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They would be looking for traits of a PR officer in you. Which means you have to be eloquent, dress smart, confident, answer questions clearly and diplomatically if necessary, in fact, strut your stuff.

Impressive

lookingbuoy:
Hmm...
You are right. I'm actually more smitten by the unemployed lady. But i dont like her unemployed situation. And she also comes off as not so independent. The other lady is as pretty, way more independent (perhaps totally), holds her on and carries herself well. S[b]he has most things I've fantasized about my woman having[/b], only my relationship with her is not as boundless as what i have with the unemployed lady.
I believe i can comfortably take care of the home with the unemployed one. However, i don't like her unemployed situation one bit.

Speaking psychologically, the problem is that because the independent one is much more confident you tend to be more careful while speaking to her and exercise more restraint and she you. Because the other one is below you, you speak more freely because you don't have much to lose. I will advise you to speak more freely with the independent one and suggest more random and normal things. It msy surprise you that she would actually love it and have been waiting for you to take that turn. On the other hand, if you cannot seem to find the right relationship balance, I will advise you to go with the other one because marriage is like forever and you would need someone to talk to and someone who gets all the things you don't want to say.

When a woman gets to that psychotic stage.....You can only shake your head. Fine girl like this for that matter.

Spanishmario:

...none for now

Hey....Ekarooo

Hello FAM

Any speculated date?

baski92:
tank you sir but is it possible after two weeks and she says she is pregnant, and I gave her after sex drug like 10 to 15 min when it happened

See yourself.... medicine after death. Nothing is a 100% certain except abstinence. With that said, congratulations ooo

Russell145:
Though am happy for them but note this
Sex outside marriage=fornication=immorality

Don't we know already?

Can't somebody just be happy for them? Na wa o. Nairalanders show some love. They just had babies.

Congratulations Mikel.

vizkiz:
lol, there is no "her" at least for now. So that wouldn't work

You wee not agree na. But am sure there is one somewhere... Pretty sure.

vizkiz:
but its true na

I wee report you to her oooo

Decker:
When one wants to marry, age isn't really what's important. There isn't any right or wrong age to get married.
What's important is how ready you are. And only you can answer this question.

And in being ready, there are certain factors that need to be considered which include; how financially stable you are, how emotionally stable you are, how prepared you are to manage a family and how mentally and psychologically ready you are to handle the stress and ups/downs that come with most marriages and relationships. That's what's essential.

Also, 26 isn't a young age to get married. There are guys who married at 23 and still go ahead to have children and happy/successful marriages.

I like and concur.

vizkiz:
common among the ladies. They probably have every picture to upload whenever something happens in a relationship!

Well, if she does this, I'll just ignore her and not even act like I care. She will still upload another one even if you ask "what does that picture mean?"

Lol...you are not smiling ooo

stylezee:
I just viewed ur p.pix..wow!!..come hustle with me I will never treat u like a "below standard"..

You created this thread right?

Decker:
Yea, to a large extent it is, but like I implied in my previous post, it all boils down to the personality of the person and the love he has for this girl.

If he truly loves her he won't give her up for anything, but true love isn't something that just happens out of the blue. It takes time to develop and goes through a series of trials and test to become what it is.

Because am now wondering the essence of hustling with a guy if he will later come to see you as below standard.

I think these things vary...there was a time I used to revel in it..but now, anything that exceeds holding hands or shoulder is a no no.

This things work though... but don't get carried away sha

Decker:
Like the guy above me rightly stated; it's basic human nature.

When one doesn't have money, he views that particular girl as a price, as some sort of medal he has to strive to acquire, but when he finally gets the money, that wealth raises him to a higher "level". He views himself as more attractive to women, and capable of getting any woman he wants.

So subconsciously, that girl he values as a trophy, doesn't seem like that anymore. He begins to see himself in a whole new light. He begins to believes that with the wealth he now has, he can get hundreds of girls like that, so he starts to wonder what makes that other girl so special.
So instead of concentrating on that girl, he decides to "play" her and still "play" other girls.

If this is true wahala dey o....

cbrass:
Its quite strange

I see a beautiful girl and tell her she is beautiful and that is strange? Am just admiring the work of God.

cbrass:
Are you a lesbian?

Do I have to be?

matilda02:
I hv,yestrday

Did they check your certificates?

Michellla:
thanks ma'am you too

you are very welcome dear

iyke926:
You are also

awwww...thank you for uplifting my ministry...lol

petkoffDrake:
ur pretty toooo..... I like her (michella) can u help me talk with her in my favor??

see the girl, see you. What exactly is stopping you from talking to her?

Michellla:
wow! what an achievement. sarcastically*

You are very beautiful.

Dharniel:
sent.

@Dharniel , can I please get the past questions? Email is richiy.umunna@gmail.com

Thank you.

True love is still very much possible. You have just been meeting the wrong kind.

OP, you have put your body through too much stress already. I will advice you to have the child. But, use birth control henceforth. There are other forms of birth control your husband doesn't even have to know if you use them.