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I'm going to be straight forward in my question, but I would need a perfect solution,thanks... There's dis lady I met @dusk on my way to a bank atm, I presume she was coming back from sch lectures because I stay around school area so I see most of them, I walked towards her & halt her walk like I knew her sonmwhr, eventually she gave in with d clues I threw to her, then I collected her digit then left... I chatted her up on watsapp like 2days after, then remind her the scenario in which we met,the next thing she said was yeah she remember but how did I get her digit, whic got me surprised, then I remind her ow I got it by typing my digit on her fone to beep mine& she said ok...I had to stop d chat dat night because I lost interest in d chat already d nite, so I told her goodnite... So since then wen I chat her up, her responses is alwas hostile & I'm sure dat because I'm standing on d rules of not showing too much interest in her with my replies to hers & she decided to form d hard to get for me too...if I call, she won't pick,tho I never make d call pass just one & dats fo d day if she doesn't pick up... Now to d question, she forms hard to get with harsh replies,tho its not an abusive one but I wil alwas flow wit d harshness & stil stand on my rules of not making it obvious I'm interested in her dat much bh u guys know wat we want if tho we don't want them to be aware of it, what can I do to bring her shoulders down? Tried to be funny wit d replies I give her too but she would jst send a laff smiley but still ignore d calls & stil give uninterested replies.. WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

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Hi guys, I used wonder if everyone feels thesame way I used to... It comes to happen that every time I set my eyes on the picture of the 1st lady I had something with, I smile & feel warmth in my heart like I'm still into her even tho its been long we talked or seen...so I do used to think that is it true people still get attached to one's first in a way or the other ?
I don't know if I'm the only one that feels this way, that's if ur first is some1 u liked b4 having anything with him or her . How true is this ?

Hi guys in the house, I'm in a dilemma right now & I would love it if u guys can't help me out with ur kind opinions by commenting on this. At some point in this post, I know I may got to be bashed but I don't really mind because my main aim is to find a proper solution to this issue.
I met this young lady @ an early age & to be frank, I got attracted by her beauty then we got closer to each other, along the line, I began to develop interest in her then I gave it a shot & she said NO, after that day many things were running on my mind that maybe I'm not her type, maybe she's not ready , maybe I too so long to speak but still after each day we get more closer to the point that I know her secrets & she knows mine, at this point I knew she enjoys keeping me as friend... Eventually, I gained admission into a tertiary institution in which I will be leaving for school in few days time, then I called that I want to see her b4 I leave, tho I've been showing some obvious moves b4 this time in which I know she's aware of but ever since I told her I need to see her b4 I leave, I notice she's been avoiding me because she won't chat nor call me. Its now one more day left bfor I finally leave, I now got to see her msg on my fone saying ' I've been trying to form flesh for u thinking I can cope without seeing u b4 u leave but I can't just help it' and she round it up by saying I will come & see u tomorrow, deep down my spine I felt happiness not cos of any evils' taught towards her but because I getting to develop feelings for her.
Here comes the day & she arrived as expected, we had fun together but the only romantic thing we did was Hugs & Kisses, @least I was satisfy with that then. I finally went to school & we used to hear from each other almost everyday, so fortunately for her she got admitted into a tertiary institute too through A levels Direct entry. Ever since her admission, for the 1st year in school I noticed she getting matured because she's using her brain for some vocational training in school & earning herself some little cash. We still closer but we hardly see, maybe once in a year but I still like her in spite of the distance.
Come to the beginning of last year we got see a day after the new year @home & while we were together, she told me she's not feeling comfortable looking into my eyes, that she think she's keeping something from me, & I told her to talk so she can be free, then she started to narrate how she was de flowered when she visited a guy @ home. To be serious, I didn't know how I felt that day because I was devastated & couldn't get myself throughout that day & she noticed that change of mood then she asked me that ' are we still cool ?' I couldn't answer and that was the first time I know I scolded her like my junior sister but after some months we got even closer but come to the start of this year its looking like if I didn't buckle up financially I can't get her because she gets attracted to high class guys now or should I say these guys are the one that dosent take away their face off her because she beautiful because she keeps none of this things away from me now to the extent that if she had s*x today I'm gonna be aware of it. At some point I would act like I'm no more into her & ask her of her s*x life and whenever I get to know she just did of recent,It would look like I was stabbed in the heart so that used to make me have two mind with her which are
1. Its either I date her because in spite of this things heard, I still like her
2. Or I get to have a one night stand with her & that would stop me from been heart broken whenever I hear such again.
Sometimes It looks like I'm been fooled because she acts like she doesn't want me to leave whenever I make it obvious trying to ignore her. Same thing with me, one part of me feels like losing contact with her while the selfish part of me doesn't want that to happen.
I need ur candid advice guys because I'm getting hurt here .Thanks for taking ur time to read this

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How does your fantasy world looks like whenever u have a crush on someone ( school mate ) during your primary and secondary school time ?

I don't even know where exactly to post this....Every time I check myself in a mirror, its always like I'm
getting skinny everyday... I really need to put on a little
weight even if its only my cheeks...I've been hearing of
Mawu Mawu but they used to say its repercussion isn't nice
@ll, there's also this medicine I used to combine then which
is xerstin, multivitamin and cold liver oil, that will make me
put on weight for d main time while using it, but once I stop it, I
come down again and I do eat well but don't know why
...any help pls ? Thanks

Every time I check myself in a mirror, its always like I'm getting skinny everyday... I really need to put on a little weight even if its only my cheeks...I've been hearing of Mawu Mawu but they used to say its repercussion isn't nice @ll, there's also this medicine I used to combine then which is xerstin, multivitamin and cold liver oil, that will make me put on weight for d main time in using it, but once I stop it, I come down again and I do eat well but don't know why ...any help pls ? Thanks

I and this Lady was in the midst of an interesting chat yesterday night and we talked to a point where I threw a question at her by asking why do ladies choose to follow guys that lies to get them to the ones they know is telling the truth about their feeling for them...Funniest thing is that majority of this Ladies knows the one telling the truth and the ones lying but they still follow the wrong one and they later fall victim at the end of the day. Here are some pics of the chat which entails the ladies reply to it.

What is the Craziest thing you've ever done to your ex of your ex done to you...

We are asked to do a term paper on alternative therapy in the treatment of any human body disease, so I've tried picking as many topic [disease] as possible but all has been picked because they don't want us to work on the same thing. For now I'm short of disease to pick, pls guys can you help with diseases that are not that common. Thanks

Which period of the sleep do u enjoy most ?
Most of the time,I used to think early morning sleep is most enjoyable not until I observe the type of sound sleep I feel after s*x....After many rounds of it( s*x), the sudden sleep that comes immediately is unexplainable not to talk of the sensational feeling u ave after u wake up from that type of sleep.
To be candid, God is great, He's just awesome in his ways. So, on my own side I enjoy after s*x sleep especially when u do it @midnite. What about you guys ?

Does everything in life all about prayer ?
God let Nepa bring
light. God, let this call go thru. God, let this recharge card
enter. God, let me meet the water running at home. Jesus,
let vegetable seller pass. God let me see a danfo fast!!!
Haba...where common sense will work, Prayer won't
I biliv not everythin warrants praying for,all we need doing is to change the way we've been doing things to get a different result. GM

Evening guys....talking about s*x, I can only boost of 5 times and all is a protected one because I believe prevention is better than cure so I've been wondering that assuming I meet myself doing the unprotected,where do I cum to assuming I reach an orgasm? Where do guys dat do the flesh to flesh cum to ? On their body ? On d bed? Or u rush to d toilet,for those in a flat or self con ....if its their body,what does the reaction on their face look like ?
Got no experience on that,don't mind me....Replies

Evening guys....talking about s*x, I can only boost of 5 times and all is a protected one because I believe prevention is better than cure so I've been wondering that assuming I meet myself doing the unprotected,where do I cum to assuming I reach an orgasm? Where do guys dat do the flesh to flesh cum to ? On their body ? On d bed? Or u rush to d toilet,for those in a flat or self con ....if its their body,what does the reaction on their face look like ?
Got no experience on that,don't mind me....Replies

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Myself relaxing at home
That's a better news.
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but it isn't like u not wearing any top,so why guarding ur precious mammalian gland like guys would steal or grab it #lol

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What % can u boast on considering ur present relationship reaching an expected end ? I mean Marriage

Life ! ... Fingers are actually nt dsame but sometimes u wish for someone else's type of life cos while struggling to get wat other pple dosnt strive to get,question like ths comes to mind that When exactly will I stop worrying about mere need talkmore of a bigger one but all I know is tht with biliv in God,focus,& hardwork,all is going to be a story to tell....Ribena

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Opinion Nairalanders, thanks

I just wonder if some pple uses their brain b4 dropping comments

Don't mind my write up please, just try to decode what I'm trying to pass across
While in my late teen age of 18,19 to my 20 years,I can boost of ladies I can approach without fear to d point dat no cute lady would pass beside me without talking to her and end up getting her digit & later get close...
Now,I'm in my early twenties and I think I've lost it,I can't even talk to a lady beside me talk more of approaching when I see them afar. Sometimes I do think it dosnt make sense seeing a lady yu like walking and the next thing is to approach her on a walk, this has kept on re occurring for d past 3 years that I can tell u guys that the only female friends have had for d past years are still the one I ave till date,no new one, this is as a result of me still keeping mute. Is this really a low self esteem or what?
This is really affecting me to the point that,its only my close female friends I can only turn to ask out just because of frustration and because I have no new ones I can get to hav feelings for to make my companion. I can only fantasize on babes I like when I see them, Ladies in my dept in school used to think I do proud because I ignore most of them, dem no know wetin I dy fight inside me.......I'm single and seriously searching but I can't talk to ladies unless there's something that would spring up a chat btw us because I really don't know wot to say to them even if I'm ready to talk to, I shld say hey whatsup abi ? then wot after that ? if its someone I like at 1st sight and may not be chanced to see probably for a very long time !
Is this self esteem or what can this be tagged as ?
No bashing abeg, even if there's gonna be, let it be little bashing. Thanks parleys