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flokii:
babe na O.Y.O you dey o...

wen e no be romance series.. how una go enjoy am

Lol. I don't enjoy watching romance. I love comedy sitcoms like House of Payne, Baby Daddy, Big Bang Theory, and the Thundermans.

Am still asking, what exactly is the fuss about Empire? I have seen the series, but it doesn't strike me to be as amazing as a lot of people think it is. Is it just me or what?

KingTom:
Wow, you made a lot of sense. The last point is crucial, the long term goals, they have to get their priorities right.

Yeah. If folks focused more on crucial things like that, try to understand and ensure compatibility, there will be less fussing. Why should I marry a man that expects me to be at home all day cooking and cleaning when I know that I can still do other profitable things aside that? Its not wrong, its just me. I still know girls that would be very much content with that.

ademoladeji:
24..... Chloe Obrian

Tyrant.... Jamal Abu Fayeed

Suit..... Michael Ross

Dominion... Angel Michael

Homeland.... Kate and Agent Broody

Vampire Diaries....Damon Salvatore

Originals... Nick 'Klaus' Michaelson

Witches of Eastends, Hostages, House of Cards, Extant, Scandals, Teen Wolf, Star Crossed....


Walahi, I'm in love with series... The suspense na baba

Guy your head is there I swear.

JeffreyJamez:
Spoken like a wise woman..much respect.

Awwwwww...thank you a whole lot.

Jollyjoy:
u still dey talk dis tin?

Isn't this the topic of discussion before you guys hijacked the thread?

midehi2:
yes dear...marriage is a beautiful thing BUT with the right person

Exactly. Marriage is a clear definition of look before you leap.

They should both understand their long term plans before marriage.

I know a lot of ladies that their main aim and only purpose in life is to answer Mrs Somebody. I also know some others that will not be content to just be Mrs Somebody. I also know men that would approve and those that will not. Personally, I have never felt that my only purpose in life is to raise kids.

Submission will not be a problem if partners understand clearly and agree with long term goals.

So because of this you opened a thread?

falconey:
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I really feel for him. He is being awakened by reality.

morethanadoll:
You don't have to reply, but I will quote you. I KNEW THAT IT WAS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE THE RACIST NIGERIANS CAME ABOUT! So, because you are genetically "full" black, makes anyone who is mixed with black inferior to you? Well, let me tell you something, honey, anything mixed with black is black, if you didnt receive that memo. Drake would be called a n*gger the same as you would. The crazy part is is that you hate people of your own skin color. Sad, sad mental cases. No matter how you put it, Drake is black. WizKid is talented. They both are black and rich. Awww, why do you hate me, sister? Is it because I am attractive and could take your man on any day if I wanted him? Post a picture of yourself if you are attractive. Let everyone else be the judge. You hate me because I live in America Sounds like someone is bitter because she was denied a visa and a green card. Lol You need some help mentally.

You don't know that she if she stays in Nigeria. She could pretty much be anybody with access to the Internet. Besides I disagree with a point you made. Nigerians WILL not prejudice you if you are a black America on a visit or some other visit. We are known for our incessant hospitality to foreigners especially Americans. Where you came up with that, I wouldn't know. If any Nigerian in diaspora refuses to come back to Nigeria, trust me, hospitality will never be part of their reasons.

Does the problem lie with her saying she has had an abortion in front of your friends or that she has had an abortion or both?

Elvis506
Oya come see wetin you go do with your alawee

jonaifame22:
I'm not really complaining buh it's becoming a routine and I'm gettn tired of it

Just get her a pair or two of it. So she can have an inhouse one naaaaaa

Please what's up everyone?

Ojeifo12:
you are welcomed

Thank you oooo

Elvis506:
lol...richiy what I do?

You just dey chop your money alone naaaa

Elvis506:
exactly, and I became independent nd was able to save enough..so fortunate sha...nysc shopping mood activated....lol

Bro well done oooo.

You can manage the school hostel for now before you raise something. Leave that apartment soon.

Those kinda things are awkward situations naaaa. People usually shy away from awkward situations. So op, take heart.

LogoDWhiz:
U didn't complete it dear.
University graduated from?

Modified. I really hope we do have fun here.

LogoDWhiz:
Lol!
Welcome on board Richiy.
Kindly do the introduction.

Wetin again remain naaaaaaa

LogoDWhiz:
Lol!
Welcome on board Richiy.
Kindly do the introduction.

Wetin again remain naaaaaaa

Richiy

Mass Communication

UNN

2015

I want Lagos oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Yeah yeah. Yeah yeah. Na my batch be this oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

nobeku:
What you cannot afford, the cash equivalent is usually an investment?Definitions of Investment : (plural investments)
The act of investing, or state of being invested.
A placement of capital in expectation of deriving income or profit from its use.
That with which anyone is invested; a vestment......... My sister, you are way beyond my league in how you see this life..

All these dictionary definitions can compound and confuse sometimes. What am trying to say is this: You cannot afford a 30m car, yet you want to buy it anyways, that 30m that you cannot afford can be used to invest in a venture that will yield profit so you can be able to afford the initial investment I.e the 30m and more in the long run.

cabaliciouscabal:
Women !!! greedy as eva, dey find it hard to give to men, yet dey ar ready to injure a man by collecting his savings and send him on a journey of no return.

May be d guy was only testing her level of kindness and Caring, now she failed, no sensible man will want to marry a woman dat is self centered and unkind.


My candid advise for u is to kiss d relationship gd bye and don't even try to apiece d guy cus he has lost lnterest in u.


It reminds me of one of my x dat I call and asked her to send me Jst 1500 Naira recharge card to test her level of kindness but I was surprised,since den she decline calling, and Nairalanders guess Wat I was going to send #5000 to her fix her hair. But she lost d money, due to greed. I thank God though dat she got out of my life.

These ar part of reasons y Nija guys prefers to date foreign ladies. And Nija ladies ar increasing on deliverance grounds looking for husband dat is not coming.

Don't you dare insults ladies that way. This is what I hate on Nairaland. That you dated some cheap a.ss girl does not mean that all Nigerian ladies are as cheap as they come. It also speaks volumes about the kind of girls you attract.

On behalf of ladies that know their worth, I declare that you need Change.

trapQ:
call me a mind reader

Really, people shouldn't be this clueless anymore naaaaa. E dey pain me wallahi.

nobeku:
Investing in 93k shoes So to you that's an INVESTMENT?but on the contrary, he probably should or MUST "INVEST" on her? This is not even an issue..Why is she brandishing her dirty linens in public? Is it the amount in question that is the matter? Kids of today!

What you cannot afford, the cash equivalent is usually an investment. He cannot afford those shoes, hence 93k is an investment to him.

nobeku:
You are holding brief for someone you don't know..STOP speaking from a keyhole point of view.. if it was the man or boy in question that is supposed to buy the shoes, will you still have this perspective? Be truthful to yourself and God and nibble on this thought for a few hundred hours.. The revelation will come to you.. Shalom!

You self reverse it in your mind. Wouldn't you call the girl a gold digger? Didn't you see the last screen shot?

trapQ:
op, your boyfriend digs more diamonds than the miners in Sierra Leone and what's worse is that you ain't noticed it yet. what are you still doing with a nigga like that. and that rubbish he said about you not being his wife yet is stupendously stupid. you shouldn't be with a man that talks, reasons, and acts like a 2 yr old.
why does he want to wear a 93k shoe when he cannot afford it?? he even expects you to save up to buy his "fantasy shoe". op pls widen up and do the needful before its too late. you got the type of man to put his "wants" first before paying the children's fees. that nigga is gonna even depend on you for accommodation and clothing. you need a mature man: one that sets his priorities straight. not one who wants you to save up for a 93k shoe that he can't afford.

for the record he don't love you. if he did, he'd even be happy you thought of him being a potential husband.
if you were my sister I would've took the next available flight to wherever you are just to give you a hot resounding slap. run for your dear life my dear sister. we girls should never miss red flags like this.

Gosh you spoke my mind exactly.

5minsmadness:
1. How is she being 'compelled'?
2. I didn't see where it was written that the 97k is her savings oh. She didn't say that.

Can't you see from the chats that the guy is not serious minded? Why invest in such a person?