefitim:
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Till now I still dey find that film.

Interested

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They accept all debit card.. have use both gtb and access bank for deposit.

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Where is your location., so that i can come and check.

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