PETUK:
Weed is life

ednut1:
Does weed help with weight

123JohnF:
CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!

123JohnF:
CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!

Alexrayz:





Garantee her security o if it to talk to ur real niggers to be looking at her and gaurd her guy this country we are in don't forget that everything in it is bent on destroying u so I repeat take note of the little things like who and eho she will see the transportation issue the SECURITY issue all those and make sure u make her wrlcome

Adakintroy:
My advice is take a chance with yourself. Be calm. Some women over there have a heart of gold. They have seen it all in there world. They probably looking for something different and true. Stay calm free you mind (although its easier said than done) ).You from a poor a
third world africa. She knows this more than you. She expecting to see poverty, so don't deny her that.Chances are she has consulted with her friends about this and she has gotten all kind of advice.


If she is coming to marry, let her come. Am guessing you were honest about your financial position. She is the one pushing. Stay calm let her do all the work. Na so God take DE bless at times. Just be honest with yourself and with her.

Show her your parents your envirioment. However poor it may look. Introduce her to ukhodo.(local urhobo delicacy).Make sure it comes with lots of the spice. Cant have ukhodo without the spice.

Don't take her to "shopright".that's the direction she is coming from. Rather take her on nite street walks and buy her suyer and peppers soup in the open. Let her feel the gaze and the silent side talks it will helps to make her feel special.

it's a once in a life time experiance. Let her have all of it. Boy kill her with your Africa/nigeria as you know it. The local way. Na she take her leg come. But do it it with enough conviction, with cheer on your face. She needs all edges off. She need to know that happiness does not live in wealthy nations. You were happy growing up on these parts.

Give her the local name of foreign object. engage that woman. Tell her stories late into the nite. Folklore, myth. They already farcinated by African folktales.

She is meeting you for the first time. Don't disappoint her. I mean Na love carry her cross sea. No be money. Again Let her feel it. We are nigerians. God knows we deltans. On our day the thing be like "follow come" for our body. Area no de carry last no be just metaphor.

Just no fear. No shake. She is already your woman. One things I do agree with though, two week is a short time to stunn her.but believe me guy. I believe you.

..blessings.)

alatbaba1:



no forget SARs ... make dem no go tag u as a Yahoo guy

smoothvee:
I actually use because of you log in again to Nairaland if bot i for still stay guest and i might not have the best advice but listen..

I live in Germany, Frankfurt precisely.. i yaff find common gf tire i don weak upon all my sweg hahaha and you from naija got a good person willing to come down to naija! Several girls here that wanted something to do with me blocked me on whatsap as soon as i mention that i am originally from Nigeria... do you understand what i mean now?

Someone said you should not marry her at first visit, I understand that but bro they hate indecision and trust me you might not get that chance again.. to travel to naija no be moi moi.. so make sure yall marry since she wants it.

For the records you two cant go back together.. as she goes you will enroll in german language learning and get A1 certificate then go to german website and get the required details for Re-union Visa thats what they call it.. then apply.. them go give you once you provide everything.

My Ghanaian friend here did the same thing.

Listen.. you be man.. but i am telling you you can go to lag 1week before time and organise things.

Listen..listen.. your confidence level gats dey A1 no panic! No be brag o... buh no panic and handle that shit. Bro im doing my masters here and if i see this chance and got a good girl i will take it.

No dull yourself. Welcome to Germany.

Now i proceed to logout.

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Sinavaramini:
Why doing this, you are exposing the young lady to kidnappers, are you normal, posting on social media in this unsafe time in Nigeria detailing yours and her plans is unwise.

ekerintee:
Normally,I won't have replied to this.But my advice may look foolish.you need to know what you are entering into.i would advice you as somebody staying in Germany.i would not say marrying a German is bad,you need to know who you want to marry and what she does for living.Marrying a white woman may not be the best thing that can happen to you,you need to know about the conditions and terms involved in what you are about entering to.if you marry the wrong German ,your life could be very miserable,worst than what you are going thru in naija.u would need to endure any shit she does,dont expect her to give you money,not their culture.unless she is not a typical german,if u are doing it to get out of Nigeria,u have to understand that if the marriage breaks within a space of 3 years,u are back to nigeria.these white women have different mood,they change anytime,so you have to be prepared for what you are about entering into.The worst thing that can happen to a man is to have is life dependent on a woman,so think very well before you enter into it and don't rush.i saw a lot of folks asking you to rush into it,I will ask you to plan well,look at it from all angles,do your research,look at the worst case scenario.Some guys said their friends did it,but this people will never tell you what they are going thru.Life is luck,u can never tell what the whole thing has for you .I have told you my church mind and I don't care what others think about it.u need A1 German
language certificate if she is German and you are coming as a family member,it may take you 6 months as the while matter will go thru some investigations from the embassy.she can only bring you if she meets the German requirement ,has an accomodation for 2 and financially ok.so you need to be clear about what she does for living.Not all German are rich.most live average life

OkaNaUbe:
Warri boys and this oyinbo parole sha.
Just kidding.

You can do court wedding in a day. Just be ready to pay N15-20k for express wedding. Just low key with family and friends.

If you have a passport ready, Two weeks - 1month is enough for German visa and travel. Her insurance cover you. No much question at the embassy.


cc: hadampson.

Livefreeordieha:
hummmm bro 2weeks is very tight...

First the wedding will be at ikoyi registry right? Tell us more details please.. I could guide u bro.

Or anybody experienced here..

I will check thread later in the day.

franchasng:
God is indeed a miracle worker!

God still blesses the poor. Please make sure you treat that white lady well, be a good man to her, don't change tomorrow after you secure a German stay.

I wish you all the best.

But you need to come down to Lagos to make some arrangements ahead, would have offered you some help, but

good4all40:
I will strongly advice you not to marry her in her first visit, you can do that the second or third time she visits, l will also let you know that you should plan to take her to places in Lagos, avoid LEKKI Conservation there is nothing to see there, you can take her to the National Museum Onikan to learn more about our culture, Beaches, there are many to choose from, Google online and see more exciting places to see in Lagos, make sure you are in Lagos a day before her arrival and be at the Airport atleast an hour before her arrival.

Please Mod you can help this gentle man put this to front page to gain more wealth of knowledge and experiences from fellow Nigerians and other Nationals

MrsInvisible:
Go and learn German level a1. Without it they will not grant Visa to you.